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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/21/2008 2:10:52 PM | try and move on as quickly as possible and if you see him in the street smile (thru gritted teeth) but keep walking find someone who deserves you and remember what goes around comes around, or put his photo up with the words cheating **stard on it no i think the first idea. take care  | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/21/2008 4:54:00 PM | | The best way to get even is to find a new special someone who loves you for you and honor the commitment the two of you have. It falls under that kill them with kindness thing. Forget about revenge, it has a way of backfiring. Let karma take care of it, that way you are guilt free . | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/22/2008 4:23:52 PM | | Ok, my ex was cheating on me. I knew when he was getting ready to go out with her....I put choc exlax in his hot chocolite one time. Bet he had a fun date that night! Another time I was rubbing his back and when he went to sleep I took a perminant marker and wrote "He's Married you ****ing whore!" on his back. He went to see her the next day with that written on him. Funny he never said anything to me about it. PS we are divorced now.....go figure. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/22/2008 5:09:12 PM | | Take the high road and move on, why stoop to his level and be immature. Making him suffer is not going to make you feel better in the long run. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/22/2008 6:04:43 PM | Don't bother.. its not worth the negative energy.. the best way to actually handle it..
MOVE on.. have a good life.. and wish them well!!!
He.. will suffer enough on his own..
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/22/2008 6:33:03 PM | Not that I recommend it, but if you have to do something...
1. Sugar in the gas tank
2. Numerous calls to his/her job resulting in a firing. (Makeup something such as drug dealing, etc.)
But much better just to move on! | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/22/2008 6:49:34 PM | Sleepsafe. That. Is. Awesome. I lol'ed
As far as the OP goes, I would call this question a major warning sign, second only to a major diety appearing before you and saying, "Don't walk, RUN away." | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/22/2008 6:56:26 PM | Did anyone mention leave them alone lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If not find another ex and torment them if that is what you are hung up on! | |
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Posted: 7/22/2008 7:05:29 PM | Now why on earth would anyone want to waste their time on this crap? Come on, act your age, grow up some, and live your life...
Thank them for the joys they brought into your life, the new things they taught you, the struggles they were there to overcome with you, and learn from the pain...
Don't waste your time or your life trying to purposely sabotage someone else's life. It isn't worth your time, or energy. This whole question shows a serious lack of maturity and cognitive thinking...
Be a grown-up. Live your life, be happy with each new day, and let the past go... Otherwise, if you are stuck in the past, your future might see that and RUN...
Sounds to me like you need to have a chat with yourself over what's right and what's wrong, before you attempt to date anyone else...
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/22/2008 7:08:50 PM | Best thing you can do is move on and be happy. He will continue cheating and he will eventually get cheated on. Only you feel the pain. The other guy never does. He did what he wanted to do. That is what you have to get.
Not worth your time or your energy and certianly not worth getting into trouble of any kind.
Just be Happy. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex -- DON'T
Posted: 7/22/2008 7:13:54 PM | There's a saying "Being consumed with anger against someone is like you taking rat poison and hoping the other person dies". Your anger is consuming you, not him. THINK ABOUT IT!
Holding onto your anger just destroys your life. Every time you feel the anger, you feel the hurt again. Every second you spend angry would be much better spent loving someone, including yourself. Even if you do something to get back at him, the revenge will be short lived and you'll still be angry again.
After three years you're still so consumed with anger that you want to get even, maybe doing something illegal. How many more years do you want to stay in revenge? Isn't three years enough of a price to pay? How many more years of happiness are you willing to give up to stay in revenge?
You're paying the price, not him. No amount of revenge will make up for the hurt, so put it in the past and move on. I pray that you can get past it soon. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/22/2008 7:27:55 PM | | First of all most of us has either been cheated on or cheated. If your s/o cheats it's them that has the issues. Why would you even care? At that point I would be glad to find out and move on. Revenge is time consuming and childish. We have all had our moments of wanting revenge, don't get me wrong. Life is short. Go live it and learn from the past. Even someone else's. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2008 7:30:57 PM | | Wow, this is a really old thread, I was still married and blissfully unaware that my ex had just started cheating when this one was created. At any rate, I have found that the best revenge against my ex and her cheating is a variation of the "best revenge is living well" theme, find a really attractive, faithful, loving girlfriend. Meanwhile, my ex's boyfriend could play Shrek in an off-Broadway musical and need little-to-no makeup. It is sweet revenge, all we have to do is show up. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/22/2008 7:45:24 PM | I understand your quest, HOWEVER, YOU ARE ONLY REACTING THIS WAY AND POSING THIS QUESTION DUE TO THE HURT YOU FEEL INSIDE.
Trust me, REVENGE is NOT THE PATH TO CHOOSE. HE IS SIMPLY NOT WORTH IT. Remember, HE CHEATED ON YOU, HE BETRAYED YOU, HE BROKE YOUR HEART. You would not only be spending useless time and energy on him, but giving him more of you. He certalinly does not deserve that, not anymore.
The BEST thing for you to do, no matter how hard and painful it is, is to move on; try not to think about thim and dwell on your 'happy couple memories'. If you have to think about him, then only remember the cheating part - and also, time will help heal you but prayer first and foremost, will immensely help.
I wish you the best and ask that you never stop believing that one day you WILL FIND YOUR TRUE LOVE. We live and love and then learn from the experience and from the hurt.
Never stop believing, and you'll one day find the man you are looking for. The one you can share yourself with unconditionally. For it is that special man; the one God chooses for you, that will fullfill your desires.
So keep your eye on the ball and your heart close to God, and you will find true happpiness. Be happy with who you are, and then it will become more and more evident of what kind of man to look for and what qualities he must possess in order for you and he both to be a truly happy couple - forever. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/22/2008 7:49:03 PM | There are reason as to why your ex made those choices.
If any of them had to do with your actions he no longer respected,
acting in a revenge, or childish manner, will only validate his reasons.
The best revenge is to live a good life to the best of your ability.
Leave it to the "other woman" to teach him what it feels like,
and they will! Only then will he see the difference.
Why stoop into the dime a dozen croud? | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/22/2008 7:53:42 PM | | As countless others have said... the best revenge you can get is to be the best person you can possibly be. There's no need to rub it in his face or pull the whole "look at me"... just simply be everything you ever wanted to be to the best pf your ability and be proud of who you are. Simple. no? | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/24/2008 6:52:04 AM | | Take up Tae kwon do and kick his butt! Just kidding, don't worry be happy... and that will worry him. Live the good life, love and be loved, smile alot and succeed. That will irk him whether he shows it or not. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/24/2008 7:08:31 AM | I"m not going to spend an hour reading 20 or more pages; so if by any chance no one else has said it, or written it, here it is:
Living well is the best revenge. Not allowing the person who did you wrong to see that it made a deleterious change in your habits, or your life. I've been terribly wronged by a few lovers, all of whom eventually approached me asking if we could get back together. Each time, I had already moved on, and could see the look of disappointment in their eyes. While I didn't mean to hurt them, I knew they each regretted breaking my heart, because they didn't know what they had, and now it was permanently gone.
Live well. Keep the past in the past. | |
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