| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 5/4/2008 4:28:26 PM | The sweetest revenge (if you feel it is necessary) is to live a better life.
no sense in lowering yourself to get even with anyone who hurts you.
try praying for that person. at least you won't end up in jail or dead for getting even.
keep your chin up, don't lose yourself respect by taking revenge. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 5/5/2008 1:31:21 PM | | I agree, revenge is petty and makes you look pathetic. Move on with your life. He cheated for a reason so maybe he did you a favor and saved you years of heartache. Be the best YOU you can be and lose the anger. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 5/5/2008 5:26:29 PM | I agree the best revenge is to lead a good life.
I'd make myself better though.. I'd dress better.. look better.. so next time he runs into you he will be sorry he cheated on you. Lead your life in such a way that those who know you will say "man he was an idiot to lose her"..
Nothing made me feel better than to see my ex with his new wife and she was fatter than me.. made me feel so good!!!! And Baby I was looking hot too!!! | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/21/2008 2:10:52 PM | try and move on as quickly as possible and if you see him in the street smile (thru gritted teeth) but keep walking find someone who deserves you and remember what goes around comes around, or put his photo up with the words cheating **stard on it no i think the first idea. take care  | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/21/2008 4:54:00 PM | | The best way to get even is to find a new special someone who loves you for you and honor the commitment the two of you have. It falls under that kill them with kindness thing. Forget about revenge, it has a way of backfiring. Let karma take care of it, that way you are guilt free . | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/22/2008 4:23:52 PM | | Ok, my ex was cheating on me. I knew when he was getting ready to go out with her....I put choc exlax in his hot chocolite one time. Bet he had a fun date that night! Another time I was rubbing his back and when he went to sleep I took a perminant marker and wrote "He's Married you ****ing whore!" on his back. He went to see her the next day with that written on him. Funny he never said anything to me about it. PS we are divorced now.....go figure. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/22/2008 5:09:12 PM | | Take the high road and move on, why stoop to his level and be immature. Making him suffer is not going to make you feel better in the long run. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/22/2008 6:04:43 PM | Don't bother.. its not worth the negative energy.. the best way to actually handle it..
MOVE on.. have a good life.. and wish them well!!!
He.. will suffer enough on his own..
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/22/2008 6:33:03 PM | Not that I recommend it, but if you have to do something...
1. Sugar in the gas tank
2. Numerous calls to his/her job resulting in a firing. (Makeup something such as drug dealing, etc.)
But much better just to move on! | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/22/2008 6:49:34 PM | Sleepsafe. That. Is. Awesome. I lol'ed
As far as the OP goes, I would call this question a major warning sign, second only to a major diety appearing before you and saying, "Don't walk, RUN away." | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/22/2008 6:56:26 PM | Did anyone mention leave them alone lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If not find another ex and torment them if that is what you are hung up on! | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/22/2008 7:05:29 PM | Now why on earth would anyone want to waste their time on this crap? Come on, act your age, grow up some, and live your life...
Thank them for the joys they brought into your life, the new things they taught you, the struggles they were there to overcome with you, and learn from the pain...
Don't waste your time or your life trying to purposely sabotage someone else's life. It isn't worth your time, or energy. This whole question shows a serious lack of maturity and cognitive thinking...
Be a grown-up. Live your life, be happy with each new day, and let the past go... Otherwise, if you are stuck in the past, your future might see that and RUN...
Sounds to me like you need to have a chat with yourself over what's right and what's wrong, before you attempt to date anyone else...
CowTrucker
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/22/2008 7:08:50 PM | Best thing you can do is move on and be happy. He will continue cheating and he will eventually get cheated on. Only you feel the pain. The other guy never does. He did what he wanted to do. That is what you have to get.
Not worth your time or your energy and certianly not worth getting into trouble of any kind.
Just be Happy. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex -- DON'T
Posted: 7/22/2008 7:13:54 PM | There's a saying "Being consumed with anger against someone is like you taking rat poison and hoping the other person dies". Your anger is consuming you, not him. THINK ABOUT IT!
Holding onto your anger just destroys your life. Every time you feel the anger, you feel the hurt again. Every second you spend angry would be much better spent loving someone, including yourself. Even if you do something to get back at him, the revenge will be short lived and you'll still be angry again.
After three years you're still so consumed with anger that you want to get even, maybe doing something illegal. How many more years do you want to stay in revenge? Isn't three years enough of a price to pay? How many more years of happiness are you willing to give up to stay in revenge?
You're paying the price, not him. No amount of revenge will make up for the hurt, so put it in the past and move on. I pray that you can get past it soon. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/22/2008 7:27:55 PM | | First of all most of us has either been cheated on or cheated. If your s/o cheats it's them that has the issues. Why would you even care? At that point I would be glad to find out and move on. Revenge is time consuming and childish. We have all had our moments of wanting revenge, don't get me wrong. Life is short. Go live it and learn from the past. Even someone else's. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 7/22/2008 7:30:57 PM | | Wow, this is a really old thread, I was still married and blissfully unaware that my ex had just started cheating when this one was created. At any rate, I have found that the best revenge against my ex and her cheating is a variation of the "best revenge is living well" theme, find a really attractive, faithful, loving girlfriend. Meanwhile, my ex's boyfriend could play Shrek in an off-Broadway musical and need little-to-no makeup. It is sweet revenge, all we have to do is show up. | |
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lol kidding. im not one to give you any good advice because im all for revenge.
