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 guttedapart

Joined: 10/17/2006
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Posted: 7/22/2008 7:45:24 PM
I understand your quest, HOWEVER, YOU ARE ONLY REACTING THIS WAY AND POSING THIS QUESTION DUE TO THE HURT YOU FEEL INSIDE.

Trust me, REVENGE is NOT THE PATH TO CHOOSE. HE IS SIMPLY NOT WORTH IT. Remember, HE CHEATED ON YOU, HE BETRAYED YOU, HE BROKE YOUR HEART. You would not only be spending useless time and energy on him, but giving him more of you. He certalinly does not deserve that, not anymore.

The BEST thing for you to do, no matter how hard and painful it is, is to move on; try not to think about thim and dwell on your 'happy couple memories'. If you have to think about him, then only remember the cheating part - and also, time will help heal you but prayer first and foremost, will immensely help.

I wish you the best and ask that you never stop believing that one day you WILL FIND YOUR TRUE LOVE. We live and love and then learn from the experience and from the hurt.

Never stop believing, and you'll one day find the man you are looking for. The one you can share yourself with unconditionally. For it is that special man; the one God chooses for you, that will fullfill your desires.

So keep your eye on the ball and your heart close to God, and you will find true happpiness. Be happy with who you are, and then it will become more and more evident of what kind of man to look for and what qualities he must possess in order for you and he both to be a truly happy couple - forever.
 ccblue

Joined: 6/30/2008
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Posted: 7/22/2008 7:49:03 PM
There are reason as to why your ex made those choices.
If any of them had to do with your actions he no longer respected,
acting in a revenge, or childish manner, will only validate his reasons.
The best revenge is to live a good life to the best of your ability.
Leave it to the "other woman" to teach him what it feels like,
and they will! Only then will he see the difference.
Why stoop into the dime a dozen croud?
 Spongebob_75

Joined: 5/3/2008
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Posted: 7/22/2008 7:53:42 PM
As countless others have said... the best revenge you can get is to be the best person you can possibly be. There's no need to rub it in his face or pull the whole "look at me"... just simply be everything you ever wanted to be to the best pf your ability and be proud of who you are. Simple. no?
 Kindredspirit07

Joined: 7/29/2005
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Posted: 7/24/2008 6:52:04 AM
Take up Tae kwon do and kick his butt! Just kidding, don't worry be happy... and that will worry him. Live the good life, love and be loved, smile alot and succeed. That will irk him whether he shows it or not.
 stellarbystarlight

Joined: 8/29/2007
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Posted: 7/24/2008 7:08:31 AM
I"m not going to spend an hour reading 20 or more pages; so if by any chance no one else has said it, or written it, here it is:
Living well is the best revenge. Not allowing the person who did you wrong to see that it made a deleterious change in your habits, or your life. I've been terribly wronged by a few lovers, all of whom eventually approached me asking if we could get back together. Each time, I had already moved on, and could see the look of disappointment in their eyes. While I didn't mean to hurt them, I knew they each regretted breaking my heart, because they didn't know what they had, and now it was permanently gone.
Live well. Keep the past in the past.
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