ya472
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Joined: 4/29/2006
Msg: 51 | |
| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/18/2006 3:50:09 PM | __
Easy!
Be happy, have fun, enlarge your circle of friends, build your educational and financial wealth, tell all his/her friends and relatives how much you are enjoying life without the ex. In other words, become successful.
Any 'revenge' is the true measure of YOU, as a person. If you act selfish, hateful and spoiled, then people will believe that of you.
Then your ex gets the last laugh !
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/18/2006 4:10:30 PM | I can remember when the term ex applied only to an ex-husband or ex-wife. Now women use this term to describe someone they only dated a few times or slept with. They act as if they owned that person. If he was not your husband then he did not cheat on you. He was always free to do as he pleased, and I don't call this cheating, if no deception was involved.
But either way, seeking revenge is a bad desire on your part. Your time now should be spent on improving yourself and becoming the type of person you would like to meet. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/18/2006 4:22:27 PM | "They act as if they owned that person. If he was not your husband then he did not cheat on you. He was always free to do as he pleased, and I don't call this cheating, if no deception was involved."
alana2, just because the person you are with isn't your husband or wife doesn't make it ok for them to go around sleeping with other people. If you are in an exclusive committed relationship then it's expected that you are loyal to that person. Being in a marriage doesn't equal ownership either - no one owns each other. But they do OWE each other respect, loyalty and honesty. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/18/2006 5:28:30 PM | After 5 years of marriage my ex went to work and never came home....left his 1 year old son and I alone. He had met another (married) woman at work and they started their own life. After the divorce they married...the next day. I wanted revenge so bad...but I tried to keep my head up and rise above it. After 2 months of their marriage he called ME to say he found her in the parking lot giving blow **** to 2 guys he worked with, AND he was sorry he left us and wanted to come home. My revenge was so sweet when I just said "sorry you made your choice, and I am happy with it, BYE"
GOD IT WAS THE BEST!!!!!!!!! I still see the sorry sucker crying in his beer....JUSTICE  | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/19/2006 10:32:39 AM | why wanting revange... if you accepted to stay with him then get over it ... if you didn't accepted it, then quit him. what goes around comes around but if you are the one who is doing it for revange..you will get it stronger and harder...
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/19/2006 11:19:14 AM |
Ditto Ya472..............
Grow up........that's the best way to get "even"
why live in the past when you can live in the present and look forward to the future?????
Get even..............Remember him like he was a book that you read , your done reading it, learned something. Trade the book in for another good book. Remember what you learned, grow as a person from it, than look on the shelf for some more books that might be better, give them a try and so on.
So other than that.....just don't have anything to do with him...show him your over him but ignoring him, leave him alone, no contact, minimal communication if required.
MOve on.............be happy with yourself for being the great person that you are.
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/19/2006 11:46:13 AM | Alot of good comments on how to forgive, and forget.
But between that...
1) Call rogers and change his home phone to their service, get the number unlisted, and change the number. Ask for the billing department, and immediatly change the bill to address to RR1 in cottage country. he wont know his phone number, and good luck getting it changed when their top security question is whats the billing address...
2) Goto the post office and forward all his mail to some remote region.
3) Sign him up for every gay male magazine - - - and have the magazines sent to his parents house...
4) Sign up for every magazine you can find with "bill me later" allowed.
5) If you still have a key, put neat in his haircare products..
6) Have his car towed from home/work to a dealership. Tell them you lost the keys, and ask for a new one to be programmed. While they are at it, rebuild the engine. And go for racing stripes too.
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/19/2006 12:05:54 PM | Best ways to get even with your ex:
Is NOT TO.
Don't fall into their trap, but instead MOVE ON and improve YOUR life. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/19/2006 12:13:08 PM | The best way to get even with your ex is to show him/her you are better off and happier without them.
... and don't forget about karma... | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/19/2006 12:32:39 PM | Move on...the "getting even" thing can become a very destructive game of ping-pong...
You get even...
They get even back...
You counterattack...
They counterattack...
And so on... | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/19/2006 12:45:07 PM | Well said.......Artistee..........
and there we have it in a nutshell>>>>>....Freakin' DRAMA.
But if you just want to be immature...........
Bologna his car early on a hot summer's day when you know it has time to sit and sizzle the paint away
Sugar in the gas tank works too, just keep adding it everytime you see his car out and get the chance >>>>>.go buy the sugar cubes and keep them handy.
But this isn't my kinda thing.......If I really don't like them as a person anymore...I just file them in the done box and file that box , i dont play the games.......and I move on. | |
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Posted: 8/19/2006 12:51:06 PM | | Ask yourself a question? Let's say that someone posts a really excellent idea to "get even" with your ex. It's any elaborate scheme that will be easy to initiate and you will never be caught. His life ends up in disaray. It was enough to free all the pain and suffering you have endured because of his unfaithfulness. But now you will be the one living with the "secret guilt" of your sweet revenge. If you are capable of the desire to cause pain you need to learn a lesson about forgiveness - because once the spirit learns it truly frees you and allows you to grow and love. We are the people we are because of the experiences we have had - and while in the mind it sounds like the best idea ever the heart will be the one to suffer forever. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/19/2006 12:53:17 PM | | Honestly... I know that you probably want to get back at him SO bad for all the pain he's put you through. But I agree with the postings above. Don't give him the satisfaction of knowing how hurt you are. Even though your hurt, try to keep yourself busy with friends and family. Don't sit around and feel sorry for yourself. This guy doesn't even deserve your friendship. | |
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Joined: 9/4/2005
Msg: 69 | |
| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/19/2006 12:59:43 PM | I'm not into revenge, I truly believe that life has a way of evening out the score.
BUT, if I were to fantasize.... I'd tie him upside down and stuff a dirty sock in his mouth. He was totally obsessive compulsive when it came to germs. That outta make him squirm... | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/19/2006 1:16:20 PM | do what I did... get right back on here and start again!!!!
Recieved a really weird email... from a deleted person by the time that I read it.. shortly there after...
but the message was received... Loud and Clear. On both sides!!!
Remember... there are always Plenty of Fish........ | |
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| take ur friends help to get him jelouse
Posted: 8/19/2006 1:25:28 PM | just hang arround him and get him jealouse so he gonna be defineley  on u because he found that u r happy then before
and enjoy ur real life dear
best of luck
or if u need my help just reply me back | |
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| take ur friends help to get him jelouse
Posted: 8/19/2006 1:34:24 PM | | Hatred is like an acid, it does more damage to the vessel in which it is stored, than to which it is poured. Forget about revenge, don't worry about getting even, just move on. What goes around comes around!!!!! | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/19/2006 1:34:30 PM | | Take your diaper off and put on your big girl panties!! Why would anyone want to know a vengeful bi**h like your trying to be. | |
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