| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/19/2006 1:39:03 PM | When you consider what you're going to do to "get even",
there are other things to consider. Like......regardless of
how much he deserves it....what will your actions make of you?
You can have some "fellas smash up" his car,
Which makes you a petty, immature, cowardly, felon.
(not to mention a b*tch)
You could have sex with his cousin, brother, best friend, etc...
Which makes you a slut
Or you could do the "right thing" (and popular thing in this thread)
as others have suggested, and move on with your life. If you
really hate what he's done to you, why wouild you let him turn you
into something you're not? | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/19/2006 2:17:21 PM | Siani,
Please bear with Me, as this is My first post in this or any other forum. You are obviously a very beautiful and intelligent woman, and unfortunately You are also correct when You say "some guy's are moron's." But at what point do You say " He is not like those other looser's." When do We all stop paying for the few idiot's who do not show a woman of Your stature the respect She deserve's?? | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/19/2006 3:12:31 PM | Move on and find someone how will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Your happiness will be the best revenge in the end.  | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/19/2006 3:26:10 PM | The BEST way to get even.... hell why go for even ... go for way better...
just forget they exist and go out and become a success at what you love to do.
up up and away babe ....
have fun
play with friends and family
be kind to everyone you meet
and all the animals too
start a charity
make a movie
or a cd
pose for playboy
whatever turns your crank
just get that engin running
fine tune it
then race away. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/19/2006 4:18:33 PM | Eek! Wanting to get even with your ex implies that you still care about him.
Red flag! Red flag! Red flag!
You haven’t moved on.
I left mine years ago, and to be perfectly honest I never even think about her. I couldn't care less what she does, or doesn't do with her life. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/19/2006 4:26:47 PM |
hmm the best way to get even! lol **** HIS COUSIN
Sounds good on the surface, until you realize that this hurts another person i.e the cousin.
I’m sure the cousin would feel good at the time, but would feel really hurt knowing that their emotions were trampled on, if they did like you.
It’s a cheap shot, that makes the person doing this just as bad as the person they are getting even over. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/19/2006 6:29:58 PM |
Living Well Is The Best Revenge"Living well is the best revenge." George Herbert, the early 17th-century metaphysical poet and clergyman, owns the distinction of coining this uplifting aphorism, a man of probity who has given us a way out of our present spiritual and economic dilemma. He makes sure we understand that we cannot get up by going down. We must live well | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/19/2006 6:43:18 PM | | walk away and say nothing. they want you to be mad, they want you to hurt, they want a reason to hate you and justifie there actions... give them none of this.. walk away and say nothing.. it will kill them. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/19/2006 7:04:44 PM | the best revenge .... soke him hard and deep with child support.
i belive in supporting your kids but i hear a lot of guys that get hammerd bad | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/19/2006 8:59:58 PM | "You could have sex with his cousin, brother, best friend, etc...
Which makes you a slut"
Okay guess I'm a slut!.....did his brother, friend, and least favorite person.
But once I got that out of my system I had the best revenge by moving on, now have more without him then i had with him....and him knowing he doesn't get to me really bites his ass! | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/20/2006 1:29:38 PM | | Um, life has this weird way of evening things out. I was married to someone who used to lock me in rooms, disable my vehicle, all kinds of fun things. The last thing he did was sleep around with some cow (sorry big girls...not a general slur...this was a skuzz female), and then leave. About 10 years later, I hear through the grape vine that he has an accident at work and loses a nut and almost his life. Life is weird that way. I would never wish it on him in a million years, but it's almost scary how karma bites ya in th azz.....be careful mean people. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/24/2006 6:23:26 PM | Why waste your precious time on earth "getting even" with your ex....
Living well AND looking good is the best revenge....
no one gets physically hurt..
no material things get destroyed...
and you keep YOUR self-respect!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/24/2006 8:15:09 PM | SLEEP with his best friend!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LOL ok i am only joking. Revenge is always sweet but it never seems to work in the long run. Leave him to time, cause what goes around comes aroung and he will get his. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/24/2006 8:17:16 PM | k so chances are if you're wanting revenge you were wronged and the one who was dumped. Given this what would make you think any feeble attempt at revenge would even work?
the person obviously stopped caring about you enough to end the relationship, I'm sure they're not going to spend anymore energy on you if you try to hurt them or get even.
wise people say the best revenge is living well. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/24/2006 8:27:32 PM | | this thread is redundent--i can't believe it has lasted this long in the forums! why dwell on "getting even"? YOU were the one that married them in the first place, YOU stayed with them, perhaps YOU even had children with them. consider it experience & move along little doggy! remember the old saying -- when you point your finger at someone, four more are pointing back at you.....feeling the need to "get even" says more about you & how you deal with life. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/24/2006 9:41:52 PM | The best way to get even with anyone who wronged you is pretend it doesn't bother you. When my ex-wife divorced me for testifying against her in court (domestic abuse), she gave me the papers demanding everything. I asked her "where do I sign"? And moved on. It completely irked her.
Then, don't carry the bitterness around with you. It only hurts you, not them. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/24/2006 9:50:59 PM | Call me crazy, but I never felt the need for revenge on an ex....
And that includes the one that decided she while she was out of touch for a few months to get married behind my back. (we had been together for a few years before that.) It hurt like hell, but.... I felt no need to hurt her in return.... nor did I take pleasure in her own regrets for it.
As I said, I dont get that.... | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/25/2006 2:21:05 AM | | Getting even. OK you were treated like shit but get over it, thats the best thing to do. If all ur bothered about is getting even and flaunting it in there face then ur obviously not over them coz there still all u can think about. So just deal with it, get over it and get on wiv ur life. Just next time go wiv someone who wont cheat on ya. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/25/2006 2:32:02 AM | This thread is from 2004.
I'm sure she's gotten even already, or has moved on.
(Personally this is why I'm all for repeat threads - it feels so pointless posting on one that's so old the majority of accounds have been deleted...) | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/25/2006 2:56:37 AM | | Stop dwelling on it & just be happy. Besides, you don't really wanna be with someone you can't trust, do ya?? | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/25/2006 4:39:27 AM | | Kill him with kindness, It will drive him nuts trying to figure out why you are being so nice after what he did. | |
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