| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/25/2006 5:22:38 AM | Okay, so let me run everyone through a scenario.
He cheated on her in a relationship, so
She screw’s his brother to get even, this infuriates him, so
He sleeps with her best friend to get even, this ends a good friendship between two girls, so
She screws his best friend and slashes his tires, this causes two guys to get into a fist fight, but hey are still friends, one dood is out a couple hundred bucks for new tires, so
He breaks into her place and boils her cat, so now she has no ****, and what guy is going to want a girl with no ****.
Revenge begets revenge, it will get out of control, and before you know it, you have the Middle East right in their little corner of the world. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/25/2006 5:44:32 AM | | Getting over is better than getting even. In the end you will be a better person for doing the former. Getting even is just pitiful. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/25/2006 6:01:52 AM | | Living well and being happy is the best revenge. After 3 years doing anything will only serve to make him feel important and controlling of your life. Get over it - move on - treat yourself with respect. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/25/2006 7:11:31 AM | The opposite of love is NOT hate.It's indifference.I haven't seen my ex since 1998 and don't know what she's doing and don't care.The only time I even think about her is in relation to her child support checks that don't come with any regularity.I would like her to pay child support like she's legally obligated to do, but I'm not dependent on it and it's really not worth the effort to go after her for it.
You never have to do anything to get even with those who have wronged you.They're selfish actions and lifestyles will be their own downfall.They do themselves in eventually,usually alot better than you could've done it. | |
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Rhett1
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Joined: 10/16/2005
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/25/2006 9:36:26 AM | There are a few things to consider....
I knew a woman that asked me about hacking peoples computers to get back at her ex.
I wanted to date this woman. She ended up screwing most of my friends anyways so it never happenned.
The one little fact I couldnt get over.... If I HAD dated her and things got rough... i know for a fact shed be out to get me JUST BECAUSE she didnt get what she wanted and that she wanted to get her ex.
NOW... if you're STUPID enough to do what it is you think you want to do.
AT LEAST DO NOT get so stupid as to let your NEXT VICTIM know what you did to the last one.
THEBEST and most hurtful thing you can do is to FORGET THEY EVER EXISTED, NEVER SAY HI IF YOU MEET THEM IN PUBLIC AND TOTALLY BLOW THEM OFF IF THEY EVER TRY TO CONTACT YOU...
if ya dont... you really A R E stupid.
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/25/2006 11:21:21 AM | | Honestly be the bigger person. It isn't worth your time or energy to try and get revenge. It won't make you feel better in the end. What goes around comes around in life and it will come back to him at sometime. But why do you want to stoop to such a low level? | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/25/2006 11:37:23 AM | ok so i was w/ a guy for 5 yrs... he was cheating on me... so i kicked him out of the house, sold all his stuff, then moved from NY to WA where i'll never see him or deal w/ his BS ever again... and he's sitting at home in his parent's house crying cuz he made the biggest mistake of his life and i've moved on and here loving my life in washington! best revenge ever, you don't need him or want him around, prove it!
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/25/2006 4:00:33 PM | Why get even. That would put you in the same category as someone who has no morals or values.
The best way to get even is to move on and really enjoy your life and be happy. Im sure the woman he was with will soon come to realize that if he'll do if for you then he'll do it to you.
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/25/2006 5:06:59 PM | Don't! You would be giving over your power to him. If you do something to get revenge then he will KNOW that you are still thinking about him. That is again giving him a lot of power and think of the satisfaction he will have knowing that what he did is still bothering you. The more you think about him and the revenge you are seeking, the more power you are giving him.
Your best bet is to get on with your life and try your hardest to not think about him. Good Luck! | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/25/2006 6:06:12 PM | I still had the key to my ex's car and after a drinking binge with my friends one night we bought a can of anchovies and poured the juice all over the carpet in his car. He never knew I did it but every time the kids come back from visiting him they complain about how bad his car smells. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
Also I got into a gay chat room one night using his name and started giving out his cell number. Unfortunately I never knew if anyone actually called him but it was a happy thought.
I've moved on now (that was three years ago). But I still smile just thinking about it so I say if it can bring a smile to your face, do it. People just don't smile enough. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/25/2006 6:45:04 PM | | The best way is to kill them with kindness and to be the best you can be without them. Trust me, never look back, and never never let them know that you are thinking about them. They will be looking for revenge, but don't act on it, you will be the better person. It isn't worth the time or hassle of any of it. My ex cheated on me, and left after 10 in a half years of marriage, and I didn't let him once know how much he hurt me or anything. When I would see him, I would smile and ask him how he was. I will admit, on upon packing up his things, because he was too slow on doing it, I did swab the toilet with his toothbrush and his comb, but never told him about it. I have always wondered though, if his "mistress" ever thought he had shit for breath. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/25/2006 6:46:06 PM | Looks like your ex still has an upper hand on you or you'd have easily moved on...
Anyway there is no better way to get even than to create a fulfilling relationship with someone else that you and your ex could not. It'll be a lesson for you ex and life long gift to you from you. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/25/2006 6:55:12 PM | Hi, I would like to add my 2 cents worth here because I have experienced a cheating spouse (not girlfriend) and let me tell you, I know that pain. I have been cheated on so many times by this woman, she truly is evil. I forgave her so many times, why? because I loved her and thought she would change. Well, she hasn't changed, we've now divorced and she still goes to the bars and leaves with whatever man will show her attention. My advice on getting back is this........forgive them and move on. I know this sounds crazy, but you have to or it will ruin your happiness and quality of life. So forgive him and forget him, let it go. I struggled with this for long time, I had thought of going out and screwing everything that I could at first but I am so glad I didn't. I am glad that I didn't lower my standards to her level and you will be glad too if you just forgive and move on, trust me on this one! There are good guys out there that will treat you good but you have to get over the bitterness and resentment toward your boyfriend before you will find a good one! I do hope this has helped in some way! Take care and God Bless! T.R | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/25/2006 6:58:48 PM | | I agree with you all! The best revenge is no revenge at all. I was with a guy for 10 beautiful months unfortunately he carried baggage with him ( his ex-wife). I heard all the talk about how much he loved me and wanted us to grow old together blah blah blah. July 4th he decided that since his ex wife and son didn't have anywhere to stay they could stay with him until she got back on her feet.I didn't have a prob with his son being there but the ex HELL NO! When someone shows their true colors, as he did, break it off and move on no one dies of a broken heart anymore, this isn't the 14 th century!! Your best revenge is to find someone who will love you and respect you . Please don't say bad things about him and reflect on the good times not bad. That shows the world that you are the better person, and if he speaks bad of you ignore it you know what kind of person you are. Good luck everybody!!! | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/25/2006 7:02:31 PM | YEAH, I WORKED WITH LARGE EMPLOYER-25,000 OR MORE AT SITE AND ALL THE DIVORCED OR GOING THRU WERE PUTTING CRAZY GLUE IN THEIR OLE MAN'S AUTOMOBILE DOOR KEYHOLE---CAN'T COUNT THE NUMBER OF CALLS I RECEIVED ON THAT SHIT. IT IS BAD WHEN THEY BOTH WORK FOR THE SAME EMPLOYER--LABOR/EMPLOYEE RELATIONS WAS BUSY ENOUGH WITHOUT THAT CRAP!!! I HOPE I DIDN'T GIVE PEOPLE ON HERE BAD IDEAS--THERE WAS NO INTENT! I SHOULD WRITE A BOOK---IT WOULD BE TRUE AND FUNNY!!!!  | |
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KACE74
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Joined: 8/16/2006
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/26/2006 10:12:57 PM | do it the best way, i lost 60 pds and look better than i did when we started dating,
now im having the time of my life
it works | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/26/2006 10:20:01 PM | | it seems to me that all of these people who cant let go of their 'ex'...make it harder for them to date later on wether they realize it or not. Just an observation. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/26/2006 11:26:58 PM | So what is 'getting even' gonna do? Make yourself feel better for the short term? Just get on with your life and stop thinking up childish ways to get even, in other words.....get over it.  | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/27/2006 9:06:13 AM | Also I got into a gay chat room one night using his name and started giving out his cell number. Unfortunately I never knew if anyone actually called him but it was a happy thought.
Don't try this one unless you're definitely over him! He might pursue it. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/27/2006 9:11:59 AM | | In my experience the best revenge is, to move on and be truly happy, have a great time and forget about him...trust me this works and is the best thing you can do for yourself. Let go and keep on going ahead without him. Any time, energy, or breathe that you focus or use on him, just shows that he still matters in some aspect and that he is still getting to you and trust me no man is worth that, EVER!! | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/27/2006 9:26:05 AM | Getting even only brings you down to their level. I agree with whoever said the best revenge is living well!! Be happy, be the bigger person, move on and dare to live your life better and stronger because of what happened, rather than in spite of. I did and it's worked wonderfully for me.  | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 8/27/2006 10:02:35 AM | Um.. forget they even existed.
That's probably the worst thing you can do to them that isnt highly moronic and childish. | |
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