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mrwebwooh

Joined: 1/11/2009
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where does a single mum find a genuine nice guy Posted: 3/6/2009 8:10:08 PM
Consider a large church According to my ex-wife (HA!) they have singles groups. Good luck.

IamSerious

Joined: 12/4/2008
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where does a single mum find a genuine nice guy Posted: 3/7/2009 12:59:59 AM
Oh really? So if there are so many special single mums that are not irresponsible breeders, why did the one you chose have kid, after kid, after kid, by an irresponsible jerk who was abusive. Wait, don't tell us, she didn't know at first right? Actually you are right, she was to young to know any better to start with and additionally abused partners can get trapped. Have a chat to a few abused women that have struggled for a number of years and with multiple attempts to leave. So you're not together anymore? Looks like you were no longer needed after the kids were raised. You know you may even be correct, but as I can't read minds I'm not sure what her motivations are :)

Aussie paladin

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where does a single mum find a genuine nice guy Posted: 3/9/2009 10:41:33 AM
I used to think this, but as I have grown older I feel it is better to raise these children to help them with the handicap of the gene pool from which they have sprung. to stop them being deadbead dads or single mothers to give them a positive role model is a great thing. I also agree with your bench warmer comment but thats the way the world has always been. It used to bother me so much when I was older but now I see it for what it is. The natural order of things.

derek_dc

Joined: 3/5/2009
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where does a single mum find a genuine nice guy Posted: 3/9/2009 1:16:58 PM
There are plenty of nice guys out there (like me) who would gladly date or marry a single Mom.

Nursjenn

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where does a single mum find a genuine nice guy Posted: 3/9/2009 4:59:30 PM
You don't have to wait!!! I have two kiddos with Adhd! I sometimes feel the same way you do and sometimes wonder if I'm gonna be in the same boat. I bet there's someone out there. Have you ever thought about sending your daughter to a respite evening? My kids go to respite events (when they're well) at CAMP camp. The nurse is on-site for the whole 4.5 hrs.

rugbyBryan

Joined: 1/9/2009
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where does a single mum find a genuine nice guy Posted: 3/12/2009 2:26:27 AM
walk around the house naked with the shades and drapes open, thats what i do, ... ha ha ha...

Sun Leo

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where does a single mum find a genuine nice guy Posted: 10/10/2009 1:26:42 PM
OP why would i want to help the women how told me it was cool that i was alone when they reject me over and over till my youth was gone.. so i spent my youth alone and they had all the fun times but now they have kids i expect to share that. and my never be able to have kids of my own at this rate screw it i would rather end up alone then with someone how thought i deserved this as a life.

InNCsearching

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where does a single mum find a genuine nice guy Posted: 10/10/2009 4:15:16 PM
i don't mean to be the bearer of bad news but...you have children. another man had his fun with you while you could go out and now you want a nice guy to clean up the mess. the other guy took you out and had his fun and you have his children and he's still having fun. now you want a nice guy to be around you and that other guy's kids and you can't go out anymore so he has to clean up the mess while the other guy is having fun with another woman that doesnt have kids. i don't mean to be not nice but do you see my point? i'm not trying to be mean but that's what your asking....why can't you find a nice guy. because you had your fun with mr. not so nice guy and now want a nice guy and probably turned down the nice guys in the past for the a hole you had kids with. now you want the nice guy back...sorry nice guys don't clean up the mess. they learn from their younger mistakes.

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