| why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/14/2006 3:53:22 PM | | Because it is in a man's genetics to reproduce. Simple fact. This theory goes back to the stone ages. Why do women keep asking this question? | |
|
| why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/14/2006 4:18:49 PM |  Men are pigs. The ones that say they are not in it for sex still have sex in the back of their minds.. or they're gay and could care less (You said you wanted the truth right). Every girl I've dated has pretty much been in it for the sex, so it realy doesn't always go one way. Some women believe a guy is just good for sex, what else do we do to contribute to a relationship.. If you only knew what guys talk about when there are no females around... If you did you would probably become a lesbian. Alright, the answer is TESTOSTERONE, which as you know is produced in the gonads of men. Find a guy, even one who wants sex all the time and castrate him, then he would be less inclined. If guys didn't want sex all the time, most of us wouldn't be here and the human race would eventualy become extinct. Society also plays a role, because back i the 20's guys didn't expect that as much from women, but look at their dress. G-strings didn't exist, only long dresses and hats. No short skirts or skimpy shirts. But there are some good guys out there, probably < 1% of the male population. Hope you find the one for you.  :laugh P.S. this is not meant to offend anyone, merely to give a straight answer, which sounds like what you're looking for. | |
|
| why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/14/2006 6:20:53 PM | | You go girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I so much agree. It almost makes me sick to my stomach. The men here in Jax...thinks if they pay for dinner, they expect sex. When we say NO, they think WE are the ones with a problem. What's up with that? They are truly sick in their minds and also think they are SO much the best lover out there. I hope one day, they get a life. Women are just fine....not need nor want sex from a lonely man. | |
|
| why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/14/2006 7:03:36 PM | | General statement you make and it does those of us that do not expect nor think or want a disservice if I may say... I could say the same statement about women based on how my ex has acted since our divorce as she (from what my daughter tells me) brings home a different guy every other night from the bars she goes too.... as in there is a new face at the breakfast table when my daughter gets up in the morning... | |
|
| why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/14/2006 8:36:25 PM | | Why beat men up over the sex issue. When I see 15 pages posted. It seems to me that sex is not only important to men but women as well. The human race in general are very sexual creatures. That is probably why we are quickly over populating the world. If you are not interested in sex why hang out with a guy. If he is abusive to you because he didnt get sex on the first go round. He was probably an ass to begin with and you should make better choices. To many times women use there sexuality to peak a mans interest and then condem him for biteing .Playing the sex card is as bad as playing the race card. Women are great at sending mixed signals. Mabey you should do some self evaluation instead of being so quick to condem others. Speaking for myself sex is great it is very physical and gratifying. But thats not all. The closeness and intimacy of sex is the ultimate expression of careing, compassion and acceptance for a person. I do beleive that men are geard to want sex more often then women. I at the age of 49 have found that my desires for sex havent changed since I was a young man. I have learned that those basic sexual disires many times are really just that need for closeness intimacy and acceptance. Those are basic human needs for all. Male and female alike. Lots of guys just havent figured that out nor have a lot of women. Men and women express those needs in different ways. Few sit back and wonder what they are really looking for and how to get it. Are there any real women out there that want a truly close relationship with masculin company and understand that "SEX" in what ever form, is part of it and can deal with it accordingly. | |
|
| why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/14/2006 8:52:30 PM | | ps :if you think its all in our genetics to be beast than mabey you are to blame. Its been proven that mens bodies look like they do because women selected those traits by breeding with men that had them. Mabey our stupid beastly behavior is because women selected it. | |
|
| why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/15/2006 1:43:12 PM | Thank you C4seth for your honesty. However, TESTOSTERONE is not a hormone only secreted by males, it is also secreted by females. Males produce about 20% more of the hormone than females.
Thank you Jeff for your input. I certainly did not intend to insult the male race. I love men and I love sex. This is just an observation...but when I am reading profiles of men in the age range of 55-65 when asked the question "Do you want children"? I would guess that at least 50% of them say "undecided". Going back to that reproduction theory. LOL. Smiles! | |
|
| why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/15/2006 2:29:25 PM | | you must be joking . many women want the same thing men are at least more honest about it . women say they want a real man a soul mate no game players etc etc . but what do they do, they cheat also, wear high heels they are not that tall, pushup bras or implants, they are not that big, girdles to hold it in they are not that skinny make up to cover the age lines they are not that good looking die their hair to cover the grey etc etc but they want the man to be real women are ten times more devious contolling and in charge of almost every relationship. women can get laid naytime they want men havee to work for it play games because women force then too. | |
|
| why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/15/2006 3:23:34 PM | Wow Hunker
You are so bitter! Are you perfect? Is this why you don't have a photo up...you may blind us women will your good looks and charm?
Vnilla | |
|
| why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/15/2006 3:49:08 PM | Hunker the woman hater...listen up
why do women do this? because men like it...men want it...
they like us wearing heels even if they ruin our feet and posture...they want our boobs to be big and pop out at them...they want us wrinkle free, fat free, and grey free...so what do women do...they give the men what they want...the pressure is on, everyone is getting plastic surgery or botox these days (even men) to try to please others and be the ideal person that will attract the opposite sex.....why? because no matter how intelligent we are, how honest and caring, loving and kind...most men will pass us up for a hotter chick who is thinner, and with bigger boobs, any chance they get...
so you tell me who is in control???
yes, women can pretty much get sex any time they want...men can do, if they honestly wanted to...they can go on adult sites where women are on looking for hook ups, just like the men...its really not that difficult these days for either gender to find sex
and for the record, i've never cheated and would not tolerate cheating...and I didn't begin coloring my hair to cover my grey...i had blonde hair til i was four...it got steadily darker til it was golden brown with red highlights...i went blonde like my idol, Billy, when i was 19 and never went back...it fits my coloring, my mom is still a natural blonde as are my nephews...most people dont even realize i color my hair since my arm hair is just as blonde | |
|
| why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/15/2006 3:51:03 PM | I just read Hunker's profile...he's married and looking for an intimate encounters...
i love the way married men who cheat complain that women cheat...or is he getting back at his wife for cheating on him? | |
|
| |
| why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/15/2006 4:06:55 PM | being cheated on sucks, and cheating to get back at someone doesnt make it right.
who knows why most men just want sex...as nice as it is to have, its not the only thing in life but some people are just that way. i mean we all like sex, its a natural thing but i dont ever care to have cheap sex...its just a waste of time to me. i try to understand the point of just having sex with someone and not having a relationship but i myself cant imagine doing that. anyways i do have an opinion on why guys just want sex, but its long and im not out to make males look bad either..
-dwh2- | |
|
| why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/15/2006 6:41:13 PM | Your post was smart and accurate, and just like men do not understand woman, woman do not understand us. and trying to change the most basic instinct in a man is doomed to failure and frustration. a woman has the ultimate say so with two simple letters- no
But there are MEN that have control over there own person, I know I am one and you sound as you are one.
The perpetual thinking of sex is exagrated by soiecty today in every aspect of society today in TV, NEWS, Intertainment,Food, Alcohol, Cars and to many others to list.
Sex is part of a healthy relationship
There are woman of there own freewill enticeing sexual behaviour from men.
And the coment about skirts hiked up, just walk down any street in any city and turn on any tv chanel or raido station open any book, turn on any computer and it will prove my point. And remember that it is of there own freewill.
So sisters you need to look at your SELFS and stop blameing the worlds problems on others.
The other coment about one sex being more of something than another is narrow minded and sexist and raceist. | |
|
| why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/15/2006 6:53:00 PM | | well, I'm in control of myself. Sex is not the most important thing to me. Companionship is. Just being with someone you care about and either cuddling, or going out somewhere romantic. It's guys that think with their "one-eyed monsters" that give good guys like me a bad name. Unfortunately, I'm still single and looking but I ain't giving up. There's gotta be someone in my area still wanting a down-to-earth gentle guy. Sure, I think about sex, every guy and girl does. But I don't dream, eat and see it all the time like some guys I have known over the years that I could mention but don't feel like it. But like I said, companionship is the main thing I look for. everything else comes second in my heart. | |
|
| Why don't (some) men want a relationship in addition to wanting sex?
Posted: 11/15/2006 9:49:05 PM | I'm thinking many are misunderstanding the question. The question is not "Why do men want sex?" but rather "Why do men just want sex.
Or to state it differently "Why don't (some) men want a relationship in addition to wanting sex?"
I'm sure the OP will correct me if this is not what she is asking. | |
|
| why do men just want sex..........the sex solution
Posted: 11/16/2006 3:56:00 AM | again in this day and age of the internet, and sex sites...it's easy to find free sex...men and women willing to hook up....
so yeah you live in nevada...but you're paying for sex...to each his own...but geez...well, at least they test them for diseases there... | |
|
| Why don't (some) men want a relationship in addition to wanting sex?
Posted: 11/16/2006 6:50:32 AM | Very few men want just sex. Most of them want sex AND a relationship, but are much more particular about who they want a relationship with. Depending upon the woman they are with, they may want:
a) Just sex
b) Sex and a relationship
c) Sex and the jury is still out on a relationship
d) None of the above
Hint: Both b and d are rare occurances. He is looking for a relationship, but in the meantime he wants to get laid.
| |
|
| why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/16/2006 7:06:01 AM | | Hi, In response to your theory. men just want sex is narrow minded. It might be true your experiences helped you reach this conclusion but its simply not true. Many men want the companionship chemistry with a woman and sex is only part of it. Many men might only want sex but many men want a complete relationship for many other reasons. Its up to you to sift them out and base everything on actions instead of words. | |
|
| why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/16/2006 7:32:43 AM | | Men dont want just sex,I think there are many out there wanting the whole pkg too! I read an interesting article many years ago about why men cheat or go to arms of another woman,its not because the other woman is prettier,skinnier,or sexier,its the way she makes him FEEL!! thats what its all about ladies,his self pride and being desired and appreciated too! | |
|
| Why don't (some) men want a relationship in addition to wanting sex?
Posted: 11/16/2006 8:02:54 AM | a) Just sex
b) Sex and a relationship
c) Sex and the jury is still out on a relationship
d) None of the above
When you meet a man, assuming you have corresponded with him beforehand, he is most likely in c mode.
If your profile/correspondence has been deceptive/dishonest this will quickly turn to a mode or even d mode.
Upfront honesty (in particular a picture that actually looks like you) makes c mode or even b mode more likely. Honesty improves your chances of finding the right person for you. | |
|
| Why don't (some) men want a relationship in addition to wanting sex?
Posted: 11/17/2006 6:18:10 AM | When i meet someone on the first date..i dont think sex..i think of compatibility issues.
however by the 6-7 date if were not kissing..then its over....
kissing they say is a upper persuasion for a lower invasion..
I love a warm body in my bed..cuddling is great...
i want a relationship with sex of course...once i have comittment..the door to other women is closed.. | |
|
| why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/17/2006 7:59:31 AM | Saying that men just want sex is rather general first of all, we don't all just want sex. I for one am quite particular about whom I share my body with and it's not going to be without commitment.
I would like to address the matter a little further though! From some of the pictures that I have seen on this site and others "SEX" is the message that is sent by the way some women dress. If you're going to show pretty much what you got, then you have to expect to attract that kind of man.
I fully agree with the right to dress how you like but come on ladies the way some of you dress, that's the signal you send. I for one am not willing to share the most intimate part of me with someone that I have had one or ten dates with. I have more respect for myself than that.
Check the signal you send, then things may change. You have the right to say no and that right should be respected. | |
|
| why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/17/2006 8:14:47 AM | | For a lot of men,(and some women), it comes down to feeling insecure. I believe the principle is called external validation. | |
|
| why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/17/2006 9:18:25 AM |
maybe it's not really about the sex but the intimacy , just that most people confuse the two terribly
Bingo.....& the friction (pardon the pun) comes about in the difference between how men/women go about seeking this intimacy. Men have been burned by women who take advantage by wanting everything but sex (depriving men of physical intimacy) & women have been burned by men who take advantage by wanting nothing but sex (depriving women of emotional intimacy).
So now NEITHER gender wants to give up what they have been burned for before w/out first seeing if the other person is able to fulfill the intimacy needs denied the last time out.
So results the stalemate so many seem stuck in. | |
|
Home
login 
