| why do men just want sex
Posted: 12/18/2006 1:06:54 PM | I am a single man in my 50's and I am looking for a longterm relationship. Sex is not the most important thing to me in a relationship but trust and honesty is.
My last 2 relationships ended because of my partners infidelity. So please don't give me the B.S. of only men wanting sex.
Like I said, I am in my 50's and I can still get it up and I can still please a woman...
Maybe it is the things that you say and do that give the impression that you want to get laid!
Just don't say that all men think of getting laid all the time.... Yes, there are some of us men out there that would like to be in a real relationship that means something to us.
Tell me why it seems like most of the women only want men with money and if you don't have it then it is adios sucker!
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bosoxx
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 12/18/2006 1:44:00 PM | Hi mickie,
I think in most cases the men that just want sex...Want some form of intamacy w/out strings and responsibilities.I lived like that till i was 32 yrs. old,had a blast too.I was always able to find women that understood that. When I wanted to settle down I looked for different things in a woman and definately a woman that would not sleep with me after 1 or 2 dates. I know that sounds kind of bad but that was my reality. Now bieng older and divorced and single again....I find it difficult to be that way again,just doesn't feel right and I guess I had true intimacy w/ someone once so 1 nighters and casual sex aren't as fullfilling. It was a thrill for quite sometime....now life is very different,my views are different and I have matured a lot so I wouldn't even consider such a thing.
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 12/18/2006 1:44:46 PM | | because sex is part of human nature. asking a man to not want sex in a relationship is like asking someone to not eat for a few weeks. we are just animals, we just want to satisfy our needs and wants. | |
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Posted: 12/18/2006 1:58:44 PM | | I have always been in long-term relationships. very rarely am i looking to just "get laid." there are several answers to your question. one is that biologically, (and there is scientific evidence to prove it), males are programmed to mate as much as possible with as many mates as possible (hence why males animals in the wild dont always stick around). in addition, men are programmed by society and the media to think and act a certain way towards women and sex, ie, the objectification of both. another possible explanation is (and im not accusing anyone, im merely exploring possibilities here) that perhaps you are looking in the wrong places, or for the wrong type of person. i have had first-hand experience in doing both of these. | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 12/18/2006 2:02:14 PM | It is your problem we cant get any. Your a female and thats where we get it from.
Why do men love sex? Maybe because of survival of the fittest. Way back when thats all it used to be about. Men needed to survive and the only way to do that is to breed. Why do you think men are not as emotional as women. We dont think with our feelings. Thanks to us and the way we are is the reason mankind has survived. | |
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| why do ladies...... or only men..... just want sex?
Posted: 12/18/2006 2:08:30 PM | | Hey you think abouth sex all time,I don't you made....or make .... depents the moment or time with you have in your heart,maybe you like dances,read,play,pool,or boling,any sport is ok,maybe walk see movies,hey the life is short or long for any people,only you need see real what do you want,....sorry the write back with mistake I wish you any people see this understand,becouse who think 24 hrs every day same is sometime is not ok. well I looking for good people tray made good friends for ever ,or some days for fun ...every boby made you mistakes . thanks for understand Ricardo. | |
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Posted: 12/18/2006 3:02:16 PM | May I offer my thoughts? Men when they become of age, think of nothing else. Let's face it, at that age there are many sexy girls around and flaunting their new found attraction to men. It's easy to reel men at that age in to marriage just by using sex as the reward. Sex is a way to help develop intimacy, relieve stress, judge how much a girl likes you, and be a winner. It makes a man seem more of a man. All of the above has an element of truth in it. There were times that I was in bed before I even knew what happened. Then there were times I was asked why I never tried to go all the way. Men are not good at figuring out women. They misinterpret the information that is sent out. I say from experience that for the most part, women are the aggressors from their late 20's into their late 30's. After that it is every man and woman for themselves.
Obviously not everyone fits into this mold. Remember it is a generalization of the way I see things. Eventually the man starts to see things in a different perspective. He comes to realize sex is "not" love. Do you want me to say that again? I would love to think that all humans desire and want Love and to be Loved. In order to be loved we must find the right person who has the mutual attraction to us. Then we must treat them with respect, honesty, and think more of what they need than we need. [making them happy is what makes us happy]. Neither person should take advantage of the other. They are a team working together for each other's good. It is also important to trust each other and to give each other space to be themselves. Not all goals have to be mutual.
Just thinking is this getting too long? Should I stop?
Truthfully Love is more important than sex but sex is much a part of love. It helps to develop closeness in a relationship and it should come with time. Sex is so much better when both people care about one another. I pity people who are not aware of this.
I hope I did not open a can of worms. If that don't answer your question then get in touch with me and I will elaborate more. -Rick- | |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 7:18:11 AM | Hi there
Very impressive profile, where in Florida are you??? No i don't think all women think of just sex.
To be honest, I would love to have a ltr, talk, be very good friends and then whatever takes place from there then it does. I did a profile on another cite and was very honest. Here's what it said>>>>>>>I'm not into your car,boat,motorcyle, ocean backround pics, just be yourself don't want your money and you can't have mine. Most women that are young want alot and you came blame them, their looking for their perfect mate. GUESS WHAT ALERT:
There's no perfect mate until you get together and feel them out and see what their about.
Let me tell you the repsones i received were for 1 astronomical. I got people telling me you just destroyed it for all the women on this cite. WOULD YOU PLEASE READ THE ABOVE AND SEE IF I DESTROYED ANYTHING FOR ANYONE. I really thought that i was at this point living in a CRAZY WORLD. Then i said to myself i'm not doing this internet thing anymore because this is what i and everyone receives (send me a pic, what do you do for work?) You know that's my business what i do for work or for that matter it is very personal to ask to someone you haven't even met in person, or for that matter talked too. Hey i'm real and if nobody likes that, I'm by far am not desperate. I just don't like the club scene, it's trashy. If you like you may respond if not have a Happy, Happy, New Year
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Posted: 12/27/2006 7:55:41 AM | | Deception? Yall women give us real men just as much "deception" darlin, so don't even go there. | |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 11:44:00 AM | well i agree with on your point about the sex part, but i have come to the idea that it is both females and males. that is what this world is all about ........ so weclome to the real world..... and the single life. | |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:08:56 PM | Why don't women want sex as much as men?
It takes 2 to have sex, so there must be a woman for every man to have sex on the first date, or just a casual fling (one nighter).
It's true that women are more emotional, and men are more physical. However, it is always the first sight that attracts us to each other. That's why perfume and make up are so important, especially to young women, to attract a mate. Most species of animals are the same way. We are animals!!
It breaks down to this. Women desire the emotional side of a relationship, while the man desires the physical side of the relationship. The ratios are differant and it's in the odds that they will eventually find an agreement to their immediate needs. That's why it takes a man to go through several women before finding the immediate sex he needs, and a woman the same when it comes to her emotional needs. A woman sometimes overcomes this and releases to the mans desires. But if a woman to walk into a bar, she can walk out with a man to have sex. For a man, it's not that easy.
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Posted: 12/27/2006 2:14:43 PM | If you read my profile you would understand that in my former industry sex was rampant and available, it was every mans fantasy come true and i lived it! So, i have always looked for what I never had, which is a relationship! I watched a show on the differences between men and women. Fact is the "men" have mucher bigger areas of thier brain available to devote just to sex, likewise women have much bigger areas devoted to just "emotions." New studies suggest that both sex's are "hardwired" at birth to be as they are.
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Posted: 12/27/2006 2:26:03 PM | | Get Real. It is natural for Men to want sex, just like Girls. We are just the pursuer. Have any of You girls seen Men standing on the corner , trying to sell sum? I have been married 7 times, slept with all them on the first or second date. Why should men condemm Women who like to same. Dam! We are all adults. Most of us "like sex". and most mature enough to realise, What we want. If it's sex,consenting adults, Then Go for it. Shit , tomorrow may never get here | |
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Posted: 1/29/2007 10:19:57 AM | | We all like sex, well most. Its natural to just want it most of the time, well at least once a week if you can,LOL. I wouldn put guys down for always going after women for sex though. Its alot easier for us women to get sex though, men have to work at it. There are more men then women out there and we are so picky, well some of us are. | |
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Posted: 1/30/2007 10:56:00 PM | mickiesthe1, I am not directing this at you, however I am addressing your original post....
There are real men out here, likely a lot of them. I for one have been on here not all that long, for the purpose of finding a true friend. You know "True" as in not a fake friend, or a friend that is only a friend when they want something. However I prefer having females as close friends to guys, and no I am not "homophobic" I have always found conversation to be more stimulating and enjoyable across the sexes in stead of the same sex. I find it much easier to be open with the gals than with the guys. So here I am. But sex is something I am not here looking for. I have that, what I am looking for is a true friend, and wouldn't mind finding simply a friend or two as well as that true friend.
However what I am finding is of the ladies I have found here in my local area who have posted profiles indicating that friends are what they are looking for, 90% of the messages I have sent out have either not been answered, though the recipients have checked my profile, so wasn't a time issue, or just deleted my message. Which tells me friends are not what they are really looking for, or unlike a potential friend they prejudge before even finding anything out. How can one make friends that way?
Yes I would love to meet some real people that really are looking for a friend, but I find I am not really being given the chance!
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Posted: 1/31/2007 5:34:45 AM | | it is true men that some men are more physical than emotions ,but in the real world some women want sex as well as men.yes there are real men as well as real women,there is no such thing as one sex outweighing another in feelings.men can be ruthless and same goes for women can be as ruthless.but to say why do men just want sex is incorrect it should apply to both sexes because for women's agenda that sex is not an important part of their lives is total nonsense.men and women have gone through many relationships ups and downs and from all of what we have learned is common sense,everyone is different and all have their own views on what and when or where to have sex.are there deception's from both men and women? ,the answer is yes.are there single men and women looking for a relationship? the answer is yes.keep in mind we all do not think alike so therefore expect to meet the bad ones as well as the good ones but in time all will come naturally and the right one will come along. | |
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Posted: 2/4/2007 7:27:40 AM | I've always been a lover. Recently I had blood work done while in Thailand with two friends When I got the results two more doctors wanted to meet me. Said I was very impressive! The suppossed limit for some one my age was 25. Mine was 20 and I asked what was the big deal. One friend was 3 years older and his was 4 and the other 3 years younger and a Swiss guy who does weight training was 8. Must be the Cherokee part of me but explains a lot about why I was such a 
P.S. You can still have a high sex drive and be picky! | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 2/12/2007 7:20:57 AM | Are you kidding? Both sexes are thinking "is there going to be sex tonight?" LOL
I detest one-night stands or a guy IM'ng me asking me if I have a webcam.
But a guy who will take me out, hold my hand, have an intelligent conversation, call me up in the middle of his work day just to say he was thinking of me...and does this often... he'd get all the sex he wants (and more)...LOL
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Posted: 2/12/2007 7:38:57 AM | | M The need for sex...is biological....Generally speaking about Every 2-3 day the man has a testosterone build up that needs a release....It has amazes me how it clouds my judgement....Hey it may be a blessings.That we want it alot...I hear quite frequently from women who are with a man who doesn't want sex... | |
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Posted: 2/12/2007 9:14:40 AM | | The desire for sex goes both ways. After being on this site and others for a little while I have run across many, many women who have had way more partners than I have had. Men and women all have needs, and many fall prey to that weakness in their partner and themselves. Each of us has professed looking for that special person but the reality is once you get past a physical attraction what do you have to offer each other. Sadly, I have found the morality of women in general leaves a lot to be desired. But do not get me wrong - men can be true pigs and the horror stories I have heard shame me to no end sometimes to be a man. On the other hand, can a woman realistically expect a man to be the one when on this site and others, men outnumber women 10 to 1 and the vast majority of women do not respond to nice guys (just ones they find physically attracted to). Does anyone even remember dating someone they met or knew as friends first and then found themselves attracted to that person. Yes we all want to make love (not sex) to that unique person that enters our lives. Perhaps I am a little too disallusioned at the internet dating thing (you think - lol). I would sell my soul just to meet a genuine and kind woman who like me for who I am. | |
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Posted: 2/12/2007 11:50:15 AM | The reason some men just want sex is because they are PIGS. Those men are going to be 40 yrs old and ALONE... Those men dont have a heart or any feelings at all and they will be the ones that get an STD or AIDS... They have no concept of wanting a relationship with a honest and caring woman that could give that man love and a sense of completion... | |
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Posted: 2/12/2007 12:00:09 PM |
we just don't walk around with our skirts hiked up ready for some action. The end.
Ah she obviously doesn't know my ex-wife | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 2/12/2007 1:31:36 PM | Men are Testosterone Driven Creatures.
Evolution has made us behave a certain way to improve the chances of our genetics to be transfered to as many females as possible, to ensure the survival of our genes.
Interested females who would like to have an injection of my genetic information, please contact me.
L. | |
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