| why do men just want sex
Posted: 2/12/2007 3:01:25 PM | well I'm not just looking for the sex ..I like the "other" things that go with a relationship ya know? holding hands,cuddling,kissing in public,just being there with the person is good too I can be happy just holding a lady's hand strolling through the Fle-Mkt, Beach ..and other places then when the 2 people get back to his/her place and that "time" comes up well then "Bingo" something magical happens ...may-b not the first date ..but "ya never know"
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 2/12/2007 4:16:32 PM | | I read the posts because I do want to understand men,and so far I dont.I agree with Doc.The companionship is the best part,or up there.What I dont understand is why men dont want to know the woman first.Let the imagination go wild for a little while.Anything you get right away,is boring if you get it to easily.I know I like a challenge.That isnt really a game,but I enjoy the flirtation,the eye contact,the laughter.Takes time to get to the point of wanting to attack the other.lol.I recently have been forced to think about something else.Some of men out there are bisexual.I had a date recently,and my friend told me she thinks he is bi.I said what do you mean.She said,look at his hand gestures.The way he moves his hands.When he didnt get anything from me,he looked for my friend and came on to her.Of course,he is a pig,but maybe even a bisexual pig.You have to be so careful in this day and age.Besides wanting love,we want safety too.Being single is like russian roulette,so waiting is the only way to know who and what your getting.I personally think it is more fun and more passionate when you wait until you have developed feelings for the one your dating.I dont think I will ever understand men.That is ok.I would rather have them full of testosterone and act manly,than have to worry if they are straight or not.I think we should get full disclosure,but we dont.Have fun. | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 2/12/2007 6:05:16 PM | | I have to agree that you are looking for love in the wrong places. While the internet is not the same as a bar, I'm not truely convinced it's a good place for dating either. Then again, nothing is perfect. The internet actually gives you a lot of room to speak, but that's besides the point. Personally, men don't only want sex. We enjoy sex, and like it when you want to have sex with us, whatever node of convincing needs pressed or caressed, but "most" men--and I'm saying that with confidence--don't "just" want sex. Maybe you tend to fall for the guys who just want you for a night--or on a series of random nights--but they are in the minority (you need to be proactive I guess). Most of us want a real woman, to listen to and respect her opinion, and who will also let us be ourselves. Otherwise, I'd say they have a sex disorder (probably a mesogenist, amongst other things). Then again, I have had similar problems as you. I've had two big relationships that end up with her wanting all the power, very manipulative (might call it the princess complex, which I have no problem treating a girl like a princess if she deserves it). So, I'm looking for something else in the future if I can spot it. Good luck. Sorry for the long response, first time blogger. | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 2/12/2007 11:46:49 PM | Difference between men and women on a first date: Men wonder how far they may get, women already know how far its going to go! | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 2/13/2007 2:38:26 AM | Well here's my insight on this. Men are men and will always have sex on their minds..and women are emotions (uncontrolled). After being hurt and man loses a part of him and get way mre scared than we do and after dealing with enough of it they tend to say to hell with the romance as so do many of us women. There are alot of good men left and they are wondering the same thing are there any good women left. everyone has been hurt and for everytime we get get another hard shell coating goes on top of the last..Think positive on every situation and that will show..a postive goal when achieved will be a positive reward :) he's out there just hidden under a few coats of hurt..and he's in search of you as well..don't give up or he will 2 :) | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 2/13/2007 2:40:54 AM | | Well here's my insight on this. Men are men and will always have sex on their minds..and women are emotions (uncontrolled). After being hurt and man loses a part of him and get way more scared than we do and after dealing with enough of it they tend to say to hell with the romance as so do many of us women. There are alot of good men left and they are wondering the same thing are there any good women left. Everyone has been hurt and for everytime we get hurt we tend to get another hard shell coating that goes on top of the last..Think positive on every situation and that will show..a postive goal when achieved will be a positive reward :) he's out there just hidden under a few coats of hurt..and he's in search of you as well..don't give up or he will 2 :) | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 2/13/2007 2:36:44 PM | | Yes, we are all like that, at least to some degree... even the best of us have some aspects of the dogs! | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 2/13/2007 5:04:47 PM | | There may be 20 to every male, but lets separate the men from the boys and there are probably 100 women to every man. So they can be jerks and get away with it!! | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 2/18/2007 9:48:10 AM | Men want sex but wind up falling in love
Woman want love but wind up having sex | |
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Posted: 2/18/2007 1:11:43 PM | | You probably were looking in the wrong places and at the wrong faces, but check this out. Do you know that there are quite a few women that I have run into with similar mentalities to the men you described? Amazing isn't it. I don't endorse this, primarily for health reasons. Besides,from what I learned from my own experiences, and what I do endorse, is the total package. The initial meeting, dating, courting etc. I am sorry. I am strictly Old School. | |
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Posted: 2/21/2007 1:39:00 PM | If you believe that all men are just out to get sex, then consider this: If most men were just desperate for sex, I think they could find better ways to get it, than to come to an online dating site, looking for it.
Corresponding with a lady, for several months, that you met online, and taking the time to build and nurture a friendship with her entails alot of effort. I don't believe it is something a guy would want to waste too much time with, if he didn't really have a interest in that. That would be a heck of a lot of trouble to go through just to score a night in bed. Don't you think?
Granted, there ARE some men who obviously are in it just to hop in the sack with someone (as is evident by some of the e-mails I've seen women post that they've received from some hornytoad somewhere), however, I am quite frankly sick of all of us men being lumped together into some perv category. We are NOT all like that. I know I certainly am not.
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 3/14/2007 3:59:47 PM | Because Sex is what God left for us clean and pure that is free no drugs no alcohol no diseases (if done correctly).
We smile and glory to God and one another. | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 3/14/2007 4:11:26 PM | Sonnet XI
I crave your mouth, your voice, your hair.
Silent and starving, I prowl through the streets.
Bread does not nourish me, dawn disrupts me, all day
I hunt for the liquid measure of your steps.
I hunger for your sleek laugh,
your hands the color of a savage harvest,
hunger for the pale stones of your fingernails,
I want to eat your skin like a whole almond.
I want to eat the sunbeam flaring in your lovely body,
the sovereign nose of your arrogant face,
I want to eat the fleeting shade of your lashes,
and I pace around hungry, sniffing the twilight,
hunting for you, for your hot heart,
like a puma in the barrens of Quitratue.
Pablo Neruda | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 6/5/2007 11:52:06 AM | Yes and Women dont want sex,thats rich.I know I want My lover to start at the ankles and work His way up slowly.......But heck I put out on the first date,lol............Of course We all want sex.Do We really care what" Hes going to think about You".If You think like a Man,Hes going to be saying OMG......thats the hottest woman ever,and wont be able to get you out of His thoughts.......ifs its passionate that is.
If its got passion,romance,and the sex is great..........what more could You ask for.Yea I know shut up and go fish......... | |
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Posted: 6/6/2007 8:48:20 AM | | least your honest...on your post..an inch on the shoulder...or ankle in your case should be just as important...anything called a quickie under 15 min is a tradgedy...heck foreplay takes a hr ...lol | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 6/7/2007 10:13:46 AM | | Yea the only real problem I seem to have is chewing through the straps.........lol | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 6/8/2007 11:57:08 AM | | The answer to that is simple,why does a dog lick himself,becuase He can,and if you pet Him nice He might let You......................he-he-he | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 6/25/2007 2:44:19 PM | why do men just want sex? Is it because....?
a. It feels good
b. it's fun
c. nice way to relieve stress
d. it feels good
e. all the above | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 6/25/2007 3:08:14 PM | I feel both males and females want sex BUT at different stages of the "relationship".
Men always think of sex, its in thier genes (jeans LOL) but a REAL gentlemen will know when the right time is to approach a woman. They do exist out there. Also bringing up sex on the first date is a TEST to see what type of person the woman is. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2007 5:03:09 PM | Think about it this way.
You're a woman, and a guy approaches you. He offers to buy you a drink and would love to chat. During the course of the conversation he comes to a point where have to make a determination. Is he dating material? Is he friends material? Is he neither?
If he's dating material, you continue to engage in conversation, with certain thoughts in mind (leaning toward attraction (which can lean toward sexual desire).
If he's friends material, you continue to engage in conversation, without those thoughts in mind.
If he's neither, you either stop conversation, or just continue for the free drinks with no intention of giving him your number.
For guys, its much simpler.
If he approaches you, that means the "neither" is already thrown out the door.
So now there is dating material and friend material. (unless he is a player, and you should already have your guard up for that).
Anyway, same situation, if you fall into his dating zone, its likely he will really try to be a gentleman.
If you fall into his friends zone, he doesn't want friends, and therefore you fall into the sex zone. (player mode)
So just remember, Guys always want sex, unless they are no attracted to you.
If you fall into the dating zone, then they MIGHT want more than sex. | |
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| RE why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/14/2007 11:39:00 PM | Cause we are hard wired too procreate.
Men are wired for Sight and for procreation.
Women are wired for touch and feelings.
As I understand it women are just as interested in having sex as men are.
But Sociaty has shuned that truth down to women have to feel a certain way within thier minds/Bodies to allow this to happen.
If a man has more than one sexual partner he is a "Stud".
If a woman has more than one sexual partner she is a "slut".
WTF why the double standard? I dont understand that.
I am a man so guys dont be sending me emails!
But there is your answer hope it helps.
TheDnT | |
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