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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/20/2005 10:28:12 AM | Want sex? Absolutely.
But personally, I want it as part of a loving, caring relationship - not sex for it's own sake. However, not even remotely interested in a "relationship" without it. I have lots of female friends and no, sex with then is not even a consideration! LOL)
Not that I have NEVER found myself in a strictly physical situation, but not what THIS guy goes looking for. (Imagine the look on an ex-girlfriends face when she offered a "friends-with-benefits" arrangement after we split. | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/20/2005 11:07:13 AM | | It's unfair to say men JUST want sex...not true at all! but it's a fact that "sometimes" we just want sex. Sometimes we don't want a relationship or a compromise because we may be in/have one already. Ladies, take your time to know the man before going to bed with him if you expect more than sex. It's more than likely that you'll run into a player, never be fooled by his sympathy, compassion, closeness, or romance...find out more about him, if he really loves you, he'll wait till you're ready to have sex. | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/26/2005 11:42:19 AM | | well to me guys are not the only one just wanting sex if you look at it its pretty much 50/50 girls and guys want sex just as much as each other sex is nice to have dont get me wrong but its best to sleep with the ones you care about than go out have sex with someone on a first date cause you never know if they plan to stick around or if they have an std i have dated lots of girls who say they plan to stick around than they have sex and never stick around so you cant always say its just guys useing girls for sex | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/26/2005 7:31:00 PM | | I've met a couple of guys from this group and, for the most part, they wanted to jump in the sack as soon as we met. *LOL* One guy started our first conversation with a remark about how he enjoyes oral sex. I didn't join this group to find a sex partner.....well, eventually I'm sure the intimacy will enter into the picture. But what I'm looking for is a companion, someone to love (and not in the biblical sense *LOL*). I wanna have fun but I want to know you first before I KNOW you! Get my drift??? *LOL* | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/29/2005 5:37:47 AM | | Why do men "just" want sex? my question is why do all you women all say "why do men "just" want sex" Lol not every guy just wants sex. I mean mostly everyone wants to have sex of course.. But hell I've been w/o for about a year now and to be honest I just about don't care.. wanna know why? Cause "why are all women gold digging self centered diva wanna be's"? No.. thats not why. Just makin a point.. It's not fair to generalise everyone based on life experience. If i did that I'd die single.. Everyone gets a fair chance in my book. I don't want just sex. I want someone I can talk and laugh with. someone who likes my retarded antics and so forth. Someone who gives as much as is given.. I think we all do and those who don't yet will typically find out they do also.. Also, sex is great lol, If I "don't" want to sleep with you is where we have a problem.. I hope you'd want to sleep with me too... I mean theres gotta be a spark or it's just not gonna work.. We're all just mammals and slaves to nature, we have tendencies that are natural for us from the dawn of time.. Sex is like the biggest thing in life and procreation. It is the purpose of life in a sense..It's what we have done ever since we knew we could, which im willing to bet was the 1st day lol. It's so ingraned into our subconscious that we couldn't "really" control it even if we wanted to.. But hell, I love sex.. My thing is Quality over quantity though.. | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/30/2005 4:31:09 AM | | Bottom lime here, is that guys are going to just want sex as long as women just keep giving it to them. IF you find yourself with a guy like that, then obviously it isn't a match. Move on. | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 8/1/2005 6:01:56 AM | | Mwm lakeland fl .We are all sexual beings society has done a better job on woman than men look at the Japenese and Chinese cultures50 years ago. Just most woman have been brought up thinking the have a golden fleece between their legs rather than something to enjoy. Where men have been trying to get that for the eternity, So save it if must enjoy it if you can or satisfy yourself is the answer. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2005 12:05:33 AM | well, i think we found out where a lot of people stand here. guys seem to agree with each other, and women seem to agree with each other. i think there are two reasons a guy might want sex so much. number one is the kind of guy that these girls here seem to think all guys are. he wants a notch in the belt, and the more women he sleeps with, the manlier he feels. i think this kind of guy is rather ignorant, self-obsessed, and probably has a very low REAL self esteem. the second reason drives most of the guys who've posted here. it goes kinda like this... if a woman sleeps with me, she must like me right? not saying that a guy needs a woman to sleep with him to be accepted by her, but it's more of a test. lots of times, advancing and judging a woman's responses is the only way to see how she feels about us. and you girls know that you aren't always upfront about it. of course we expect to get rejected. but HOW you reject us says a lot. anyway, enough of our secrets....
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 8/15/2005 2:44:38 PM | Well, I'm a gay guy and I admit, it's true-all men want is sex..then they, "got to go" afterwards.
Women are not the only ones who are taken advantage of. Most guys are pigs.
So, two years ago I decided-NO SEX UNTIL the 5th date! Well, after almost going insane after 11 months. I met a guy. He went along with my rule and then to come across as a real winner.......there were 3 more dates, on his part to show me that he was truly interested in me and just not sex. I was impressed! So then it happened, the big moment came and the first night was wonderful then the second. We did not emerge from the house for the whole weekend. We were like rabbits!
Then, at 2:34 p.m. Sunday afternoon....I realized I had been had and he was a PIG-liar. Because, he decides to tell me the truth. It turns out he was married and had 3 kids, and since he was always "curious" about having sex with another man and since, too his wife and kids were away for the weekend..........well, I was his experimental victim.
The last time I cried was when I was 12 years old, when I broke my leg. Now, here I was at 41, shedding tears secretly in the bathroom with the shower running.
By tuesday....FURIOUS! I contacted his wife and told her the whole story.
We all just want to be loved....is that so wrong? | |
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| why do WOMEN just want sex
Posted: 8/25/2005 5:55:14 PM | Even though the original poster doesn't appear to have an account here anymore, I must attest to the fact that indeed there are men out there who are NOT looking for sex immediately, I'm one of them actually, I actually HATE one-night-stands and have been deceived into 2 of them in the last 2 months by WOMEN who were just looking for quick sex, so don't think this is just a man or just a woman thing, it goes both ways!!
Personally I think it's just a thing with living in south florida, everyone down here just wants to meet up, have coffee, and then "go somewhere more comfortable" to get their rox off and then it's cya! Personally I wish these people would just buy a damn vibrator instead of playing stupid games with me by lying to me about how much involvement they want only to vanish once they get what they want outta me! | |
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Posted: 8/26/2005 1:06:34 PM | Women get confused in their search for a mate which will complete their check list. The "men" which are protraied in the massive public eye are as much sexual objects as their feminine counter parts. This has an impact on a person no matter what their pretence may be. Expectations are also a huge factor in the choice of a mate. Expectations of them and yourself. Both of which are probably higher than they should be. I have read many different discriptions from many people. The explanations of which are purely their own opinion of what they have come to believe,with little basis on which their opinion can stand. The world is full of every different discription you can possibly conceive,and some which would horrify you to think about. Sex is a physical act which begins long before the the act takes place. The majority of humans are visual creatures. They act more on what they see than what they think because the eyes are our windows to the world. What attracts us to a particular automobile,it's engine,transmission,differential ratio,cooling system,weight to horsepower ratio? I cannot help but say,I don't think so. Whether you can afford it or not,you like the way it looks. The same principle applies when looking at people,the difference is,there are few if any preconceived ideas with the car,but with people,we tend to interpose ideas with what we conceive the visual package to be. It is the preconceived expectations of the human desire which lend us to suprise or disappointment when the visual does meet the moral standard we have planed out in the video screen of the mind. We see someone and want them to be this particular package we have pictured. When the picture turns out to be flawed,in our perception of it,being human we see it as ugly. The opinion of ugly or immoral or demanding is the reaction of ourselves being hurt. It is not the reality of the entire picture. When you see a lion kill a gazelle it isn't a pretty site,some think it to be cruel,some view it as disgusting. Yet,when you see the small lion cubs suckling on the mother lion,it is a cute,pleasent site to behold,a mother caring for her cubs. Were it not for the meat which the mother had eaten,supplied by the gazelle,she would not be able to produce the milk needed for her young. I know this sounds like it has absolutely nothing to do with the subject matter, but it lies at the very heart of it. It only takes a short time to reflect on what expectations we carry out of the door with us when we go to meet someone. Should one be expecting chivalry and be met by barbarism,do not blame the barbarian for being what he is. One must look in the mirror and ask why was any expectation taken from where you left for the meeting. My father always made absolutely sure my sister had enough money for cab fare home. I no longer wonder why. Aproach people as you would a book. Once you are past the cover and have gone through a few chapters,you should have an idea of the plot. If it is not to your liking,place the book back where you found it,and seek another. With all the books in the world,there must be one which will draw you to it as a magnet to iron. Just remember the library is full and should you not care for one that doesn't mean it will not suit another.
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 8/26/2005 6:22:23 PM | | Ok I'll tell you why. It's because sex is the only thing women give men that feels good. Dealing with all of your day to day drama is enough to make a guy move to Siberia! There's always an ulterior motive with chics; they're looking for a free meal, free drink, place to live, clothes, to get their nails done, etc... I say we go back to the days of bartering. Just be upfront and pimp yourselves out! Peace. | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 8/26/2005 6:56:23 PM |
Ok I'll tell you why. It's because sex is the only thing women give men that feels good. Dealing with all of your day to day drama is enough to make a guy move to Siberia! There's always an ulterior motive with chics; they're looking for a free meal, free drink, place to live, clothes, to get their nails done, etc... I say we go back to the days of bartering. Just be upfront and pimp yourselves out! Peace.
Wow, and they say that women are bitter... | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 8/26/2005 7:20:21 PM |
Wow, and they say that women are bitter...
you tell 'em ang 
OT it all depends on the guy, for some it works, not for others. | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 8/26/2005 7:29:27 PM |
you tell 'em ang
Hey, I'm in touch with MY 'bitter child' as much as anyone...but I don't spew it in the forums...JESUS. | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 8/26/2005 8:15:12 PM |
yes my child? you called?
No, no, NO!!! You keep getting confused.
I didn't say you WERE God, I said I could make ya SEE God!
KEEP UP! | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 8/26/2005 9:09:43 PM |
Women get confused in their search for a mate which will complete their check list. The "men" which are protraied in the massive public eye are as much sexual objects as their feminine counter parts...
Well thought-out, man. 2 cerebral 4 the local group from the POF 8/20 picnic, tho by & large they're smart & funny, just more into NOW, & that's cool as we know...no age discrimination
exists really, we R all 1, but truth remains in the saying: "When I was a child, I spoke &
behaved as a child, etc"...And of course, we R still kids.
It's always true that looking up, especially thru Hubble's eyes, renews perspectives, no doubt. | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 8/28/2005 4:10:14 PM | True enough, my posting on here reads something to the effect of, "just looking for a no-strings, intimate encounter". And that is all I'm HERE for: That's not all I ever want out of a relationship. Truth be told, I was in a very satisfying (emotionally, mentally, sexually, etc) relationship some months ago that ended, I've recently come to find out, on a lie. We'd dated for over a year, and there was NO sex up until the last few months we were together, after she and I had, essentialy, committed ourselves to each other. This was (and still is, sadly) the woman I wanted to marry.
The reason I'm here, and I speak only for myself (these broad-stroke generalizations about ALL men ONLY wanting sex are laughable--no one can really speak to them on an intelligent level because we all have our unique points of view), is because I miss the connection, the honest, physical connection between a man and a woman (or a man and a man, if that's your thing--doesn't happen to be mine, but to each his own). I miss the intimacy, the thrill, the feeling of release of tensions so long built up that only sex can bring (running and other physical exercise just don't compare). And it IS an honest connection, so far as both individuals are forthright as to their reason for being here (a no-strings, intimate encounter--no B.S., no I-love-you-for-your-mind, I-won't-be-pissed-if-you-don't-put-out-after-I've-shelled-out-$80-for-dinner-and-drinks nonsense).
In short, I'm finally to the point where I'm willing to trust a woman with my body again--trusting a woman with my heart again, on the other hand, is going to have to wait until if and when these wounds ever heal. Thanks for reading. | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 8/29/2005 11:59:53 AM | Men don't just want sex, of course, I mean, don't we also want Doritos, cold pizza, and Mountain Dew?
Obviously the question of "why do men just want sex" is a complaint. Unless a woman is abstinant (yeah right), when women meet a guy they assign him an amount of crap he will have to do to get sex. This is directly related to how he looks and what he drives etc. (whatever they think makes a good guy). Now, this is a pretty superficial way to judge a person, and when a guy doesn't fall into the category of men that a woman wants right away, sometimes a guy will press the issue, the reason isnt just that they want sex, but they are complaining that they have been rejected, usually based on looks, bank acct etc.
They say that in a room full of men and women, most men will be attracted to 50% of the women, and a woman will be attracted to one or two men. So, if you aren't those one or two guys, you aren't getting any, because ladies don' t want to "settle". But are men that arent those one or two really inferior?
Many women complain about their looks, but because of the above fact, they still have a good chance of finding a guy that really wants them. Guys on the other hand, have a harder time, hence why ladies get tons of messages on here and guys get fewer.
Another trick to throw guys off, is that one of the qualities that a woman finds attractive is "confidence", so just that fear of rejection or "trying too hard" can cause you not to get laid.
So, my advice to ladies, either be abstinant, or only date guys you might actually **** without making them go through all the bullshit. Think of what you would make Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt or whatever do to get into your panties and give a guy that same respect.
My advise to guys. Girls aren't going to take my advice, so if you arent that one or two guys, and you know if you arent, get a job as a bouncer, tattoo artist, etc. because if there is one thing a girl wants to have sex with more than an attractive guy, its a dirty **stard that will **** her hard and leaver in a wet heaving heap on the floor and never call her. Even if she has a pretty boy she will still be your dirty whore, so long as it isn't in "real" life.
One good theory on male female relationships is laddertheory.com I think it is the most well formed theory on the state of things I've read in awhile. | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 9/8/2005 2:37:14 AM | That's right, why is there so much deception, why do woman just wont money and security, start chainging the rule yourself and may be just may be you'll get good company as well as sex!
Take care
Lee | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 9/8/2005 4:58:56 PM | Friends first I like the company of women and I have women that are just freinds.
At the moment I happen to be available, but when I was with a past girl friend she was very black & white about the subject with all my friends that I have developed was hard to be their friends, she did not have alot of confidence about our relationship.
I make effort with friends first always, I have four sisters and I seen so much strange stuff with them. Why are so many people in a hurry we have a life time with the Romance of life, we should savor life, and enjoy it all.
Yes we all get that........ WOW ........ when we see someone that moves us, but is your choice to take it slow or fith gear, do we have a choice ( male &female ) if we know what we want we sometimes want to close this deal soon ( in a hurry ) but if remember what is meant to be will be, our actions become mute at the end of the road eventualy the true essence of your bond will shine.
Peace Dave | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 9/8/2005 7:10:10 PM | | Speak for your experiences. I personal do like being group in with people I am not like. Just because I happen to be the same sex as them. I am not looking for sex just a nice conversation. I am differant and I can live with that. I have pretty much given up on the dating part of this site. I come her for the forums and to keep in touch with some nice people for all over the place. I could say all women are looking for a**hole because someone dump me for treating her too nice. I realize that was just that person not all persons of the same sex. Ok so much for my rant back to the normal posting. Have a good day. | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 9/9/2005 3:22:06 AM | hmmmm.......sex? Why do we want it?
I tend to agree with the scientific explanations (evolution etc.) advocated by some in this thread. It's simply the order of things. Aside from maintaining a certain level of civility about it in our public life, sex is simply the way our species reproduces. There's no need to criticize men or women for wanting it...it's perfectly natural.  | |
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