| why do men just want sex
Posted: 9/9/2005 5:06:11 AM | | everyone wants sex unless there is some kind of chemical inbalance in one's cranium | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 9/18/2005 6:42:03 AM | im one of the good guys....but wheres your profile? not having a profile is kind of deceitful. | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 9/18/2005 8:58:27 AM | I think the real question here is why are some men so crude about it?
In 10 min within meeting a man he says to you “ My****is hard” or “ I want to **** you.” Or if he’s really holding back, “I want to make love to you.”
I mean really, what response is women expected to have to those statement?
I’ll tell you, we are offended! It does NOT make us feel good, sexy, wanted, respected or beautiful. | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 9/18/2005 9:14:14 AM | I have been thinking about this subject. Probably because it seems pinned by the number of responses. There have been several relationships where I have up front told the other person that all that I wanted is sex, and acted that way. The reason I did that, is because I knew a relationship wouldn't work, but instead of risking it and putting pressure on the other person, I reduced it to something frivilous, that way, if the other person showed they could be someone I could be with then we would change things. Thus far it has turned out that my first assesments have been correct, and even though I try to reduce things to something seemingly controllable such as sex, feelings usually get envolved and I'm on the losing end.
Also, crudeness can be construed as confidence, and many times a lady will have no interest at all unless someone acts boarish. My tattooed pierced very large crude vulgar construction worker brother has been met with much more success than me when I play the "nice guy". Although, when I don his persona of the carefree and vulgar, it really does make women throw themself at you. Perhaps my problem is just that those that I meet in that way, don't fit my needs in a person, and so I have become jaded to all females. I'm in a "recluse" phase right now following things not working with my current tacticts.
To use a fishing analogy, I think that I'm going to start fishing in a new pond or at least an old one. I just need to get myself some fresh bait. | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 9/18/2005 11:25:07 AM |  all i can say is that u can't stop a man from thinking sexual of you if there attracted to ya sexually but remember what there thinking and what there gonna get is 2 different thing's and if u don't give in then they know they got a challenge in there hands  | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 9/24/2005 8:56:52 PM | | Its just hard wired in to thier neurological brain patterns and testosterone,continuation of the species.......you wouldnt believe the introductory e-mails I get..lol,If Men would only use thier brains and figure what polite things to say on the net to get the lady of thier dreams it would be a heck of a lot easier.But in My humble opinion it helps Me weed out the undesireables quickly,but the anonimity of the internet with some people They think They can just say what They want reguardless of hurting someones feelings.Just weed out the morons,They usually do that on thier Own.I have actually met nice people here,chat a bit to really get to know Them,and set Your standards higher and You will find Mr.Right | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 9/25/2005 7:04:39 AM | I want sex because of hot babes like ^^^^. YUMMERS!
 moooooooove to lakeland | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 9/25/2005 6:16:37 PM | | Interesting thoughts and writing style. Well, with a very gorgeous pic like yours, it's hard not to fantasize a little. But your point is well taken - email an essential stranger with integrity and thoughts about her - not yourself. | |
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Posted: 9/27/2005 6:55:08 AM | | i have an answer for you to that question.why do men think about sex before anything eles?because to a lot of men they veiw women as a kleenex,you blow in them once ant you toss it to the curb.it sounds crude but that is how alot of men look at girls.or they veiw them like cars,you drive them hard,you put some miles on the old odometer then you trade it in for a newer younger model.now if you think i am being a pig by saying this i am not.i am only answering you question by telling you what most men think.then you have the guys who treat ladies the way they should be treated,and that is with respect.the best was to judge a man and how he will be with you is take the time to see how he treats his mother and sister.if he is a prick with his mother then that is a good indication about what is ahead for you if you chose to be with him.just think of all the single mothers out there and if they would have listened to these words how diffrent their life would be now.i will bet that they were not thinking that this guy was an ***hole when her legs were spread.the point here is before you give up sex for any reason keep this letter in mind because remember the whole point for a guy is to get laid and that is what he wants he will say anything to get into your pants.if you want a good man then the key is do not give into sex right away dont use it as a wepon either because men will get it where ever they can.but this is how to weed out the sex seekers and the ones who want a relationship.thx | |
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Posted: 10/4/2005 2:17:28 PM | Hi sis I think that mel3403 and click me got it right.
It seems to me you want to meet men fast, just not fast men. Be patient don't date
everyone that knocks at the door.
awhell what do i know.
take care. | |
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Posted: 10/4/2005 3:41:00 PM | | Well, one reason is because most of us are pigs. Now, for those that are not, they'll split into a couple of groups too; the ones that get so beaten by cheats that they don't know what else to do and the ones that watch too much sex in the city and think that's all women want. Then again, most people are so full of crap, that it's hard to really figure it out anyway, so I say EAT ICE CREAM. | |
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Posted: 10/6/2005 8:23:33 AM | I'm still waiting for them to make cyborg or android women, so they can have all the traits I like and none I dislike, no complaining, and I can turn them off when I feel like it.
Until then,.... Have to make do with a real one.........................
Hey I'm kidding! of course.  | |
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Posted: 10/7/2005 2:09:15 PM | | oh and by the way ,, the way to my heart is through my brain ,so show me your intelect | |
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Posted: 10/11/2005 4:47:00 AM | Excuse me.... and women don't flaunt it??? Halter tops, miniskirts, push up bras, makeup... there's a huge industry based on the fact that they do.
How do we flaunt it? Stuff kleenex down our shorts for a padde bra effect?
Personally, if I don't at least have considerable affection for the gal, it tends to be blase'. | |
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Posted: 10/11/2005 7:12:19 AM | I have to speak plainly: I like sex. Sex is good. It's not the only thing I think about, and it's most certainly not the only thing I want in a relationship. But, being honest, I also have to admit that sometimes that's the ONLY thing I want. I enjoy the pure, base, carnal pleasure. Thankfully, by the time it gets to that point, my morals typically take over and I don't do anything about it. I am, after all, kind of shy and somewhat lacking in self-esteem these last several months.
True enough, there are women, too, out there who are only interested in sex. It seems that whomever started this thread had a bad experience (or a string of them) and, in a fit of self-pity (been there--hell, I'm there now) made a far-reaching generalization. I think the vast majority of us, male AND female, aren't just interested in sex. I do, however, think that sex, JUST sex, is often easier than the potentially damaging effects of a long-term relationship gone awry, which is why there are those who seem to make sex their number-one priority. Don't get too close and no one gets hurt. | |
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Posted: 10/11/2005 12:10:08 PM | I think there is a widely-held misconception that because a guy makes it evident that he wants sex, that sex is "all" he wants.
There are two very powerful motivators behind the male desire to have sex. First would testosterone. That hormone is the impetus behind the sex drive and and various forms of aggression. Since men possess testosterone in significantly greater quantities than do women, they have a stronger craving or "internal desire" to seek sexual relief, tend to get involved in more fights and other instances of physical aggression, and tend take more risks on the road (hence the higher life and auto insurance premiums) than do their female counterparts. Because women typically don't experience as intense a desire for sex, their behavior towards "making it happen" is, comparatively, a lot less "pressed." For many (if not most) women, the closest sensation to the male desire they experience usually occurs either the week before or the week following their period. Many find that they are embarrassingly horny during one of those periods and are more likely, during that time period, to take actions to alleviate the cravings they are experiencing. If women could somehow take that craving and magnify it tenfold, they would get a glimpse into what carnal cravings men battle every day.
What man among us has not gone through virtually every day of his adult life looking at women he casually passes on the street or in the workplace and briefly fantasizing about sharing a sexual experience with her? It's one of the things that men do; kind of like pissing while standing up. Of course, over 99% of those fantasies go unexplored, but testosterone never relents the mental process.
To be sure, ALL men want sex -- heterosexual or homosexual; nice guy or jerk. Some of us simply do a better job of concealing our desires than others. Unfortunately for them and us, many women mistakenly believe that because a guy wants sex, that that is "all" he wants and that, a really "decent" guy -- or a guy who has a genuine interest in her beyond sex -- won't be pressed for sex. DON'T YOU BELIEVE IT!!! LOL!!!
Another reason that men tend to be more pressed for sex than do women is because we typically have a near-100% satisfaction rate with, where satisfaction is measured in terms of resulting in a climax. Let's all be frank (or randy): If women climaxed virtually every time they laid down with a man, and suffered no social and/or emotional stigma or consequences from being completely hedonistic and unadulteratedly self-indulgent in pursuing their carnal desires they, too, would likely be a bit more inclined to get to the sex part more readily.
Unlike men, the estrogen-propelled woman also (at least subconsciously) seeks to derive "emotional" satisfaction from the sexual event. Some women claim that sex can be gratifying for them even when they don't climax because of the person with whom they shared the experience and how being with him (or her, as the case may be) (and, if it is, ... drop me a line; let's work something out, LOL) made her feel. Try getting a guy to agree that sex can be gratifying for him where there is no orgasm. Though some of my fellow men on this board might attempt -- simply to be argumentative -- that what I say here is BS and doesn't apply to them, I say bring them to your home, give them a good 20 strokes and then tell them you want to stop and just cuddle the rest of the night away (you might want to have the police on speed dial before trying this).
As men get older and their teststosterone levels fall off, we become less "pressed" about (or, in some cases, even "interested in") sex. Even women, as they get older and their estrogen levels decrease (thereby increasing the ratio of teststosterone to estrogen in their bodies), typically report a correspondingly increased sex drive. So next time that guy is trying to make sex happen, don't be upset with him. Just know that it is they way he is wired and that, in time, the shoe will be on the other foot. | |
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Posted: 10/11/2005 1:03:00 PM | ^^^ And there you have it, the post that effectively shuts the door on this thread.
Bra-f*ck-ing-va, vyper. What a way to nail the issue on every corner.  | |
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Posted: 10/11/2005 1:13:24 PM | Why thank you very much, Mav! 
By the way ... cute baby pic! I liked it almost as much as I did the "free hair" pic in your profile.  | |
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Posted: 10/14/2005 11:01:29 PM | Hi, my name is Justin, a single dad in Tampa. I am hosting a party at Lettuce Lake Park on November 12,
I have enclosed a link that you can check out if you would like to sign up.
Please take a look.
Here is the link (also at the top of your inbox page called (Tampa meet up Nov 12)
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts2137386.aspx
Please join us so we all can meet in a safe and no pressure environment.
Justin | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 10/20/2005 1:54:17 PM | | ok so then why cant guys just be real about it and not fake and lie to the girl just to get in her pants? mixed signals from men is VERY COMMON! and yes, i guess we fall for it. | |
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Posted: 10/26/2005 5:04:13 PM | Well you have to keep it real from the start or else you could have possible stalkers on your hands LOL ... Why do men just want sex.... hhhmmm well we (Men) are not really at liberty to answer that .. questions like that need to be directed down south and speak with our representative. thats like asking a dog why does he drink water .. because it's what keeps him alive  | |
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Posted: 10/26/2005 6:00:06 PM | Because women want JEWELRY, and there's no such thing as a "free lunch."
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Posted: 11/3/2005 2:17:32 PM | JANUARIAN,
Because if guys were "real about it" and walked up to you and said, "I think you're hot and I want to sleep with you." How successful would they be at doing so? The odds are, "not very." You may as well wait until the next cute guy comes along and reply to his "hi," with something like, "I think you're cute and I want us to get married and start a family." Even if that IS the case, it is extremely rare for a woman to be forthcoming and "real" about it. People don't generally volunteer up their "real" agenda for fear of chasing off a promising prospect. | |
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