| hey answer this for me please....why does an outspoken girl scare guys off?
Posted: 6/29/2005 5:34:24 AM | | It is not about someone saying what is in their minds. It is about how they say it. If you just blurt it out and dont care how it comes out, then it sounds as you are being critical. Your point of view is just that until you hurt somone with it. So next time you open your mouth, think about who you are hurting. | |
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| hey answer this for me please....why does an outspoken girl scare guys off?
Posted: 6/29/2005 7:31:37 AM | lol.... tuflfluv yes you missed it. It is said sarcastically,who is a golddigger for real, come on now!!! if you took anythin seriously in the profile, than it worked it's a way to weed them out. I have no problems "finding" people with the same humour! i just asked a question and wondered what would be the response ... I am NOT "actually" having this problem I have had this problem before...simply a remark. Not having a "dear abby" moment.
cheers though
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| hey answer this for me please....why does an outspoken girl scare guys off?
Posted: 6/29/2005 7:42:47 AM | See...give women the right to vote and they think they can start using computers and worse yet think they can say anything they want lol. J/K!  really lol
I think outspoken women are beautiful. But there is a time and a place. And there's such a fine line between Outspoken/Intelligent and Pissed/Ignorant (big difference but fine line). That is what I think scares alot of guys away. A girl that's just pissed at the world. Which before I get stoned, there's guys that are pissed at the world too.  Show me a guy that's scared of an outspoken woman and I'll show you a guy that lacks self confident. He's scared she'll some how stumble on the thought that he just might not be God's gift to mankind. | |
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| hey answer this for me please....why does an outspoken girl scare guys off?
Posted: 6/29/2005 8:27:36 AM | bucsgirl: that was kinda my point.
Many women say they are outspoken and it is euphamism for being bossy or controlling.
Shells: definitely don't want a wallflower but not a dictator either. outspoken with one girl I dated translated into :scathing criticism of every single thing she didn't agree with.
She used the words "I'm outspoken". I was thinking negative "bi-tach".
And if outspoken means loud or boorish, that's a deal breaker. | |
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| hey answer this for me please....why does an outspoken girl scare guys off?
Posted: 6/29/2005 3:34:40 PM |
Shells: definitely don't want a wallflower but not a dictator either. outspoken with one girl I dated translated into :scathing criticism of every single thing she didn't agree with.
She used the words "I'm outspoken". I was thinking negative "bi-tach".
And if outspoken means loud or boorish, that's a deal breaker.
supersomma
Please don't categorize all "Outspoken" women into one group because of your encounter with a negative b!tch, Hon.
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| hey answer this for me please....why does an outspoken girl scare guys off?
Posted: 7/3/2005 2:43:07 PM | | hmm out spoken hay well all i got to say is they will allways tell the truth if they dont want to talk to you they just dont del the letter they tell you first not interested they will tell ya if they having sex with your best friend just kidding they will call ya on time and they will tell ya if they dateing some one else and they will tell ya what they feel on everything no holds bar that is good in romace | |
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| hey answer this for me please....why does an outspoken girl scare guys off?
Posted: 7/4/2005 4:55:58 PM | @epsilonbj...LMFAO, good luck with that....
as for EZMIKE...
men dont like verbose chicks unless its a real short gig, and i mean "real short". people who have a tendency to be too blunt(or honest) simply do this to cover up some inadequacy to be discovered later. so, men bag em and move on:)
WTF? This is the most stereotypical verbal diarrhea I have ever heard....I can't even think about how to write anything coherant, or decent to respond to this crap. Seriously, I really hope I somehow misinterpreted what you're saying here, and that you're talking about other people that don't like women or "chicks" who speak their mind; and not yourself....
But then again...you do end with saying
...bag em and move on :) so I think that answers my question.
How the heck are you supposed to figure out what's going on in her head unless she opens her mouth? 'Cause you certainly aren't gonna figure it out with your limited mentality. Good luck finding one to "bang" in the meantime...and when you're old and lonely with no woman because you couldn't stand listening to her speak her mind, and she left your ass; look back and kick yourself in the junk, because you deserve it.
Once again; I really hope that I misinterpreted this quote, and if I did; Please forgive my rant. | |
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