| | how to prevent getting hard in bed with a woman?Page 9 of 12 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12) | Just let it roll...if you think about stuff like a chair to get your mind off the boner, you won't be enjoying the kiss as much. The girl wants you to get hard with her kissing you and being close to you, it's a sure sign that you like her (even though she doesn't want to go all the way). She won't mind it, and probably wants it to be reassured you find her sexually attractive.
If she has issues with it...just say it's her fault 
Oh yea...if she decides the moment is right to go all the way with you, she might brisk your "woody" as a hint. Just think of how she might feel if it wasn't...there.  | |
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| how to prevent getting hard in bed with a woman?
Posted: 4/20/2009 6:58:57 AM | | theres nothing you can do to avoid a boner in bed with your sweetheart....and even if you do that could damage your future sex life if every time you're in bed you're used to getting rid of it rather then promoting it lol | |
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| how to prevent getting hard in bed with a woman?
Posted: 4/20/2009 7:05:58 AM | Sorry, onthe spot007, but why the hell would you want to?
I can't imagine that she wouldn't want to know, as long as you don't pressure her or pull the old chestnut, "once it's up I have to or I'll get blue balls."
Snicker. Ooops! Probably showing my age. Don't know if any guy uses That one anymore. 
She must know how you feel about her and that you value her feelings and want to go slow. Reassure her that you're Not rushing her, but your feelings for her are strong. Belive me she will love to here that!
Good luck sweetie, and remember, communication! Tall to each other!
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| how to prevent getting hard in bed with a woman?
Posted: 4/20/2009 11:04:29 AM |
Anyway, I tend to get hard very easily, just rhough lots of touching or kissing... but see the girl I'm with now... we're taking it slow...
It's called "foreplay" that's what is supposed to happen. The best way to solve the problem is alleviate the issue (get off). Either she can do it, or you can do it even if you both don't want to have sex, but there's no reason why you two can't get each other off. | |
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Paul_L
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| how to prevent getting hard in bed with a woman?
Posted: 4/20/2009 2:58:20 PM | Dude let that shit hang...
No seriously, its a good thing your getting hard... not something you want to stop any time EVER!
The very fact that she is sleeping in the same bed as you, means she has "intent" soo let her know everything is warmed up and on standby...
haha I cant take this thread seriously... | |
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| how to prevent getting hard in bed with a woman?
Posted: 4/20/2009 5:26:49 PM | Your 25, with a masters degree, and your asking something this crazy. Dude, roll over on top of her and drill her clit with your hard on. If she doesn't like that run like hell and don't get in bed with her again.
This chick wants her cake and eat it too and the hell with you! Don't put yourself in these predicament and you won't have this problem. | |
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| how to prevent getting hard in bed with a woman?
Posted: 4/20/2009 5:30:28 PM |
Dude, roll over on top of her and drill her clit with your hard on
Wouldn't it be funny if he did this and found out SHE was really a HE? lol. that'll teach him to just roll over and drill something. | |
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| how to prevent getting hard in bed with a woman?
Posted: 4/20/2009 6:35:04 PM | | Maybe it's time to sit down and talk, man-to-man, with your**** Explain your expectations and outline your predicament. I think both you and it will agree that the best solution is to wear your****out with 3-4 women, before you go over to your girlfriends. The odds are good it won't be standing at attention for a while and you'll also drop off early and have a nice, deep sleep. There's a solution you both can agree on. You see how important communication is in a relationship? | |
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| how to prevent getting hard in bed with a woman?
Posted: 4/23/2009 8:09:29 AM | Remember: just because you have a boner doesnt mean you want to have sex.... women seem to forget that.... AND sometimes guys get a boner even when they arent thinkin sexual... most of the time, you can know the contextual cues that lead up to one but sometimes id be driving around singin to the radio and BAM OMG!!!
i suggest cold showers... most time they work... maybe tell her not to makeout with you in bed... maybe the location of the foolin around is the problem... if you do stuff other than the bedroom maybe wont be so bad... people seem to associate - partner+bedroom/bed + opportunity = sex/sexual things... you gotta go to a neutral place... like go for a hike or walk.... now, if you still wanting to get some after that, HELL YA POWER TO YA!!! then you can continue on threads like "where is the most exciting place where you have gotten laid" and with confidence you can say "we wanted to wait for right time and we felt really kinky, went skinny dipping, and we totally just started screwin in an open pasture!!!"
btw, can i get one of those experiences? that would be GREAT!!! | |
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| how to prevent getting hard in bed with a woman?
Posted: 5/3/2009 11:53:22 PM | | I am not believing this question. OP is obviously a guy who grew up learning that women think sex is bad or dirty. Wake up. It's a new world. The reality is that women like it and yes them. The more she sees it the quicker she'll want it. Duh? | |
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Posted: 5/4/2009 12:05:30 AM | yeah... don't sleep in the same bed with her until she is ready to sleep with you... why even go there? why tease yourself like that? just give her a kiss and then get in your car and drive home....
simple..
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| how to prevent getting hard in bed with a woman?
Posted: 5/4/2009 12:53:57 AM | | I have an idea....you could use a small memory foam pillow and out it the THAT area....soon it will have the right indentation so you dont need to feel bad anymore. | |
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| how to prevent getting hard in bed with a woman?
Posted: 5/4/2009 3:07:14 AM | look i dont know why you guys are not going the whole way if you guys are together but to be honest i would be offended if you didnt get turned on from kissing me laying next to me ext
what is she expecting you to not be attracted and turned on by her thats a bit wierd seeing as you guys are together
i wouldnt worry about it, if shes nervous cause its her first time or whatever then she probably would be a bit confused but if it isnt her first time then she would know its good that your guy is turned on by you | |
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| how to prevent getting hard in bed with a woman?
Posted: 5/4/2009 3:24:55 AM | | Unless one or both of you is abnormal then you both got to know that getting in the sack with her will get you a boner. If it didn't then you should see a doctor fast. If you want to keep it down then you need to use it like go in the bathroom and masturbate a couple of times before bed or, more fun for you both, do it/get her to do it for you when you get into the bed. I'm assuming you are both sexually aware and open with each other and know each other's bodies - if you don't then it's time you did if you are sharing that bed. Don't fight it, enjoy it between you even if you still don't want penetrative sex YET. | |
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| how to prevent getting hard in bed with a woman?
Posted: 5/5/2009 4:13:58 PM | okay okay, first of all, if I was in a relatinship and was not ready for it to be sexual, you wouldn't find me anywhere near his bed or some where just as tempting. Now other than that I would definitely love the idea of being able to play as much as I wanted with someone who got hard that often. hehe
Whenever I needed to keep it down I just lightly pinch right behind my testicles. Instant anti-hard on.
ummm I didn't know whether to let my jaw drop or to laugh really really hard. I'll keep that in mind the next time I say no to my lover lol [if I ever get one] | |
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| how to prevent getting hard in bed with a woman?
Posted: 5/5/2009 4:30:39 PM | get a penis size reduction........ this will let you enjoy your erection, and best part is she'll never know!!!
frank
btw, did you ever make it all the way yet? or did you pull an american pie when she touched your zipper?
the fact that you said "down there" and that you seriously considered some of these suggestions as options tells me maybe your not ready.
ALSO: erections are as natural as a womans nipples stiffening... sometimes it happens for a reason, sometimes it doesn't. it's just the way it is. | |
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| how to prevent getting hard in bed with a woman?
Posted: 5/5/2009 4:34:47 PM | What I would do?
A. Get hard, be proud, not expect anything (yet continue to be myself).
or
B. Focus on something else... thinking about bugs, death and decay usually does it for me. | |
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