| | What are your first-date dealbreakers? Page 5 of 5 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5) | 1.When she does not let me give her a hug so that I can grope her.
2. Showing up with her husband and then stating he thinks you are cute too..
3. Meeting at the bar only to find out she works at the bar and well you know...
4. Asking me if I can help her move her furniture out or her exes house....
5. Stating that I remind her of her brother.
6. Getting up set with me because I hooked up with her sister prior to our first date.
7. Wanting to talk politics without knowing what the capitol of her own state is..
8. Stating that she wants to visit Europe one day when she has not even been to the Grand Canyon, the mountains, Canada, Mexico or even NYC. | |
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| What are your first-date dealbreakers?
Posted: 5/14/2009 3:22:43 PM | | Smokers! Ugh! Sorry but I just can't deal with that. Also when they are not polite and can't even say thank you for dinner - very rude! | |
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| What are your first-date dealbreakers?
Posted: 5/16/2009 2:56:26 PM | This happened years ago, but will never forget:
Blind date meeting in a restaurant. Introduced myself to the maitre d' as "the expected blind date" and he got this funny look on his face and asked me if I was sure ... I was puzzled but ignored that and said "lead on" ...
Got to the table, and the much-fatter-much-older-than-expected gentleman was already eating ... buffalo wings ... and had wing sauce ALL over his face (no lie!) - inches of the slop around his lips ... looked like clown makeup, buffalo style
Sat down ANYWAY (I know!) and watched him speak to me with one wing in his mouth and another in the other hand ... I ordered a soda, decided not to order food (getting my groove back here), waited (and waited!) for him to use a napkin or SOMETHING on his face and when he didn't I got up and walked away ...
Blech! LOL! | |
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| What are your first-date dealbreakers?
Posted: 7/7/2009 1:19:34 PM | | hey belladonna813. i tried to message you and it wouldnt let me. would you please email me at dljohnston2306@yahoo.com. i would love to get to know you..Derek | |
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| What are your first-date dealbreakers?
Posted: 7/7/2009 6:20:59 PM | | ummmmm....Djohnston... you do realize that the last time Belladonna posted on here was on 3/2/2009 . You may have missed her by several months. 4 months 5 days to be precise. Just thought I’d let you know. | |
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| What are your first-date dealbreakers?
Posted: 7/7/2009 11:06:37 PM | | Ok true story. I took this woman to lunch. I road 50 mils to give her a ride on my bike and go to lunch. She tells me about her soon to be abusive Ex. then starts to cry in the middle of lunch. tells me she has to go to court the next day. I tell her to be happy she will be done with the guy. Then she says that she has to go to court for atempted murrder. She had cut her soon to be EX with a knife and left him for dead after he stoped her on a back road. I got her home quik and never saw or heard from her again. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2009 6:36:00 PM |
Ok true story. I took this woman to lunch. I road 50 mils to give her a ride on my bike and go to lunch. She tells me about her soon to be abusive Ex. then starts to cry in the middle of lunch. tells me she has to go to court the next day. I tell her to be happy she will be done with the guy. Then she says that she has to go to court for atempted murrder. She had cut her soon to be EX with a knife and left him for dead after he stoped her on a back road. I got her home quik and never saw or heard from her again.
OMFGGGGGGGGGGGG | |
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| What are your first-date dealbreakers?
Posted: 7/9/2009 11:44:31 PM | well, after reading these, it sounds like some of us ladies are dating the same man or men...maybe a book or screenplay????seriously, i have thought of it, fictionalizing all parties of course...  | |
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| What are your first-date dealbreakers?
Posted: 7/10/2009 10:01:21 AM | | Not only that I had put a brandnew Helment($150.00) on her porch (she didn't want to wear it) and I was in such a hurry to get away I forgot it. No way I was going back. | |
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| What are your first-date dealbreakers?
Posted: 7/10/2009 10:10:27 AM | | I had another one (10 yrs older than her pic) I met for dinner after she wanted to get coffey. We had just sat down and I showed her my tattoo and she jumped up knoking her chair over and started screeming at me about devileing my body. Everyone was looking to see what she was screeming about. I thought about saying something about her being overwaight but didn't. I picked up the coffey and droped them in the trash and told her if she wanted a ride home to get in the truck. I droped her off and never saw or heard from her again. | |
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| What are your first-date dealbreakers?
Posted: 7/10/2009 9:18:00 PM | I met a guy at Down Town Disney who was very very late . I tried calling him to make sure he was alive and well and he never answered his phone. He apologized for being late and said he left his cell phone at home. Moments later it rang in his pocket. He acted shocked and surprised that he had it with him all the time, and it must have had some terrible malfunction. He was a terrible actor by the way. We went to dinner although I had already concluded this would be a one time meeting. He tried to be charming and make up for his poor behavior. I tried to be social. At the conclusion of dinner , he said you are not going to believe this but I forgot my wallet , I guess you will need to pay. I smiled and said I am afraid not. I rose from that table and walked away. I mentioned to the server on the way out that there is a possibility that the gentleman I was dining with may try to walk out without paying. He called me the next day to ask when he could see me again.
here are some dealbreakers for me...
He reeks of the very distinct odor of cigarettes.
He never stops talking about himself long enough to find out anything about me.
He has his eyes glued to my chest and never makes eye contact.
He intently watches the sporting event on the TV in the sports bar and I know that he has not heard a word I said.
He flirts with the waitress .
He speaks in three word sentences and has the intelligence of a amoeba .
He keeps calling me baby or sweetheart and never says my name once( since he unlikely has no idea what my name is) | |
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| What are your first-date dealbreakers?
Posted: 7/10/2009 11:45:13 PM | | Being dropped by Hammer73 at a restaurant door 25 miles from home and left there did it for me. He was polite and attentive right up until he peeled out of the parking lot. | |
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| What are your first-date dealbreakers?
Posted: 7/11/2009 5:04:31 AM | Seems like a woman scorned. Think there is another thread wondering around here about rules. Think this breaks a more serious rule. | |
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| What are your first-date dealbreakers?
Posted: 7/11/2009 5:19:36 AM | | Nope, I'm not breaking rules. Go back and read (if you can) the word "should". Also, stop acting like a child and grow up. The world does not revolve around "you". | |
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| What are your first-date dealbreakers?
Posted: 7/11/2009 5:31:45 AM | The problem is that every story has two sides. Wake up to that. Now, if he responds, we might have two different stories. We might have a war on our hands. Of course, you like wars. It's your nature. As Bob said, you show nothing but negative ideas and we are tired of it.
You even went so far as to accuse me of having another profile on POF. Lady (and I use that term very loosely), you need to get a life. I would not and need not change my profile or get another profile. I'm using the same name as I did years ago and have never changed it. I'm me and nobody else. Don't need to be anybody else and don't need somebody saying I'm somebody else either. | |
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| What are your first-date dealbreakers?
Posted: 7/11/2009 6:13:01 AM | Don't even need to show you. The ones here that have good memories will remember. I'm not tired of you. You are tired of you. "You" seems to be the only thing important. Again, go read what others have said. Not just me. Get a life!!! Get over things!!! Start a new life. One that is positive and not negative. Think of others feelings. Leave the "stick" at home. Others have suggested this too.
Right now, I am going to attend a memorial service for a friend of mine that died. A great person who never had anything. He respected people. I'll go and give him that respect that he deserves. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2009 7:22:10 AM | Cajun so sorry about the loss of your friend, its never easy saying goodbye to someone you care about . Life is funny sometimes, it seems like those who live their life on the straight and narrow, and are loving and kind are taken from us to soon. May peace be with you during these difficult times.
Leaving someone at a restaurant door is very poor behavior, but I think after I got over the initial surprise I would be thankful that he showed his true colors from the get go. Yes most often there are always two sides to a story and somehwere in the middle lies the truth. Sometimes it is just as it is. There is no way to justify leaving someone like that regardless of the reason. I think we all have felt like running off from time to time. Its far braver and respectful to simply indicate , I am sorry but I do not think you are right for me and end it properly. Kindness is such a dying art , we need to resurrect it. | |
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| What are your first-date dealbreakers?
Posted: 7/13/2009 1:53:30 PM | | I would say the first date deal-breaker is when my date has a criticism of me or something I do. It's the first date, basically you are being attacked by a stranger. | |
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| What are your first-date dealbreakers?
Posted: 7/17/2009 3:23:26 PM | hummm seem to be running in to a deal breaker already ongoing arguement here..
so.. deal breakers
Someone said...you don't look like your picture - most of the time I get "you look better than your picture."
Someone is late - such as, it's after 6pm and I am suppsoed to have a date tonite and haven't heard from him yet when it was confirmed earlier today.
Bad mouthing ex's ...well thats the reason they are ex's
MUCH older than they state
Implying sex is expected
Using the F word over and over
Not polite to waiter/waitress and leaves no tip or way too little
Wandering eyes instead of paying attention to me- then I would guess he would never know I got up and left 5 minutes ago
Not looking at me at all and avoiding eye contact
They state on their profile that they don't smoke and lights up anyway when I say I don't like it.
MUCH older than me and think they "deserve" someone much younger
Can't carry on a conversation
BO
Didn't bother to change from a sweaty dirty tshirt and flip flops for dinner
Suggest that the come to MY house for first meeting....
Suggest I come to THEIR house for a first meeting
there's more.. but lots of others have covered them already :) | |
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| What are your first-date dealbreakers?
Posted: 7/18/2009 8:50:41 PM | Going to her house after the comedy club and going into her room and the odor of sour laundry almost chokes me.
Telling me shes downed 2 bottles of wine before I even picked her up, then trying to be all up on me all night. Granted that one I had been dating for a lil while and sleeping with her. But that blatant drunkeness just isnt attractive. And was ground for termination for her.
Bad breath
Bad Kisser
Smacks thier food
Takes a bunch of medications for her mental problems at dinner | |
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| What are your first-date dealbreakers?
Posted: 7/20/2009 11:36:07 AM | If they took about their ex more than they talk about themselves.
If they're really negative.
If their idea of humor is making fun of everyone around them.
If they can't make eye contact.
If they call up stories that are really personal, and shouldn't be said to strangers.
If they come dressed as if they didn't care.
If they wear sunglasses most of the night.
If they can't hold a contrversial conversation without getting overly angry and rude.
If they can't have an intelligent conversation. | |
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