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Posted: 12/14/2004 2:25:08 AM | | Never on the first, shows how cheap you are if you give in that fast. | |
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Posted: 12/14/2004 2:37:51 AM | | HAI VEGINA GIRL H R U ? ARE U INTERESTED IN SEX PLEASE MAIL ME YO senthil-132002@yahoo.co.in | |
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Posted: 12/22/2004 9:39:26 AM | | Jen i agree with you, double standar again, sad but it is so!! | |
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Posted: 12/22/2004 5:33:30 PM | I have but only because I'm so slow to ask them out. By then they've known me for several weeks if not months and they don't give me much choice.
Apparently frustration is a powerfull aphrodisiac.
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Posted: 12/22/2004 6:34:39 PM | I will add my 3 cents worth in... There is no easy answer... I am not into one night stands, having said that I have never had sex on the first date that there were not many more dates after...
But here is a thing... barring love at first site, which does happen, there has to be some kind of chemistry there... I think it important that the issue is explored... But reserve the right to put it off to another night...
In the end, it is personal choice... but I will state, that if you have met, had a good evening, have that connection with the other person, you should at least let them know that they are driving you crazy... you just have to hit the balance and let them know that it is not all physical... assuming you are looking for something more than a fun romp in the sheets...
~~Dragon Rider~~
As the Dragon Spake, Magic Happens
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| sex on the date
Posted: 12/23/2004 7:06:52 PM | | I think it depends on how 2 people feel about each other. I'm sure almost everyone has at least had the opportunity for 1st date sex. I think most men wouldn't have a problem with it-and some women too...If neither party feels pressured to have sex and it's mutual, then who can judge them? | |
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Posted: 12/25/2004 2:01:57 AM | | Here is what you do, this plan has worked for me in the past. You meet someone new and the man is trying to get up your dress or in your pants. You say the following. I would like to move in with you. A guy will do anything to get laid and so he will most likley say sure why not. Now after the sex you will be there all moved in. You gots to be tricky like them guys. What they gonna do send you home. Nope I am stayin and if it does not work out well look at the bright side. You got laid and had a man for awhile and you did not have to worry about never seeing the person again. If it works then you can stay and maybe get married. It's always worked for me. If you get laid and don't move in the guy has nothing to think about and then moves on, but if your living with him then that is a different story. I knew a guy who might try to get some and leave so I asked to move in with him, this was awhile ago and yes I am single as I type this message. Anyway I moved in the first day I met him and had sex so many times I lost count. It did not work. However I got some sex and a man for about 7 months. Now if I would have gotten laid and not moved in I would have had sex and no man. See there is a plan for everything I do. Try it, it works. | |
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Posted: 12/25/2004 2:20:34 AM | | I'm not sure I have ever heard anything more pathetic. Why in the heck would anyone want to move in with anyone else when they first meet them. I think it's a pretty sad world when the two most important things to a woman are getting sex, and being able to say they have a man. I really hope that post was a joke. It is 4 in the morning, so maybe I'm just reading things wrong. God I hope so!!! | |
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Posted: 12/25/2004 2:27:45 AM | | Hey I was happy for about 3 months before things went bad. Men try to leave but I know how to make them stay and it all has to do with sex. I say: You only get sex when you let me move in with you and normally once that is said I was moved within a day or two. Sorry I do think it's funny. Take my advice how you will but I know how to keep a man for more than one day and it works. I have never experienced anything different. You move in and see how things go, sometimes good, sometimes not so good. I still will get what I want for as long as I can get it. I know how the game is played. I have fun so that is all that matter. Yes you read my post correctly and it's not because its 4 in the morning. | |
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Posted: 12/25/2004 4:47:46 AM | | nope i wait 6 months to a year before i think of kickin it , | |
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Posted: 12/25/2004 5:31:00 AM | RattQueen... I don't know whether to laugh, applaud, cry or invite you to move in.... but hey, if it works for you... go for it... AFter some of the heart break I have had, I am almost tempted to say what the hell, move in... at least you are honest and up front with it...
Have a good day...
~~Dragon Rider~~
As the Dragon Spake, Magic Happens
Merry Christmas | |
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Posted: 12/25/2004 5:41:55 AM | | Most people don't know if they should laugh, cry, or applaud when they read my post. You may do all three if you like. However I don't just move in because It's a man. I move in because if the person wants to have sex without knowing me and let's say I like them, well then I don't want to be left high and dry. If I am going to give myself away it's not going to be for free. Sometimes it works and sometimes It doesn't. My last marriage before the divorce, well it worked that way. I moved in about a few weeks after knowing the person and then we got married for about 10 years but it did not last. In fact I have known many men this way, even landlords are fun. This means I do not have to pay rent if I am giving sex, however some of them thought I should still pay rent. I thought, well ok no more sex for you until the rent comes down. Now if I were to meet a man and not live with them and had sex more and likley I would not see them again. I got wise and after I kept getting used I thought I need a plan and so I decided from then on if a guy wants to get it on with me then your moving me in, or go find your lay somewhere else. Now you may laugh or cry. LOL | |
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Posted: 12/25/2004 6:06:23 AM | Hon, I was NOT chastizing you, I was applauding your honesty and forthrightness... I find it sad that you have been used, you seem like a nice person, however I have to say I know that there are far too many users out there... I personally have never went for just sex or one night stands, my shortest relationship has been about 6 months and that one was more of a friend with benefits (before anyone coined that term, or at least before I had heard of it) we were very fond of each other, but she found her love and left... no biggie, I was invited to the wedding, ushered for them got a dance and had a blast.
Nor was I saying that I thought you shallow, saying that I might just ask you to move in was a (supposed attempt at early morning) humerous way of saying that I thought you were cute and appreciated where you were coming from... that was all...
Having said that, I do not "lay" chicks, there has to be some connection there and more interest than just the moment, matter of personal honor. So if you look at in that context, it is actually a compliment, meaning, you might be someone that could interest me and tempt me... please note though, MY intent is to find a life partner... that was all...
Merry Christmas...
~~Dragon Rider~~
As the Dragon Spake, Magic Happens
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Posted: 12/26/2004 12:36:09 PM |
would you have sex on the first date ?
Never! (OMG,.............d*mn......thats all I need, another inch added to this nose) | |
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Posted: 12/26/2004 12:42:15 PM | Too cute Robin
~~Dragon Rider~~
In sadness, the Dragon walks away
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| sex on the date
Posted: 12/26/2004 4:02:54 PM | Would I go all the way on the first date: No. Never.
My thinking:
If we have been just friends for a while, then nothing would happen beyond a kiss good night. The friendship could get damaged too easily. I wouldn't want to lose any of my long time friends due to actions occured during one night.
If we have been friends looking for a possible relationship in the future, I'd be willing to have a little fun on the first date but that's it.
Going all the way is something that wouldn't happen until we have been going out for a LONG time (>2 months) and see a very high chance of being together for a lot longer. | |
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Posted: 12/28/2004 8:39:54 AM | I don't see a problem with sex on the first date. At one time it was taboo and people thought bad of the practice, but I think that has changed socially. I don't see what harm comes of it provided both are willing and of age to make that decision.
People that are opposed to the practice, tend to not place themselves in the situation where it is even a remote possiblity.
Freedom to choose is important. But I think even more important is the realization that people are different and should not be judged for personal choices. | |
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