| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 11:02:44 AM |
I know a lot of people claim that love has no agenumber and I agree but there are limits! ~OP~ LOL ~ I'm afraid many won't understand your thought on this subject. I completely relate. Age is much more than just a number (or AARP wouldn't be in business. LOL) Seriously? I can't fathom dating someone much younger, or much older for that matter. I need someone who has experienced life in the same time-zones as myself. If you aren't comfortable with men my age ~ don't alter that thought. I tried to date older. It was too strange and it wasted his time and mine. No need to venture out of your own comfort zone, the only person you need to answer to is YOU!! Good luck to ya.  | |
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| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 11:06:26 AM | Still wondering how men in their 4os message you when you have your filter set to 19 -38?
If she consciously lowered it only to 38 that still seems odd to complain about a 40 year old. VVVV
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| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 11:08:36 AM |
also since your mail restrictions limit replies to men under 38, I don't see how that happens I think that since she stated the thread, she changed her mail settings when posters suggested it, myself included. : ) | |
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| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 11:13:53 AM |
Get rid of all your pics and just use your 6th photo there. I'm sure that will take care of it for you.
Hey Cornelius, this is the very image featured in the "Rate My Picture" section of her profile....
Assuming you didn't know her, and viewed that through the peep-hole of your front door, would you;
A. Answer the door.
B. Yell out, "No Thanks, I've already found the Lord!"
C. Release the hounds. | |
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| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 11:23:27 AM | My age restrictions are set to 15-17 and,...hey,...is that Chris Hansen on my porch?
I think Madame OP just needed some attention. Apparently there isn't a karaoke bar nearby.
Signed, Kevin, "I turn down 24 year old chicks because they dont know how to ****", (Insert Last Name Here) | |
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| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 11:30:54 AM | I hope this thread is a joke.
Any woman who thinks she can transition from a girl to a woman without being pursued by older men at least some point in her life has lost her credibility faster than I'm losing hair. | |
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| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 11:30:57 AM | | Might help to get rid of pics 3-6. People do like certain ages. Just put restrictions and make clear in your About me of age preference like someone has already mentioned. | |
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| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 11:40:43 AM | Hey 40 is the new 20 common!! LOL
Wait, is this an attention seeking post? Hmmmmm
Okay, here goes......
Seriously, you just look like a *child* to me. I guess that comes with age. I'm barely attracted to women *much younger* than me. That's just the way it seems to have been. I'd have thought I'd still be drooling over 20 year old *girls* into my 40's, but that's just not the case.
For what it's worth though, you look better in the non-made-up pic in your profile where you're just posing all goofy.
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| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 11:42:00 AM | Yeah I have the same problem, just can't imagine what a 40 year old wants with me. Get used to it, men will hit on you just in case. Just in case you might take the bite. Enjoy the attention, some day you may wish they would hit on you. | |
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| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 11:43:06 AM | ..........................................................................................................................................
Please don't mind my forumpostings. I enjoy seeing how people react on Internet. How people can ask for someone's opinion and then not be able to get other peoples' opinions.
from OPs profile .. nuff said.
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| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 11:53:44 AM | | One day you will be flattered to get attention from 40 year olds. OP, your original post was damn near demeaning to men over 40. You do realize that 40+ year old men have more of a freakin' clue than people in thier 20's on pretty much all aspects of life, little things like communication, sex, finances etc. I aint 40 but even I know this. If competing for the attention of a 30 year old woman vs a 40+ yo I'd view him as more of a threat than if he was a 30 year old. I hope you grow old fast and see the folly of our little put down of people 40+. I should state two things right now. At 37 I have no interest in dating 22 year olds. Not saying it impossible but not probable because of two main reasons. First of all she'd probably not know who White Snake, B52s, or REM is. Music is me, the generational gap on culture like that for me would be hard to accept even though I'd likel be familiar with her music. Secondly, and MOST importantly - Dating a girl 15 years younger than me just means I'd have to be putting up with the same BS I was putting up with 15 years ago. Most people dont have a good sense of identity till 25. | |
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| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 11:58:12 AM | MissEmpress
As my profile shows I have limited the age.... But still get messages from men that age.
And me naturally cant understand why a man would date someone that is as old, a wee younger or a bit older than his own children. That makes me almost think of pedophelia.
It just grosses me out and I honesty think that those men wanting young ladies at my age should wait for those ladies to contact them instead of contacting me like that. I wouldnt harrass young men at 24 years of age if I wanted a lambsteak when I get older. | |
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| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 12:04:13 PM | lol, sorry. Well one thing to consider is that this is the internet. People feel more free on the net and less intimidated to do things such communicating. I use to go to chat rooms and talk junk to people but would not dare to do that in person. If those men saw you in person I doubt any of them would walk up to you and start talking to you. Ex: if you saw a hot guy on the street, would you go talk to him in person or would you feel more comfortable starting a conversation with him on the net? I think a lot of people would prefure the net espectially if they feel they could be told "no" because they wouldn't have to see the other persons face and be embarassed. Another theory is, they do it for the fun of it just to see what would happen. Don't let they get to you mentally, you should physically be safe. As for me, if we saw eachother in the same room, I might would step up and say something to you just so i could say I did. Well hope my wise words are helpful at understanding the mentally challenged, lol. | |
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| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 12:05:14 PM | Procolharem
You have to set the border somewhere and I think there is a huge difference between saying "someone in the fourties" and a 40 year old.
But since you are a selfoutnamed oracle maybe you can tell me what agelimit I should put?
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| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 12:07:29 PM | ^^^ Expand it to 52 so I can message you.
Point being is 38 realistic for you or not? Seems too old frankly so I wouldn't aim much higher than 30 if I were you. | |
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| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 12:26:19 PM | In this particular case, I'd say they're not out for stimulating conversation. I'll make sure there are two lines here so you can read between them. | |
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| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 12:29:02 PM | Hey OP, well your pictures are the kind that attract older men to younger women, but
God bless viagra!
Do you remember posting that comment in a sex formum recently? I think you got the attention you wanted, but now claim you don't! | |
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| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 12:39:30 PM | | Many of your pictures are suggestive and sleazy. The first 1/2 you look older than stated age. Cornelius pegged it with his suggestion for you to eliminate the pics and use #6. You don't want older men hitting on you,then don't post trashy pictures. | |
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| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 12:52:50 PM | Real Beauty, is internal, however u have been blessed to have that same beauty, on the outside, as well. For yes, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, for its has no limits on it. And Age well let me say this: Its a State of Mind! And finally, Youth is not measured, by ones Birthday, Youth is measured in fact by One's Death Date.. So if your 24 and you Die at 26 that one is old, however, if one is 44 and Dies at 94, the are young. So youth is not measured by ones birthday, Youth is measured by ones death date. For you Young lady, are truly lovely, and i would as many others, i'm sure, would surly want to take a stroll with you, and be proud of it, as well! | |
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| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 1:01:41 PM |
And me naturally cant understand why a man would date someone that is as old, a wee younger or a bit older than his own children Well, I don't have any children.
It just grosses me out and I honesty think that those men wanting young ladies at my age should wait for those ladies to contact them instead of contacting me like that. That wouldn't work any better than waiting for women our own age to contact us. We're guys. All we know is that when see a woman, we're supposed to grunt and then tackle her.
I wouldnt harrass young men at 24 years of age if I wanted a lambsteak when I get older. Then you better get all the lambsteak you can now. | |
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| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 1:13:43 PM |
As my profile shows I have limited the age.... But still get messages from men that age.
This doesn't make any sense. A person that doesn't meet your age restrictions would not be able to contact you. Unless you had contacted them first. | |
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| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 1:18:12 PM | if you dont ask you dont get! and if you dont like it then go somewhere else | |
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| What is wrong with men? Posted: 2/13/2009 1:24:39 PM | A.S.is
I am impressed you can read
Want a biscuit? Oh, isn't that just lovely. Allegedly clueless AND an attitude. 2 attributes that any man would find irresistible.
Sweetie, I find it very hard to believe that at 24 years old, you are sooo perplexed by the older man/younger woman thing. I also don't understand why, if you don't want to hear from older men, you don't have your email settings at a lower age - I mean THAT would solve the problem you're having.
On the semi-bright side:
Please don't mind my forumpostings. I enjoy seeing how people react on Internet. How people can ask for someone's opinion and then not be able to get other peoples' opinions. At least you changed THIS on your profile. However, the cat is already out of the bag. | |
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