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| What is wrong with men?
Posted: 3/13/2009 5:39:00 PM | | Well, then, for you apparently there is an age number. Nothing wrong with that. Personally, I don't quite get guys who want relationships with women young enough to be their daughters. It doesn't seem a whole lot different from a 25 year old wanting to have a relatinship with a ten year old, except, of course, that a young woman can make decisions for herself about sex, money, living arrangements, etc. But, otherwise, she's intellectually, experientially, and emotionally immature compared to him. I suppose, though, that in many cases it's immature older men who want to date much younger women. | |
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| What is wrong with men?
Posted: 3/13/2009 8:16:40 PM | | Just hold that thought OP, the day will come (sooner than you can possibly imagine) when you will love to get emails from men over 40! Just keep living. | |
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| What is wrong with men?
Posted: 4/18/2009 12:56:00 AM | What do they seriously think? :
They think you're attractive
That I would want to date someone that could be easily my father?:
Yeah, that's actually normal. This society is turned upside down so it seems gross.
Seems like older men aren't your preference. Just change your preference and the problem would be solved
I wish you the best. Have a wonderful day | |
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| What is wrong with men?
Posted: 4/18/2009 11:30:22 AM | I believe problems like these are best adressed this way.
I am having an experience that I do not like.
(older men are contacting me and I do not like it)
These men are acting in according with their nature (because the problem has formed a pattern).
Therefore I take responsibility for what is happening, it is not something wrong in them, rather something not right with myself.
Now... three approaches to most problems...
1. I could either choose to change the situation (communicate more clearly, present myself differently).
2. Leave the situation (accept that that's just the nature of a certain percentage of older human males in the current cultural environment) and stop internet dating.
3. Or I could change myself and not be so hung-up on intergenerational flirting. | |
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| What is wrong with men?
Posted: 4/19/2009 10:49:11 PM | OH MY GOSH! CALL 911. WHAT DO EXPEST FROM ON-LINE DATING? YOUR PRETTY STUCK ON YOURSELF IF ASK ME. I WAS 24 ONCE AND NOWI'M DOOMED AT 41-ACTUALLY, I'M IN THE BEST SPACE I HAVE EVER BEEN IN. I HAVE NEVER DATED ANYONE THAT WAS NOT AT LEAST 10 YEARS OLDER THAN ME BECAUSE I DON'T SEEM TO HAVE ANY CONNECTION. I'M AN EDUCATED, SELF DEPENDANT WOMAN WHO IS NOT LOOKING FOR "MY DADDY" I'M JUST LOOKING FOR SOMEONE WHO HAS SOMETHING BETWEEN THEIR EARS, NOT JUST BELOW THE BELT-BUT I LIKE THAT TOO. EVEN THOSE "OLD MEN" WILL CERTAINLY SURPRISE YOU IN MANY AREAS. SO,, I WOULD GET OFF MY HIGH HORSE BEFORE YOU GET BUCKED. THOSE PICTURES AREN'T ALL THAT EITHER-JUST MY OPINION-SORRY IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT BUT YOU PUT IT OUT THERE. ONE DAY WHEN WAKE UP AND YOUR 40 AND SAY"S.... I WAS JUST 24 YESTURDAY, REMEMBER WHAT YOU WROTE ABOUT THE "MEN OVER 40" | |
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| What is wrong with men?
Posted: 4/19/2009 11:04:19 PM | | The other way around for me. I shag off a 24 yr old man at work. He got the message. | |
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| What is wrong with men?
Posted: 4/20/2009 6:59:30 PM | | Well for one your name is misssynne(miss>sin) is that correct ? You never heard the term dirty ol'man? That starts at 40 honey. You might want to state in a blunt way your age pref. and be a little rude about it , due to some idiots may not get it at first. | |
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| What is wrong with men?
Posted: 4/23/2009 8:05:42 AM | | You would be surprised how many younger women are looking for slightly older gents. =) Not to mention some women post awful naugty pics on the verge of nudity & wonder why guys comment. thx | |
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| What is wrong with men?
Posted: 4/23/2009 1:17:07 PM | | fellatrice, I think you should start a web site for thinking adults, who look, act and feel young, but have the wsidom to know the difference ! | |
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| What is wrong with men?
Posted: 4/23/2009 1:20:57 PM | Oh? EWWWW!! People over 40. Are you serious?? This is the internet, darling. There are ways not to get mail from those icky 40 year olds.
You're a year older than me and it actually goes to show that maturity definitely isn't in the age a person is.
I needed a good laugh for the day. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!
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| What is wrong with men?
Posted: 4/23/2009 1:31:52 PM | Thank you for posting that, ellatrice. As a woman, we are bombarded continuously with images and celebrities who are telling us that we need to be thinner, prettier, have larger breats and no waist. Nothing whatsoever that tells us that beauty is on the inside, and if you believe that, you must be fat or ugly. lol. People age, it's a fact. Accept it with dignity. I, personally, want those laugh lines. :)
THANK YOU!! You made my day as well, and I can only hope that ANY woman of ANY age, reads what you wrote and LISTENS. | |
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Posted: 4/23/2009 6:25:34 PM | When she told me "You're old enough to be my daddy!" I replied, "Yeah, and just my luck that you don't believe in incest!"     | |
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| What is wrong with men?
Posted: 4/23/2009 9:48:22 PM | | I think just as ppl get older they miss there youth and figure if they have someone young something will come back just like older women looking for the younger guys with lots of "energy" old men do the same thing. Its just a little less socially acceptable i guess. If you dont want them around tell them where to go. | |
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| What is wrong with men?
Posted: 4/23/2009 9:58:24 PM | Some relationships like that work out. For instance my brother is 43 and he just married a chick i graduated highschool with. She's 24. Many men look good in their old age. Genetics and lifestyle has a lot to do with it as well. Luckily goodgenes runs in my family   . Me personally, the oldest guy i dated was 36. He looked WAY younger and was so smoking hot i could not resist myself. Wouldn't date older than that though. When it comes to settling down i want someone within a few years of my age. 24-32. | |
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| What is wrong with men?
Posted: 4/23/2009 10:14:18 PM | I must be honest us men have many flaws...I will tell you the real scoop because I am a man with marriage and relationship experience If that is the aspect of mens flaws you want to truely know about..This is just one flaw I will speak in depth about so OP can understand....
1.Men tend to set high expectations for his life and go after what they want.However
this is not the problem. The problem is when that is not achieved with ones best
efforts a man will spin out of control until he is grounded again to try again because
men can be hard on themselves and purge that with a crazy lifestyle until goodness
and lifes beauties are desired again and the courage is mustered up to try again.
its a little like our personal vacation from the real world..
2. Men want what they want and tend to get it by anymeans which can hurt a lot of
people in the end.
3. Men like woman get what they want by anymeans possible to fill our inner need
to be wanted. Its only human nature.
Just my outlook on it.
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| What is wrong with men?
Posted: 4/24/2009 4:29:09 AM | NOTE: Our life experience is based upon how we look at and respond to our outer circumstances.
All human beings were created with "FREE WILL". As a result, we have a right to express ourselves in any which way we so desire - regardless of who thinks what. It is up to each individual to use his or her free will in a manner that would make them happy and comfortable, without causing any emotional or phsycal pain to others.
Ok! what does all this gibberish mean.? Simply focus on the things/people you want to experience in your life and disregard all others. In other words, if you continue to receive letters from men my age - of which you're obviously interested in - either do not respond or, politely respond telling them, you're not interested.
Rather than become emotional over the issue and create negative energy within your personal energy field - which would only serve to lower your vibration - simply set up your mail settings with the appropiate filters and those that slip through can then be easily be discarded by the simple click of your mouse...then life goes on.
It's that simple. | |
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| What is wrong with men?
Posted: 4/24/2009 4:41:51 AM | People are so hung-up on matters that are of no importance to their well being, it's amazing...not to mention humorous. Those things that ARE important go totally unchecked. No wonder there's so much stress and the various illinesses that result from it.
The sad part is that the majority of folks are tuned in to the same frequency spectrum, thereby creating a consciousness form which exerts a gravitational pull on the mass consciousness, without anyone realizing it.
Most people seem to go along with whatever "Simon says" without questioning or reaching "within" for a higher understanding... | |
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| What is wrong with men?
Posted: 4/24/2009 5:00:44 AM | You can set age limits on who you want to contact you.
This gets asked at least once a week here.
They like girls your age. That's the answer. Some girls your age don't mind older men. | |
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| What is wrong with men?
Posted: 4/24/2009 5:30:39 AM | Fellatriceafficiando=then when they get past 25 and their weapon of choice starts to wither and die. Quote
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So you are washed up at 25 hilarious.Twenty five is just a young girl, 45 maybe but women still look great at 45.I run every day and eat healthy nutritious foods.I never felt better and am in mature,wise, joyful place.
I looked at your profile and the reason you are having trouble with the giggling girls, is they are girls not mature women.Try an older woman, who is past the validation, look at me stage.A sorted adult who knows themselves.
You are indeed a handsome accomplished man, but seeking love or relationships skills from young people is futile.They have not learned them yet.Every pot has a lid and an older pot needs an older lid.What would you take hunting a pup or an older experienced canine.You will not get , what you want from young women at 52.
I have just deleted a message from a 30 year old.The experience and calm older men scorn, young men desire. ironic.I would not consider dating a 30 year old kid, we would have nothing in common.Stop blaming the women and fish in the right , pond. | |
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Posted: 4/24/2009 6:53:45 AM | | because if you're a good looking bird. We dont care how old you are! | |
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Posted: 4/24/2009 9:20:05 AM | LEARN OUR LANGUAGE!! quote
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Theres your trouble right there, you are rude and obnoxious.I bet I speak your language as you call it, better than you.I was polite to you and did not personally insult you.Why cant you state your case, without being insulting.Like a lot of men on here. you have anger issues with women.
I was not starting a gender war just answering your insulting post, that denigrated women.
Years ago when women had harder lives, so they aged faster, now women look good at any age.Girls do not "start" to deteriorate at 25 not even 35.A healthy diet andgood habits will keep anyone looking good for longer.We dont flaunt ourselves on the beach for mens eyes, we like dressing that way, for us.We do , what we for ourselves, to feel good.Your ideas of womens behaviour are askew and bordering on unstable.
You have a high opinion of yourself, you may pass for forty in a good light but not thirty, dont fool yourself.The young girls dont fancy you, accept it and go for wiser choices.The pup remark was a metaphor, look it up , since your English is so good.Learn some manners, while you are at it.Thats my last word on the subject,I do not argue with vain egotists. | |
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Posted: 8/18/2009 11:14:40 AM | | Maybe he does not have a daughter, but I do I do not worry about a man in a mall looking at her or even my granddaughter, as I raised my girls to repect themselves and to be confident in who they are, and most of all to be aware of where they are and also there surroundings. I have complete faith in her as a grown woman and even at the age of 16. She knows what is right or wrong, and she did not get this from her mother she got it from me and my father as her mother gave up her rights when she was 5 yrs old. One last thing how do you know she is to young or cute for them, I have found that a good mojority of men and women here misrepersent themselves here with bad pictures and lie about thier ages. | |
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