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 joonya_

Joined: 9/22/2008
Msg: 51
How long should sex last?
Posted: 2/17/2009 1:18:51 PM
17.987236984364353-9543593785 minutes....
 Mtl_WI_guy

Joined: 2/12/2009
Msg: 52
How long should sex last?
Posted: 2/17/2009 1:31:22 PM
A recent scientifical study indicates that sex between a man and woman should last no more than 12.04 minutes as this is the universal time it takes for a man and woman to both achieve orgasm.

12 minutes of rigorous clitoral and g-spot stimulation for the woman and 4 seconds(or 2 long, slow pumps )for the man.
 InTheseShoes

Joined: 2/6/2009
Msg: 53
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Posted: 2/17/2009 1:40:02 PM
Sex is more than just getting off.

The correct answer is, sex with the right person should last a lifetime.

Yes I know, you think I am dreaming...but I had it once.

I am still holding out for the second act...

Shoes
 fancynanci

Joined: 8/21/2007
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Posted: 2/17/2009 4:24:35 PM
with me???? Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...all night long
 just the forums

Joined: 4/12/2008
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Posted: 2/17/2009 9:45:55 PM
Until she starts to snore? Perhaps paying attention to your partner/s may give you the answer you seek.

jtf
 Blondecharmthe3rd

Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 56
How long should sex last?
Posted: 2/18/2009 2:50:12 AM
Twelve minutes to achieve orgasm????? For the men who have been with me, they would laugh hard enough to bust something.... some of us cum WAY quicker than that. But thats the joy of being an individual. It varies, and thats what is fun about it.

But... I would rather have someone go too long than not long enough. There is nothing worse than being wound up with a short hitter. I hate to have to rely on toys.
 sharpma

Joined: 10/10/2008
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Posted: 2/18/2009 4:32:04 AM
Makin love for two.
Makin love for two minutes.
When it`s with me you only need two minutes, cause Im so intense. Two minutes in heaven is better than one minute in heaven. You say something like, "Is that it?" I know what you`re trying to say. You`re trying to say, "Aww yeah, that`s it." Then you tell me you want some more. Well I`m not surprised. But I`m quite sleepy!

But in all honesty i have never looked at the clock and do not trust my sense of time while doing it, but a rough guess (and this is just the sex part) i'd say 7-10 minutes. Any longer i get bored.
 desykek

Joined: 2/1/2009
Msg: 58
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Posted: 2/18/2009 6:04:42 AM
Yeah, this is just one of those questions that really depend on the individuals. Everyone has different wiring, and anatomy. I read somewhere that there's a large percentage of women who still have yet to experience a "multiple orgasm".

I remember spending an entire day in bed on vacation with my ex...granted I may have only orgasmed twice that day, the rest of it was just enjoying the intimacy of intercourse...and trying many many positions that wouldn't necessarily stimulate me to have an orgasm. I'd be lying if I didn't say I was sore some of the time.

I can count the number of intimate partners in one hand...(one mutated, 3 fingered hand... lol), and would say that on average, love making takes anywhere betweeen 30 mins to an hour with careful pacing, and when it lasts an hour, building up the energy creates an enormously powerful orgasm.
 itsmeaaron

Joined: 4/2/2007
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Posted: 2/18/2009 8:57:04 AM
until you're both satisfied, so i would say it varies.
 *buzz*

Joined: 6/1/2006
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Posted: 2/18/2009 12:22:33 PM
Two people in tune don't bother with time ... actually t i m e should never be a factor to consider such a delicate quality
 owzabout

Joined: 5/7/2007
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Posted: 2/18/2009 12:31:51 PM
Depends if you like your eggs hard or soft boiled!
 spitfire6844

Joined: 6/30/2007
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Posted: 2/18/2009 1:28:12 PM
OP: There is no set answer. Time for foreplay and intercourse should vary widely, depending on mood, horniness, extenuating circumstances, time of day, sleepiness/wakefulness, and relative health. Putting a clock on sex makes it a job and a chore. You might as well set up a time-clock and use signed time-cards----punch in and punch out.....maybe even distribute paychecks to your wife/girlfriend for a job well done! You know what I mean?

It doesn't work. Let desire and the needs of the moment dictate the length of time.
 owzabout

Joined: 5/7/2007
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Posted: 2/18/2009 6:33:40 PM
Until the plane is about to land?!
 genababy

Joined: 7/15/2007
Msg: 64
How long should sex last?
Posted: 2/18/2009 7:53:50 PM
Well I must say if you do her right you should not have to be more than 20 min. I had a problem with my x, the minute he put it in he would blow. If I would give him a Bj he might last 2 mins. He would cum if I would have any 4 play. Whats up with that guys????????
 tallmat1972

Joined: 9/18/2008
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Posted: 2/18/2009 8:29:34 PM
gena6969-if your ex came too quickly and you got all miffed about it, that could be a downer for him the next time he tried to "perform". It's called having confidence and experience on your side, something only tranny girls understand. I have no idea why women have such a problem with guys who blow their load too quickly. It happens to everyone. It's like how women fake orgasms. They all do it once in their life. We don't complain about it. You shouldn't either.

As for those of you who commented on someone not being normal having sex more than 90 minutes. Been there, done it. Gone for 4 hours before and we both got sore as hell from it. But it was amazing sex!
 the_NoBsTeR666

Joined: 4/29/2008
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Posted: 2/18/2009 9:10:12 PM
i got a problem with this....the last dozen women i was with couldn't keep up with me...i would perform for over an hour and they would have wild orgasms and fall asleep before i would even get to finish.
i would do everything u could think of....kissing, touching, foreplay, oral, anal, vaginal, and a wide variety of positions. sure, i would sweat my butt off, give my all, have the ladies cum then have them fall asleep on me.
what can i do? how can i perform and get these ladies off and get my chance to get off?
 tantramana

Joined: 12/30/2008
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Posted: 2/19/2009 3:25:37 AM
its different for everybody. i am not satisfied with a quickie, unless it is all i can get at that moment. i like to push it past 45 min. or so, but 15 min later i want it again. its kind of a burden.

i once dated a girl who preferred multiple quickies rather than long sessions, but she was one of the easier ones to get off, so that could have something to do with it.

i heard somewhere that 7 to 10 min. is considered the goldie locks zone.
 *Just Jim*

Joined: 7/6/2007
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Posted: 2/19/2009 7:20:59 AM

actually t i m e should never be a factor to consider such a delicate quality


Yes Bond girl, it's always nice to know a few considered sex more then just a act.

jmho
 UnzippedPassion

Joined: 10/30/2005
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Posted: 2/19/2009 7:45:19 AM

The correct answer is, sex with the right person should last a lifetime.
Great answer!

I don't think there is a time limit and it's different for every couple and every session. I'd hope each session lasts until both parties are satisfied though!

 blonde chickie

Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 70
How long should sex last?
Posted: 2/19/2009 8:07:04 AM
If I am with a guy that is awesome having sex with me, then I can go on for along time.

Til we we both pass out
 CMonster

Joined: 12/4/2004
Msg: 71
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Posted: 2/19/2009 11:48:17 AM

The correct answer is, sex with the right person should last a lifetime.

That is a good answer, even if you're with the wrong person and during act you find yourself saying "Please, somebody shoot me now..."
 denim_daze

Joined: 1/17/2009
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Posted: 2/19/2009 7:42:02 PM

Til both parties orgasm or she fakes it


lol!

i remember reading in someone's post that actual intercourse lasted anywhere between 3 minutes to a half hour?? i can't remember for sure how long it was quoted. its not something i actually time, but im sure some men and women have a lot more stamina than others.
 kpooks

Joined: 12/23/2008
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Posted: 2/19/2009 8:30:16 PM
Depends on the man and woman and his/her preference. Impossible to generalize. Why don't you ask the woman of your desires?
 groovychick67

Joined: 12/19/2007
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Posted: 2/19/2009 8:44:01 PM
If you ask my ex-husband he would say 30 seconds. (I'm not joking )

How long should it last? I think it probably depends on the mood of the sex. If you are playing and teasing then usually short lived until each has an orgasm and the same for just hardcore ****ing!

But if we are talking about romantic lovemaking or some scene play then the orgasm is not even the goal in my opinion.....its the erotic journey to get there and that could take a couple of hours!
 genababy

Joined: 7/15/2007
Msg: 75
How long should sex last?
Posted: 3/4/2009 9:27:21 PM
(tallmat1972)When I pull my panties off I expect at least for him to try! I never made him feel bad about it. I do all the work to get it up and end up with a big mess to clean and no satification! You dam right US WOMEN should be pissed as hell!!!!!!!! I can't help that I am good at it so that make me a bad person? o I was with him for over a year and never changed!
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