| How long should sex last?
Posted: 3/28/2009 6:09:46 PM | As long as it takes you to get each other off.....never good to leave your partner wanting more once you get yours | |
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| How long should sex last?
Posted: 3/28/2009 10:37:48 PM | | no such thing as premature ejaculation. whenever i climax its right on time. | |
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| How long should sex last?
Posted: 3/29/2009 2:42:02 AM | | I remember someone who used to think it was impressive to go on and on an on - so long that I'd get bored and go off the boil. Wasn't impressive, just frustrating. Actual time doesn't matter, but the guy being able to read the cues and hold back until the right moment, but then deliver the goods - that's far more important. | |
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| How long should sex last?
Posted: 3/29/2009 11:42:18 AM | "It really does depend on the partner. You said actual intercourse though and I think that is limited to your endurance as well as your mate's. Sex does not have to end at orgasm. You'd be suprsed how many women lose interest after thier own orgasm, bit perplexing cause it's the guys that get that rep."
Well I suppose I do too but I have never thought it was a problem as they are either trying their best to orgasm at the same time or at least not cross the finish line before me! There is a BIG difference between a guy finishing first...with a woman it doesn't have to be over but with a guy it pretty much is.
"For most women if we have to pump and hold out for the amount of time it took you to cum... or NOT cum... our junk would actually catch fire."
LMAO!!! We wouldn't want THAT now!
"If a man is having regular sex with his partner then he has much more control of how long he can last."
Not necessarily true!
And gena6969 I felt your pain!!!
The only thing to do in that situation is to have him go down on you first as you will have no chance of it later!
I've had the problem of sex not lasting long enough. I find that if there is enough foreplay I won't take too long. But one guy I went out with, for the sake of privacy we'll call him Quick Draw McGraw, he could NEVER last long enough! Even after almost two years we were together so it was not New Girl Syndrome! So yes, cunnilingus IS a girl's best friend in those situations! Actually cunnilingus IMHO is a girl's best friend period but in those situations cunnilingus can be a girl's ONLY friend! At least he was great at that!
"Guys should be able to spend bewteen 4-10 hours having fun with his girl."
I like sex and all, I'd like it every night, but I don't want to be doing ANYthing for 4 - 10 hours unless it's sleeping! Maybe I have sexual ADD but like the other poster said...I've got other things to do!
For me great sex is when we come together but if that's not possible then at least be a gentleman...Ladies first!!! | |
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| How long should sex last?
Posted: 3/29/2009 12:06:47 PM | Depends on how long the movie or tv show I'm trying to watch at the same time lasts!
 
OK if you can't walk afterwards, it was probably too long
If you're weak in the knees, then it was long enough... and good
If you can pop right up with no woosiness, then you make want to pop over to someone's else house who can make you weak in the knees | |
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| How long should sex last?
Posted: 3/31/2009 9:57:59 AM | Until the paramedics are called, and they drag your naked sore bodies away in an ambulance!!! Why should timing be the issue and not the enjoyment factor? I've enjoyed quickies, lasting 20 minutes or so, to long drawn out lovemaking fests lasting four hours. Of course, in the latter, there was position changing, oral, kissing and other things, NOT just thrusting for a world record!
If you're watching the clock during sex, then your mind is definitely NOT where it should be! | |
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| How long should sex last?
Posted: 3/31/2009 10:34:35 AM | If you have an erection that lasts for more than four hours..........seek medical help immediately........
OT.......The act itself is just one part of love making, and I think the total of the experience should be included in the time factor.
What is important is to have the both of you satisfied enough to not want more then and there, and just rest and recover from the experience.
With practice and knowing each other, the best case would be to have her reach multiple orgasms, and when ready and the timing is right, you reach with her on that last one, but that does not have to be the end result each and every time.
There are love making sessions where it can be devoted more for her, and some devoted more for you, and once relaxed enough with each other, you take turns and accomplish both all within the same session, and time will be of little interest because when it is great, time seems to stop!!!!
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| How long should sex last?
Posted: 3/31/2009 11:18:37 AM | Wow...I am continually amazed at the different answers that some of these questions get....
It is a preference thing-I guess.....how long should sex last? Until both parties are satisfied....and you know when she's/he's satisfied....if she's/he's into you at all....anywhere from 5-30 minutes of the actual act.....
What is normal? Again, that's a tough question to answer....in a past relationship....my partner couldn't last 3 minutes....said it was my fault....to this day-he still wants us to get back together....I'm not going there-not because of the sex....the sex was good....
In my last relationship....the man could go for hours....said his mind was somewhere else....but wouldn't get off until I told him that it was time....
Is there really a normal....what's normal for me may not be normal for the next person.... | |
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Joined: 6/2/2006
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| How long should sex last?
Posted: 4/2/2009 12:19:53 PM | | i don't think i'm that normal but i like sex and i mean he act to last at least an hour includs ****ing sucking fingering and doing her till she cums over and over and at least once in my mouth mmmmm might be a little greedy there but oh well! | |
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| How long should sex last?
Posted: 4/3/2009 6:40:14 AM | | Its not about how long, but what you get out of it. My last relationship was great in that way because we had mutual satisfaction, which is very cool, and it doesn't always happen that way. | |
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Joined: 8/29/2007
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| How long should sex last?
Posted: 4/13/2009 10:35:38 PM | Its not about how long, butThe loner it last the better.lot of women parts needs to be massage,lubricating plus... ending in 10 minutes, what could anyone get out of it? very litle....My openion anyway. I guess every one could be different
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| How long should sex last?
Posted: 4/22/2009 5:57:42 AM | You were great  and everything you said is right on the mark she doesn't even have to keep on reading ! Go Girl !!!!!! | |
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| How long should sex last?
Posted: 4/22/2009 7:48:15 PM | | Well, no one wants to be the one wishing they could watch paint dry instead. If the couple is creative, time is no issue. No time limit or time of the day, really. Depends on the two people. That's why I guess men took Viagra so they could do it for hours or do it at all. Don't limit yourself to just the bedroom. To have time consuming sex, think about 'painting the house' . lol. You really should be asking mje2008 about that in the thread he put up about using sex as a weight loss aid. | |
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| How long should sex last?
Posted: 4/22/2009 7:51:31 PM | it should be 1-3 hours......depends on how many times your partner can cum :) hopefully 4 times | |
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| How long should sex last?
Posted: 5/11/2009 8:38:02 PM | | it should last however long it lasts. there is no universal answer. women will let you know if it's taking too long by getting dry (even when theyre lying, as they do innately). Men will generally go as long as you'll let us. | |
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| How long should sex last?
Posted: 5/11/2009 8:39:04 PM | | (women generally get dry 10-20 minutes after getting off and then you have to start all over again (god willing) | |
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| How long should sex last?
Posted: 5/11/2009 9:32:53 PM | I think it all depends on the situation leading to it.
Slow and romantic love making should take a couple hours(at least!). That would include foreplay.
Sex that is a little rougher should last, at max, an hour, not including foreplay. Any longer then that, and I hurt!
My preference is the slow and passionate though....Mmmmm  | |
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| How long should sex last?
Posted: 5/12/2009 6:48:24 AM | Does there have to be some predetermined time frame for intercourse?
I think not.
It lasts as long as it lasts. Till both come to climax or till someone interrupts you.
That happens in parking lots. Darn mall police! | |
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| How long should sex last?
Posted: 5/12/2009 8:53:22 AM | its all relative depending on time/location/situation :
1. in the car on the way home from a party could be a 10 minute job on the bonnet lol
2. sunday...all day ...with breaks for food , papers, dvd...just keeping things topped up.....hmmm
3. cooking dinner and your partner likes the look of your ass as you slide the chicken into the oven lol....could be a quick 5 minute job before you have to strain the peas lol
4. At a friends house party...5 min fast one in the bathroom!
5. Bedtime work day...aynthing from 3 - 30 mins lol
6. After work to relax could be a few hours working your way around the house.
So no firm rule, just go with the flow and make time if you want a long session then you can draw out the fun...with lube you can keep it going hourssssssssss :) | |
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| How long should sex last?
Posted: 5/12/2009 11:43:24 AM | LOL OP you strike me as an intelligent type, so why the idiotic question?
Are you looking at your watch or do you set a timer? | |
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| How long should sex last?
Posted: 8/3/2009 9:15:04 AM | I always have to kiss and play for frist 30 min
than do the rest from 20 to 40 min
and by the time should in off for her....: | |
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