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 Author Thread: What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
 Jolie76

Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 76
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 6/27/2005 4:23:44 PM
reccon10...
Sounds like a challange!
 Jolie76

Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 77
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 6/27/2005 4:27:29 PM
@ SublimeGuyy
Hey was wondering when you were going to pop in!....Think you can keep up???
 Offmyrocker

Joined: 6/23/2005
Msg: 78
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 6/27/2005 4:28:24 PM
I decided no more sex 10 years ago around age 54. There was good reason for it. It made me a very angry man. So angry, now I want to just kill people. Nobody messes with me,and i don't mess with anybody either.
 greycat

Joined: 4/18/2005
Msg: 79
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 6/27/2005 4:47:32 PM
No problems here in the late 30's.
 HAHANOW

Joined: 9/28/2004
Msg: 80
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 6/27/2005 4:58:37 PM
Try a man in his 30's It does get better.
 Jolie76

Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 81
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 6/27/2005 5:00:54 PM
So Seriously Then...How Many Men Between The Ages Of 25-35 Will Give It Up On A Daily Basis????????No lying either......be truthfull!..If you cant or wont then just dont respond!
 biziedizie

Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 82
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 6/27/2005 5:01:40 PM
HAHANOW I will get on that right away.
 bugsybears

Joined: 10/6/2004
Msg: 83
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 6/27/2005 5:06:04 PM
oh hahanow. where is that pretty smile of yours? ot: even at 45, i can still enjoy sex on a daily basis and is geared more towards satisfying her than myself.
 New-Beginnings

Joined: 12/19/2004
Msg: 84
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 6/27/2005 5:22:35 PM
Good lord! I am 36 almost 37, and my "mojo" is screaming! I am more horny than when I was 18 for crying out loud. I thought it decreased with age too, heck mine just keeps getting stronger.
 greycat

Joined: 4/18/2005
Msg: 85
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 6/27/2005 5:22:46 PM
If I was madly, passionately and emotionally in love with my "squeeze" and felt all of those wonderful things in return I would keep going even it "ole charlie" down there quit for a bit. The chimps tongue can work wonders while "ole charlie" re energizes.
 Offmyrocker

Joined: 6/23/2005
Msg: 86
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 6/27/2005 6:33:25 PM
Georgie, some of us ARE different, believe it or not. There is a season that differs for us all.
 Frrosty

Joined: 3/21/2004
Msg: 87
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 6/27/2005 6:37:09 PM
I trapped it in my boxers.

 all-shoulders

Joined: 6/27/2005
Msg: 88
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 6/27/2005 6:49:26 PM
Well Jolie...You have just looked for the wrong men in your life...Unfortunately some men just loose interest in their significant other...It seems to rid a person of thier sex drive and they seek another...I can honestly say that this Canadian male is picking up that sex drive and what I can thank is a better diet and the things that I do in the gym for stamina...I could do with sex pretty much every night and have not found that woman to give it either...So don't count out any of these Canadian men yet...Look for one even if you grab a jogger out of the park because he will be able to keep up with you...
 stew721

Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 89
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 6/27/2005 11:15:32 PM
So Seriously Then...How Many Men Between The Ages Of 25-35 Will Give It Up On A Daily Basis????????No lying either......be truthfull!..If you cant or wont then just dont respond!

Only daily?!? That should be the bare minimum. ;p
 pmekonnen

Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 90
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What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 6/27/2005 11:18:46 PM
Well I am over 25 and my sex drive is as good as it was when I was 16. Maybe your man is really busy at work or has something on his mind. If thats so yeah there are sometimes after a hard days off work I just want to go to sleep not have sex.
 dwacorn

Joined: 1/23/2005
Msg: 91
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What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 6/27/2005 11:20:12 PM
Fondling the TV remote or PC mouse has replaced foreplay.
 croxman

Joined: 12/10/2004
Msg: 92
It could be your other has a significant other, or medically related.
Posted: 6/27/2005 11:47:25 PM
Dear Jolie,

hey I feel for your girl, that really sounds inverted you know! Too bad, let's just say all the gals that I have dated have never complained once, at least not on that score!

love as you know its a two way street, I hate to say it but he may be two timing you, I don't know about you babe but sex is a pure energizer, it's supposed to get better as the relationship matures. Hope you're able to meet someone special.

Croxman in SC
 evanism

Joined: 6/25/2005
Msg: 93
It could be your other has a significant other, or medically related.
Posted: 6/27/2005 11:50:37 PM
My take on it at this point is if I want to give her the rail or the top shelf. Find a kid who even knows what that means.
 mandrake181071

Joined: 4/12/2005
Msg: 94
It could be your other has a significant other, or medically related.
Posted: 6/28/2005 2:44:16 AM
33 year old in Canada (not eastern) who has no problems with once or twice a day....... I don't know where you're meeting these guys..... you must have crummy luck
 carribeanking7

Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 95
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 6/28/2005 2:52:58 AM
@ Jolie...talk to him...............then tease him..put him on viagra..then seduce him.
If he doesnt respond after that.........MOVE ON.
 _Atlas_

Joined: 7/2/2004
Msg: 96
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 6/28/2005 3:42:19 AM
Hmmm.. I don't know about the guys you were dating but most guys I know are hornballs... saying they don't get it enough when they supposedly still get it 2-4 times a week...then again it could be all talk with these guys.. they often exagerate

Perhaps with some of those guys you were with, it was a conquest thing.. once they attained their goal they were no longer as interested?? I dunno, people are weird some times

For myself, I'm just as horny as I was when I was 16 only now I can controll the urges a bit better and I work out the frustrations in the gym instead.. (I kind of have to as I've been single for a while and dont sleep around) but when I was in a relationship unless we were pissed off at each other for whatever reason, it was usually several times a week... I can't say I've ever been too tired for it... and I'm over 30 now.. oh, and I'm from Calgary too.. but I drink Distilled Water.. so perhaps it is in the water??

I'm also physically active so my stamina is pretty high, I don't smoke and I'm not a heavy drinker... so I guess that helps too... I've heard inactive guys or those who are heavy smokers/drinkers/ or on certain prescription medications can lose interest...

perhaps some of those guys had very low testosterone levels?? that can kill sex interest too..

Funny how everyone is saying get him on the viagra... that stuff doesn't make you horny, it just dialates blood vescles and helps you pop one when you are excited.. if the guy doesn't feel like having sex it aint gonna help



I bet your P.O.F. mailbox is getting full of all sorts of offers now hey
 CocoLuv

Joined: 5/26/2005
Msg: 97
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 6/28/2005 7:47:19 AM
If a man is only wanting it twice a month, you probably need to take a good look at the relationship. He's either doing someone else, or, he's just not into you! They say men peak at 18-22, but it's been my experience that men in their 40's are the hottest and best lovers. They know how to temper great sex with tenderness, romance, and expertise. And in my experience, they just can't get enough!Lucky for me!
 tiffi78

Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 98
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 6/28/2005 7:56:49 AM
that has happened to me before too. i tried everything i could think of to turn him on.

i came to 2 conclusions.....

either hes getting it elsewhere or hes just not that into me.

WTF
 steve7530

Joined: 6/18/2005
Msg: 99
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 6/28/2005 8:26:48 AM
I am over 40 years of age so it takes a wee bit more than a warm summer breeze to make me hard(can I say that here??) but my interest and desire are as keen as when I was a young pup [imagine a bear cub with his first hard on] and my stamina /staying power burns out most partners lol
As the former chairman of a Union representing 1800 men , I know alittle about guys.
My sense here is that desire/frequency within the context of a committed relationship often has a alot to do with things like stress loads, opportunity for intimate time[ ie r there kid in the picture], unspoken resentments in and out of the bedroom, a lack of communication in and out of the bedroom. lovers who are boring or dont satisfy "His /her " particular wants/needs, lack of imagination/creativity/narrow minded approaches to whats appropiate or (oh g-d,run) decent. alcohol consumption etc
And ofcourse then there is the individual. I know its shocking but somemen are not very sexual. Some have hang-ups, trauma, issues, some dont enjoy it( although I believe if your not enjoying it , your not doing right lol). Ask yourself, does your man like to come home from work and sit infront of the TV drinking beer? likely as not that one isnt going to tear up the bedroom lol. There is as many reasons for this as there are men

With regard to the guys out there wanking five times a day, Get a grip laddy, theres something else going on there, with all due respect
 Uncle Pervy

Joined: 6/24/2005
Msg: 100
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 6/28/2005 9:12:57 AM
Uh, so many of us have been screwed-over financially & mentally by you women, we'd rather stay home & whack-off rather than get involved with the likes of someone like you.

Sound bitter ?

Yup, I am, very..........
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