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| What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 7/2/2005 6:06:22 PM | | I'm 45 and I only want sex once a year it just lasts 365 days is all and I just can't find some one for that long of a time most women just say an hour or two is enough thats a quicky and I don't like them must as least last 24 hours to be fulfilling for me | |
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Joined: 12/14/2004
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| What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 7/2/2005 9:12:47 PM | I think maybe you guys have just had bad luck.. I am 26 going on 27.. and I have a VERY healthy Sex drive..
Although, I have heard that women and men peek sexually at different times.. I guess you just have to find the right partner..  | |
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| What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 7/7/2005 9:56:42 AM | It's not the water... I live in the same city you do... I prefer younger girls because they like to golike race horses... this non-sense about girls hitting their prime after 30 is proving to be false... that or maybe it is just the oxygen up here... ;-) I will end a relationship in a heart beat if the sex slows down... it is important to me... people in relationships just get lazy... they get secure and figure they can get away with it... no way... never take anything for granted... I am not sure how you would entice them, I would not see you having a problem at all with this...
I guess my only suggestion is; Give them bottled water... :p | |
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| What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 7/7/2005 1:33:23 PM | | Well I'm 45 and my sex drive is still alive and well.I can't do it multiple times a day like I could when I was 25,maybe down to two or three times a day max.Testosterone production does drop off with age so that's one thing,the other is what else is going on in life.Perhaps he IS tired,what kind of work does he do?What kind of stress is in his life?Does he have health problems?Also too it's the job of both in the couple to keep the sex from becoming routine.Boredom can kill a libido. | |
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| What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 7/13/2005 1:50:37 AM |
So Seriously Then...How Many Men Between The Ages Of 25-35 Will Give It Up On A Daily Basis????????No lying either......be truthfull!..If you cant or wont then just dont respond!
Hey Jolie, I happen to be 25 right now, and I'm not sure what jacka** decided to turn you down! My last gf and I had it 1-2 times daily for the first 6 months, 3-4 daily for a few months after that, then she moved far, far away, and we broke up! I found that the closer you become to someone, the MORE you should want it!
All joking aside, you are a beautiful woman, and you should follow the advice of someone earlier on in this thread... If you want it, get it. There is nothing hotter than a woman whispering in a man's ear to join her in the shower, or telling him she needs him here, now or lose me forever! (You get the point)
Believe me, the world of men you have been meeting are a small demographic indeed.
Ciao for now,
James | |
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| What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 7/13/2005 4:04:31 AM | Interesting thread..best summed up in a quote..''Everyone lies about sex' I think.
At my last 'memorable encounter' I was 56, and the exhausted 22 yr old posed the question..'What the HECK were you like at 30?", and I answered truthfully..'You wouldn't have wanted to know me..I was a wimp and totally useless in bed'
So, to the young lady that started this thread, I would say she is probably meeting, guys like myself back then..no clue as to the pleasures of long, drawn out sessions..the Arts of making a lady smile 24/7, and that good sex is something more than a quick 'bonk' to release pressure build up.
I would also make the observation that, although many guys in the 20-35 age group state they want a lass who wants sex constantly..when they find one, it just about scares the pants off their egos, to find they cannot keep up..so the evil word 'nympho' gets stuck in their minds, and for some reason they feel they have to 'tame her urges..it just ain't natural fer a woman ter want more than a male can put out!"
Take heart lass..there ARE males out there with drives that could match yours, you just haven't linked up with one yet, but one suggestion I would make is to cast your net a little further out of the age group you are in yourself
NO! I am not making a plug for myself here..I am 68, a dinosaur born BC ( before computers)..although I think I finally have my drive down to a reasonable level at last *grins*..I don't seem to need to take matters in hand so often these days...
*sighs* sure would like to find a better outlet for it though...LOL! | |
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| What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 7/13/2005 6:42:14 AM | Are you taking some initiative with it? GEtting him in the mood? It usually doesn't take much to get a man there.
Hmmm not sure why you're having this problem but I have run into the same issue with a couple of my exes...their drive was lower than mine though...go figure...a fluke I'm sure.
And do remember...testosterone in males peaks at 40...not 25. No matter what everyone tells ya...it's scientific fact. | |
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| What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 7/13/2005 7:51:34 AM | Its obvious from your post that your with a guy that is not sexually compatible with you. Their could be another reason but please don't read into this the wrong way. For whatever reason he may not be attracted to you sexually, for now. This DOES NOT mean you aren't sexually attractive! It just means for HIM, at this moment, you aren't sexually attractive and he's just settling. Their is tons of information available to spice up sex lives and you should check into them before you consider canning a relationship. Their may be a very valid reason for what's going on here.
It may be time for you and him to have a serious talk about what your needs are as well. Good communication works wonders! | |
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| What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 7/13/2005 9:15:10 AM | with the woman who started this thread - i completely and wholly agree.
this is not just a one guy phenomenon for me...every bf i have had started out great. i usually don't get intimate with a guy until i know we're serious and exclusive (so about 3 months' into dating). at this stage - where there's no sex, just fooling around, you'd think they'd like to have sex all the time...
and yet, when we do become intimate, the sex is every chance we get (something like 2-3 times/week) UNTIL about 6 months into the relationship. then the sex starts to drop off. nor do the guys want to really kiss for any length of time at every opportunity anymore. i have never understood this...and all my bf's have been between 30-50. so should i simply go for younger men? LOL
i don't like to have to initiate sex all the time - sometimes is fine but i prefer when the man initiates. i don't want to be considered a "nympho" with my bf - but i do like sex and lots of it if i'm with someone i really care about.
i think men do lie about wanting it all the time. some of these guys may be legitimate but there are plenty of guys who don't want it nearly as much as me.... | |
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| What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 7/13/2005 9:52:03 AM | | If a man cuts you off physically after age 25, you probably need to find a new man. He has probably found a new woman. The sex drive of men over 30 slows down, but not much. I believe they mature and the sessions of sex are longer and more satisfing. Most men over 30 who are looking to be in a dating or serious relationship still enjoy sex as much as you do, if not more. I am a true believer that it get better and better as you get older! | |
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7times
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Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 167 | |
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| What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 7/13/2005 10:34:44 PM | | ???? Wow, 31 and I'm still going like I used to. Sure, maybe we need a bit of cool down time between bouts, but that just makes us more into foreplay and pleasing our partners. I can safely say, most guys my age are as horny as they've ever been. | |
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coquin
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Joined: 4/1/2005
Msg: 174 | |
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