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 poshrat

Joined: 7/3/2005
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What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 7/14/2005 2:46:16 AM
Note to passionfly re www.testosterone.com

I would take that gem of 'scientific wisdom' with a grain of salt...sounds more like a plug for the selling of chemical additives to the system to 'regain lost youth'..much the same as the 'need' for Viagra ( and all the other spams ) to boost sexual abilities

At 68 I've been around long enough to watch the increasing dependance on the myths that there are 'miracle pills to cure all ills'.and whilst I am grateful for the advances in medical science keeping me around this long, and still reasonably active, my observation over the years has been..'If you didn't have the 'drive' when you were younger..NOTHING is going to give it to you as you age'

and from what I can gather from reading these forums, I think my 'drive' now probably equals that of guys in the 20-30's...LOL!

*walks away shaking graying, balding head'..no wonder my daughters started dating older men!
 Gotapulse

Joined: 3/21/2005
Msg: 177
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 7/14/2005 3:17:39 AM
We got a collective headache.
 komet155

Joined: 4/24/2005
Msg: 178
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two words: internet porn
Posted: 7/14/2005 11:04:42 AM
That, and our priorities/needs tend to change as we get older..... It's hard to hold a beer while having sex! LOL.


We got a collective headache.



...but seriously, I think we just let day to day stress get to us more and it sucks the fun out of things...no pun intended!
 Gotapulse

Joined: 3/21/2005
Msg: 179
two words: internet porn
Posted: 7/14/2005 11:13:20 AM
^I have yet to meet a woman who can suck the fun out of me. However, I am more than willing to allow any woman to try her best. In fact, I downright encourage it.
 Wraith67

Joined: 7/17/2005
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What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 7/27/2005 2:02:41 AM
Age is not a factor. Quite frankly, I ask the same about women. In the beginning, the woman has a voracious appetite for sex, but as time progresses, Sex becomes a "scooby snack" . Kinda like, "what have you done to deserve it?". And of course, when it comes to that, it is time to move on...
Making love is about coming together mind, body and soul. It is not about rewarding a person for what you deem to be worthy of it, nor is it about holding back as some sort of punishment that we guys do not understand where we may have went wrong...
I have yet to find my sex drive diminish but, by that same token, I have found the attraction that I felt for a lady diminish as her demands and arguments increased...
 CPOsteve

Joined: 12/9/2004
Msg: 181
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 7/27/2005 7:17:43 AM
Simple answer here. I just traded in my gas sucking muscle car for one that gets better milage and has a smoother ride?
 Wraith67

Joined: 7/17/2005
Msg: 182
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What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 7/27/2005 9:20:38 AM
@ DragonN
LOL...Ya got that right
 spidey8675309

Joined: 7/17/2005
Msg: 183
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 7/27/2005 9:23:30 AM
I'm 37 years old and I have NEVER SAID NO TO A WOMAN. I keep hearing women say that and I simply don't understand it. Unless he is with another woman? or Gay?

Just my thoughts!

 HB2

Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 184
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What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 7/27/2005 9:25:16 AM
Nothing bad that's for sure! LOL

They become more adventurous

They have more control

They care more about their partners pleasure than their own...................
 Wraith67

Joined: 7/17/2005
Msg: 185
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What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 7/29/2005 8:16:43 AM
@ t,d and h
I certianly have to agree with ya...I'm over 35 and she certianly caught my attention .....The profile was icing on the cake...
@ Blastkist
Most excellent pics and profile .... You certianly know how to catch one's attention
 fl_cntry_boy

Joined: 2/22/2005
Msg: 186
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What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 7/29/2005 6:27:25 PM
Speakin for my self I'm 43 and sexually stuck in overdrive my problem has been finding a woman who enjoys it as much as I do.
 CirrusLXi

Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 187
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 7/29/2005 8:49:31 PM
I dont know what happened. but I am 33 and my sex drive is just great. Keep the sex fun and different from time to time.
 lorddouglas

Joined: 6/14/2005
Msg: 188
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 7/29/2005 10:44:18 PM
m'lady would tell you no 20 yr old can keep UP with me...he..he
men seem to get a little lazier later in life..metabolism stuff
we "older men" have to keep up with it......
work out regularly...eat right.sleep
i'm better now than i ever was
 The Dude

Joined: 8/22/2003
Msg: 189
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What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 12/2/2005 3:16:00 PM
Start dating teenagers, that's the only solution. Guys hit their sexual peak at 17, and women hit theirs at 40... yep, nature is cruel. Oh, and men in America get the tip of their things chopped of at birth for no good reason, thus reducing the pleasure experienced by both parties, another cruel joke.
 Tinkle

Joined: 11/2/2005
Msg: 190
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 12/2/2005 3:22:09 PM
wow, old thread. OP go bye bye, but I will comment anyway since others still are interested in the subject.


My sex drive is as strong as ever. Maybe stronger. I'm 30.

I sometimes wish it would die down a bit since I'm single. Going places where there is women can be hell. I've been handlin it a lot better of late though. I look at the floor more as a walk around.
 BlackBerryHottie

Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 191
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 12/2/2005 3:41:30 PM
Hmm I think you meant 35?
 all-shoulders

Joined: 6/27/2005
Msg: 192
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 4/1/2006 1:09:15 PM
very true...I am 41 and keep myself very active with the gym and work...I know that if you keep your body in shape the sex drive is natural...I am not certain why some women think we have no drive when quite often there is no draw to give the woman satisfaction sometimes she becomes to selfish even...
 Simon Belmont

Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 193
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 4/1/2006 1:21:17 PM
I dunno where you are finding your guys, but the river is a flowin' here in Wpg. I will be 28 and just as obsessed about "playtime" as when I was 17.
 sly1n

Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 194
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 4/1/2006 1:25:10 PM
maybe you turned him away. would you try to initiate the sex or would you just wait for him to start.
 dissident

Joined: 10/26/2003
Msg: 195
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 4/1/2006 1:34:56 PM
i cant say that has happend to me yet, but wow this is an old thread how did ya find a thread thats almost a year old and why.?
 sly1n

Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 196
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 4/1/2006 2:25:30 PM
I didn't even notice what a waist of time.
 mycorosso

Joined: 1/11/2005
Msg: 197
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 4/1/2006 2:28:17 PM
I find I need to be moved by a woman to have sex with them. All though I still think about it often [always], it is soooo exausting to get it. I wait for it and pick and choose. In fact I like the attention. As when I was young I had my nose to the ground and was sniffing it out alot. Many declines soooo now it's pay back. I ain't gonna work too hard for sex anymore. I'll work harder for a freindship. I have had about a thousand or ten "no's" banked up from when I was askin when I "needed it". It's my turn to say yay or nay. I love the "what comes around goes around" aspect.
 Doctor Feelgood

Joined: 3/30/2007
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What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 4/8/2007 11:32:34 AM
I can't speak for anyone but myself.
Once a night is never enough. In fact, I'm always ready and able.
Then some guys are into other things than their women, hunting, sports and such.
Satisfying my woman was always tops on my list of things to do.
 Black Wasp

Joined: 3/12/2004
Msg: 199
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What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 4/8/2007 12:08:46 PM
Still great, not like when I was 18 for sure, but I'm still good and interested at a fresh 25.
 mhigginsr

Joined: 9/16/2006
Msg: 200
What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25????
Posted: 4/9/2007 5:28:33 AM
Well I am 29 years old and I find that my sex drive is higher now then it was at 18. I had the same problem that you had, well with the women. Asking is that all you ever want is sex. Well I finally found a great lady that can keep up w/ my sex drive. And I am talking a couple 3 to 4 hours a day of sex. Buy the boys up there some viagra if thats what it takes or maybe invest in a good toy, start using it in front of him, and if that doesn't start his motor.......well it is time to move on.
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