| Is there THAT many bad people in the world?
Posted: 3/2/2009 8:18:47 PM | I think OP that you have the romantic fantasy that some knight in shining armor is going to ride in on his white horse and rescue you from real life; I hate to tell you that its not how it works. As much as you;d like for it to happen, and as much as I am sure some guys would love to be somebody's knight, you have to approach these things mentally as well as emotionally, especially online. Don't let your emotions run wild, I understand its a lonely life sometimes but you have to keep reasonable or you will continue to end up the victim time and again.
Hell, I've been a victim a few times myself, it happens to the best of us; but you can be proactive to keep it form happening. | |
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| Is there THAT many bad people in the world?
Posted: 4/4/2009 12:19:57 AM | actually i don't think it is about moving to fast or to slowly. I have noticed that most who say you opened up and gave yourself to quckly have gone through what you have and more than once they have done so. The point I am making is simple it depends on the two people. Often it's that you get use to a certain type of person and subconsciously follow that type.Personally, the biggest problem is most get intimate thinking of themselves, and if you do that you'll always loose out for love is never about you, but rather what you can give of yourself to another {thats both men and women }.
weather you go for it the first date six months down the road or ten years down the road you are taking the same risk. You may feel better in doing so but it is the same risk. The only difference is the longer with them the more it hurts you for your more involved.
personaly I was blessed in never running into tha and had heaven on earth once. Truthfully though, probably won't find it again for it seems others always enter thinking of what they get rather than what love realy is. | |
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| Is there THAT many bad people in the world?
Posted: 4/4/2009 4:48:36 AM | | it's falling too soon and too quickly for the person who fits your fantasies or ideals of 'the right man for me'... either that, or i'm a slow worker. it usually takes me well over a year to be the centre of a man's universe... | |
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| Is there THAT many bad people in the world?
Posted: 4/4/2009 5:24:47 AM | | Maybe you need to slow down some OP, you make it sound like this was all over the course of a few months, if you seem too willing then there are men out there who are going to take advantage of it, there are women who will take advantage of that in men too. Relax; take it easy and try not to come on too strongly, get to know someone better first, and watch out for the warning signs that say someone is not who they pretend to be. | |
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