| Your favorite time and place to start sex by giving a mind blowing blow job?
Posted: 3/1/2009 1:08:27 PM | I don't know. I like a time and a place for it. A cleared mind and special attention paid to all the details I want covered.
I mean a quickie is okay here and there.
BUT. If I am going to use my mad skills I want the man to have built up the anticipation, be giving me his undevided and be ripe and ready for some real action.
I mean you can fool yourself and think your taking control, but if one eye is on the scoreboard.... you have no idea what real control is.
I like the man to do what ever it is that his little heart desires and leave him alone.
When he comes round for his piece of me, It's going to be an all out session, nothings getting interupted. | |
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| Your favorite time and place to start sex by giving a mind blowing blow job?
Posted: 3/1/2009 2:30:07 PM | | Everyone is so touchy nowadays!! I read some of the other posts and think they have the org post all wrong---It's not about control- what is wrong with being spontaneous and just wanting to make your partner feel good? Yeah, its more fun when they are not expecting it. I'm with you footballgirl, I like to catch him off guard- like right before we're ready to step in a restaurant for dinner or something...out in the car, ya know? That's fun, sexy and spontaneous. | |
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| Your favorite time and place to start sex by giving a mind blowing blow job?
Posted: 3/1/2009 6:03:42 PM | I love some of the anger coming from women on this subject. I guess you can easily weed out the non-giving and/or non-spontaneous bj-givers out here.
I don't want to make an appointment. I want it to be frequent AND SPONTANEOUS. OP, keep doing what you're doing. No guy, in his RIGHT MIND, would complain (as long as you don't actually get angry at him for watching his games while you do your thing). | |
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| Your favorite time and place to start sex by giving a mind blowing blow job?
Posted: 3/1/2009 6:23:04 PM | Jules:when he comes back to you, strokes you and loves on you...well.. you have his attention.
TakeaChillPill:When he comes round for his piece of me, It's going to be an all out session, nothings getting interupted.
There's obviously a difference in sexual styles here.
Why in world would I have to wait for him to come to me?
I enjoy taking control/dominating just as much as I enjoy being submissive, and I've have never had a man complain about getting uninvited blow jobs.
Ever.
Some of you (especially Girlinanightie) seriously need to loosen up and have a little fun!
I don't think he would feel too comfortable moaning, and trying to concentrate on driving at the same time.
A man not comfortable getting road head? I don't think I've met one... | |
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| Your favorite time and place to start sex by giving a mind blowing blow job?
Posted: 3/1/2009 6:53:07 PM | Star star. What's obvious is you don't understand the difference between surprizing someone and having total control. Distractions and control are two different animals in my bedroom. If your giving a guy your mouth interupting a beer commercial is a very different experience than real control. A man submission recieving oral does not feel interupted and if your in control there is no other focus.
I never had to wait for anyone. My sex was real spontaneous. It was also a mutual moment of lust and desire. I never had to wave my hands around or do handstands for a guy to want to come taste my pie. I think two people got to respect eachothers down time and if a guy wants to go watch a game or play golf or paint his toenails green who cares.... You got to respect their space.
I find that when you do that, let them do what they want.... they come back for those unbridled moments of pure lust and f*ck your brains out. Now,that you don't have to turn off the tv. to get!! I don't know maybe I'm old fashioned.Or do I "seriously need to loosen up"??? I don't think so. | |
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| Your favorite time and place to start sex by giving a mind blowing blow job?
Posted: 3/1/2009 7:31:50 PM | TakeaChillPill,
The problem with your argument is that you've created an entire life for OP...somehow you've managed to analyze her entire psyche from her four line post, and I'm not buying it.
Yes, you're incredibly mature compared to the imaginary scenario you've created. So what?
If it was *wr0ng* for her to do, her partner would respond negatively to it, and she wouldn't be here posting a positive thread about it. It may be different from the way you handle your sex life, but who's to say your partners wouldn't have enjoyed it? And even if they wouldn't have, who's to say it's a sign of maturity and not a simple difference in sexual styles?
So, yes, I do think you need to loosen up. Live and let live. | |
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| Your favorite time and place to start sex by giving a mind blowing blow job?
Posted: 3/1/2009 8:02:31 PM | Well I'm not much into hunting shows, if a g/f started on me while I was watching err sleeping I'd be pretty happy with a wake up hunny bj. Heck I like sports and some tv. Even the internet. But if she's wanting to have sex then we are having sex. Sorry President my s/o wants sex you are overruled lol.
I love the fact that the woman will want to initiate sex, that is so fun.
PS while driving IDK about that I've heard of going over a hill too fast and she accidentally bitting it off. In a car: YES While driving the car: Nope | |
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| Your favorite time and place to start sex by giving a mind blowing blow job?
Posted: 3/2/2009 3:05:51 AM | WOW l am blown away by some of the responses of the people on here!!! This girl was simply stating that people should enjoy some good fun with their men. The use of the word control (in my opinion) was taken WAYYY out of context. She was trying to say that as a couple we should keep things light and fun and to play with sex in many different ways in order to keep things exciting and spontaneous. She was trying to say there is no better feeling than to be able to give your man immense pleasure and feel the power of it being you who was the one to be able to give him that despite the fact that there was something else of keen interest to him on.
My gawd, in a few short sentences this post has been turned into something about control, maturity, insecurities, and competition. I am pretty sure she did not mean that everytime his attention was diverted elsewhere that she all of a sudden needs to drop to her knees and put it on herself. She was simply saying sex is good and great and have fun with it......Take it freaking easy people!!!! No one likes the "oops it's ten at night time for our wednesday night sex session race you to the bed" syndrome. Not that there is anything wrong with that if that is your gig. There is something nice about people who are willing to go the mile to keep things hot with a loved one.
Good job to the lady who created this thread, l hear you!!! | |
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| Your favorite time and place to start sex by giving a mind blowing blow job?
Posted: 3/2/2009 3:10:36 AM | ^^^Yeah Kudos to Op for wanting to talk about her experience feeling like she had control. So do some others. You see. I like to talk about what that means to me too. So...Kudos to me too for answering the post.
Star star..
The problem with you is you think I have an argument for the OP. Your the one that steps up and take my quote out of context. I'm not arguing with her. I don't care when she blows her bf.
I don't care if the OP blows her bf while he is trying to take a shyt. THe truth is she is going to have to let him take a shyt. Right? I mean how much attention does someone need.
I know your 24 and you think you have thehandle on creative sex and you think you've experienced something new that I'm not aware of.
THe truth is I've been there , done all that. I invented the pretzle position during half time of the 1979 Super bowl. Okay.
It' just that through many deeeeeeepening sexual experiences I have found that waiting for mutual desire and anticipation and affection is far more rewarding than
interupting him on his way to "boys night out" because you want some attention.
The male species is a funny gendre and I've learned by having my share over the years that you have to keep that spice a little enticing. You have to keep the lure fresh even though you've already baited a man. Hell I don't care if you got an old finned fish, you still got to keep him swimming up stream!!! hahahahahaha...
I mean I've been there, laying on the bathroom floor when he showering on his way to play poker, like the floor matt. It never really did me any good. There is a difference.
It was spontaneous but not so mutual.
I'm not arguing with the OP. She can blow him while he's fixing his car, eating his breakfast, or having a tooth pulled at the dentist office.
Just like you, I'm having my preference and my thoughts based on experience and
what I know keeps a man yes, coming to me.
Your the one that stepped up and said I needed to loosen up.
I know you feel like a porn star, star star and all at 24, but trust me ... You haven't even reached your peak yet. You don't even know what a real orgasm is too , until your about 35...then at 40 you start having spiritual awakenings with multiples that you can't keep count of. You lose track at about 17 because your such a puddle you haven't the thought process to count consecutively anymore.
You haven't even got there with your baby girl body yet star, BELIEVE this.
So... I'll let you have your opinions star baby and you let me have mine. Agreed?
And before you retort back please read MY posts. I think you are misread. I'm not climbing on anyones soap box here or another band wagon. I'm NOT analyzing OP entire psyche. In any attempt to make assumptions about her. I'm not wearing that shyt either. Check yourself and reread the simplicity of what I wrote. Get MY point. I'm not judging the OP. | |
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| Your favorite time and place to start sex by giving a mind blowing blow job?
Posted: 3/2/2009 9:24:52 AM |
You don't even know what a real orgasm is too , until your about 35...then at 40 you start having spiritual awakenings with multiples that you can't keep count of. You lose track at about 17 because your such a puddle you haven't the thought process to count consecutively anymore.
i second this comment
it comes out so much now i get dizzy | |
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| Your favorite time and place to start sex by giving a mind blowing blow job?
Posted: 3/2/2009 2:27:30 PM | Thank you for your support! And you are correct about the word "control" was taken way out of context.. I agree with the guy that said he could seperate the givers and the takers out of this conversation. People have become so selfish and on schedule, no wonder there are so may dating sites....Good luck in your search, and have a great week. | |
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| Your favorite time and place to start sex by giving a mind blowing blow job?
Posted: 3/2/2009 3:04:47 PM |
Jeez. Can you just imagine? Stopping a man while he's in the middle of driving, just to give him that kickass mind blowing blow job? I'm sure the OP has already been there, and done that.
Reminds me of this one time on the way to Georgia when I nearly ran into the back of an 18 wheeler..... ˆ had to pull over on a deserted off ramp for the finale. Then a trooper pulled up behind us and I had to pull the old "I pulled over for a quick nap rather than falling asleep at the wheel" excuse. He gave me a smile, a wink, and drove away. Anywho, it takes a particular amount of concentration to focus on the road and other distractions while driving. Do so at your own risk. | |
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| Your favorite time and place to start sex by giving a mind blowing blow job?
Posted: 3/2/2009 3:07:52 PM | #46 ^^^ yeah, One might question what some are doing here looking for hang out with men when they have all these perfunctory skills that maintain a mans interest.
Wow. Congrats Mz Sexperta for your Forum debut complete with all out instruction manuals the a-z and how-to on perfecting blow jobs. Describes some elementary techniques in graphic detail. You must be mad proud.
One slice of the pie here is to realize not everyone will be on the same page as you.
It's what makes this place so interesting. If we all chimed in the same resounding voice well it would get real boring fast. Zzzzzz
Is perhaps just as many sorts would consider it to be SELFISH to not have a respectable distance from your man when he is needing his time to chill and just watch the tube.
Oye. To each their own. I've never had a man reject my spontaneous advances but do have to remain the stance that they are flavored with a different spice.
You brought the issue of "control" into play and some people disagree with your context, doesn't make theirs wrong. It may behoove you to understand that you may find just as much worth in the post that don't offer a signature that co-signs your caca as you do in those that whole heartedly agree.
But, until then, we'll just say move over Dr. Ruth, we got another Know it All neewbie filing in and Welcome! | |
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| Your favorite time and place to start sex by giving a mind blowing blow job?
Posted: 3/7/2009 7:54:49 PM |
Hunting movies? oh god, now Ive heard it all. OP, are you so petty, needy and attention seeking that you'd kneel in front of some red neck bf like some back woods whore just so that you can delude yourself that you have the power to distract him and put attention on yourself? there are much better ways of getting a mans attention,.. a really loud shout in his ear will do the trick, or a quick twist of the nuts works very well. if you feel the need to compete against a foot ball game, and have to sook some loser off for some crumbs of attention,.. then you really need to go get some self esteem,.. and maybe an ounce of maturity while you're there. God, this forum is really going downhill. this is a lot of judgement from a woman who's profile name screems for attention. We are human, we like attention. We LOVE to gain a man's attention...especially a man we care about! For anyone in this forum to suggest that they havent attempted to gain someone's attention who was otherwise engaged is rediculous! The OP does not seem to be out of the ordinary, rather she seems quite normal!!! I'm surprised, not only from 'girlinanightie'.... Go forth and have fun  | |
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| Your favorite time and place to start sex by giving a mind blowing blow job?
Posted: 3/7/2009 8:08:04 PM | There are hunting movies besides "Deer Hunter" ?
I'm very confused by all of this.
Also... if I'm actually trying to watch something, I could see this being a bit annoying. (Though I'm a bit biased here. I'd spend hours making it obvious to my ex that I was interested... then I'd give up and go to bed exhausted.... and then she'd come in just as I was falling asleep and try to make a move. HELLO!?!? SLEEP TIME!!!!!... ) | |
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| anytime would be the best time
Posted: 3/7/2009 8:58:44 PM | | honestly if a woman gave me head anytime i dont care what it is that i am doing i would be so greatful and excited but the one thing that i dont understand is why a woman doesnt finish what she has started and usually stops right when your about to cum | |
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| Your favorite time and place to start sex by giving a mind blowing blow job?
Posted: 3/7/2009 10:01:15 PM | Girlinanightie:
Wow.. talk about a futzup woman you are! Listen to yourself!
Hunting movies? oh god, now Ive heard it all.
Apparently you don't understand hunting; let me guess... you let others do the killing for you and get your meat from the local market, sanitized, on a Styrofoam plate, wrapped in plastic, right? Full of hormones, drugs and fat? Right?
OP, are you so petty, needy and attention seeking that you'd kneel in front of some red neck bf like some back woods whore just so that you can delude yourself that you have the power to distract him and put attention on yourself?
Now your being rather demeaning and judgmental don't you think? I see the OP has the grace and wisdom not to respond to these kind of comments. Considering the source, we can all see who is the wiser.
here are much better ways of getting a mans attention,.. a really loud shout in his ear will do the trick, or a quick twist of the nuts works very well.
Wow.. man hater or what? Who pissed in your cornflakes this morning? Can you imagine the abuse any male who would even think of suggesting such violence on a woman would be rightly subjected to?
tif you feel the need to compete against a foot ball game, and have to sook some loser off for some crumbs of attention,.. then you really need to go get some self esteem,.. and maybe an ounce of maturity while you're there.
HMMMM... now who is the kettle in this equation? Please, you have shown who you are more then once.
God, this forum is really going downhill.
Yes, especially with vitriolic comments like yours! | |
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