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 Redlance71

Joined: 2/2/2009
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Sucking during and after sex?
Posted: 3/9/2009 11:52:40 PM
Hmm, what's weird now is she says I am the first guy to not be spooked by this thing she does. I am thinking WTF? Not only am I cool with it I accept her kissing me after she finishes me off since it makes her happy. How can a guy NOT like this?
 Stoonblondie

Joined: 3/6/2009
Msg: 52
Sucking during and after sex?
Posted: 3/10/2009 1:36:12 AM
I've never really had a big problem with sucking him after sex, actually tend to enjoy it. As for kissing after he orgasms in my mouth, I think it's nice if he will, but if he's not cool with it then I'm not too worried about it either.
 beadonna

Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 53
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Posted: 3/10/2009 7:51:41 AM
i think it just depends what you "learned" and are accustomed to, and whether you can open your mind to other possibilities

my ex would NEVER have dreamed of tasting himself in any way, directly or indirectly, and it never really occured to me because he was my "first and only,"
and i simply didn't "know" any better at the time

luckily, i have learned otherwise at this point in my life, and i love it all!

 WeatherGuy80

Joined: 10/11/2008
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Posted: 3/10/2009 8:07:20 AM
I consider myself very intuned to my sexuality and have NO problem pleasuring a woman before and after sex. I think its a turn on to kiss a woman after I pleasure her or she pleasures me. If I orgasm or she orgasms and wants to share it with the other, I find it truly amazing and truly romantic/passionate/sexual. It makes me want to pleasure her again, again, again, and again!!!!!
 catkin2007

Joined: 12/18/2007
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Posted: 3/10/2009 10:59:12 AM
I dont' understand what all the problem is... just freakin' enjoy each other and be grateful for the attention and desire that is there...

You could be with someone who is less giving!
 RealOne408

Joined: 9/5/2008
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Posted: 3/10/2009 3:59:46 PM
Hmmm

So your lady gives you some dome after she's already got her's twice? I'd like to call that a great reward! As a matter of fact I will now start a campaign for more women to give there men dome after we've put in the work! Even before we finish~!

Only thing that would be better is when ya'll are done is that she snaps her fingers and a cooler full of ice cold beer appears in the bed beside you!
 derek2486

Joined: 2/24/2009
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Posted: 3/10/2009 6:25:57 PM
If she likes giving head to you you found a keeper. My ex was like that and she like the taste becuase she used to sleep with women. I think you might want to ask your gf that. BEcuase she probably has a fantasy of being with a woman or has been with one.

I however didnt make out with her after I came in her mouth not cool.
 onefitsall

Joined: 2/21/2009
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Posted: 3/10/2009 6:41:34 PM
What's the big deal??? Seriously??? I mean... If she is comfortable enough with you and her sexuality to take/swallow your load, then you'd damn sure better be ready to be comfortable enough with her and your sexuality to give her a damn tongue kiss after giving you pleasure, if nothing else but to say "Thank you".......
 Su3B00

Joined: 1/13/2009
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Posted: 3/10/2009 7:03:13 PM
ive never stopped half way n gone down on a guy b4 u've given me ideas now heheh
my man has gone down on me n he comes back up n kissed me i dont see nuthing rong with that at all i love it actually
but 1 question for anyone that wants to answer feel free, my man finds it degrading if he fingers me but to me i love that aswell :( he dont do it often n wen he does do it i know wat thoughts r in his head so i tend not to enjoy it as much...
wats ur say on this anyone???
 onefitsall

Joined: 2/21/2009
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Posted: 3/10/2009 7:22:36 PM
I dont get it..... I love the smell and taste of a woman......
In my opinion, a man should want to please his woman, no matter how...... the after effects are just a bonus..... Maybe he was/is shy about it afraid to make you feel uncomfortable.........

Mike
 Redlance71

Joined: 2/2/2009
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Posted: 3/11/2009 1:27:45 AM
RE
my man finds it degrading if he fingers me but to me i love that aswell

I don't see why he would find it degrading. Anything that stimulates the partner in a posisitve way, especially something they welcome, should be on the table. Talk to him some more about it, let him know it's something you can enjoy and would give him a fast route to a "quickie" if that's a turn on for him. In my experience external things like fingering lead to a woman out orgasming me about 3 to 1. If that is in your capabilities then mention the multi orgasm session thingy, maybe his fingers will start doing the walking, since he's prob a n00b at it you'll have to train him though ;)
 Bigrockinguy

Joined: 3/7/2009
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Posted: 3/11/2009 4:15:58 AM
My last gf,did that to.....we use to make love then,then she would go down on me,or visa versa,loved going down on her.Again,she would swallow wen i pulled out,then give a huge open kiss.Never bothered me.Also loved going down on her,after i blew in her.Its all natural.
 Caper143

Joined: 8/2/2007
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Posted: 3/11/2009 6:20:36 AM
Hmmm..I didn't realize men see this as weird or bizarre. I mean...why wouldn't she suck you before, during, or after? You were in HER body. It's hers. I know I taste good so I enjoy doing it and now I know why it turned my guy on so much. I guess I just see this as normal sexual activity.

As for her swallowing and you kissing her after...that is just HOT. Please know...if a woman is willing to swallow your cum and you refuse to kiss her after...that is somewhat insulting. After all...it's your stuff from your body....so you should have no trouble with it in your mouth if it can go in mine.
 Tra C

Joined: 11/11/2008
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Posted: 3/11/2009 7:32:16 AM
extremely hot! i dont see why you find it so odd. its obviously not as rare as you think. i do it...a lot of other women i know do it too...just be happy shes not a prude.
 KylaKiKi

Joined: 1/26/2009
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Posted: 3/11/2009 10:54:44 AM
as long as ur comfortable with one another thats all that matters and can be a great turn on... nothing better than getting kissed after or during... i can't believe uve never done this before.lol it is pretty standard practise...
 ptercar

Joined: 2/20/2009
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Posted: 3/11/2009 3:08:02 PM
does she have a sister,wow!!!!!
 hopeforlove69

Joined: 1/12/2009
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Posted: 3/13/2009 1:23:16 PM
Consider yourself very very lucky, to have a woman like that is a dream come true for me. I would give my right arm for a girl that good. To have that luck is great. Just go with it and enjoy.






It's not wierd

 scorpion615

Joined: 1/9/2009
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Posted: 3/13/2009 2:23:34 PM
sounds like the women of my dreams. ive had that done once or twice and i loved it.and i would love to get some more of it.any volunters hit me back
 lakelake

Joined: 12/19/2008
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Posted: 3/13/2009 2:36:10 PM
One thing about reading all these posts.....

1) lots of people seem to have sexual hangups.

1A) not everyone has sexual hangups.

2) lots of people dont play fair, meaning they will take, but not give back

3) I'm definitely A LOT kinkier than I thought I was by judging most of the replies here and on other topics. I guess I really am a nasty boy!

I'm using "lots of people" because its both men and women.
 AztecPrincessEmy

Joined: 3/5/2009
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Posted: 3/13/2009 2:53:27 PM
Now you are in heaven if you have a woman doing that!! I have a hard time even doing it!!! I cant even suck****for more then 5 minutes so the fact that she does all that ... more power to her!!! She is a keeper!!!
 Redlance71

Joined: 2/2/2009
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Posted: 3/13/2009 4:02:24 PM
Yes, she is a keeper. Decided to keep her around. She's read through all the posts - much to her embarassment. Fact is, sex aside, we're extremly compatible - more than can be described here. These things she does(and I do for her) are just a HELLUVA bonus!!! Yes, we are still having some multi hour sessions but I have been getting hit by migranes after awhile prob due to quitting cafeeine and nicotene recently, and working out 1-2 times a day now all this sex...quite frankly it's put my health at risk lol!

Still, I get the feeling that it is not as common as the responses indicate. I've added cum sweetener ingreds to my morning smoothy and she loves it even more and, yes, I kiss her after as much as she wants, the sweetener does indeed seem to be working lol!
 Scott !

Joined: 8/12/2008
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Posted: 3/14/2009 5:12:29 AM
I don't think your partner would appreciate you posting asking this sort of thing, but each to their own, I guess !
 Redlance71

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Posted: 3/14/2009 7:57:39 AM
Umm, she's totally cool with it, was a bit embarassed at first but she finds some of the responses quite interesting. She's considering posting on this thread lol!
Sucking during and after sex?
Posted: 3/14/2009 1:30:48 PM
bizarre zone is only in your head..... weird is only your inhibitions......
I am the same way I love to share touch feel an taste all of my man....

Have fun ;} live a little and if she is cool to boot .... dont let her go .....
in the end the tight body doesent make you cum and feel like a king ....
your womans talents and how she responds to you does ;}
 RonVerse

Joined: 11/7/2007
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Posted: 3/14/2009 5:49:22 PM
it was hilarious reading some of the replies and yeah its not a weird zone.
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