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 Hawaiianluau

Joined: 11/13/2008
Msg: 26
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Posted: 3/5/2009 2:05:31 PM
and not looking for an ego boost

It looks as if Markus has been reading my posts.
 artylime1

Joined: 1/26/2009
Msg: 27
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Posted: 3/5/2009 2:51:37 PM
Is this idea of paying to keep people like me out?
 1NSATIABLE

Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 28
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Posted: 3/5/2009 2:57:23 PM
I have two parts of no money oh and a little bit empty on the side so the idea of having to pay......hey ho....toilet roll, milk and bread versus saying hi to someone who in all probability is incompatible....toilet roll wins.


point taken sorry ...
i sometimes forget many of you are new to surviving on a shoestring budget..
& are yet to discover ,the joys of becomming not only mum& dad @ times

but ...hairdresser,mechanic,repairman,taxi driver,accountant,chief cook & bottle washer ,seemstreess,painter ext ext
it generally takes a good yr minimum to achieve this then you will be able to stay im not just surving im now living again

i think but dont quote me on this
my kids have never heard the word no ...or i cant afford that from me

bread or date....you answered it yourself
 No.404

Joined: 10/14/2008
Msg: 29
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Posted: 3/5/2009 7:44:38 PM
I haven't seen other sites but I like it here with the forums and getting to know people.
I love the fact that it's free and it gives anybody a chance to find a date :P
Also I think a fee is a good idea as it should lock out the spammers and the people making the fake profiles...
 lok

Joined: 7/6/2006
Msg: 30
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Posted: 3/6/2009 12:33:18 AM

Also I think a fee is a good idea as it should lock out the spammers and the people making the fake profiles...



if only this was true..

A lot of "professional women" are prepared to pay as it attracts business , letting the males contact them for free , lulling them into a sense of being wanted , then they get the price list.........................................



I have only recently posted this same type of question on another site , does paying = serious dating compared to free = 1 nite date hunting
 theforeverkind

Joined: 1/4/2009
Msg: 31
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Posted: 3/6/2009 1:16:24 AM
dont worry.youll all be rid of me when i have to pay....freaky dynamics on these forums...really freaky...sorta like tiptoeing thru a hells angels meeting on your way to a christmas party...the chilly feeling must be the wine im hiding under my jacket as i try to stifle a giggle....had my fun anyways ...picked up a few twinkly eyed party animals along the way
 artylime1

Joined: 1/26/2009
Msg: 32
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Posted: 3/6/2009 1:32:09 AM
Actually my paranoid delusional phase has passed and you wouldn't want to kick someone like me out. Because 'I'm free to do what I want any old time'.....as in I'm not married or otherwise attached....not even a hint of a boyfriend.

I'd say the aim is to goad all those married men...!
 soulmate08

Joined: 12/30/2007
Msg: 33
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Posted: 3/6/2009 1:32:37 AM

dont worry.youll all be rid of me when i have to pay....


I dont think anyone will be forced to pay, to stay...
I think it's just an' option' to upgrade...
The forums I think, will still be here...
So no need to leave
peace
 kevoz62

Joined: 1/28/2009
Msg: 34
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Posted: 3/6/2009 2:09:50 AM
Yes good option if you want to make contact pay, Everything you click take you to pay form..

Hey if we pay might get spellchecker in forum.




dont think it would play jingle bells think it would just come off it probaly wooden
 Mainey

Joined: 8/15/2007
Msg: 35
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Posted: 3/6/2009 2:52:49 AM

The forums are attached to a dating site, they are meant to be in helping people to find relationships


Yes a dating site that gives you the option to have on your profile to be looking for friends and not single not looking, which is probably one of the reasons why the site is so popular and also why you get a wide range of people in here and not just people that are desperate to find "the one" .

I love this site, it has given me the opportunity to make some great friends and I have met a wide range of people and I hope to continue to do so.
 ohthereugo

Joined: 2/12/2008
Msg: 36
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Posted: 3/6/2009 2:26:20 PM
Haha

POF you make enough money out of the advertising lol

You have claimed you built the site one man operation .

If its that easy might as well build one myselve for that matter lets all build one .

Genetics of a dating site are exactly the same if your on pof more than likely you are on two others as well .

Same stats apply on all dating sites or close enough .

Same classes of people .

The non serious will still pay so i guess its all about how the owner wants to live a lavish lifestyle no doubt or maybe he will donate the proceeds to a charity lol


Time for me to start to work out how to start up a dating site easy peasy it will be fun .

Easy money .

Now one million by ten bucks for a lifetime membership to my dating site = holy cow


Well as for people to date you have to go local doesnt matter if there is one million members on a site you may only have 500 thats within 50 miles of you or ks if you are in Australia like me .

So pof need one million members so they can sell advertising space and make a return and they are doing that very well who knows how many dating sites owners of pof owns may be one maybe 10 who would know .

the customers thats us we make pof their advertising money without us they wouldnt be here .

we also vet pics free of charge so we assist in the operations as well .

Polls can be rigged of course you would never know

The poll might come up 51 for and 49 against doesnt really matter the poll wont make any difference of the outcome .

POF is going to make the changes regardless

Just the way business progresses
 debnco

Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 37
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Posted: 3/6/2009 2:58:49 PM
^^^^ Know what ,I figure if you have the brains to start a free site You can do what you like ..
If you don't like it ...........................GO Away ....Don't use it ..Simple really...
 Noxious_Hysteria

Joined: 8/25/2008
Msg: 38
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Posted: 3/7/2009 12:45:32 AM
Im on a paid site and this one and I can honestly say there are the same calibre of people on both.........money dont buy love!!

Im more active on the free sites as I refuse to pay to be single and if I am ever paying......I expect to get off!!

When I get into a relationship no doubt I will pay and pay and pay......not now though.

 1NSATIABLE

Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 39
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Posted: 3/7/2009 2:52:52 AM
ok ..i want to know
why you left out dedicated server
& bandwith usage skyrocketting...:)
some of us arnt as silly as we look :)~

as for ads run via pof i think ive clicked on 2 ...so he got a whole 20c out of me ummmm wont feed him
 dear_old_granddad

Joined: 6/29/2008
Msg: 40
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Posted: 3/7/2009 5:07:38 AM

whether you click on his ads or not

Ads? There are ads on POF? Oooo Nooo!

https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/1865
 dear_old_granddad

Joined: 6/29/2008
Msg: 41
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Posted: 3/7/2009 5:10:14 AM

a fee is a good idea as it should lock out the spammers and the people making the fake profiles...

If that were true, it would be worth paying... a lot! But spammers and fakes have money too... a "gold bar" just gives them extra cover.
 Faux Pa

Joined: 12/20/2007
Msg: 42
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Posted: 3/7/2009 5:56:20 AM

The problem I have today is that every month 500,000 Plentyoffish users spend $30.00 a month on paid dating sites because they say they can't find people who are serious about dating on plentyoffish.

Hmmm . . surely the premise is false, isn't it?
I can't see that this is Marcus' problem at all, but more an acknowledgement of the way of the on-line dating world . . . and if someone can't find their 'the one' here, I could envisage plenty of them blaming PoF instead of some other (maybe glaring) reason / possibly.

But with the recent spate of 'capitalist' threads, I can understand where he's going . . .

He may as well take that 1 year @ $5.99/month ($71.88) and validate their complaint as sit in his apartment and listen to it for free.
 1NSATIABLE

Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 43
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Posted: 3/7/2009 5:27:40 PM
its all about smart advertising realy

or being a great fisherman?

he threw out the bait ...we took it line & sinker
caught some lil' fish
use them to draw in the bigger fish
now the sharks are about its time to cash in!

ok wot PA said
 1NSATIABLE

Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 44
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Posted: 3/7/2009 9:35:07 PM

whether you click on his ads or not he gets paid as the businesses pay to advertise, not per click. At least i assume that's how it works. Please correct me if I'm wrong.

nah not wrong....
at the time i was interested in net ptr sites i believe the going rate was 1c per 10 views (time the banner showed up)
given that pof doesnt have banner ads on every page like say hmmmmmmm trading post? loading there drives me nutssssssssss

im pretty sure he'd not be getting rich off the ads ...if hes lucky so far it would cover overheads ...maybe it all got to big for him & he's planning to hire live help?
 BundyDropbear

Joined: 3/29/2007
Msg: 45
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Posted: 3/8/2009 3:03:01 AM
Introducing would make it incredibly hard on people like me who refuse to own a credit card i prefer to pay thing with real cash and not have to worry about havin to buy it now and pay for it later with interest
 1NSATIABLE

Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 46
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Posted: 3/8/2009 4:06:14 AM
you've not head of visa debit cards?
you pay upfrount with own money can only spend that ammount=no nasty supprises
 BundyDropbear

Joined: 3/29/2007
Msg: 47
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Posted: 3/8/2009 8:11:31 AM
yes i have heard of them i had 1 but i got rid of it due to it having a higher interest rate then a normal credit card. I was being charge $x interest every time i used it.
 onemoretimeplease

Joined: 2/22/2008
Msg: 48
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Posted: 3/8/2009 2:58:52 PM
Seems its already started.
My question is how do they know yous is for real or not on here.
Do they have a crystal ball.
Like people lie on here and this place is a stage.
What if someone has the gold badge and you know this not to be true.
Like your not allowed to lag on here so i dont know how they will manage that .
Just a thought.
 hilly1971

Joined: 8/14/2008
Msg: 49
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Posted: 3/8/2009 4:02:59 PM
Well I went and did my first search for ages today just to see if people were showing up in gold ..........and a couple did.

Sorry, but the first thing that popped into my mind when I saw it was that perhaps these were the more desperate members of the pond....maybe its just me though!

I just dont understand why anyone would pay money when they dont have to.
 onemoretimeplease

Joined: 2/22/2008
Msg: 50
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Posted: 3/8/2009 7:00:35 PM
If they are serious one why are they on other sites.
Theres plenty free ones over here or can i not mention that oops sorry.
Glen will be so pleased.
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