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| | Ex-girlfriend asked me out for dinnerPage 3 of 3 (1, 2, 3) | OP,
I am begging you to please STOP.
STOP the lighter then air, how amazing it was, baffled by how well we clicked stuff.
You are putting her on a pedestal. SHE CAN NOT LIVE UP TO YOUR EXPECTATIONS.
Everything that you feel is you feeling for yourself. It is what you want to feel. You do not know her. Do not make her responsible for your feelings.
"That same feeling I got back then from just being around her is definitely back. "
That is you. Not her. You are not psychically linked
Get a grip on yourself. It is for you own good and if you ever want to have a chance of this relationship working. I agree with those that say don't go back it leads to a pattern of back and forth. However, 1 month and whatever happened may not be enough. However, the chance that she left the first time because of your overblown feelings wouldn't be a big stretch.
Now you have to do this without screwing everything up and making an ass of yourself. Maybe a good way to start is by letting her know that she stirs up some feelings and hell I don't know... Wouldn't mind being in your position. | |
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| Ex-girlfriend asked me out for dinner
Posted: 3/24/2009 7:02:14 AM |
She also emailed me some more pictures of her and her kids .....So SHE also has children.....interesting.
she said she would call me tonite and just send her a text when I had gotten my kids to sleep .....
She did send me a text saying that she did fall asleep last nite How many parents get to sleep whilst they have children awake?
I think you are a 'fill in' until the next guy comes around. Unless she is a really deep sleeper she would have heard her phone going off.
Parents are usually sub concious when they sleep and trust me they hear every little sound.....including an incoming sms. | |
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| Ex-girlfriend asked me out for dinner
Posted: 3/24/2009 7:16:59 AM | | From my own experience, I would turn and walk away, no good can become of this. We are creatures of habit, and patterns, and it sounds like history will repeat itself on this one. I broke up with my ex, she came to me 4 months later all nice and apologetic. Well, I was leary, listened, spent some time with her, then history repeated itself. Caught her lying about what she was doing when she was not with me, and that ended that. | |
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| Ex-girlfriend asked me out for dinner
Posted: 3/24/2009 12:59:20 PM | The ex girlfriend started texting you after 5 months of "no contact', because she still thinks about you, and that fabulous "month" the two of you shared while dating briefly. You're divorced now. The slate is clean.
If you had a lot of feelings for her then, and you're glad to hear from her now, then the feelings are still there! If "she" is the one asking you out, then her interest level is "way up there". It's up to you whether or not you wanna "bite" and give her a chance. I mean, what can it hurt? You felt good when you were with her, didn't you? So, you will probably feel good when you two have dinner, now. So, go ahead...enjoy life....go out to dinner with her! Sounds like you'll have a great time!
Good Luck,
Cinderella5000 | |
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