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 Author Thread: New Serious Member Feature.
 championsofnothing

Joined: 1/22/2009
Msg: 226
New Serious Member Feature.
Posted: 3/29/2009 5:59:41 PM
Can someone answer a question for me... I just randomly logged on yesterday and found I'm a serious member... Now I didn't pay anything for it . I'm a little confused as to what is going on... Why were random people given this for free? Thanks!
 verygreeneyez

Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 227
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Posted: 3/29/2009 6:24:10 PM

Can someone answer a question for me... I just randomly logged on yesterday and found I'm a serious member... Now I didn't pay anything for it . I'm a little confused as to what is going on... Why were random people given this for free? Thanks!

You just have that "I'm serious" look about you.

(Seriously? Admin handed those freebies out as a ploy to get others to think some were actually paying for the little yellow medallion on your profile and the little smooshy yellow dot next to your email ~ OH ~ and don't forget, the yellow border around your profile.)
 championsofnothing

Joined: 1/22/2009
Msg: 228
New Serious Member Feature.
Posted: 3/29/2009 6:29:45 PM
lol. Thanks verygreen. I don't like that I'm a pawn in the admins diabolical scheme of making money :'(
 write_away

Joined: 3/12/2008
Msg: 229
New Serious Member Feature.
Posted: 3/30/2009 5:18:30 AM
The "Remove" from my matches feature is great.

But it only comes up when your in "My Matches".

It would be nice if it showed on the profiles all the time.
 Chevelle67

Joined: 3/26/2005
Msg: 230
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Posted: 3/30/2009 5:23:17 AM
I am a serious member. I just dont want to pay the monthly fee for a little yellow dot next to my profile. I am on here looking for my soulmate and if a woman doesn't like the pics I have up then she can move on. But, I am serious about finding the woman of my dreams
 KHAN CHE

Joined: 2/11/2009
Msg: 231
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Posted: 3/30/2009 6:37:33 AM
I agree with you that an enlarge feature would be worth paying for. some peoples pics are from a long way off and you can't really tell anything about them, except they are standing by a pretty tree.
 kennyguk

Joined: 10/15/2006
Msg: 232
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Posted: 4/4/2009 12:50:51 PM
I had to laugh when I looked into what this actually involved.

Underneath a big banner at the top of the site was the site motto "100% free - put away your credit card".....I was now being asked to get out my credit card.
 Mikeed77

Joined: 7/12/2008
Msg: 233
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Posted: 4/4/2009 1:17:16 PM
I think of the points mentioned is that you will stand out from others with this new status! However in my matches and search I can not filter for just people with upgrade!

So a great feature would be for me to have the ability to just view these people as a filter! should help draw attention to people who paid for the upgrade! and are more serious!

Note: Have seen ladies who state they have received this status without charge! I think that this will deflate the value of this upgrade! and if I find over time that the people with this status are not really any different! then I would not renew; which will mean after time the revenue from this new option will fade! needs to deliver value for the people who subscribe!

Also should consider giving some priority to profile with upgrade in search!~

What about a featured profile! rotation for people with this status! in their geo area! this would definatly drive traffic to these upgraded members!

Forums! maybe a special forum where only these members could access! I also think that you clould consider some advertising benifit for this status! what if some special offers were available from advertisors; only to this group!
 p~s

Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 234
New Serious Member Feature.
Posted: 4/5/2009 9:48:46 AM
You guys are too funny, who would actually pay money for the serious membership thing. What benefit s does it really give you anyway?
 Archangel46

Joined: 12/23/2008
Msg: 235
New Serious Member Feature.
Posted: 4/5/2009 10:05:42 AM
Hi Admin I have a serious question about this serious membership.
Someone should be screening these people on a serious note. I know of two of your serious gold members... That are players big time and seem to get a kick out of what they are doing. By not screening your are defeating the object of being a serious member for dating.Surely thats false advertising ?

 Pitch Blease

Joined: 3/4/2009
Msg: 236
New Serious Member Feature. Please remove it.
Posted: 4/5/2009 10:09:34 AM

Next we'll see that men looking for "intimate encounter" aka one night stands also are Serious Members if they have the visa card.

I've seen this already.
 flowerforce

Joined: 9/6/2006
Msg: 237
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Posted: 4/5/2009 10:13:15 AM
Since your serious member thing is a sham Eg. you put people from intimate encounters and people wanting friends as well as people who have e-mailed you saying
I did not ask to be a serious member then it does not matter how many photos go on.
Oh yes please remove the this is a 100% free site because it no longer is.
 anthony063

Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 238
New Serious Member Feature.
Posted: 4/7/2009 7:13:16 AM
l have passed the hurdle of the questionaire, to become a "serious member". Why do l now need to pay some money? l thought pof professed to be a 100% free site. l now discover that some people have been awarded the medallion without charge and some people have been given the medallion when they did not want it. lt does somewhat dilute the privileges that are supposed to accompany the medallion. l think the whole thing is one big mistake except, of course, for Markus. He get's to keep the money.
 *Cowboy*

Joined: 4/28/2006
Msg: 239
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Posted: 4/7/2009 7:25:54 AM
Anthony its just an option. You just joined. You know that the vast majority of the upgrades have been given away for now for free so they mean nothing at this time really. There is no screening PRESENTLY as those looking for Intimate Encounters can pay to be as serious as the truly serious daters.

Welcome to POF and why not kick back for awhile and see how this all shakes out in the next couple months?

Cowboy
 Ameerra

Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 240
New Serious Member Feature.
Posted: 4/7/2009 9:01:00 AM
I'd also point out that one of your more shadier members has just taken the medallion and added it to their profile as a picture and gave himself the "serious member" status gratis.
 centurymantra

Joined: 11/21/2008
Msg: 241
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Posted: 4/8/2009 6:50:11 AM
I have pretty much just enjoyed the forums on this site...which is a very nice aspect of POF. I'm surprised that there isn't more discussion on how limited the features of the forum are - primarily in the area of it's search capabilities. Honestly, and I don't mean to be too harsh, but it feels like a forum that's stuck in 1994. The search function is, to be blunt, just plain awful. You can't search the text of messages - only the thread titles, it only displays one page of results, you can't do a "new posts" search, it only allows you to select a few of the specific forums, no preview of the post, etc., etc., etc. I can't think of another forum or bulletin board I've been on in recent years that is as clunky and restrictive in this manner. This is really too bad, as it has developed into a forum with a lot of great discussion going on. I don't know much about the technicalities of this, but it seems like it wouldn't be too hard to upgrade to vBulletin or something like that.

It seems to me that if anything was to be upgraded, it should be the forums - given their overall popularity. Just my $0.02 anyway.
 Make it happen!

Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 242
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Posted: 4/8/2009 10:30:48 AM
maybe favorites should be called something else. When I have a second I click on favorites so I don't have to search again. I will respond later when I have more time. Some are favorites and some are just to take a look see again.

I wish spell check was on all messages. Make it eaiser.

Good Thoughts.
 seattlerain11

Joined: 9/17/2007
Msg: 243
New Serious Member Feature.
Posted: 4/8/2009 11:53:17 AM
Hey Century,

Thanks a lot for your $0.02... now you only need to contribute another $74.98 to be taken seriously!

HA!

James

PS: I too noticed a HUGE number of people with dots immediately after the change to a pay site... Now that I'm reading that many who 'upgraded' didn't pay, I question the ethical decision of these fake upgrades in order to make it APPEAR as if everyone is paying.

(If the fake upgrades are true.)
 seattlerain11

Joined: 9/17/2007
Msg: 244
New Serious Member Feature.
Posted: 4/8/2009 11:55:22 AM
Hey Love You Loving Me,

If you start using FIREFOX (it's free) as your browser, not only does it have spell check BUILT IN but it blocks nearly all ads on all websites if you get the free "ad block plus" add on.

Firefox also had tabbed browsing about 2 years before Internet explore decided to do it.

I'm just saying,

James, Seattle
 lisshe

Joined: 1/10/2006
Msg: 245
New Serious Member Feature.
Posted: 4/8/2009 1:26:04 PM
I have been on this site for nearly three years. Have met some great people, but did not click for long term. Wow, if I just pay for a yellow dot, does that mean I will suddenly find the man of my dreams - I doubt it. As people before me have said, this is supposed to be 100% free and now it is not. False advertising!!!!! I hope this is not going to turn into one of those sites that is free to "sign up", but if you want to actually e-mail anyone, wow, there is a huge fee. This site makes so much money off advertising that I really do not understand why there are suddenly fees to say you are "serious". There are people on here looking for intimate encounters that have a yellow dot. How is that serious? I am sincere in looking for someone and don't think I need a yellow dot or need to pay a huge fee to prove it. My profile makes that clear and if someone is going to judge my profile based on whether or not I have a yellow dot then not sure if they are worth it. Get rid of this.
 LadyBoBina

Joined: 3/20/2009
Msg: 246
New Serious Member Feature.
Posted: 4/8/2009 1:31:25 PM
Smelly-vision
 chat-2-me

Joined: 6/24/2008
Msg: 247
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Posted: 4/8/2009 1:47:22 PM
I think it would be good for them to be able to search just other serious members.

If Id paid for the site and thought it was the way to be taken seriously then I would like to search the same attitude
 p~s

Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 248
New Serious Member Feature.
Posted: 4/9/2009 12:18:19 AM
""I have been on this site for nearly three years. Have met some great people, but did not click for long term. Wow, if I just pay for a yellow dot, does that mean I will suddenly find the man of my dreams - I doubt it. As people before me have said, this is supposed to be 100% free and now it is not. False advertising!!!!! I hope this is not going to turn into one of those sites that is free to "sign up", but if you want to actually e-mail anyone, wow, there is a huge fee. This site makes so much money off advertising that I really do not understand why there are suddenly fees to say you are "serious". There are people on here looking for intimate encounters that have a yellow dot. How is that serious? I am sincere in looking for someone and don't think I need a yellow dot or need to pay a huge fee to prove it. My profile makes that clear and if someone is going to judge my profile based on whether or not I have a yellow dot then not sure if they are worth it. Get rid of this.""

Dam girl, that's worth repeating! There's a lot of truth to what you just said.
 p~s

Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 249
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Posted: 4/9/2009 12:24:01 AM
""I wish spell check was on all messages. Make it easier. ""

You can get spell check on the google toolbar, works for all online script. No good on messenger though.
 BigDaddyJinx

Joined: 11/4/2006
Msg: 250
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Posted: 4/9/2009 12:34:01 AM

Can someone answer a question for me... I just randomly logged on yesterday and found I'm a serious member... Now I didn't pay anything for it . I'm a little confused as to what is going on... Why were random people given this for free? Thanks!

CoN -- Not bad enough that I was already skeptical about the "new" feature...but when I discovered that they were being distributed for FREE to people, that immediately made me sour on the whole scam. If they expect people to "buy in" then giving them away just seems ridiculous and very self serving to perpetuate the site's own ideal of "popularity". It's an ancient bait n' switch lure and it made that whole Serious Member ploy just utterly weak and completely hollow. If everyone paid for it, then we could call it "Serious".

Can't call it "Serious" if the first thought in your head is "Did you PAY for it or was it a FREEBIE?"

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