| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 6/28/2005 4:06:21 AM | of course no......oh wait...oohhh....oohh...oooooohhhhhhhh yeah!!!! ohhhh yesss!!! mmm baby!!!.........what was i talking about again? | |
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| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 6/28/2005 5:01:26 AM | no theres never enough of that...........but in your mind your properly lacking intrest in it and need a fresh challenge..............i.e me..lol
lmao
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| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 7/9/2005 5:15:53 PM | Okay my advice is try doing it without the vibrator for a while. I used to own one too, and I frazzled the wires in it from overuse *grin*. Try using your fingers instead, I actually found once I didn't have one, that I get better orgasms using my fingers. I never replaced the vibe.  | |
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| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 7/9/2005 6:02:43 PM | What you are experiencing sounds like desensitization. You can actually "calcify" the clitoris with over-stimulation.
It's sort of like playing a guitar, the pressure on the fingers and the friction it produces causes calouses and you aren't as sensitive to the cut of the strings...it's the same for your clit..it's human tissue and the nerve endings when using the vibe can become overstimulated and eventually begin to numb.
You can recover from it by reverting to manual stimulation and allowing some healing of the tissues before you go back to the vibe, or at least, cut back on the vibe usage so that you can experience different sensations to bring you to orgasm.
Yes, you CAN have too much of a good thing...abuse it, lose it. | |
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| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 7/9/2005 8:03:56 PM |
I think I broke my "magic button" the lil man in the row boat has declared mutiny
I think that sexual arousal and eventual orgasm, is definitely more of a mind game than manual stimulation...Maybe the real problem isn't sensitivity but boredom, stress or lack of concentration... | |
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| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 7/10/2005 6:36:21 PM | yes... quite the gizmo... it will cause you too much nerve damage if used in excess. Haven't you heard about the workers that use tools all day long and have to get wrist operations from the nerve damage caused by the vibration of the tools. Use your hands, fingers or borrow one of those other gadgets that come with a body attached.  | |
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| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 7/10/2005 7:41:52 PM | okay i got drunk one time thats right only once it ****ing sicked i was sick for a whole day but anyways i was jerking of and i found it took me 30 mins god my shoulders start hurting then ur****isnt used to the left hand and it takes longer so mabey u coul strain a muscule in ur arm doing it.
also and i found that if u stop jerking off for a few days then do it again in say 2 or 3 days i is even better then before lol | |
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| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 7/10/2005 7:53:17 PM | shoot aint nothing wrong with masturbation.... infact i think am the only one on earth that has perfected so good that i can even do positions while i do it lol.
very healthy to masturbate | |
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| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 7/10/2005 8:15:27 PM | Hmmm.. Yeah if there was such a thing as 'too much' I think I would have been there a few years ago.
As for your question. Everything in life is about variety. Of course you used to cum like a banchee after 38.7 seconds of placing that 9000 RPM love rocket against your clit. But just like anything, once you get used to something, it just isn't as good.
The key is variety! Try a new toy.. Give that index finger some exercise... Whatever it takes. Sometimes even just adjusting the speed/pulse might make a difference.
Or try some new fantasies. Try something you haven't tried before.. Bust out a webcam. Do it with someone on the phone. Add some kink and you'll be surprised how quickly your 0-60 times improve! | |
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| Can excessive masturbation inhibit male orgasm? Is this Reversible?
Posted: 1/20/2006 2:53:04 PM | Thanks for your post, Blastkist, about desensitization of one's clitoris. Anyone have any experience with desensitization of one's penis? Anyone find a cure?
I don't mean to condemn masturbation. I do want to point out that it might be possible for a man to train himself to not enjoy sex with a woman, by letting himself get accustomed to manual stimulation that is more intense than anything that he will experience with a woman.
Hey, you young men. This is not a joke. I am afraid that it IS possible to diminish your sexual response with too much inappropriate masturbation. The hypothesis is that this happens through desensitizing or numbing the skin of the penis, combined with the creation of inappropriate expectations and habits in the guy's brain. Can anyone comment on this? Especially on ways to recover sensitivity? We have heard of "vibration therapy", but cannot find any information on this treatment. Vibration therapy was mentioned on a PBS broadcast. However, it might be intended only for older men, whose loss of sensitivity is caused by advancing age or disease, not inappropriate masturbation.
I have a boyfriend who seems very interested in sex, and is very good to me, except he cannot ejaculate, at least inside me. For us, this takes away an important part of lovemaking. Without enumerating the delightful and private details, his behaviour is probably not caused by bashfulness or anxiety; he is a very enthusiastic lover. (I enjoy not having to worry if he will last long enough for me to climax... he always takes me to the finish line!) He suspects that he has somehow diminished his response through masturbation. He finds the sensations of intercourse not intense enough to initiate his ejaculation reflex, even with a woman who has not given birth. I was skeptical of this diagnosis and course of action until I saw the following published information. Can anyone share any experiences? We are trying to figure out if this situation is curable, and what might be the best remedy. Physicians we have spoken to want to dismiss this as loss of nerve sensitivity from advancing age, and as near impossible to treat. He is 50 and in good health, with none of the usual suspects, such as diabetes, heart disease, and so on. In fact, he looks and acts 40ish, and is fit and athletic.
Some published medical "experts" claim that a very common reason for delayed or retarded ejaculation is that most men have their first orgasms through masturbation. They learn how to perform sex by masturbating, and depend on masturbation for release, for many years. This is not harmful, except for those men who exert much more pressure with their hands than they are likely to experience during intercourse. Worse, they may possibly massage their penis with a rhythm that is far more rapid than a man and woman can experience during intercourse. In doing so, they essentially train themselves to sexually respond to unrealistically intense sensations. One reason males start using intense pressure and rhythm, as boys, is that they're rushing to finish so they don't get caught. Then, as adults, they are habituated to respond only to that same intense stimulation. When they start making love to a woman, the sensations seem under-whelming, not near enough to reach orgasm. Suggested therapy is to practice self-stimulation with a very slow rhythm and with much less pressure than usual. Of course, the same experts recommend that the guy avoid self-stimulation just before he is likely to be intimate with his girl.
Another recommended therapy is to increase the eroticism of foreplay, making the guy wait until he’s practically on the edge of climax before allowing him to insert his penis. We have tried this. It's fun, but not helping him climax inside me.
In my opinion, the additional therapy of manually stroking him with a very slow rhythm might help get him back on track. But, so far, no results. I wonder, how much time might be required for this retraining?
If true, the opinions of these experts are rather discouraging. On one hand, we don't want to encourage young men to jump into sex too soon, with too many partners. Especially if the young guys get accustomed to "quickie" sex that might possibly train them to rush to climax too rapidly. On the other hand, it would be nice if every young man had a good teacher who could start him out right, teaching him how to best please himself and his partner. But that would be an ideal world. Or would it? We could discuss at length about how a more relaxed sexual ethic could benefit relationships. For example, the customs that Margaret Mead claimed to have found among the Polynesians, where young men were initiated by older women, in order to start the young men out right, learning how to please themselves and their girl friends.
Can anyone else offer any suggestions? Anyone have any experiences with this situation, of desensitized sexual response, caused by inappropriate masturbation? | |
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| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 1/20/2006 3:04:32 PM | You just need to buy a few different kind, and when one goes sour...you get the next one...that should work. | |
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| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 1/20/2006 4:55:12 PM | | Sometimes we just need a helpin' hand....other times we just help our selves. heh! Too much? Hell no...otherwise I'd be in the running for MAA...Masterbation Addiction Anonymous | |
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| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 1/20/2006 10:11:45 PM | As they say, no one can do it better than yourself.
It is BS about how vibrators desensitize a woman's clit. The sex toy business is so booming now. It is such fun to have them as part of your sex with a partner now too. Wish I was having it to begin with LOL | |
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| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 6/15/2007 8:54:38 PM | | If you get to good at masturbating (fast and quick) then research says that is what you will be with your future partner. A bad sex partner! | |
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| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 6/15/2007 9:00:40 PM | | Wow...I am someone that masturbates at least ten times a day with or without a partner. I never heard of ever having too much of it, maybe too little:) | |
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| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 6/15/2007 11:20:20 PM | | ya, no such thing as too much masturbating:P Just take a vacation, hold off for a week and see if things improve. | |
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| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 6/16/2007 8:22:30 AM | | lol. probably at a point where your back is going to give. choice is the best way to go. then again if you don't have a partner would be a good choice. for a guy don't know if you can to much. but there probably is some reason you feel the need to. if you take vitamins hold off on high dosage mg. if not then give yourself a break and then start back after a few days. wouldn't wait to long though because it may be even more intense | |
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| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 4/22/2008 7:39:02 AM | | no you can masturbate all you want i ben jerkingoff for about 20 years and still do sometimes i would play with myself all day just to jerkoff later i jerkedoff someimes twice a day for the whole week i love to jerkoff when its hard to jerkoff after so many times i shave my self and play with myself through out the day till its time my cumm is ready to explode | |
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| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 5/23/2008 5:10:39 PM | LMAO!!!! Sorry, I've been pleasuring myself since about 12? Never used battery operated so not had that problem. Try going all natural. You've got 2 hands? I like to use a couple of fingers and the other hand caresses my breasts....not as good as a boyfreind but a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do. Unless you wanna turn into a slut and do it with just any guy that comes along....but that's your decision. Personally I like safe sex and right now for me anyway, that means Pleasuring myself. oh, its Friday nite..  | |
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| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 5/23/2008 5:18:39 PM | | yes. twice a day it's all in good fun, 3 times and your overdoing it. maybe the thrill is just missing, try something new. just like the real thing, the same thing all the time gets old | |
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| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 5/23/2008 5:19:51 PM | Maybe you need new visual, mental, or audio stimulation.
I was lucky, my last BF all he had to do was say my name even over the phone and I'd get all wet then pleasure myself afterwards. I once did it six times in one nite. Now that's six sessions of multiple orgasims....had to change the bed-sheets the next day... Gosh, just thinking of him makes me damp down there. now squirming in my seat....later, tonite! | |
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| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 5/23/2008 5:25:55 PM | | I think so....your private part could only take so much ectasy with your toy at hand....you got to let it go....find a good man who can do the same vibration with his tongue (very rare!) :) Have Fun ! | |
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| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 5/23/2008 5:57:03 PM | Not sure how it works for women, but for men, you can actually cause genital shrinkage and decreased libido over time with years of excessive masturbation.
Your body is like those old NiCad recharchable batteries. If you continually deplete your reserves without giving yourself time to significantly recharge, eventually you will lose the ability to recharge to your full capacity. Then every time you rub one off, it's like ejaculating your soul out of your body, and you feel dead tired for the next two days.
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| Too much masturbation...
Posted: 5/24/2008 4:12:01 AM | ^^^
Although any urologist well tell you that occassional masterbation is actually good for the "piping"..... particularly if you are not sexually active or ejactualting on a regular basis....
As far as how do you know its too much..... When you get hair on your palms and go blind
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