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 redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007
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Posted: 3/17/2009 1:24:48 PM
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Well Byrd..

We all have our different afflictions at our ages.

I think the question is far too intimate to respond personally.. and.. since I can only respond by my own expereinces.. or those of my friends.. and we don't even discuss the intimate details.. I have NO answer for ya.

Try to find someone that fits your mold.. best suggestion I can think to give.

Enjoy?
 pirateheaven

Joined: 5/11/2008
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Posted: 3/17/2009 6:58:26 PM
OP --

I am 100% Italian and that pretty much sums it up. We can engage in love making even after we've been dead a week.
 Call Me Sugar

Joined: 10/7/2008
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Posted: 3/17/2009 7:39:55 PM
I couldnt have said it any better than this by Sapphireeyes

Personally I think alot of women my age range are just coming into our own, once we are freed of all the bs that was shoveled at us from the time we were in training bras.

Being sexy isnt dirty, being sensuous isnt a bad thing. Knowing how to please a man and keep him wanting more is actually a really really nice talent to have. The kids are grown and now we have "ME" time, time to explore at our leisure the things we want to know more about.

Not having to worry about becoming pregnant gives us another type of freedom. Most just need the courage to accept who they are now and allow themselves to bloom vs looking behind (not literally but hey it might be the case) at who they used to be.

There is a difference about being confident in who you are and what you bring to the table (bed) and being loose and trying to gain validation thru numerous sex partners.

WHAT A PERFECT ANSWER AND VERY WELL SAID!!
ITS THE TRUTH...
 GreenEyesBlondeHair

Joined: 11/5/2007
Msg: 29
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Posted: 3/17/2009 7:45:03 PM
I want a man who can really bring it home in the bedroom...REGULARLY...it's not worth going there if its a one nighter here & there...younger men are looking better & better
 Byrd

Joined: 7/19/2004
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Posted: 3/17/2009 8:59:31 PM
"Try to find someone who fits your mold.." Not looking for that..It seems like all the women here think that I want to fu*k them only a few I assure the beauty queens you aien't my type... Try to answer the question now "Are you just as much a whore (men or woman) as you were when you were young?" If you don't want to answer it don't but please don't imply I'm just as much a man whore as I once was..I pick my nose now, I'm very picky..But that is not to say this chunk of lard isn't on the prowl for a plesently plump red hot MAMA! either...Thank You this public message has been bought to you by the Panama Red corp. of America the time is 4:20....
 serenityCW

Joined: 1/21/2006
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Posted: 3/17/2009 10:09:11 PM
after reading this thread, i don't know what to do first: OR i think i'll opt for:
 OldFolkie

Joined: 6/8/2008
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Posted: 3/17/2009 10:23:20 PM
Long live red hot MAMA's!, Byrd!

I'm pretty much less of a man-whore than in my youth. Age and infirmity have slowed me down some, I guess.

Oh, and "Panama Red" is my favorite Peter Rowan song. Not that I indulge in the weed, you understand, medicinal or otherwise...I just love the song.

And Serenity, I think all we can do in the end is just . I know that I do all the time. We humans are such a funny bunch!
 maeflowers

Joined: 1/15/2006
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Posted: 3/17/2009 10:59:45 PM

And the mirror came down long ago. Ceiling mirrors and plus 45 bedrooms don't mix well.



...(lol), I just about peed my pants when I read this....... but how can I blame you, I'd be taking down those mirrors too...believe me, at my age, I don't want to be catching glimpses of myself from certain angles, I'm talking gravity here....Speaking of gravity....still trying to decide.....do I look best looking down into his eyes, or staring up?

...maeflowers
 ooohmiss!

Joined: 3/5/2007
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Posted: 3/17/2009 11:11:20 PM
I would hope most of us have learned a few "tricks" compared to when we first started having sex.
 ZenBeth

Joined: 2/23/2009
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Posted: 3/17/2009 11:44:17 PM
Byrd:Are you just as kinky as you ever were? or loose or are you done


Byrd babe your posts are so much fun. Define kinky. Seems SOME older folks may have more kinks Because of my upbringing and world travels I am pretty open minded. Did you ever see the movie Auntie Mame with Rosalind Russell? The motto 'Life's a banquet and most of you SOB's are starving to death', is what I live by. For me sex is a lot like cooking.

I know gourmet has a snobby sound, but I use the term because I cook various ethnic foods due to my travels. And like loving a variety of great foods and wines, the rest of my life is equally diverse and satisfying. Our mom was active in all areas of her life well into her nineties. Visualize a fun wild woman in Brazil during Carnival.
 CelticAngelEyes

Joined: 2/11/2009
Msg: 36
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Posted: 3/18/2009 4:02:26 AM
Kinky is a matter of perspective (just like freaky, lol) if you're into it, it's not.
 tallyover

Joined: 3/8/2008
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Posted: 3/18/2009 4:13:04 AM
Some guests left a magnet on the fridge at the lake house.
It says: It's only kinky the first time.
Is that true?
 Byrd

Joined: 7/19/2004
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Posted: 3/18/2009 9:29:08 AM
The first time was hell I was 14 years old it was with a neighborhood gal nicknamed "Creamy peanutbutter" She was 16 and very experienced we made love inside a closet with glass on the floor everytime I thrusted my car into her garage it slammed into her pelvic bone hurting my manhood very much...When we came out of the closet there were 20 guys standing outside clapping they were my brothers we were all in a boys home they set me up with "Creamy peanutbutter.." Funny she didn't taste anything like creamy peanut butter, but she went well with grape jelly...Later on while taking a hot shower a couple guys came in and informed me that creamy peanutbutter had vd and the only way to get rid of it was to scrub it with a toothbrush...It still hurts 37 years later and no she did not have vd.
 parrothead 13

Joined: 10/21/2007
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Posted: 3/18/2009 2:22:03 PM
Labeling myself in this way just is not something I am gonna be comfortable with. If my partner of the moment is conservative, I can do that. If she is more open, I can do that. personally sex is great but I like variety in style (not in partners) to keep things alive.
 WsprsOnTheWind

Joined: 4/12/2007
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Posted: 3/18/2009 2:39:36 PM
As Toby Keith would say. Not as good as I once was, but I'm as good once as I ever was.

Couldn't resist.
 MasterBeorn

Joined: 12/20/2008
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Posted: 3/22/2009 5:17:15 PM
"Kinky is a matter of perspective"

An old adage - A pervert uses the whole chicken! LOL
 strollinbella

Joined: 6/30/2007
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Posted: 3/22/2009 5:27:37 PM
Hey there Byrd, it's Galapagos, not Galo...whatever it was you said, lol!! That aside, I am much more adventurous now in my 50s than I was ever before. Whoever said that a woman loses interest after menopause was making a generalization that didn't describe this lady at all, tee hee. That being said, my ticker can't take much excitement, so I do have to take breaks now and again, but with an understanding partner can last for a few hours.

Oops, I think I said too much. Oh well, I like it this way....
 strollinbella

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Posted: 3/22/2009 5:50:55 PM
To maeflowers, msg #33, you are sooooo very funny! Love your last line, lol!!!
 Byrd

Joined: 7/19/2004
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Posted: 3/23/2009 5:53:13 PM
I knew it was something like that I can't spell so well when I'm high..Like the name of the thread..I'm the same way I really can go for a time even though these old bones would be a creeakin like an old bed of course they'd be singin in harmony as long as I have gone without...Sooner or later it will happen again..I'm not bad lookin nor bad in the sack for a big fella...
 bklynrebel

Joined: 11/30/2008
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Posted: 3/23/2009 6:00:36 PM
Six foot sex. No, that was not a freudian slip. I'll have to get a longer bed if you visit the East Coast.
 soft_touchABC

Joined: 2/3/2009
Msg: 46
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Posted: 3/24/2009 2:27:37 PM
Fancy an italian putting a "Making Love" topic in the art and music section...

Lov, it is like painting a picture, with fingers to slowly trace the shapes, gently, slowly with the delicatesse of the countours, yet with firmness and sensetively. molto bene
 fancynanci

Joined: 8/21/2007
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Posted: 3/24/2009 2:37:20 PM
I'm more wild and hot than I ever was!!!!!!!
 redarcangel

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Posted: 3/24/2009 3:17:40 PM
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"Try to find someone who fits your mold.." Not looking for that..It seems like all the women here think that I want to fu*k them only a few I assure the beauty queens you aien't my type..."

.............. and I'm counting my lucky stars on that one!

This just reminds me of one of those senseless IM's from those that start a conversation with.. Hi Sexy.. or Hey Hottie.. if only you were here.. I'd wanna do this.. and that.. with you! The perverts that get their rocks off by asking you about your sexual encounters.. or telling you about their sexual fantasies.

A forum to masturbate to! Good Grief!
 *buzz*

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Posted: 3/25/2009 1:05:29 PM

Do you still do it the way you used too?

Old habits die hard
 SportyLady59

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Posted: 3/25/2009 5:56:59 PM
I'm more open minded and willing than I was when I was young, but the opportunities have nearly dried up.
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