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 tornado1

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Posted: 3/25/2009 6:18:45 PM
I'm pretty much as open-minded as I was, when I was younger........I'm just more discriminating now!
 Byrd

Joined: 7/19/2004
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Posted: 3/25/2009 8:59:23 PM
There's always one where you have to explain everything and even when you do you still get called names... I was mearly wondering how sex was for other people over 45 I myself have arthritis and since my back and neck are not the same way they once were I have problems...Oh but Noooooooooooooo redarcangel says I'm a perv she must be right.....I don't know why you keep comming back to this thread either I mean besides to nag. Your a pretty gal but the nagging just aien't worth it...Please stay on topic Thank You. Good Will Humping.....
 willothewhisper

Joined: 9/29/2006
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Posted: 3/25/2009 9:47:12 PM
I don't want to make love. I have no desire. That's why I'm single and avoiding a relationship. I would like a buddy, a heartbuddy, a me & you look after each other buddy, but the idea of sex is ucky!
Unless I fall in love and I'm helpless with the desires love brings upon you. Just not interested in sex for itself tho.
Wow, this is so true for me I'm going to add it to my profile.
 Byrd

Joined: 7/19/2004
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Posted: 3/25/2009 9:54:15 PM
I got this girl friend we were together a couple times along time ago but we haven't been to bed in over 10 years and I totally have no sexual desire for her she wants to cuddle I have no problem with that but shes afraid I'll want sex like maybe I'll perv out...I know who I am also and I won't but it's up to her....I wouldn't mind it once in awhile but it doesn't engulf my whole life there are other things..
 mrwizard97209

Joined: 3/21/2009
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Posted: 3/27/2009 11:21:10 AM
After a long marriage to a woman who told me she didn't want or need sex with anyone, me included, I divorced 4 years ago. I had the good fortune to meet some very sexual and loving women almost immediatly and I can tell you that I am better than I ever was. I will be forever grateful.

I read once that a lot of what men learn about sex they learn as they start to masturbate as kids. It sounds funny but after thinking about it for a while it made sense to me. We are trying to hurry up and get to the orgasm before we get caught (or someone changes their mind). A lot of my early sex was rushed and tense. I have learned to relax, slow down and enjoy the journey at least as much as the destination. I am also more willing to explore and try just about anything that feels good.

When my mother was in her late 70's she had this old guy Art was his name. He was in his late 80's and still trying to get into her pants every day. I want to be that guy.

Good fishin,
 mopar123

Joined: 12/16/2008
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Posted: 3/28/2009 8:28:44 AM
Luv this stuff,I just go with it and see where it goes. You know what they say about going with the flow....
 maeflowers

Joined: 1/15/2006
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Posted: 3/28/2009 10:59:11 AM

To maeflowers, msg #33, you are sooooo very funny! Love your last line, lol!!!



Speaking of gravity....still trying to decide.....do I look best looking down into his eyes, or staring up?



...Ain't it the truth though?

...maeflowers
 Nutsbutcutereally

Joined: 11/15/2008
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Posted: 3/28/2009 12:04:44 PM
Well, there is an old saying here, "when you get a little older, it takes a little longer but you don't begrudge the time....."
 SandraB56

Joined: 10/16/2008
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Posted: 3/28/2009 11:13:20 PM
At 52 going on 53 in July I am the best I have ever been. It really makes a difference when you have a significant other in your life whose only ambition in bed is to please you first and make you happy before he climaxes. I regularily multi-orgasm 6-7 times with him to his twice. Best thing is after when we spoon and cuddle and relax. He holds me oh so tight and it's heaven. I try different things because I trust him and want to make him happy too. We have fun in bed as well as making love. We giggle and act like a couple of youngsters and I hope we always do.
I was married to a very selfish guy for 26 yrs and who said well if you haven't come, it's not my fault. Yeah right. Heard he needs the V drug to do anything now. My honey is 2 yrs younger than me and does not need a thing. Except me. LOL.
Sandra.
 SandraB56

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Posted: 3/28/2009 11:16:24 PM
PS sometimes we get so worked up - we joke we are both going to die frozen in position and how embarrassing it would be. We are both a few pounds overweight and worry about our hearts giving out in the middle of things LOL. But we're still here and having fun.
 Byrd

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Posted: 3/29/2009 9:18:26 PM
Will that's wonderful to have someone you love that makes it..I always worry to I'll get caught in that position all by myself..I'm sure the guys at the fire house would take pictures and plaster them all over town...I'm reading this great book by Patricia Cornwell she writes of when she worked in a coroners office having this body come in fully dressed while doing the autopsy she noticed the very fine indentation in the mans buttocks from a tioliet seat...Talk about embarASSing!
 theone54

Joined: 10/14/2008
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Posted: 3/30/2009 4:20:57 PM
GOTTA LOVE YA, i HEAR YA
 aSydneyMale

Joined: 5/16/2006
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Posted: 3/30/2009 5:54:22 PM

Well nothing personal but your not my type either I don't just hop in the sack with any gal..

What are you, made of stone? lol She's gorgeous, certainly my type (although she's now shuddering at the mere thought!)
 Byrd

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Posted: 3/30/2009 9:30:30 PM
I have been with more gorgeous girls that put me through hell because I judged a book by it's cover than not...Yes I'm made of stone I'd rather be alone..Plus shes way to young for me, thin, too perfect...I like women with meat on their bones anyway gives me something to nawwwww on..
 FriendlyFreeSpirit

Joined: 8/24/2008
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Posted: 3/30/2009 9:35:15 PM
You know Byrd, I'm now seriously in love with you.
I'm TOO THIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And TOO PERFECT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lol you guys crack me up...
This is the funniest thread I've ever read...BTW Byrd, I'm two years older than ya..
 Sapphireeyes

Joined: 1/13/2008
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Posted: 3/30/2009 9:41:49 PM

.I like women with meat on their bones anyway gives me something to nawwwww on..


Lmao is the wrong bone being nawwwwed on here :P
 Moonchild48

Joined: 3/11/2007
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Posted: 3/30/2009 10:28:24 PM
What is that old saying again?
If the bone fits, wear it? OMG, my bad! I will blame it on Saph!

OT: I think that if anything, I am as free as I ever was when given the opportunity. Cept now, with age and being single, the opportunites dont present as often as they used ta!
Concerning makin love..
Posted: 3/31/2009 8:51:19 AM
Still having a great time and glad of it. Certain positions are not as possible to stay in as they once were :) but it matters not, because there are so many ways to enjoy each other, and we do.

Here's wishing everyone a happy love life- whatever that may be - lots, some, or none, with the person you most want to share with.
Cheers!
 Double Cabin

Joined: 11/29/2004
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Posted: 3/31/2009 9:47:17 AM
"Do you still do it the way you used too?"

We'd all be less than men if we haven't learned to set aside the instituionalized misconceptions of youthfull inexperience.

"Or are you more consertive in your middle ages.....There's really no reason to explainning this thread it's quite clear isn't it?"

I am more conservative in some respects in this day and age. I've developed my own predjudices. I will not date vaginaless women. They've got to settle for friendship. Its not my problem.

Are you just as kinky as you ever were?

See answer to number 1.

Thank You. P.S. It looks like a few of us are ready for the cementary doesn't anyone do the bump anymore?

You are no banana sir. I'm fairly certain the idea of beng bumped by a six and a half foot right tackle has raced through the mind of at least 1 in 7 fragile sensibilities here. You're speschal!
 Byrd

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Posted: 3/31/2009 1:44:53 PM
Like I said before your too young for me....I haven't been with anyone for a long time the last gal I was with died and I really loved her as a friend but years ago we were a couple..Since her death I have been offered sex a few times and I've turned it down each time..I just haven't felt ready..My Mom thinks I'm nuts when my father died she had a fella 3 months later..She also loves football and I don't, but I'm not gay actually I've been sad recently I don't think I'm special although I joinned AARP Because I thought they were the American Association of Retarded Persons I am special in that respect...A few years ago when the arthritis started getting bad I went down on a gal and my neck went stiff we were in a weird position where she was also unable to move and the fire dept..had to be called the jaws of life we able to save ours without a scratch except there were clam marks on my nose...I really just wondered if others in our age bracket have physical problems doing the deed I think it's more trouble than it's worth..Have a nice day..I love you all very much and if there's a nice plesantly plump WOMAN out there that would like to be nawwwwwwwwwwed drop me a line I know some day with a cranes help I'll be able to do it again..
 Moonchild48

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Posted: 3/31/2009 1:58:29 PM
OMG Mr. Byrd! I am simply at a loss for words and I may add my good man that doesn't happen to me very often! One question does come to mind though? Have you ever thought of writing? Your stories are truly full of fascinating details. How you paint a picture with words is astronomical! I truly do hope you find that special gal you seek....you know, to keep in practice!
 WaterRhat215

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Posted: 3/31/2009 3:26:34 PM
Hang in there Byrd......Your tale of woe brings to mind the truth of Robert Burns.....hehe


The best LAID plans of mice and men gang aft a gley, and leave us nought but grief and tears for promised joy.
 Byrd

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Posted: 3/31/2009 4:17:55 PM
I have written for many years since the only kid at school that was my friend because his parents told him he had to shot himself DEAD..I think he was sick of me...Believe it or not he shot himself at 13 years of age over a girl and since the day I saw him laying in his casket I've been writing but since my grammer sucks, and swallows too I just write in circles..I have piles and piles of written work poetry, and stories, most half done maybe someday before I die I'll do something.....I'd like too...Who knows maybe I should be looking for a plesently plump woman who is also an agent, or an editor..I could work it off in trade of course I don't have any teeth could be a good thing though...
 Moonchild48

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Posted: 3/31/2009 6:01:08 PM
Mr. Byrd? You have me giggling like a mad school girl! Somehow I do not think making love would truly be an issue with such a "talented" man! Truly whilst we may not be what we once were, perhaps that is a good thing? We know what we like, we know how to please and we definately do take our time! lol...what could be so wrong with that?
 maeflowers

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Posted: 3/31/2009 6:15:17 PM

I have written for many years since the only kid at school that was my friend because his parents told him he had to shot himself DEAD..I think he was sick of me...Believe it or not he shot himself at 13 years of age over a girl and since the day I saw him laying in his casket I've been writing but since my grammer sucks, and swallows too I just write in circles..I have piles and piles of written work poetry, and stories, most half done maybe someday before I die I'll do something.....I'd like too...Who knows maybe I should be looking for a plesently plump woman who is also an agent, or an editor..I could work it off in trade of course I don't have any teeth could be a good thing though...



...Fascinating. Now why does Forrest Gump come to mind?

...maeflowers
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