| What makes a good lover? Posted: 11/20/2005 10:53:37 AM | | Common sexual interests, openness and willingness to explore, and over all, open communication are the steps to the best sex you'll ever have. | |
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| What makes a good lover? Posted: 11/20/2005 11:02:20 AM | Experience......quality.....understanding......physical attributes.......mental capability......caring......and a desire to please as much as be pleased.....  | |
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| What makes a good lover? Posted: 11/24/2005 11:12:01 PM | As has been said before, everyone is different but for me, it's a man who doesn't have to be told what to do. Someone who takes initiative and who is open to just about anything. (Not everything because some things are just gross) | |
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| What makes a good lover? Posted: 7/4/2008 9:25:21 PM | Chemistry intuitiveness reading the signs unselfish loving passionate receptive going places neither have gone before (exploring desires/fantasies and acting them out) and LOVE with a LOVING person | |
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| What makes a good lover? Posted: 7/5/2008 6:31:30 AM |
he doesn't keep asking me if he's doing it right....he KNOWS from my responses what I'm loving, and what I"m not. He knows when to ask,when to communicate but he does it without seeming unsure of himself, and without breaking the mood.
He knows that making love isn't some serious rated competition......He can laugh comfortably in bed and it's a positive part of the whole experience. Something stupid WILL eventually happen to one of us in bed....and he has to be able to laugh along with me and take it in stride
i agree with the above.........
in addition:
kissing is key.......it should be plentiful and passionate
he does things that pleasure me not just because he "has to," but because he truly enjoys my enjoyment (and vice versa)
passionate and playful, while still being respectful
a great lover can make you feel like the sexiest and most beautiful woman in the world
a great lover is someone you totally want to please, because they so totally please you | |
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| What makes a good lover? Posted: 7/5/2008 11:11:41 AM | A great kisser, passionate, unselfish, attentive, being open minded, and a man that knows what hes doing !!
A little dirty talk never hurts either !!!  | |
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| What makes a good lover? Posted: 7/31/2008 3:10:34 PM | | A caring, considerat, passionate partner who's intelligent, intuive, adventurous, patient with you as his/her student, leaned as my/your teacher, understanding, and always willing to compromise, share, and listen. A loving, caring, gentle partner who will share all of the thrills, pains, bliss, and thunderous excitement that you learn to experience and share TOGETHER, in the endless exploration of all things sexual and intmate. The one you can always trust, and never have to doubt, and who will always put your care and interests above thier own. | |
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| What makes a good lover? Posted: 7/31/2008 3:14:27 PM | | I like my woman to give me haed first. Then I like to lick her clit. After that, I give her doggystyle for mabe 10 minutes. I think that makes a good lover. | |
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| What makes a good lover? Posted: 7/31/2008 3:35:01 PM | | good breath. this means brushing several times a day plus flossing. next, kissing. some guys dont even french kiss. no tongue. lots of kissing is how to begins. passionate kisses. when a guy takes me to a restaurant, i go into restroom and brush. guys chew gum. doesnt work. your technique in bed must be good, but you have already failed if you show up for a date underdressed. get a date wardrobe. dressyshirt, dress slacks and nice shoes. if i can do it so can you. be mannerly, respectful and generous and you wont fail. | |
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| What makes a good lover? Posted: 7/31/2008 4:27:36 PM | | Lets just say the one I have been with recently is the best one, knows how to make me happy and satisfy me without even having to say a word. That is the best. | |
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| What makes a good lover? Posted: 7/31/2008 5:01:14 PM | The mans ablity to make a woman melt and the time she needs to be comfortable and recieve all as in long kisses,stroking her hair,kissing her neck and touching all areas she woos...time is the key and has always worked for me....oohh yeah...oral is a big part for me...the teasing and touching of her inner thighs will drive her wild...the first climax after all the teasing is usually a toe curling climax!..... | |
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| What makes a good lover? Posted: 7/31/2008 5:13:48 PM | for a woman, 'a man with a 9" tongue who can breathe through his ears for a man, 'a woman who loves oral and swallows,vaginal and anal and who's old man owns a pub  | |
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| What makes a good lover? Posted: 7/31/2008 5:16:52 PM | Hmm a sensual nature,erotic mind, loving heart,likes giving and recieving.Good atmosphere. Clear and honest communication,good hygiene,Cologne it drives me wild,as sense of fun , laughter and most of all genuine love. Ha; reminds me of someone. | |
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| What makes a good lover? Posted: 7/31/2008 7:23:25 PM | One of my dancer friends sent out a questionaire asking other dancers what made a good waltz partner. We noticed the answers also described what were the characteristics of a good lover. A quote from one responder:
"I think a good waltz partner is one that stays in the present....shares the moment so to speak. I know when I'm at my best I'm paying attention to how much my partner enjoys or doesn't enjoy what we are doing and am able to respond accordingly."
A good lover is relaxed and makes you feel relaxed. A good lover accepts you as you are, enjoys exploring, touching, stroking, licking, biting, all of it. A good lover is sensual and delights in the senses. A good lover has a sense of humor, is not in a hurry, enjoys the moment, the touching, the process, and is not so hung up on "the big O." A good lover is giving and does not make you feel embarrassed, wants to know what pleases you, understands the give and take. A good lover understands the entire body is erotic and delights in finding pleasure in unexpected places. A good lover is different every time, can respond to the moment, can be vigorous or sensual or slow or rough, depending on what seems right at that moment. A good lover wants to know what pleases his/her partner, delights in their delight, pays attention to the subtle. A good lover knows when it's time to stop, and will hold you in their arms as you drift off in the afterglow. | |
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| What makes a good lover? Posted: 7/31/2008 7:29:01 PM | uhhhhh, let me see:
1. Actually brings YOU to climax.
2. Doesn't use the: "sorry, I had to get the first one off to warm-up" line...
3. Can follow through with all of his childish in-the-sack-bragging.
4. Doesn't have to come to my place but invites me to "HIS".
5. Doesn't try to convince you that he is clean so you don't need a condom.
6. Doesn't have a mediocre body and expect YOU to be model'like...
7. Doesn't say: "Yeah baby, you like that?" cause if you have to ask, chances are... | |
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| What makes a good lover? Posted: 8/4/2008 1:57:13 PM | What makes a good lover.
asking for more,wanting more, then coming back for more | |
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| What makes a good lover? Posted: 10/29/2008 10:32:49 AM | | What makes a good lover....a "whole host of ingredients"! What comes to mind first is that feeling of connectedness with one another; that inevitable feeling of Passion. Passion can pretty much open the doors to just about anything and everything! The willingness to give, receive and experiement; imagination and curiousity. Allowing yourself to submit completely to "being in the moment". Giving yourself over to "the desire", anticipation and of course being open. The ability to totally embrace every wonderful, blissful moment as the fruits of your lovemaking draws to a eurphoic electrical surging as it leaves one entering into another. | |
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| What makes a good lover? Posted: 10/29/2008 12:02:36 PM | One good lover begets another. Not that I disagree with anything that went before. | |
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| What makes a good lover? Posted: 10/29/2008 12:14:28 PM | *I think it starts off with sincerity. Add a few dashes of passion. A cup of desire. 2 scoops of the want to please. 1 whole heart. 1 solid soul.
Mix everything in a womb and bake for 9 months and 3 days. Let breath for 38 years and remove from package. Name him The RocK MaN Heat and serve!
Sounds easy doesn't it!
The RocK MaN | |
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