| Is there REALLY someone out there for everyone?
Posted: 3/31/2009 6:42:55 PM | | whats the rush when u do find her u have the rest of your life with her dont fall like the rest of us and rush it and end up broken hearted come on dude. there is someone out there for everyone be patient when u atleast aspect it .it will be there | |
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| Is there REALLY someone out there for everyone?
Posted: 3/31/2009 7:05:10 PM | | If it were easy, it wouldn't be a multi-billion dollar industry. Winners get back up no matter how many times they're kicked in the nutz, and keep trying. Just work on yourself, and your life. The better catch you are, the more likely you are to find a good life-long partner. | |
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| Is there REALLY someone out there for everyone?
Posted: 3/31/2009 7:09:15 PM | | It's like women are allowed to feel sorry for themselves, put themselves down, have a negative attitude, and they can still get a boyfriend or date, because it does not turn us Men off, at least not as much. Vice-versa, us Men are not allowed to feel sorry for ourselves, have a negative attitude, put ourselves down, because that hurts us more than it hurts Women. See all the work us Men have to do? I know that Women have to go through the pain of childbirth and being pregnant, but now we have abortions and the pill, so women are able to skip that if they want to. | |
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| Is there REALLY someone out there for everyone?
Posted: 3/31/2009 7:15:29 PM | | Why wouldn't you want your first girlfriend to become your wife? I would think that would be easier as otherwise you'd be asking for some form of breakup as I see it. I'm just asking what I believe to be a simple question. Some women do not have it easy, though that is JMO. | |
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| Is there REALLY someone out there for everyone?
Posted: 3/31/2009 7:17:51 PM | If you really wanted to become a woman, there are various steps you could take to do that involving taking hormones and gender re-assignment surgery.
Have you heard of women menstruating and the whole tampon industry that exists to deal with the mess that leaves behind? | |
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| Is there REALLY someone out there for everyone?
Posted: 3/31/2009 7:31:00 PM | | I liked what you said people might not understand that also I like being alone but not being lonely with me it is able to treat a lady like a lady and just to be able to share my dreams and goals with someone. | |
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Posted: 3/31/2009 8:18:20 PM |
Women have it so much easier when it comes to Romance, Dating, and Relationships. Love comes to them, us Men have to fight tooth and nail for it.
Don't think so... I think its the same for everyone... | |
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Posted: 3/31/2009 9:11:13 PM | Women get offered relationships right and left... Men do most of that offering.
I don't know if that's exactly "women having it easier" because they sometimes get so many offers and may choose the wrong one.
SAme with the guy, I suppose... Whoever accepts his suit is the one he ends up with even though the one meant to be with him skipped him in favor of another... ah what a convoluted tale.  | |
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Posted: 3/31/2009 9:27:13 PM | | Women have it easier in my opinion because all they have to do is just approve of the date and relationship, women don't have to face rejection, they get to do the rejecting, obviously. I hate it when I am interested in a girl and I find out she has a boyfriend already, it shows that I wasted my breath talking to her. | |
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| Is there REALLY someone out there for everyone?
Posted: 3/31/2009 10:28:03 PM | | I think that's part of the problem, everyone is on the mindset of trying to find 'the one' and gets disappointed or frustrated with the whole dating things. Its best to let things happen naturally if you really meant to find someone in the end. I have stopped looking and trying too hard to find that special person. I want to form friendships instead and let it grow. | |
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Posted: 3/31/2009 11:11:25 PM |
It's like women are allowed to feel sorry for themselves, put themselves down, have a negative attitude, and they can still get a boyfriend or date, because it does not turn us Men off
Speak for yourself. | |
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| Is there REALLY someone out there for everyone?
Posted: 3/31/2009 11:53:34 PM | | You forget the fact that you are a woman, and since I am a man, it is different. The man is expected to pursue the woman, take the initiative. Well I am sure that some women take the initiative, but it is still very rare for women to do that. | |
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| Is there REALLY someone out there for everyone?
Posted: 4/1/2009 12:37:41 AM | No, thats just a way for the weak to feel like things will just happen on there own without any effort at all... people need to work on things for things to work.
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| Is there REALLY someone out there for everyone?
Posted: 4/1/2009 3:51:37 AM | I think this may be a redundant thread, but my answer to that question is a resounding NO!!!
There is NOT someone out there for everyone. So forget it, live your life on your own terms, and move on. | |
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| Is there REALLY someone out there for everyone?
Posted: 4/1/2009 6:24:52 AM | Op
You are the problem.
Projecting 'negativity' , it spills right out of you.
Even your photo projects it.
Assess yourself!
Put all your troubles in that old kit bag and smile, smile, smile!
[that from an old WW 2 song!!]
See?
This is a problem been around a long time.
So get with it dude!
[don't wait for a war!] lol | |
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| Is there REALLY someone out there for everyone?
Posted: 4/1/2009 10:46:51 PM | This didn't get deleted for self-pity???
Ironic... I agree. Normally I am compassionate about individuals who say they are having issues in love. Well today I'm going to say, "there is more to life then finding the one!" Find yourself first then you will more than likely be content & happy, and guess what 'the one' will probably show up when you weren't even looking for her/him. To billabongdude, who seems to be feeling sorry for himself ; Please chilllllll out. Sometimes the anxiety that leaps out of these forums is daunting. Some folks just need to relax and enjoy life for a change | |
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| Is there REALLY someone out there for everyone?
Posted: 4/1/2009 11:40:24 PM | Buddy, you are not the only one experiencing these problems. I am 22 years old, a virgin, never had a girlfriend. But it doesn't bother me! You want to know why being single for 22 years doesn't bother me?
It's because I've learned to not care as much.
I used to be just like you. I was shy around women. I changed that however. Slowly, I built up the confidence to approach strangers and make small talk. And it works!
Today, I was in the gym by myself and another girl walked in. I immediately approached her and talked to her. We talked about school, life, anything! I then asked her to show me some stretches. And she was very friendly. Who cares if she had a boyfriend or not? I just made a new friend.
A few days earlier, I walked into a Starbucks by myself and sat down in a couch next to a girl. After a few minutes, I leaned over and asked her a few questions. "You come here often"? "Do you like this atmosphere?" And we just went from there.
I do this on a daily basis now. Everyday I make it a personal goal to talk to at least one new person (doesn't have to be female). In just the past week I've talked to countless new people, some men, some women. If you keep doing this, you'll eventually meet someone, guaranteed. | |
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Posted: 4/2/2009 3:16:47 AM | [I should just accept the fact that my social skills are not going to get better.]
well if you dont work on them , they WONT!
[That is why sometimes I wish I was a girl. ]
what makes you think it may be any easier for women???
stop whining & DO SOMETHING about it!!  | |
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| Is there REALLY someone out there for everyone?
Posted: 4/2/2009 5:13:47 AM | If you do a search in these forums, there are many many posts about people with Asperger Syndrome and dating and I disagree with you. Granted those people will have challenges in forming relationships, I doubt this is any worse than someone who has Tourette's to give another example of a medical condition that may make it hard to date. Just because something isn't easy, doesn't mean it isn't meant to be.
Do you think we would get to the Moon without a lot of hard work and effort? Do you think we have many of the advances in medicine and transportation without a lot of sacrifice and failure having to be handled? Just wondering. | |
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| Is there REALLY someone out there for everyone?
Posted: 4/2/2009 6:46:28 AM | Guys, you're so young I'm envious of the life experiences ahead of you.
I had some girlfriends growing up but I wasn't Tony Soprano with the ladies either. One evening when I was 20 I was at a party where I hardly knew anyone and there were no social skills in play. At 9:45 I sat on a picnic table maybe even wondering if there was someone out there for me. At 9:46 a girl turns to me to ask me to hand her drink to her and I had just met my first ex-wife. Ignore the negative connotations of 1st ex-wife... she was one of the most positive influences in my life and a wonderful companion for almost 10 years.
Life may be short but it's a long, long road with many twists, turns, and rest stops along the way. You will see and experience things and people that one day you will look back and think 'wow'. Then your child will ask you for your car keys and you'll say 'Did you ask your mother if you can go?'. | |
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