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Posted: 4/2/2009 9:31:56 AM | I'm not sure if there is someone for everyone, some people are alone their whole lives, never dating, they may have friends, but that is about it..
Having friends is better than dating someone, alot of times.. | |
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Posted: 4/2/2009 10:45:08 AM | | The reason why women have it easier in my opinion, is because almost all dates and relationships are initiated by the man, the man is the one who makes the first move, approaches, and starts the conversation, and then asks the woman out, he initiates almost everything in beginning part, like the talking and seeing eachother process. Yes I know it has always been that way, and I doubt it is going to change anytime soon. Girls are never going to chase guys. The girl just has to approve of the date or relationship. That means women don't have to face rejection, since they get approached and asked out everyday or every week of their life. | |
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| Is there REALLY someone out there for everyone?
Posted: 4/2/2009 10:52:24 AM | | I'm surprised you haven't had a girlfriend yet, because you are 6 feet tall, and almost all girls love it when a guy is tall, because they feel protected around him. I am only 5'6 or 5'7, forgot which one though. Plus you have a Bachelor's degree, and I am sure you are making good money right now, because a lot of girls are attracted to a guy who is financially secure and stable. I guess it almost all the time comes down to the guys social skills, confidence, attitude, and way of thinking. Women are not turned on visually as much as us Men are. | |
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Posted: 4/2/2009 1:42:04 PM | OOO oh for christ's sake OP- give it a rest!
[Women have it easier in my opinion because all they have to do is just approve of the date and relationship, women don't have to face rejection, they get to do the rejecting, obviously. I hate it when I am interested in a girl and I find out she has a boyfriend already, it shows that I wasted my breath talking to her.]
wah wah wah.. I found out Sat that the guy I am REALLY INTERESTED in ... is interested in my friend (dont know if its reciprocated); was kind of bummed 1st day but took a deep breath & made a date with someone else- who is interested in me-- for the weekend... we shall see what transpires | |
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Posted: 4/2/2009 3:34:03 PM | | yeah well you were able to make a date with someone else, and it was easier for you because since you are a woman, that guy is the one who initiated first contact with you, he started the conversation, asked you out. | |
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Posted: 4/2/2009 4:09:23 PM | Women have it so much easier when it comes to Romance, Dating, and Relationships. Love comes to them, us Men have to fight tooth and nail for it.
REALLY?!?!?!?!?! This is a completly false statement. I have fought much harder than any of the guys I know. All the guys that come in contact with me only want one thing... SEX. Not that I don't like it, cause I very much do! But wheres the romance in that. I don't consider that dating.... And it never leads to a healty relationship.  | |
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Posted: 4/2/2009 4:10:58 PM | | What rock do you live under? | |
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Posted: 4/2/2009 4:14:20 PM | | The reason why us Men have it harder, well I am not speaking for every Man, well because I struggle, because us Men always have to be the initiators, whether if it is for a committed, serious, romantic relationship, or a immature, non-serious relationship, such as the high school ones. Or if it is for a one night stand, casual sex, hook-up, etc. Us men have to usually initiate all of that stuff, we have to be the ones to make it happen, the woman just approves or denies it. | |
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Posted: 4/2/2009 4:16:01 PM | You are what you project. I took a boo at your profile & the negative statements say it all. Words such as:
------ I'm tired...
------ I'm also not...
------ I never...
------ because I have no luck with women anyway...
------ but I don't always believe it...
Listen to your cousin, she believes in you, so why don't you. Have you ever read the book "the Secret" by Rhonda Byrne. Basically if your frame of mind is not in sync with your body language, you will never be successful. Successful people have great attitudes & look for ways to change the world around them. Picture yourself having a successful relationship with the woman/women of your dreams & make it happen. Work on your self-esteem. Remember our thoughts create what we speak, the feelings we feel, and our actions. Our thoughts preceed our actions. So when our actions are opposite of what we desire the most, we see that we are unloveable because that's what we project to the world around us.
Charismatic people have so many friends & potential partners because they are confident & are in tune with themselves and with the world around them. They also look for opportunities to help others, unsuccessful people are always asking, "What's in it for me?"
Failure? Remember the two benefits of failure. First, if you do fail, you learn what doesn't work; and second, the failure gives you the opportunity to try a new approach. Are you changing your approach? Finding out what works & what doesn't?
**~Remington55~** 
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Posted: 4/2/2009 4:54:06 PM | you just need some time out and think of what you want
go out and socialize and let it come to you :)
i believe there is someone for everyone, but too many go looking for it and miss it
dont give up! | |
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Posted: 4/2/2009 10:49:37 PM | | i feel love for god cause i know hes always been looking at me since the day i was born ,i feel no love is greater then that i have for god once you have it nobody can ever replace or take that love away this one is for eternity, i think alot of women see that i have that love in my eyes and they want that from me ,but i just look back at them and i cant see them ever giving me more love then i already have, i feel complete so whole and the best part is im single and ive kept it that way for awhile now im very happy,it just sucks tho when you got a split personality disorder but both of my sides have love for GD,i do once in awhile dive into the lusts of passion tho lol ,well remember love doesnt just come from one place love peace and chicken grease [thumb up] | |
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Posted: 4/3/2009 12:37:19 PM | | OP, are you sitting home and just counting on the computer to find someone? Do you have interests of your own and do you get out there and get involved? Are you feeling lonely, and so the desperate vibes come through? | |
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Posted: 4/4/2009 2:49:21 PM | | I think there is more than one person for each one of us. I believe this because we are not as different as many people think. We just project ourselves differently. For example, I do not know of a single person that wants to spend weekends and holidays alone. First you have to figure out what you require in a partner and seperate it from what you would like to have. Life is full of compromises. | |
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Posted: 4/11/2009 11:18:42 PM | Quit looking. Its called 'falling' in love, and nobody ever fell anywhere when they were watching where they were going.
Get on with the rest of your life, and when you are so buzy having fun, you will be surprised at who wants to join in and how. | |
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Posted: 4/12/2009 11:34:42 PM | | If it makes you feel any better,I am 38 and have never had a girlfriend.No,I do not know why. | |
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Posted: 4/13/2009 4:00:59 AM | Does it matter?
You don't need anyone apart from yourself and your friends.
Dating ast a while yeah, but freinds are for life so concentrate on them and sum1 will turn up =] | |
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Posted: 4/14/2009 6:26:21 AM | | i wonder the same thing i havnt had much luck either! i actually thought i had found the one,we got to a stage where we would call each other our other halfs then all of a sudden out of no where she says she likes this other guy and im like uhh what? so yeah at this point in time im taking it as it comes! :P | |
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| Is there REALLY someone out there for everyone?
Posted: 4/14/2009 3:49:20 PM | Every one is given some bad in their life.For instance;
There are those that die too young.
There are those that lose a limb.
There are those that become addicts.
There are those that,though they try as hard as they can, just weren't meant to be succesful at......(career,sport,whatever fill in the blank).
Than,like me,there are those that just weren't meant to find true love and are destined to be alone.
So,in answer to the OP's original question,................................
NO. | |
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