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Posted: 3/24/2009 6:18:59 PM |
and yet I did apologize just to appease any who found the original post offensive…Sorry again: Re-read post #48. I did EXACTLY THAT, even after your unwarranted accusations and remarks. Right, which came right after post 46. So, you expected to rant and rave in #46, then act as if nothing happened in #48 and get all beside yourself because I responded to you? Come on chief, one way or the other please, you can't have it both ways. No pun intended.
Try SHOWING how "tolerant" you are, not claiming it with past references no one can see or prove. Ummmm…the posts I referenced are current; and have been posted in the last few days; which obviously reflects how I feel NOW; AND were posted before you had posted anything, so are obviously NOT influenced by this post in any way. Regarding my past actions; are you calling me a liar? LMAO What?…do you think I would make something like that up in order to “look good” for you? Trust me on this one, it’s not going to happen. Besides, you know what, I REALLY don’t give a d*mn one way or the other what you think of me.
As for “everyone who got it right”, they are simply answering the question; which I also did. However, my issue was NOT with the question, (as badly as you keep trying to pretend it was) it was with HOW you stated it. So run around, wave your arms, and deny all culpability, and rant about my homophobia and insecurity; that will certainly clear things up. Also, for the record, I’ve also gotten personal emails FROM WOMEN telling me “good job for ripping that guy…he knows what you’re talking about.” Of course, you’re not going to believe me; but again, I don’t care.
Frankly, you win. I give up. You wore me down. I’ve pointed out specifically and explicitly what my issues were using YOUR OWN LANGUAGE QUOTED DIRECTLY FROM YOU; and you go off on a lengthy rant, then pretend you addressed it, or deny you ever said anything. There is absolutely NO purpose to continuing parallel monologues with you. I ask you what time it is; and you tell me how to make a sandwich. I’m done.
You know what else? In future posts, if I agree with you, I’ll say so. If I don’t, you’ll know that too. | |
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Posted: 3/24/2009 7:12:23 PM | OP, do you know what is absolutely hilarious? I went back and re-read my posts. All I did was specifically address how INTOLLERENT YOU WERE (post 41); then YOU turned it back on me and started all this homophobia and insecurity BS. I DIDN’T EVEN MENTION straight or gay…YOU DID!!! (post 46 when you were addressing me; although you had picked up that flag and were waving it long before I stepped into the fray) ROFLMAO
YOU made it a straight/gay thing; then called ME out saying “this isn’t even about straight or gay”, then went on about how I/we must be homophobic, insecure, and bigoted since we also must like woman on woman fantasies…YOU WERE BRILLIANT!!! I defended myself for stuff I didn't even imply! I EVEN AGREED WITH YOU AND SUPPORTED YOU ON SEVERAL POINTS!! HOW FUNNY!!!
You based your entire offense (and I say offense; because you never did address the specific comments I made) on the fact that you didn’t specifically name someone. YOU ASKED THE QUESTION!!! OF COURSE WE NAMED YOU, YOU DOLT;………IT’S YOUR POST!!!!
My bet is you sucked in Philosophy or Logic; but rocked in Debate. Absolutely hilarious!
Ok, you wanted a list of 5 unaddressed issues; I picked 6, please forgive me.
1/Show me the post where I talk about how much I’m into FF fantasies.
2/Show me the post where I discuss what women’s fantasies should be.
3/Show me a quote anywhere where I am anything BUT supportive of gays.
4/Show me where I, in any way, referred to the SUBJECT of your post, and not your attitude.
5/Show me where I even mentioned your “intentions” or “agenda”.
Well this must be a whole new breed of men and women, because I have heard it from people………I can only go by what I've heard and seen I guess, which probably carries a bit more weight in the end…all the adamant protests seem a little extreme from real life situations… situations I experienced.….. Everyone on POF must be different from every other place I've talked about it.…. All I did was say what I've heard and seen ...
Wow, touched on a big nerve with lots of macho manly men-men. Gawd, the hostility is so telling....the margin of how dishonest many are and how far society has to go yet.
6/Since you accuse me of making my own interpretation; please specifically address the quotes I have highlighted, and explain to me that you are NOT accusing people of lying. If I “cherry picked” please feel free to expand the quotes so that they encompass your “REAL” intentions.
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Posted: 3/25/2009 12:34:55 AM | Ok speeking for my Woman there have been many talks and openess on Fantasies and this is one of them, Yes I did accompany her in this desire and it turned out awesome. After we played we got home and still had the best sex ourselves. call it being open minded or what. I did this for her because I love her and so much more in our relationship has become wonderful. many paths and choices in life. Sex is sex and making love is such that.  | |
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Posted: 3/25/2009 1:42:15 AM | Gay love is not something I have first hand knowledge of
but it can be as tender as lesbian love, i.e. it is not all about sodomy; I think we were talking about kissing another man. There is a scene in Y tu Mama Tambien http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sSfGUxkonL8&feature=related (about 7'25'' into the clip) where a girl basically goes down on two boys and as they stand facing each other they kiss. That's what I was thinking about...
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Posted: 3/26/2009 8:49:36 AM | I would never perform this for a woman I date. I do not care how hot she is, how much I love her.
I have also never been asked for it. As shallow as it is I had a Q and A with a girl I was dating and we discussed the 3 some topic. After some talk she told me in college she was in a MMF and the she wanted to watch the guys too. I won't home that night and just could not get it out of my head. I broke up with her because of this.
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Posted: 3/27/2009 7:59:05 AM | | Wait, you "broke up" with a girl you apparently liked enough to date in the first place just because she merely told you she was in a MMF (something many straight men do) and watched guys during it, without demanding (or even requesting) you do anything??? Wow, you must've been really in love! LOL | |
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Posted: 3/27/2009 8:23:28 AM | OP I have tried not to post more on this thread because I thought others were getting across to you that you asked for different points of view, but when you are given them, instead of your understanding them, you criticize those giving them to you.
If you wanted to understand why this man broke up with this woman, you wouldn't have said
<div class="quote"> Wow, you must've been really in love! LOL You would have tried to understand his mindset, you would have asked him to explain why or how it nauseates or offends him that much. Instead, you laughed at him, ridiculed him for his opinion.
My opinion is that you are trying to get dates. A straight guy doesn't get involved with men unless he is totally whacked out on drugs or alcohol in my experience or he is threatened. A gay man doesn't have sex with a woman unless he is whacked out on drugs or alcohol. A woman or man that isn't straight, goes both ways, or even bi-curious will do it without being whacked out. You don't have sex with someone else for your love just because someone loves you. Sex is not a participation sport. It is an expression of love that is to be expressed between two people; however, I have known some to have relationships with more than one, but not going to go into that.
OP I could never date a man that has been with another man. Every time we would be intimate, I would see him with another man. I also couldn't date a man that had no problems wearing make up, stage make up is the exception for actual theater productions or musical/bands.
Fantasies are in the mind. Once something has been done, it is no longer a fantasy. Fantasies often aren't what we expect and irl can ruin relationships when acted on. Watch the Jerry Springer show for some of those scenarios. | |
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Posted: 3/27/2009 9:11:06 AM |
Ok, you wanted a list of 5 unaddressed issues; I picked 6, please forgive me.
1/Show me the post where I talk about how much I’m into FF fantasies.
Huh??? Where did I say "windloverr" or "you" are into FF fantasies??? Instead, show show me (unless when I talked about meant many men in general which I did refer to, that somehow meant "you").
2/Show me the post where I discuss what women’s fantasies should be.
(see my answer to #1 above, thanks)
3/Show me a quote anywhere where I am anything BUT supportive of gays.
You mean after you started in your first posted by being hostile and insulting me from the start without asking but assuming you knew my intention, because you and two others of dozens decided to take it the wrong way? Sure, there have been a couple posts in this thread saying how you are supportive. A little late after accusing and attacking, but conveniently brought up like on page 3 or 4. Talk is cheap to me, and since I don't know you, I'll go by your reaction in general from the start.
4/Show me where I, in any way, referred to the SUBJECT of your post, and not your attitude.
Show me where I said that you referred to the SUBJECT in the first place? Where are you getting these questions? Damn, can you PLEASE read??? I said you kept accusing me or assuming my attentions, then from the start attacked me; and I re-quoted your hostile reaction a few times. Do you need it quoted again or can you take some of the time you spend composing your posts to read the thread more carefully? CASE CLOSED on that as far as I'm concerned.
5/Show me where I even mentioned your “intentions” or “agenda”.
The several times you accused me of asking it in a condemning way as if I had ulterior motives... you and maybe another said something to the effect of "ah-ha, NOW we see your motives". All were on page one or two. And you continue to take issue with my "attitude" in the initial question, and I completely disagree. At this point, any attitude I have is only with your continuing determination to convince me I meant something maliciously, which you never will.
6/Since you accuse me of making my own interpretation; please specifically address the quotes I have highlighted, and explain to me that you are NOT accusing people of lying. If I “cherry picked” please feel free to expand the quotes so that they encompass your “REAL” intentions.
Sorry, your boldface "highlights" show nothing where I said "if they answered one way they had to be lying". Instead, I CAN quote in a following post where I clarified the whole reason behind anonymous surveys on any topic was to promote honesty. I CAN also quote where I said that it was premature to gauge the response the first hour or two, because the longer this post has been up, the more women (and even some men surprisingly, even to me) have said they had the fantasy openly here in the post. And I went on to say that had I just waited at least a day, the reaction was pretty much exactly in line with what I was referring to that I had heard from women (and some men) after all. So basically, the whole point of my thread and initial question has been answered better than I ever expected! 
Unfortunately, because a select few of all the responders thought it was posed in such an accusatory and offensive way while the vast majority saw no problem with it (and I don't either), a huge chunk of this thread has been hijacked and gone off on a tangent with debating back and forth with a couple men as to "I was offended, and this is why, and explain it again, and apologize again, and admit your true intentions, and you have to admit they were malicious or we're just not going to believe you - waa, waa, waa" You know what? I'll pass. Instead, I think I'll just go by the vast majority of posts from the others as well as the private messages I received and my own interpretation and even my (unnecessary but voluntary) apology made in good faith to any who took it the wrong way as more than sufficient.
This thread is about the initial question so please do the others a favor and if you just wish to accuse send me a personal message and let's spare the others this two-way dialogue. Or even start your own thread about how you know better and leave this one to the question people clicked on to read the thread in the first place. And yes, I will again say this discussion between you and me is not a "gay/straight" thing, correct. It is about your claiming how I came off or what I meant and feeling you are justified, in your first post, for making hostile, nasty remarks without any reason or attempt at clarity based purely on your own assumption and interpretation (funny how YOU never apologized). If you choose to accuse, windloverr, and ramble on insisting that you know what I meant better than I do myself, and think you speak louder than all the others who had no problem with the question and were not offended, then by all means continue this ridiculousness with another 10 paragraph "quote and paste" response. From what I have seen from you I have a feeling you will anyway... tick, tick, tick. | |
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Posted: 3/27/2009 9:53:41 AM | I have never fantasized about two men being sexual together, but I know women who like that image, it turns them on. To each thier own.
In the two years I have been scoping out online dating sites, I have certainly had my eyes opened. A few times now, I have had IM's with men who's profiles indicate on all levels that he is completely straight, then when there is a level of comfort between us, they confess they have bi-sexual fantasies. Some have lived out thier fantasy, while others are too afraid to do anything about it. I lose interest right away, sexually. I dont know why, but I can accept seeing two women smooch and stuff, but the image of two men doing the same thing repulses me. I dont know why. Likely because the media has made women bisexuality seem OK? Or acceptable? Even normal?
However, I do believe now, that there are likely just as many bi men as there are women, it's just not socially acceptable for them to broadcast it. This online experience has been an huge eye opener for me....big time! | |
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Posted: 3/27/2009 12:12:13 PM | | Nope, can't say I've ever fantasized about my man, or any other, being "with" another man. But then, I'm just one of those boring, old-fashioned types who thinks sex is kind of a 2 person thing ... no cameras, no "porn", no extra people (male or female) ... just what comes natural between a man and a woman once they touch... | |
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Posted: 3/27/2009 5:01:11 PM | Dude, I don’t know you; but you have some very serious issues. I’ve read some of your other posts; and I don’t find your overall perspective offensive in the least; but you are killing me on this post with your absolute inability to address specific issues; and you stated inability to see anything from any perspective but your own; AND denying very pointed and specific things you say yourself. Your technique of answering a question with a question, and completely avoiding the question asked, or the point made, is getting very very old. When I accuse you, or make a point I use direct quotes coming straight from your posts. When you answer, you make vague unfocused accusations or statements.
Show me where I said that you referred to the SUBJECT in the first place? You are fu*king kidding me right? First off, you are answering a question with a question. Are you saying that you NEVER dissed me for my views on homosexuality, or women’s fantasies? You are truly a piece of work.
…I said you kept accusing me or assuming my attentions, then from the start attacked me I AM assuming you meant “intentions”. I referred to, “your arrogant, condescending, judgmental, name calling; and your implied superiority of intelligence and experience” NOTHING about INTENTIONS OR MOTIVES!!! ALL about ATTITUDE.
Huh??? Where did I say "windloverr" or "you" are into FF fantasies??? Instead, show show me (unless when I talked about meant many men in general which I did refer to, that somehow meant "you"). You start the next quote with ”Windloverr” and without a break in the paragraph go into anger coming from “straight” men; then about those men fantasizing about two women; THEN into them deciding on women’s fantasies. If you even want to pretend you weren’t addressing me and my “anger” then would you mind explaining why you mentioned it in a post you directed at ME. Do not even pretend that you just happened to be throwing out a topic of academic interest to me in eager anticipation of my input on the subject.
Post 46: Wow Windloverr, you sure like to "cherry-pick" quotes and then infer them how you wish, then hurl accusations at me and what you seem to assume about my intentions and motives. Again, it is very interesting that all the anger and outrage comes from (some of the) straight men: those that have no problem seeing two women together as not only acceptable but "hot", then assume it is for them to decide what a woman's fantasy should be and what is okay or acceptable. Are you actually going to pretend you WEREN’T talking to me even though the paragraph, and the entire thread, were directed specifically to me? Here you addressed “straight”; “fantasies of two women”; and “deciding what a woman’s fantasy should be”. If you DID NOT mean that I fit that profile; would you please rewrite, and repost exactly what your point to me was? If you DID mean to imply that I fit that profile; please list the direct and specific quotes, LIKE I DID, that give you that impression. If not, please address me as someone who’s fantasies ARE NOT RELEVANT to the discussion, and unless you have evidence to the contrary, address me as someone who respects women, and peoples right to fantasize about what they choose.
Just because you choose to take things a certain way (and gee, does it have anything to do with you being a straight man, many who shudder at the mere thought of a question like that, but drool over two "lipstick lesbians" doing it?) LMAO here AGAIN you mention the fact that I’m straight, AND what straight men’s fantasies are. Again, if you were NOT referring to me; then please quit trying to redirect focus away from YOU.
We all know anger stems from men who can't dare to think of homosexuality unless it is with two women for their own pleasure. This makes THREE of YOUR quotes dealing with lesbian fantasies, addressed at me. STILL trying to deflect the attention from YOU.
3/Show me a quote anywhere where I am anything BUT supportive of gays…….You mean after you started in your first posted by being hostile and insulting me from the start without asking but assuming you knew my intention, because you and two others of dozens decided to take it the wrong way? Sure, there have been a couple posts in this thread saying how you are supportive. A little late after accusing and attacking, but conveniently brought up like on page 3 or 4. Talk is cheap to me, and since I don't know you, I'll go by your reaction in general from the start. Ooooooooo…it is all about you isn’t it? Ummmmm…my issue is with YOU; it has NOTHING TO DO WITH GAY!!!! LMAO, “conveniently brought up…” WTF? WHY would I bring it up? Trying to look good? Give me a break. My “…reaction from the start.” Has NOTHING TO DO WITH GAY; IT’S ABOUT YOU.
Well this must be a whole new breed of men and women, because I have heard it from people………I can only go by what I've heard and seen I guess, which probably carries a bit more weight in the end…all the adamant protests seem a little extreme from real life situations… situations I experienced.….. Everyone on POF must be different from every other place I've talked about it.…. All I did was say what I've heard and seen ...
Wow, touched on a big nerve with lots of macho manly men-men. Gawd, the hostility is so telling....the margin of how dishonest many are and how far society has to go yet.….Sorry, your boldface "highlights" show nothing where I said "if they answered one way they had to be lying". ARE YOU FU*KING KIDDING ME??? You are fu*king delusional.
You asked for specific numbered questions; and I gave you specific numbered questions. Then you respond with this delusional BS. No, I don’t want emails from you regarding this. You made your comments in a public forum; and I responded to them in a public forum. Anybody reading this knows what’s going on. Just because they answered your initial question doesn’t mean they BELIEVE your rantings. I answered this; and responded to other posts you have made on other threads. I refer back to my original post; and stand behind everything I said. Just because people answered the way you wanted them to answer later; DOESN’T excuse your calling them liars in the beginning; and denying you made comments directed at me simply points out that you don’t have the balls to stand up and defend what you said. I can absolutely respect someone who disagrees with me; but not someone who weasels around trying to pretend they didn’t say or do, what in fact, everyone knows they did. You really come off fairly pathetically doing so. Don’t even bother addressing this post; I’m done wasting my time even attempting to discuss it with you. | |
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| How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 3/27/2009 8:00:34 PM |
And to say that a woman with another woman is totally cool and hot and that a man with another man is revolting, is just the margin of how dishonest many are and how far society has to go yet. When a man is horny (especially drunk) the things I've seen the straight ones do to get off would apparently shock many
OP - I think this is one of the statements that initiated the anger towards you. I was mildly offended by it and wanted to add myself the count you took of people who didnt like what you said or the way you said it. You are stating that society has to like two men together or its being dishonest. Just why does society have to like it? Just because many have voiced that they dont like it or find it disgusting does NOT mean that those people are homophobic or insecure. Its just a sexual activity preference, just like some people may find oral or anal sex 'revolting'.
I am VERY open minded sexually and have done things that are way off the 'normal' or even kinky lists, but I just can never bring myself to be at all interested in sex with another guy. Yes, I admit to the double standard of loving the idea of women together but so what? Its just some things turn me on, other things turn me off. But no one can or should be attacked for their preferences.
What society DOES have to do is be more tolerant of others beliefs or preferences. I may cringe and fast forward through any MM activity in porn, but that doesnt mean I'm intolerant. And as I saw in the sexually open swingers world, FF is VERY common and MM is VERY rare; thats just the way it is. More people like it that way and thats why porn sells that way. And its not wrong. The only wrong thing is being derogatory towards those with different ideas and judging them harshly for liking something you dont. We dont have to like MM, we just have to say 'to each his own' and let all consenting adults do what they want together.
And BTW - NO totally straight man, no matter HOW drunk would be horny enough to get off with a guy. I'd say they were bi-curious at the minimum. | |
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Posted: 3/28/2009 1:45:47 AM | How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
OP,,that is a HUGE fantasy of mine, tho he doesnt necessarily have to be 'my man',,,it can be ANY man that id love to watch with another man! First time i seen man to man action was quite a few years ago (porn) and have been hooked ever since, and even bought a few gay men porn for my own personal pleasure. Now this is gonna sound very strange, lol, but, i absolutely find it a huge huge turn-off when they kiss!! Actually just sickens me to watch it! LOL But everything else,,,,,mmmmmmmmmmmmm purrr!!! Another thing too,,i do not want to participate! Id rather be off in my own lil corner,,watching and listening........  | |
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Posted: 3/28/2009 6:59:21 AM | | phxniceguy: I think that a lot more women than would ever admit in here would probably think it was a turn on if they really thought about it. Society has evolved in such a way that female + female affection is not viewed as threatening but everyone (both men and women) seems conditioned to think that any male signs of affection are strange and out of place. I suppose this is why the whole female+female sex fantasy seems so widely accepted. It is what it is I suppose. Also, please stop responding to hotairlovrr's crap (or trap as the case may be). You could say "Have a nice day" and he'd find a way to get a thousand quotes out of it and whine about the fine points of it until it would make you want to vomit from all the griping about how the sentence wasn't presented properly. You can't argue with a know it all who has a quotation fetish. He probably sits there with his pants down scrolling through different fonts just to check out the different types of quotation marks. | |
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| How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 3/28/2009 10:45:10 AM | It's appaling to me how someone cannot accept the idea that some of us can't find the thought of two same sex person together just uncomfortable without being labeled as, at least, dishonest. I'm not insecure, I'm not an homophobe and though...this image is not a turn on, on the contrary.
And OP...I'm not saying that there's not homophobic people in the world...where would I have said that? Stop the victimism please. I'm sorrounded by gay people (my uncle and own brother) that I respect and love and that, fortunately, are intelligent enough not to think that I'm closed minded for not being sexually turned on by the same things they are .
But again... all the discussion here was not about the SUBJECT in the original post but about the rude (unintentionally maybe but...how about thinking before pressing that SEND button?) way it was addressed: how hard is this to understand? With the forums type of communication all we are using are written words, we don't know who is the person we are talking to, and the way we express ideas IS important. You can be the nicest person in the world, and I'm sure you are (NiceGuy), but the way you wrote your legitimate question is somehow offending. How about at least admitting that, maybe, you could have used different words?
Even the idea of my own parents (etherosexual parents) having sex makes me uncomfortable, is not a turn on...so...what does this makes me? A problem child? Someone with a pathological Edipic complex?
I hope this is clear.
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Posted: 3/29/2009 11:56:09 AM | First of all let me say that I have absolutely NO problem with people being gay!
Whatever floats your boat. I have no problem with what other people do.
But I find the thought of MY man with another man thoroughly nauseating.
I would probably be more OK with me being with a woman than my man being with a man, hypocritical I know, but that's just the way I feel and I suppose it has something to do with where I fall on the Kinsey scale.
"While you're entitled to your fetish, what riles me is when straight male dorks take the high ground with their double standard. Girl-girl hot, guy-guy gross? That's a classic double standard which reeks of high-minded hypocrisy. You're entitled to your fantasy but you're not entitled to your hypocrisy."
Sorry, I believe I AM entitled to my hypocrisy in this instance as it is my preference and I am not forcing it onto anyone but my man. If he's into men then I don't want him.
And I completely disagree that straight men get oral from other men.
Again, there is a sliding scale for sexuality but you cannot convince me that a straight man (ie: a 0) would do that.
http://www.iub.edu/~kinsey/resources/ak-hhscale.html
Kinsey Scale
0- Exclusively heterosexual with no homosexual
1- Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2- Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3- Equally heterosexual and homosexual
4- Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5- Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6- Exclusively homosexual
(Kinsey 1948)
"Many women don't want to be with another woman but they like that it turns their man on and many people make "sacrifices" sexually for the other (even in bed between two people). So the question was would women find being with another woman for their man more acceptable than seeing their guy have a first encounter that involved a guy."
I would not do anything sexually to please my partner if I was not into it. Anyone who does that against their will is just weak. You have to be able to be who you are and not be intimidated. I'm very open-minded but I have definite boundaries if that makes any sense.
"But I also have to admit, I have heard from even straight guys that "receiving oral isn't gay, as long as you don't give". "
That's just them trying to justify it in their owns minds.
They are not completely straight if they are receiving oral from another man.
"But I can assure you that a male/woman who is totally str8.. would never be in any way sexually attracted to the same sex weather they are drunk drugged etc.. the booze and drugs just lowers the inhibitions to express who you really are.."
I completely agree.
"Human sexuality is interesting, frequently throwing up curve balls in the form of disconnects. That's why it is incorrect to draw a conclusion from a voyeurism paradigm to an experience paradigm. In other words, just because "x" turns you on visually, it doesn't mean that you like experiencing "x"."
I think you hit the nail on the head with that comment! There is a big difference between fantasy and reality.
"but it can be as tender as lesbian love, i.e. it is not all about sodomy; I think we were talking about kissing another man. There is a scene in Y tu Mama Tambien http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sSfGUxkonL8&feature=related (about 7'25'' into the clip) where a girl basically goes down on two boys and as they stand facing each other they kiss. That's what I was thinking about..."
That was kinda hot but still not with MY man!
Interesting topic (minus all the cat-fighting — meoooow ;) and normally I cannot abide hypocrisy and yes, I DO realize I am being completely hypocritical about this but I also find it interesting that being a hypocrite in this instance doesn't bother me a bit!
I think there are very few black and white areas as far as sexuality goes. I think the majority of us fall somewhere in the gray area.
Suffice it to say either way I do NOT like to share — with a male or female — and I don't fantasize about watching my man with another man. | |
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Posted: 3/29/2009 12:00:33 PM |
I have seen 2 men together in porn, and found it hot....but no I don't think of a man I am interested in seeing him touch someone else....I have the MMF fantacy but only if they are both concentrated on me...and I would never actually do that ....but its fun to think about.
And I would never be with another woman because someone wanted me to...I think women are beautiful but not into them sexually and I won't comprimise my values for someone's fantacy and I don't think a man should either.
Agreed with what bbwhmk wrote..... 100%
I've said enough...
Ciao!
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