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| Relationships and Women, hey guys what do you think?
Posted: 6/24/2009 9:48:18 PM | Alot of people I have met feel jaded after a divorce and it colors their faith and vision for a longterm committment. My sincere hope is that they will wake up someday and feel brand new and not blame the other person completely.
One of my criteria for finding someone is their ability to realize their own negative contributions to their situation. Sometimes I think this is unfortunate because if your still ducking from bullets your not in a contemplative mood .
I myself prefer to have a wait and see attitude.
This does not mean that I can not get on board, cash in my single card and go for broke it just means that I need to be cautious and objective about who I do this with.
I am a very driven person and once I invest I am vested for the future .
I have faith in my own ability to maintain a relationship but it takes two. | |
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| Relationships and Women, hey guys what do you think?
Posted: 6/25/2009 10:34:13 AM | Tuanda said:Sometimes I wish that men got the idea that if you seduce a woman's heart and mind, the body is given happily, freely and with great desire. I've never heard of a woman holding out when she was totally into the man.
What a beautiful statement that was.. Unfortunately a lot of men and women are really emotionally unavailable..
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| Relationships and Women, hey guys what do you think?
Posted: 6/25/2009 11:14:14 AM | ^^^ The woman is into the man, the man is into her pants. ^^^
The first two posts in this thread show how such generalities don't cover everyone. I enjoy most aspects of my life and with a partner, I could really do a lot more as being single has its social limits.
To paint me or anyone like myself as a serial dater or some kind of player is borderline insulting. I feel the guys who do this and the women who have been let down by them have motives to perpetuate the stereotype. I'm not lying when I say my goals are long term, not just until something better comes along. If I was to be a player, even if only the occasional one, I would have a short, possibly poetic, profile and adjust my interaction with any given target to push the right buttons. As my old college room mate demonstrated to long ago, once you have the women hooked, you can do no wrong. Let her do the relationship work. She will rationalize anything you do or don't do because she sees you through rose colored, heart shaped glasses.
The problem I have is that being open and honest, such as having a long profile with truthful height age etc. is that I cannot compete with the players. I would hope more women used their head instead of their "chemistry" but alass it seems the want to continue one failed relationship after another. | |
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