| Why do men keep women on a string
Posted: 4/30/2009 4:29:54 PM | | My guess is he's unsure about you. One moment you seem like the right person...the next....you don't. Have you noticed any problems between you two? That might be it. | |
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| Why do men keep women on a string
Posted: 5/1/2009 11:46:57 PM | In my opinion.....i think they are always on the the look out for something better......but i comes back to bite them as they dont find it, or it wasnt as good as they thought it would be.....hence they come back for what is on offer at the time.......one day they will live to regret it......because by the time they realise what they did have, the other person has got fed up and moved on.........karma is a wonderful thing  | |
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| Why do men keep women on a string
Posted: 5/2/2009 1:27:50 AM | There is a saying which, I believe, is supposed to apply to both sexes -
'Treat 'em mean - keep 'em keen'.
I don't like it, but I have to admit, it works.
Haven't you always found that the 'cooler' you were, the 'keener' they were? Presumably this also works in reverse? And let's not forget that the male of the species is a 'hunter' - he doesn't nurture and grow what he wants, he has to chase after it, and the most valued prey is the hardest to catch of all! Now he thinks he has caught you, has he given up 'trying'?
I have to admit that, after one such experience, I am once bitten twice shy, and now, if anyone starts blowing hot and cold, I drop them like a hot (or cold!) potato! If they are genuine, they want back (but of course, you may not want them then!). If they are not genuine, they don't want back, and possibly this 'hot n cold' thing was their way of getting things to end because they lacked the bottle to do it themselves.
My advice, either dump him or play it very very cool, and don't take as gospel everything he tells you - he is clearly not sure of his feelings, so make sure you protect yours. Hope this helps. | |
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| Why do men keep women on a string
Posted: 5/2/2009 2:14:57 AM | like the beer commercial.... why ask why?
just get yourself some motion sickness medication and hold on!!!! | |
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| Why do men keep women on a string
Posted: 5/2/2009 5:28:32 PM | Women keep men on a string too, and they hold all the cards as well.
I have never found any different and know that a lot of men will agree with me there.
I know a lot of men a jealous as woman can go out and find another man, but there chances of finding another woman, that quickly.
Yup. | |
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| Why do men keep women on a string
Posted: 5/2/2009 8:14:02 PM |
Why do men keep women on a string
-- thinking about those God Awful Tea-Bags without the string attached --- hmmmm, because they're easier to control when they're floating around in the boiling water? 
I never know if I am coming or going. -- if you're screaming, Oh God, Oh God ... -- chances are, you're NOT going! 
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| Why do men keep women on a string
Posted: 5/2/2009 8:22:02 PM | | I would love to know the answer to this question. Hot and cold. I think if they run hot and cold you are their back up. That is what it seems to be on here. | |
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| Why do men keep women on a string
Posted: 5/2/2009 8:53:07 PM | Well it could just be because you dont know everything about this person they may have something else they are involved in as well.
Just recently I was accussed of this, which is kinda funny considering I had spent a lot of time over the last few weeks working, talking to her until 2am, doing callouts and damnit I just needed some sleep. I hate to say it that although I am pretty active at my age, and can string a few late night/ early mornings in I can no longer go 4-5 days with 1 hours sleep, somewhere along the way I need to catch up.....Sometimes people dont actually listen to what your saying, like "I am really tired from LACK OF SLEEP! I will try and call, but if I dont its because Im catching up on sleep. If you want to chat to me just call me."
AT the same time I was all the time calling and was rarely phoned, because it was just expected that I will call.
People tend to think way TOOO MUCH for the other person instead of just straight out asking whats happening, or just "waiting" to see what happens. The good things in life are rarely free and usually there is some cost involved, in this case some "effort"
I agree some people like to keep woman/men on strings for all the other reasons as well, and thats not a good thing but I also think in a lot of cases people think too much for the other person, and through reasons of self pity/doubt come to a totally wrong conclussion. | |
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