| Whats the problem with long hair on a guy ? Posted: 4/18/2009 3:46:20 PM | Whats wrong with the 60's, and whats wrong with stoners for that matter. I grow My hair out for Me, people liking it is just a by- product of good judgement thats all! | |
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| Whats the problem with long hair on a guy ? Posted: 4/18/2009 5:00:55 PM |
Whats wrong with the 60's, and whats wro[ng with stoners for that matter. I grow My hair out for Me, people liking it is just a by- product of good judgement thats all!
couldn't have said it better myself.
maybe it's not the fact that women don't like long hair. maybe it's the fact that you have long hair and the women you go after just don't happen to like you...? | |
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| Whats the problem with long hair on a guy ? Posted: 4/29/2009 10:23:36 PM | Having had long, well-kept hair until 2 years ago I just had to check back on this thread. And many, many replies later, I have seen borne out what I already thought about long hair on a man: most chicks just don't dig it. The few chicks who do, tend to be too old or too young for me.
OP if you are still around, it's JUST HAIR. Cut it and you will find out for yourself what I and others here have been trying to tell you. A buddy at work SHAVED OFF his below-shoulder length hair three days ago and he has already noticed the way women look at him differently...and he's 26.
Since I cut mine, I found that a hell of a lot more women take me seriously. Of course there is a lot more to meeting and relating to women than just hair, but cutting it means one less thing to have working against you.
Tell yourself you can always grow it back out later, if you need help taking the plunge. But once you cut it, you'll see what I mean about being SET FREE and never want it long again. | |
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| Whats the problem with long hair on a guy ? Posted: 4/30/2009 2:56:50 AM | | Tallshag, you are absolutely correct on this issue. I've had my hair long for years and cut it very short this year. I had kept it long for my now ex wife (she likes long hair). It began to feel like an obligation and annoyance to me. When she and I broke up, I had it all cut off. I've received numerous compliments from women I work with, and have begun to attract more (and younger) women as I've begun dating again. I agree....I feel like I never want it long again. Long hair definitely holds you back, as it greatly limits the number of women who would be interested. | |
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| Whats the problem with long hair on a guy ? Posted: 4/30/2009 7:41:44 AM | I have solved the problem. If a woman likes short hair she is welcome to run her fingers over my scalp; if she likes long hair she can play with the hair on my back.
I'm perfected like that, and modest too. | |
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| Whats the problem with long hair on a guy ? Posted: 4/30/2009 1:29:48 PM | ive never had a problem IN FACT most women ive dated wont let me cut my hair..... ive wanted to for years.. but the gals just wont let me... so its true.. to each their own right.
but im single now.. so im gonna cut it fast... lol | |
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| Whats the problem with long hair on a guy ? Posted: 4/30/2009 2:27:15 PM | You know I personally am not attracted to guys with long hair. However, last year I dated two guys with long hair and they both were fun dates. So, we all can say whatever... But until it comes down to crunch time we will never know... will we people are so judgemental and who the hell are we to do that to another human being?
Peace out boy... keep it real~~ P. | |
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| Whats the problem with long hair on a guy ? Posted: 4/30/2009 2:37:30 PM | You know after looking again at your photo... I hope you don't mind some cconstructive criticism? But you need a new updated style.. Unless you are stuck in the eighties, and if you like that then you'll have to accept that most woman just aren't into that anymore.. Does this help you? P. | |
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| Whats the problem with long hair on a guy ? Posted: 5/7/2009 1:54:13 AM | | I think it totally depends on the person, alot of women who are not into long hair respond to me, but my hair is not long,hippie length, but longer than a crewcut, although I will agree that it's a minority it seems to be making a comack, the beatles length hair with longer bangs, plus I dress well and am not bad looking, so it's all the individual...Mike | |
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| Whats the problem with long hair on a guy ? Posted: 5/7/2009 10:51:19 AM | Nothing's wrong per se. But just like anyone else with longer hair, it takes more maintenance and I'd expect him to keep it clean and healthy. Besides I tend to find these folks are usually more open, expressive, and possibly more creative or artistic.
I'd rather be with a guy with an abundant head of hair than a mirror on top any day! | |
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| Whats the problem with long hair on a guy ? Posted: 5/7/2009 11:06:36 AM | One of my favourite metal singers has hair that literally brushes the ground. He maintains it beautifully and I've never seen him without a hottie on his arm.
I adore long hair on men, the longer the better. My scalp is just one big erogenous zone. The way I figure it, if I like having my hair played with, then turnaround is fair play.
But long, greasy, matted hair is a complete turnoff. If you aren't going to look after it, shave it off.
And some men look better by far with no hair at all. Look at Vin Diesel and Billy Zane. Although Billy looks great either way. | |
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| Whats the problem with long hair on a guy ? Posted: 5/7/2009 12:06:48 PM | Personally I love long hair on a man only IF: - he's tall, slim and has chiseled features - his hair is kept clean & neat - one length: no mullets! - not bald on top. ----------------------------------------------------------------- ... otherwise it's more attractive at chin level or above. He should consult with a stylist for advice on how to play up his facial structure with the right shape of haircut. | |
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| Whats the problem with long hair on a guy ? Posted: 5/9/2009 1:43:57 PM | Honestly, I don't think it's as much about hair length, as it is style. If you've got style, you can make the long hair work ... just like guys such as Lorenzo Lamas, Anthony Kiedis (Red Hot Chili Peppers front man), or Sam Eliot. If you don't have personal style and confidence, you'll come across as goofy and awkward no matter how long your hair is.
Before you cut it off, try updating your look first. The same length hair that may not be working now, might suddenly be seen in a new light. | |
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| Whats the problem with long hair on a guy ? Posted: 5/27/2009 8:14:18 AM | | I don't see anything wrong with long hair on a man. I think long hair on a man(as in at least shoulder length) is very sexy. OP it isn't just you, all men look like a "tool" with short hair. I would find it very difficult to become involved with a man that had short hair. | |
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