| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted: 9/2/2007 7:46:06 AM | | I've always been a little curious about bondage as long as there's no pain involved. I've just never met anyone I'd trust that much to try it with. | |
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted: 9/2/2007 7:54:50 AM | | Bondage is fun as long as the dog is kept in the other room where its natural curiosity will not lead to disaster. | |
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted: 9/2/2007 8:40:20 AM | Here Here Slow_Down! You put it so well!
One of the definitions of bondage from dictionary.com is "the state of being bound by or subjected to some external power or control." Bondage could be as simple as one lover holding the other down. It could also be one partner telling the other not to move while you make 'the moves' on them. Make them control themselves. If they move, 'the moves' stop.
I say, if it intrigues you, give it a try. Just make sure you have a willing partner. And always use a 'safeword'. A word like "red light" could be used so that as soon as it's spoken, the one in control immediately stops what they're doing because it doesn't feel right to the one to whom it's being done.
But is it socially acceptable? Would you admit your tastes to your friends/family? I get the impression that being gay has more acceptance.
Second, who cares if it's socially acceptable or not? What consenting adults do behind closed doors is their business. Do you usually discuss your sex life with your friends and family? Do you really need their approval for your sex life? | |
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted: 12/1/2007 12:34:38 PM | My definiton of "missing out" is a totaly fridgid, or abusive girlfriend.
If youve got a horny girfriend, who likes you, and likes sex with you, then any spiced up sex is nice but it's just a bonus. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2008 8:29:12 AM | it can be a lot of fun,being tied or restrained. being blindfolded ,not knowing what is next. my favorite time: tied to a big x where my friend could get to ALL parts of my body. spanking,grabbing and all of it. just be sure you trust who you are with, it makes a BIG diference and a whole lot more fun. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2008 8:30:55 AM | Mmmmm you are soooo missing out, I think everyone should experience a lil' bondage and discipline  | |
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Posted: 7/6/2008 8:48:14 AM | wow this thread is old old old..
Bondage with a trusted loved one or even a close friend.. (not even necassarily naked) can be fun and exciting.. people just get the wrong concept about bondage.. thinking its like stuff you see on that show kink.. where its the most bizzarre ****ed up people on the face of the planet wearing the most extremely ****ed up outfits youve ever seen.. its not..
Its funny.. Couple I know.. for years and years ive known them both... both of them called me a freak and creepy.. cause they knew I was into bondage.. blah blah blah.. now what I should have said was.. "youve never used handcuffs? blindfold? scarves? rope? held her down? or been held down?.. hell even tied her arms in her sweater and felt her up a bit??" but I would just say whatever you say.. and whatever.. it wasnt a big deal.. One day.. I was at there place.. and the guy was talking to me from the bedroom and I went up stairs so we werent yelling back and forth.. now I dont mean to snoop or whatever.. but I did look into there bedroom and I looked up at the cieling... and I noticed something.. A heavy duty bolt.. shaped like an O sticking out from the cieling.. and it was thick.. like.. it was put into the frame of the house.. and me being the **stard I am pointed up at it and said.. whats that for dude?? hanging the plants?? he stopped turned looked at me saw what I was pointing at and turned bright red.. and I just started to laugh at him.... bondage sex swing.. he openly agmitted they had talked about it and went to a store.. saw the thing one of those velcro sex swing deals and it came with some crappy stand that didnt really work.. so he put the eye bolt in over top of the bed so he can just hook it there and strap up his wife. or just put her in it and not use the bondage velcro cuffs..
Its not always freaky or wierd.. and people just need to realize its not the "yes master no master, slave/dominatrix/Domme/Dom etc etc sort of thing everyone who has no clue makes it out to be..
because really... in todays day and age.. if you have never used a set of handcuffs or silk scarves or a blindfold or whatever.. id be bored out of my skull with just plain vanilla.
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted: 7/6/2008 12:23:08 PM | | I enjoy bondage.Being handcuff to the bed and not knowing what the woman you're with might have plan for you.You're helpless at this point.It is what is exciting to me. | |
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Posted: 7/24/2008 8:17:55 PM | Two things I highly recommend to people first starting out; and I still do both to this day, are: 1/safe words (yellow light = I'm a bit uncomfortable, back down a notch; and red light = stop everything) and 2/Always leave a way the person can release themselves if they want to. This is, after all, just fantasy; and nobody needs to be anxious.
I'm into light restraints, and blindfolds. I like to restrain her with velcro cuffs, blindfold sometimes; then start at the bottom of her feet and work my way up to the top of her ears nibbling, licking, chewing, touching, etc. the whole time, not allowing her to touch me. I like to see exactly how tight I can get her wound. How close I can get her to orgasm without letting her come; how high can I build her frustration; and seeing how long I can keep her there. Then when she can't stand it a second longer I'll unhook all of the restraints at once; and then just sit back and enjoy, because she is about to turn me every way but loose, LOL. | |
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Posted: 9/24/2008 4:28:15 PM | | Playing with light bondage can be a great way to ease into this sort of activity - to see if you will enjoy it! You definitely have to be with someone who respects you and that you trust implicitly! | |
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted: 9/24/2008 4:59:07 PM | | Yes you are missing out, you think you might like it but never try. That goes for everything in life. | |
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Posted: 9/24/2008 5:08:19 PM | I dunno....but I'm thinking the ultimate 'safe' word ever would be...."Pinata!"
Meaning: If you don't stop, when I get loose I'm knock the shyt outta you!!
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Posted: 9/24/2008 5:49:03 PM | So, Angel, do I get to whack the pinata with my stick?
-tom, glad he carries a big stick
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Posted: 9/24/2008 5:49:37 PM | | One day When I got home, there was a naked woman standing in my bedroom holding a rope. She said, "you can tie me up and do whatever you want", so I tied her up good then went fishing. No wonder I'm single lol | |
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Posted: 9/24/2008 7:00:12 PM | | I don't know about others but I wish those who conduct arguements between each other using Forum posts as the medium would desist. It really does get tiresome. When a poster originates a discussion point it is my experience that they are usually trying to get input on the topic not vitriol on whatever some advocate or thoughts to the contrary someone might hold | |
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Posted: 9/25/2008 9:59:10 PM | <----waves at pixy. Hiya doll!!!!
So....uhhhh......ummmm......errrrrrrrrr............Tom? Just exactly how........ohhhhhhhhh........NEVERMIND!!!!
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Posted: 9/27/2008 7:20:19 AM | Well, I'm not saying I can, and I'm not saying I can't...
...but I figure any fellow who can sit down and have it touch his belly button is carrying something akin to a Piñata Whacker.
-tom, noting that my name and my nose are two of the three longest things I inherited from my daddy    | |
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