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| Know what really ticks me off?
Posted: 7/13/2011 9:43:58 PM |
^^^^^^^^^^^^^if it's there guys like me take it.^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
i always go in for the kiss even if i'm not attracted to a woman.
unless her breath/teeth are skanky
Oh for the forum posts to still show up on our profiles!!
Cuz if that comment doesn't show "true colors".......nothing does! | |
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Posted: 7/14/2011 8:53:40 AM | Yeah, you're probably right. I know most don't care for it, but if you've got a "thang" for guys with bad breath and skanky teeth, then you should definitely mention it in your profile!
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Posted: 7/14/2011 1:12:23 PM | How hard up do you have to be to kiss someone you're not attracted to? I don't see what you would get out of it.
Shaking my head. Must be just me. | |
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Posted: 7/14/2011 3:34:41 PM | | I was puzzled by the remark of kissing someone that you are not attracted to...then I thought about it...came to the conclusion that if you are dependent on the "little blue pill" attraction isn't necessary. | |
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Posted: 7/19/2011 12:59:34 AM | How hard up do you have to be to kiss someone you're not attracted to? I don't see what you would get out of it.
Shaking my head. Must be just me.
It isn't just you. I remember once, 35 years ago, having a discussion with a 24 year old man. He had had sex with someone he wasn't attracted to simply because she was there and available, and afterwards he regretted it. It was some time later, and he was a friend of mine and we were talking. He said, "I thought sex was just sex." Meaning, it didn't really matter who you're with. I guess I remember it so vividly because it surprised me so much that someone would think that. Anyway, he had learned through that experience that it does matter who you are with. He was only 24. The guy on this thread who seems to think sex is just sex and you try it on with anyone, even if you're not attracted, this guy is 45+!! Amazing.
OT: I go to the trouble to take care of my skin, especially using sunscreen. I see no reason to ignore care of the skin any more than ignoring taking care of any part of your body or mind. It isn't about feeling shame at being old, it is about feeling as good as you can for as long as you can, even to the very end--in other words, we should feel as good as we can all of our life, living day to day in strength and health.
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Posted: 7/20/2011 5:56:17 PM | | I wopuldnt have been as surprised if the comment had been made about having sex. But what's the point of kissing someone you arent attracted to? | |
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Posted: 7/20/2011 6:01:16 PM | | ^^^I think he meant that he would try it on, essentially, as long as he's out with a woman, even though he's not attracted, if she is available and willing, he'll go ahead and have sex with her. The kiss is just to see how she reacts. That was my take on it. He's willing to go for the sex even though he doesn't find her attractive. The point of the kiss is to see if she responds and sex is a possibility. | |
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Posted: 7/20/2011 6:59:06 PM | ^^^
It's been reported also by many woman on this forum, that they hope for lots of kissing on the first date. However, a good number of them would exclude sex. | |
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Posted: 7/21/2011 1:19:58 AM |
It's been reported also by many woman on this forum, that they hope for lots of kissing on the first date. However, a good number of them would exclude sex. I have never read this on the forums. It wouldn't be something I'd want or expect on the first date, which is usually a time to get to know someone you don't know that much, essentially a stranger. Doing a lot of kissing with a stranger is not at all appealing. Or was your comment a joke?
OT: I notice a very wide descrepancy between how people age in regards to wrinkles, saggy facial skin, age spots, etc. I think some of it is due to genetics because I know my SO, being a typical man in this sense, has done nothing to protect his skin throughout his life, yet he doesn't have a lot of wrinkles or saggy skin. But, I also think it has to do with, at least for women, using sunscreen and taking care of the skin with cleansing and moisturizers. I don't know. People were mocking, earlier in the thread, the idea of worrying about how you look, that we are all growing old anyway and if someone doesn't love them for who they are, etc., and so on.... Still, I don't see any point in looking like a dried up raison if you don't need to. What does it prove? That you have lived? I don't think it proves that at all. | |
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Posted: 7/25/2011 10:07:10 AM | The TV ads...whether for kitchen gadgets or 'Miracle-cure' wrinkle cream....
_Always_ end with...
"...Call now, and get a 2nd one, FREE..!!"
Must be High-quality stuff...if they can give away Free ones...
and _Still_ make a profit...!!!
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Posted: 7/25/2011 1:59:17 PM | I love crow's feet on a woman
my fertile imagination raced with the visual that formed in my warped brain. First, I pictured where "crows feet" appear on our faces...then of the crow perched there leaving those imprinted foot marks...then - and here's where my brain went, I wondered if it was facing toward the woman's head or toes.
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Posted: 7/25/2011 2:06:11 PM | Msg 211 - VelmaValento
It's been reported also by many woman on this forum, that they hope for lots of kissing on the first date. However, a good number of them would exclude sex.
>>> I have never read this on the forums. It wouldn't be something I'd want or expect on the first date, which is usually a time to get to know someone you don't know that much, essentially a stranger. Doing a lot of kissing with a stranger is not at all appealing. Or was your comment a joke?
It was not a joke, but it was not an accurate description for what I apologize. The desire for kissing on the first date is listed not so much in forums, but you can find it in many female profiles. I guess, most forumites know better. | |
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Posted: 7/27/2011 4:39:19 PM | The thing that really ticks me off is at 46 I don't want to play games and I am very honest about how i feel about things and that there are certin things you just don't do when you are seeing someone especially if you are sleeping with them. You don't have other women burning your phone up when your with them, you don't stay on a dating sight and keep looking when you are supposed to be in a relations ship, and then you don't lie about it when you get busted. Treat me with the same respect you want to be treated with. | |
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Posted: 7/28/2011 5:18:33 AM | | thats a guy thing.....guys think the chemistry is all in the kiss....no spark = no chemistry...this happened to me last night.....we went out to dinner, had a nice enough time...at my car, he ended the night with a kiss....but it was obvious to me, as I sit here thinking about it this morning, there was no chemistry...but I appreciate the kiss....it says to me, he wanted it to work, but alas..... | |
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Posted: 7/28/2011 6:07:57 PM |
Of course, you'll always have those crazy people that are planning wedding favors
after the first meeting. Not that there's anything wrong with that, it's just something
you should keep to yourself!
So do you think that me bringing wedding cake samples on first dates may be a problem? | |
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Posted: 7/28/2011 10:28:23 PM | ^^^^
Yummy.
I'd go for that.
But as a guy....
you should know.....
If I eat your sample cake,
don't get all serious and think it seals the deal for the real one.
As I'm not seeking anything serious.........
I just want to be your cakebuddy.
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Posted: 8/2/2011 5:27:02 PM | What's the point in going anywhere? I look young. 
P.S. I had enough of being forced to kiss old maid aunts as a boy to want to do it now. Okay, so I've got old maid aunt baggage. | |
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Posted: 8/2/2011 8:51:36 PM | Msg 218 - ElizaM325
there was no chemistry...but I appreciate the kiss....
And then you wonder why some guys feel they have to do it. | |
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