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 fashionable33
Joined: 8/15/2005
Msg: 51
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Guilt? No.
Because you pay? No.
They want you back? No.
Because you're fun to be around? Maybe...

I have found it's an attempt to hang on to the coattails of what you once had, when you know it would never work out. Usually the woman's decision to remain friends because they don't want to lose that nice guy, but don't want the relationship any more.

I have never been friends with any of my ex's and never will be. You have emotions invested in them, best to let the feelings die then and there. No point having dinner with someone you once made love to, knowing they have someone else in their life now and vise-versa.
 waltercross
Joined: 8/25/2005
Msg: 52
Why do woman after breaking up with you......
Posted: 8/27/2005 2:12:45 AM
fashionable has the right idea, but what if two kids are throwen into the mix?, not your kids but you really loved them like they were yours.
 fashionable33
Joined: 8/15/2005
Msg: 53
Why do woman after breaking up with you......
Posted: 8/27/2005 2:15:24 AM
I've been in that scenario as well. I loved the little kid (6 months old) dearly.

However you need to realize that come sooner or later that woman will find another man who will fill your position.

And seriously, what man or woman would want to go see a movie with you or have dinner, when they have a partner they could go with. You always sit on the back burner, whether they have kids or not.

Let someone else fill the 'daddy' shoes is what I've found works best...
 Sparrowhawk1161
Joined: 7/30/2005
Msg: 54
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Why do woman after breaking up with you......
Posted: 8/27/2005 3:24:19 AM
YOu can't friends with ex's.

It's the same thing.

Girl let's you go... has no nerve to say goodbye...just be friends.

How many of you guys ever been friends with someone you dated. "Friends" is formalitty to, rudely becoming "aquaintances." THen... you never see them again.

Your dumped..you are on halt or gone... it's up to you to figure out which one you want to be?

Gone...you go on..they sound almost the same when you speak them.

Halt... you become on hold until you decide to stop. Then go to Gone... until she comes back?

No ones perfect in this world and neither are you! You make the deviding line!
 me worry?
Joined: 8/4/2005
Msg: 55
Why do woman after breaking up with you......
Posted: 8/27/2005 3:43:46 AM
cuz that's what they do. Don't wanna look like the bad guy, feel guilty, I dunno I don't get women anyway. That's why I like puppies.
 waltercross
Joined: 8/25/2005
Msg: 56
Why do woman after breaking up with you......
Posted: 8/27/2005 3:51:02 AM
LOL, i have noticed how women"my x mostly" will try to Justify her Lies and Leaving me, then point fingers at me as if i'm the bad guy.
 Mrslucci
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 57
Why do woman after breaking up with you......
Posted: 8/27/2005 4:56:04 AM
she just wants to rub your face in the fact u can't have her thang and eat it too,eww,ok take that howEva u want bbaaaabbbyyy.

did she leave u with stuff,,,,,she may want it alllll,hahahahahaha

ok its early,i'm tired,i'm hushin,sheesh.
 me worry?
Joined: 8/4/2005
Msg: 58
Why do woman after breaking up with you......
Posted: 8/27/2005 5:07:02 AM
My dog has never left me or pointed a paw at me. Well he does lick his own butt and I think if I stopped feeding him, he might leave. So I not sure about him either. Women I just don't get it.
 pepper2
Joined: 8/18/2005
Msg: 59
Why do woman after breaking up with you......
Posted: 8/27/2005 6:17:19 AM
well duh because we are nice and still care about you knucklehead lol
 me worry?
Joined: 8/4/2005
Msg: 60
Why do woman after breaking up with you......
Posted: 8/27/2005 6:13:21 PM
See what I mean? My dog would never call me a knucklehead. The voices do sometimes, but never the dog.
 wiccked
Joined: 7/28/2005
Msg: 61
Why do woman after breaking up with you......
Posted: 8/27/2005 7:48:52 PM
i just think it is better to walk away and let the other person go on with their life- whenever i have left one of those situations, i already knew there was no going back- even as friends- you dont have to be enemies with them- but not friends- if you love someone, set them free- if they come back, set them on fire!!!
 anewyorkgal
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 62
Why do woman after breaking up with you......
Posted: 8/27/2005 8:44:23 PM
If the relationship did not end badly and there was just no "chemistry" but you guys got along great, why cant you be friends? You know, people just make things more complicated then they have to be...why is that?
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