| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 5/5/2006 12:18:03 PM | Honestly I just don't understand why large people just stop eating for small periods of time. It's been proven that your body with start utilizing the fat storages to keep you from dying of hunger.
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Other than medical (thyroid/hormonal) problems, it is just bad habits
or nervousness.
If a person should munch...or as the doctors would say graze,
then the foodstuffs should be high fiber, fruits and vegetables.
A person can lose weight that way.
Better to munch on tasty trail mix or chomp on a celery stalk (beleive it or not, more caloroes are burned eating this vegie, than in storing it in the system) rather than junk food.
also walking right after a meal helps burn the food.
I like the habits of horses
They always eat half full. They do this because they never know when they have to take flight and the stampede starts.
Other than the movie...the Brothers Grimm, I never seen a fat horse. | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 5/5/2006 12:24:12 PM | | You are very right...and if your large and you only eat until half full your stomach will shrink therefor decreasing your appetite for the next meal...that way you don't eat a truckload. | |
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Dru
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Joined: 12/17/2005
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Posted: 5/5/2006 12:56:06 PM | if you can't do physical activity i agree with you both. But all you have to do to maintain size is make sure your output is more than your input. This is not necessarily healthy, but it will maintain the ideal body type. I'm in a process of changing my life. I used to be a fast food junkie, it was all i would eat. Now I still eat a lot of fast food, but my choices are different. Instead of the double cheese burger I get the grilled chicken, instead of fries I get the side salad. But even fries are not that bad anymore since everyone has switched to trans-fat free oil. I'm a great cook, but if I'm the only one eating, its a bit of a waste of talent.
If you want to be healthy regardless of your body shape or size, make sure each meal your plate is 1/2 vegetables, 1/4 meat and the rest grains. Doing that will get you healthy. If you want to loose weight, eat the above but get your heart rate up over 120bpm for at least 20 minutes 3 times a week. More if you find youself gourging at some point during the week. This will allow you to slowly over time loose weight.
I personally probably don't eat as good as I should, and if I don't change that it will come back to haunt me, so slowly i'm changing my eating habits. However in the mean time, until i eat better, working out for 2 to 2 and 1/2 hours 5 times a week is doing wonders. I don't just lift weights though, an hour of that work out is cardio, 30 minutes on the stepper, 30 minutes running backwards in the eliptical (running backwards gives you an amazing ass).
A good rule of thumb is, if your not sweating or short of breath, your not doing enough. | |
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Posted: 5/5/2006 4:25:56 PM | I think we just need to agree to disagree. I don't have anything against you guys- you have made your feelings clear and I'm not trying to make things any worse or insult you.
The reason I was sensitive was because I was that size once. I'm still a plus size woman. I'm not tiny. I just don't want there to be so much harshness and ill will towards bigger women. That doesn't mean something 'acceptable' as you say, its about leaving it alone and not going around making fun of them or calling them names and making it worse. Whenever someone made a comment like 'Your fat' 'Your ugly' it made me want to eat more. I've gotten control of that urge, but for many its their way of feeling better. People just need to realize that big men AND women are human beings and while you may not like the lifestyle, it is the one they choose. Only they can decide to lose the weight and really work for it. It took me finding out how much extra weight I had on my body and realizing that at the rate I was going, I could be dead sooner, and have more health problems than I wanted to deal with. Me losing weight isn't about being attractive to the opposite sex or even to myself- its about my health, and its about me wanting to better myself.
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Posted: 5/5/2006 8:07:57 PM | | JAZZ... why do you feel the need to "make fun" at anyone??/ Does that make you a better person or does it just make you feel better about yourself? Dru you have made your point way too many times, ok.. you don't date bigger women.. fine... who cares. Kitten you are just simply rude and mean. You people need to get over yourselves. This whole thread has become nothing but slandering.. cut downs...insults and rude behavior. I have better things to do with my time than deal with this. In MY OPINION this thread needs to die... and fast. | |
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Posted: 5/6/2006 7:53:02 AM | and if your large and you only eat until half full your stomach will shrink therefor decreasing your appetite for the next meal...that way you don't eat a truckload.
Why is it that all you people think that just because people are big that they eat alot. I'm not saying all don't...but you'd be surprised at how man big PEOPLE...(and not just women and mothers Dark) don't eat alot.
My sister can eat McDonalds and Wendys and drink gallons of pop and chocolate and chips.....whatever junk you can think of....and she is 120lbs. BUT if I even look at a burger...I gain 5 lbs. I have a VERY low metabolism. I do NOT eat junk constantly. So please stop.....AGAIN....generalizing that all BIG PEOPLE eat to much food.
You all seem to be VERY stupid in this area. Maybe you should look up the causes of weight gain.....and see just HOW MANY reasons there could be for someone being fat.
PS...I don't even know how you people get along in every day life....I am angry just reading how you people stereotype people. I'm glad that I've never met anyone like you and I hope that there are not alot of people in this world.I hope none of you have kids that one day might be fat....then you will see the damage that people like you can do. Thank god...we in here are smart enough to ignore your stupidity!!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 5/6/2006 7:57:01 AM |
JAZZ... why do you feel the need to "make fun" at anyone??/ Does that make you a better person or does it just make you feel better about yourself? Dru you have made your point way too many times, ok.. you don't date bigger women.. fine... who cares. Kitten you are just simply rude and mean. You people need to get over yourselves. This whole thread has become nothing but slandering.. cut downs...insults and rude behavior. I have better things to do with my time than deal with this. In MY OPINION this thread needs to die... and fast.
I couldn't have said it better myself!!!!!!! And I can see why Dark kitten has gotten no love from her mother in law....you are rude and shallow....that's why...not because she envies your body! | |
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Posted: 5/6/2006 6:36:54 PM | Agreed.
The thread should die.
Moderators....Yoohooo....
Please pull the plug on this thread.
I said my part as helpful advise.
In the end, as long as one feels good inside all that really matters.
But people should avoid being taken advantage off.
The offenders out there can not help but be bad little lotharios. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2006 9:10:09 PM | "I know a couple BBW's from work and a few I talk to and they give it up so easy its pathetic. I always see them with the one night stands but never with a boyfriend." "The reason guys go for "trophy girls " is because we are judge by our peers on by how nice is your car and how good does your girl look. Any guy who tells u different is bullshyt'n ! "
All I have to say is it shouldn't matter whether your "peers" approve or not....THAT's why women think men like that are shallow....If you like someone, if you get along with someone, if you're attracted to someone, if you have great SEX with someone, then be happy with them if they make you happy! Don't settle for a skinnier girl JUST because your boys don't approve of the bigger one. In the end, who's gonna go to bed with her every night? NOT THEM! YOU! And believe me sweety, you and I BOTH know, there's JUST as many Skinny girls who give it up in just one shot as big girls. Size has NOTHING to do with it. Coming from someone who doesn't think MEN OR WOMEN should be "labeled" whore.....you sure have a lot to say on that one don't you? Bigger women have sexual appetites just as much as skinny girls, maybe they're just WOMAN enough to go after what they want because the skinny girls know they can have anyone they want.....I'm sorry but I go after what I want REGARDLESS! I could care less if YOU or anyone else thinks I'm big or small.......I'm HUMAN! And that's all that counts in the end! You know I love you man, I just don't agree with you views, but we're still cool, and you'll always be my boy! Just be true to yourself! NOT YOUR BOYS! | |
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Posted: 5/7/2006 9:13:38 PM | | What's an obese mother have to do with her child? NOTHING.....It's all in the way you raise your child or the way your child decides to live their life. Believe me, I know PLENTY of familes, both skinny and obese, and you wouldn't even recognie mother to fatehr to children sometimes when it comes to size......My girl has two skinny parents, she's a body builder, and her sister is obese.....She chose to eat like a pig and do it to herself, she spent the better years of her life thin as well, but one day said screw it. To each his own......Size is just like age, a NUMBER! Has everyone forgotten we're ALL HUMANS, and you are no better than ANYONE because you weigh less? Give me a break! No disrespect, just voicing my opinion as you did... | |
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Dru
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Joined: 12/17/2005
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Posted: 5/8/2006 5:21:39 AM | Well said soul child. Everything you said is true. If you raise a kid and teach them the proper way to eat, it’s their choice to either do that or not once they’ve reached a certain age. But I wonder how many of those kids are shown how the world is going to treat them differently when they get bigger. Right or wrong, they will be treated differently.
The one thing you said that got my eye was “if the person makes you happy”. I agree, if the person makes you happy it shouldn’t matter what they look like. But the bigger girl doesn’t make me happy, not truly happy, not the kind of happy a girlfriend should make you feel.
There is something else I also believe in. I believe that if I like or love a girl, I should be doing everything in my power to make them happy. Many people will say what’s on the inside is what’s important. But the outside is important too. All though a girl may not really care if I get bigger because she’s in love with me, I want to be eye candy to her. I want her to look at me and instantly get turned on. I want to look the best I can for a girl. What is wrong with wanting to be the whole package, to be the nice guy with the great personality and be good looking? And what’s wrong with wanting that in return? | |
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Posted: 5/8/2006 10:06:03 AM | Do you not care about how your words affect people jazz? Honestly. This is not about fact acceptance, this is about some people have feelings, insecurities and the rest and having people whom you don't know say stuff like that only makes things worse, but I really don't think you care that much, or else you would have read my posts and at least thought about it. I was a BBW and I remember having people like you approach me, and it made me depressed and want to eat more. Most people have feelings and dont' want to hurt people just for the fun of it.
I'm not letting this or people such as yourself affect me anymore. I'm done. If you want to live a live with absolutely no feeling of remorse for how you treat people, than that's your perogative. I would rather live a life where I am kind and caring towards others, and encouraging them rather than putting them down and making their lives worse.
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Posted: 5/8/2006 10:56:57 AM | Nope in internet-land I don't care at all. I have enough self confidence to not care about what people I have never met and never will meet say about me.
And I certainly have more self-esteem than to think generalized posts about a group of people are directed right at me.
It's fun to play the extreme character on here. And more fun to see how many people get riled up by it. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2006 12:22:11 PM | Man, everyone's still b*tching about this topic? Holy hell.
Let us fat people go on with our lives, and you "i used to be fat" and " i like 3sums" etc etc...people can go on with your lives too
here's a round of beer for everyone 
Now Shut the hell up all of you, and move on to another thread...Jazz said it best herself..shes only posting here for the "shock factor" tossing around insults, because she can and will because thoese who are offended by her posts ( and others) continue to respond in a negative ( or not so negative) manner.
So ..on the count of three....everyone..is......going...to...slowly.....back....away.....from...the....thread.....
hehe
Have a good day Y'all. :D
Go...masturbate or something..SO much tension in here!! :D
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blaira
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Joined: 3/25/2006
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Posted: 5/9/2006 7:51:29 PM | | why have sex with someone your not attracted too... if you aren’t attracted to someone with more curves then why have sex with them... why hurt them... men ya all need to stop being pigs... and the people on this post here really need to stop labeling people... its ridicules | |
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Posted: 5/9/2006 9:13:21 PM | | Hey Dru, I hear what you're saying but you can't guarantee you'll be around in 15 or 20 years either? No one can guarantee longevity no matter what their size, race or sex. You could have some hidden disease that we don't know about and you could leave us alot sooner. I know of people who have had clogged arteries and were height and weight proportionate and their cholesterol was within normal range. You could also have an accident like Christopher Reeve, be in a wheelchair and eventually die. I'm sure you'd expect the woman you're with to see you through hard times or is that selfish?! Also, some women need to feel cared for and then they lose weight because they're loved and feel better about themselves, because someone cares. Why should anyone want you if something terrible could happen to you too? You offend me because of your narrowmindedness about life and people. | |
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Posted: 5/9/2006 10:06:59 PM | | ^^^.. I agree... and that pretty young skinny thang you have on your arm now gentlemen, you get like that.. she'll be out the door about the time you fall out of your wheelchair on the floor and poop all over yourself. Better have some good insurance for a nurse. Maybe the nurse will be young and pretty and SKINNY... but then she better be strong to pick you up. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2006 8:59:53 AM | Then you will both be in wheelchairs if this happens because the fat woman will be so fat because she thinks her husband needs to accept her flaws she'll become so obese she won't be able to walk.
Then we'll have a disabled guy fallen on the floor who can't get up, and a beached whale on the floor.
Useless. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2006 9:36:04 AM | ^^^
My oh my Jazzthief, we are an angry person.
I say live and let live.
Be concerned with your own health and welfare and not the rest of humaity's.
Some people either can not help being big or just choose to be big.
I myself do not mind dating and sleeping with the Big Gals.
What's the differences, I see Husky buily men dating puny short skinny women.
I really think those guys might split those "boards" in two.
I am consider my self in between slim and average, but I just enjoy the
company of these bigger gals and the sex that goes with it.
Therefore I see no shame.
But I do tend to be politel and reluctant to go out with the BALLOON people.
ie. people with EXTREMELY BIG BELLIES.
Now a stocky and big boned gal is someone I really seek out and totally lust after. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2006 9:58:33 AM | Stocky and big boned is one thing, Balloon people, aka super fatties is another.
I am angry. I'm angry at this stupid "Obesity acceptance" movement that's happening and blaming society for one's obesity. | |
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Dru
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Joined: 12/17/2005
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Posted: 5/10/2006 11:05:23 AM | narrowedmindedness eh, I love how people call you closed minded or have narrow views when you don't agree with their opinion. I also love that people think because I won't date a bigger girl i'm shallow and only date skinny, hotties. Well truthfully I've never dated anyone that I thought was a hottie. Every girl I've dated was pretty average. It was their personalities that got me interested in them.
I just don't want to date someone who is huge. You are right, I could drop dead before the end of this sentance. But i'm not going to stop working out because of it. I find that to be a pesimistic attitude, which a lot of bigger people have towards life. There are a million ways you could die each day, are you going to sit back and wait for it to happen, or are you going to live life to it's fullest.
In all honesty I don't see why a bigger girl would want to date me anyways. She is not going to enjoy the same things I do at the same intensity or frequency. I'm sure a lot of you are active, but will you be able to go for a 2-3 hour bike ride in the morning, roller blading for a few hours in the afternoon, a baseball game in the evening and then still go out that night and party till 2 or 3 in the morning. I've been bigger, and I've been around bigger people a lot, and from experience I know that bigger people get cranky when doing that much physical activity. They don't find that kind of stuff fun, so they don't enjoy doing it, hence they don't enjoy the date.
At no point during all of these posts have I tried to be mean or nasty to anyone. I've just been voicing my opinions as I am asked. And by the way, reading someones opinion, then being insulted by it shows a closed mind or narrow thinking. You are unable to objectively look at something from someone else's view point. I have not agreed with others opinions on here, but I have never been insulted by it. | |
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blaira
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Joined: 3/25/2006
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Posted: 5/10/2006 11:08:04 AM | | You have to accept obesity because its there... hey I don’t really like bush but right now I have to accept he’s there... people have weight issues and that’s there problem, and maybe they like being thick... there are a lot of thick women out there and I look at them and think wow they r gorgeous and confident and they can get what they want... doesn’t mean they're un healthy doesn’t mean anything... calling them a.k.a super fatties and balloon people is extremely insensitive and rude ... I mean these women on here talking about this aren’t 500 pounds sitting on the couches all day eating breaded chicken and god knows what else non stop... they aren’t ganna die in 20 years and they don’t need a stupid a** cane like someone mentioned earlier... there are fuller figured women who are obviously some what attractive because they can get a guy... that forever reason might be insecure or might just be horny girls that sleep with lots of men because hey they can do whatever they want... a guy who sleeps with a girl and doesn’t want to date her the next morning...hey I think it happens to the best of us...I'm sure you've been turn down numerous times... I don’t think people have to feel like they're in some ridiculous secret club here because of all the insults and insensitive people talking about this issue right now… So yeah, you have to accept it because its there and its life… so stop whining and crying about what’s acceptable and what’s not. There are always going to be over weight people so deal with it does not mean that they’re any better or worse then anyone else…they are who they are… either ya like it or ya don’t, but don’t be an a** and say it shouldn’t be accepted or speak out your miss guided thinking and hurt others with your pigheaded remarks… | |
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Dru
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Joined: 12/17/2005
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Posted: 5/10/2006 11:40:55 AM | Blair you need to read more carefully, here is the quoted post I made about acceptable and un-acceptable.
Being over weight is acceptable. Thinking you are over weight because of something other than your own habits is not. Unless you have been to a doctor and he has diagnosed you with something.. Thinking that its the guys fault he is not interested in you is not acceptable
You can see I've said being over weight is acceptable. Its the other stuff that is not. I will be honest, I do agree with everything in your post except for the last few lines where you stoop down to insults. Let people be the way they want to be.
My point is do not blame me for not wanting to date you. Thats my choice, let me have my own choice. And do not label me an ass, a jerk or a pig because of my choice. Perhaps you can see the double standard that is arising out of this thread. I'm not allowed to label bigger girls as lazy or over eaters (even though a good percentage of them are), so why are you allowed to label me an ass and pig? | |
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blaira
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Joined: 3/25/2006
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