| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 12/6/2006 6:51:24 AM | I guess this is digging up the past, but I had to comment on this.
Someone in an earlier post mentioned bigger girls trying to touch up pics etc so guys are surprised when they meet them.
I am the exact opposite. I tried to put pics up that accurately show my looks. I am not interested in wasting time with someone that isn't into me. Therefore, I want them to know what I look like before we meet in person. If they don't like me that's fine... everyone has their own taste. I have preferences on guys too! | |
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LoLo36
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Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 427 | |
| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 12/28/2006 8:57:09 PM | All I have to say is...To each their own.
We all have our likes and dislikes, but we all have become too picky.
Looks are important.. YES !!
One thing I have learned is to not judge in the beginning, get to know the person. You just never know. I want a good man on the inside as well as some attraction on the outside, looks do fade. Weight can be lost.
Do I like my extra weight...HELL NO !!!
I know the person I am inside... and I feel anyone who won't take me as I am NOW...does not deserve me when I am at my best.
Trust me...I will get there. | |
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LDKD79
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Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 428 | |
| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 12/31/2006 9:30:24 AM | | I AM NEW TO THIS SIGHT AND FOUND THIS FOURM INTERESTING. I AM A BIGGER LADY I AM ALSO SHORT(5'1) WHICH DOSNT HELP. I AM VERY HONEST AND UP FRONT PERSON. I DONT THROW MYSELF AT MEN BECAUSE I AM BBW, IVE NEVER HAD TO. I AM BEAUTIFUL ON THE INSIDE AND THAT RADIATS OUTSIDE. ANY MAN NOT WANTING TO FIND THAT OUT BECAUSE OF THE OUTER PACKAGE, ISNT WORTH MY TIME ANYWAY. I THINK WOMEN NEED TO QUIT UNDERESTMATEING THEM SELVES. | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 1/6/2007 7:18:25 AM | You mean fat ladies?not my style have you ever saw 1 naked?I saw 1 when I woke up with a stinking hangover and it put me off them for the rest of my life gimme a size 8 to 10 anyday | |
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Posted: 2/4/2007 6:02:44 PM | I'm a bigger lady, and I want to go all night long! I have plenty of moves, too! Most men I date complain that I want too much sex because I like it 2-3 times a day! I always feel men out to see if they like bigger women. Why be with someone who isn't into you? I have plenty of slim friends who are looking for love, too. Some of them are easy and some aren't. Depends on the person.
Everybody has preferences; I prefer tall men. I don't always date tall men, but I much prefer them. Who can say why we like what we like, but isn't it heavenly when we find it!
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 2/22/2007 10:48:40 AM | Guys look at dating as "What will it do for my image." Us men are always concerned about how we look with a bigger lady to our friends. I say BS!
I prefer the BBW's of the world. They know what they want in life, because all of the other girls are all worried about vanity. Listen, your good looks today will change tomorrow.
Send all of the bigger girls to me. I'll treat you right, and you won't want to go home.  | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 3/7/2007 10:24:01 AM | WELL THE ***holeS OF THE MALE GENDER HAVE SPOKEN
AND THESE ARE THE SAME GUYS WHO **** ABOUT NOT GETTING LAID BEACUSE THEY CAN'T FIND A NICE GIRL(WTF)!!!!!!
Bigger women, smaller women, OH HELL GREEN AND BLUE WOMEN...if the woman is kind and understanding and a good heart...and can be a **** once and awhile LOL that is alot more of a turn on than just TNA
The looks help but I HAVE seen some really hot bbw out there who I would sleep with, date, hell bring home to mom..the full pacakge...not just a booty call
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 4/27/2007 8:32:24 PM | I am, and have been since first baby at 16, a big beautiful woman. I have been married 4 times [in my stupid youth to 4 a...holes] and have never had a problem finding a man for whatever. My family was very heavy even during the depression so I do think genes has something to do with it.
Like some others on here I don't care what anyone thinks of me. I am extremely healthy at 61 and intend to live into my 90s like my grandma and her daughters. I have knee problems because of an accident caused by a drunk driver when I was driving a big truck which I did for 15 years. Because of that I am losing some weight but will never be what some of these people call thin. But that is alright cause as someone said earlier I love me so if you don't that's your loss.:frustrated:  | |
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kasie
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Joined: 4/14/2007
Msg: 436 | |
| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 5/23/2007 9:11:03 PM | so uhhhhhhhhhhhhh Vince...what do you consider a TOUR and what do you consider a HEAVY CRUISER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Just curious
It wouldnt take a tour here..just a short vacation...no heavy cruiser..just a uhhhhh uhhhhhhhh.. oh hell..I cant think...a freakin boat of some kind... ROFLMAO | |
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Posted: 6/4/2007 8:17:22 AM | I am in Austin, TX and being such a "fit" town, it has been very difficult to find someone to date seriously. I have been here for 2 1/2 years and have had very little luck even on websites (even the ones for the BBWs).
No worries...just enjoying the extremely single life while I can! 
~Amanda (former Lexington, Kentuckinan!) | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 6/16/2007 8:24:21 AM | | i will agree with you there. I have seen that too. Well I am heavy myself and have delt with alot of bashing because i am heavy set. But i had also use to be alot bigger then i am now. But i still consider myself heavy. There are a few heavy set women out there that just don't do a one night stand type deal. I am one of them. I am just trying to make friends to hang out with and maybe to go on dates with. but that is just me. i guess i can be to kind heart at times oh well | |
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greg
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Joined: 9/12/2006
Msg: 439 | |
| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 7/16/2007 4:34:23 AM | | I DONT HAVE ANYTHING AGINST BIGGER CHICKS BUT I DO FEEL THAT IF YOURE GOING TO SAY WHAT MEN ARE AFRAID OF OR WHY THEY USE THE BIGGER CHICK AS A BOOTY CALL THEN WHY DONT YOU POST YOUR PIC. UP YOU KNOW JUST AS I DO THAT MOST BIGGER LADIES DONT POST A PIC SUCH AS YOURSELF....................HUMMMMMMMMMMMMMM??????????? WHATS UP WITH THAT???? | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 7/21/2007 6:40:48 PM | | Yes, i have that problem. I love sex and that seems to create a problem for most men don't understand why? they act like they are afraid they can't keep up with me or something. | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 7/28/2007 4:18:14 PM | I just happened to stumble across your forum and seen the topic was something that I have been struggling with. I have a few FWB. I am a plus size girl or BBW whatever the title is these days Im 5'6" and weigh 250 however I carry my weight very well because I have large breast, small waist and broad hips to give me an hour glass figure. But I have broken it off with my FWB because they are out nearly every weekend with you skinny barbies and when the night is over they call me for the night cap. why shouldn't I be the one being wined and dined? I like going to the movies, amusement parks, walks in the park and the zoo? Oh well I guess its my fault for being in this situation. But im not in it because in inscure with my body it because I dont trust men to make a commitment. I know not all men are dogs, but personally I would love to meet one that could prove it!
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 7/29/2007 1:16:24 PM | the reason guys like to have sex with larger women cause we have more cushion and we are better in bed then the skinny gals...........
Don't take it offensively
Smile :)
Kim | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 9/24/2007 11:12:27 PM | | if you would look i do have a pic on my profile. i am not ashamed of being big. i used to be ashamed of being heavy set. I thought to myself that because i was big that i wasn't pretty enough to be with a guy on a date just what you call a booty call. but you know because a most guys just want bigger women for booty calls they think that most of us is that way. Well i am not one of them sorry. I would like to go out on dates to do something nice with a guy and get to know the guy. and if it doesn't turn out to be a long term thing that is fine but i would always like to be friends also just not friends with benifits because there new girl won't give them any. can you understand what i am comming from. | |
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Rose72
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Joined: 9/23/2007
Msg: 445 | |
| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 3/22/2008 9:16:55 AM | I agree with this. 12-14 is more average than thick. I admit that I am a 16, and not proud of it I am losing weight and was a size bigger and now the 16's are getting big. Anyway, I met a really great guy on here who I would love to see again. However he has an issue with the size thing, he told me after being intimate (a few days later) that I was more woman than he is used to. Which was a nice way of saying that you are fat! I was told he liked me but he is not attracted to me naked basically. Although even after that we saw each other a few times and had a great time together. I was told he wasn't embarrassed by his friends seeing me, and even introduced me to his mom. It was just his personal issue with me. No I am not on the diet for him specifically, I was on it before him and will continue to diet and work out and hopefully lose a lot more so I can feel bette about myself. Would I like him back as more than someone to talk to occassionally, YES!  But, even if I were to lose another size or two, I'm not sure I could ever feel truly comfortable being naked around him. One big question though is why is it that men have this issue, and no offense but it always seems that some of these guys are no skinny asses themselves. Yet, we women don't complain. Yes, I have dated skinny and heavy guys alike. I don't look at weight, I look at the person within to determine if it is someone I want to spend time with. This guy was by no means skinny, but not generally fat either. He was kind of middle of the road with a small spare tire I guess you would say, but I liked him regardless of his body type. Why couldn't he?????? | |
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Rose72
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Joined: 9/23/2007
Msg: 446 | |
| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 3/22/2008 9:25:21 AM | I have to agree with this one also. I am bigger and I too can go all night long. I too like to go several rounds before going to sleep and waking up to it again the next morning is amazing!!
Everyone has their own little quirks for some reason. Once had a guy break up with me because he told me I was too loud? Most guys I have been with saw that as a plus, but not him.
Just because I'm heavy doesn't mean I don't have a wonderful personality and outlook on life, because I do. If I click with someone I can sit and talk for hours and hours or just sit quietly and enjoy their company snuggled up with a movie or go for a nice walk. Chubby chicks need love too!! I've been told by a lot of men that are friends that they like a woman who has something to hold on to and hug. Yet, we are never the women they want to stay with, usually just the ones they want to have sex with and leave heartbroken. We have feelings too damnit!!!! And lots of them. | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 3/23/2008 11:13:40 AM |
I'm a bigger lady, and I want to go all night long! I have plenty of moves, too! Most men I date complain that I want too much sex because I like it 2-3 times a day! I always feel men out to see if they like bigger women. Why be with someone who isn't into you? I have plenty of slim friends who are looking for love, too. Some of them are easy and some aren't. Depends on the person.
me
I have the same problem. The last guy that broke it off with me told me I was too sexually distracting. lol Whatever that means.
For the guy that says a big girl cant move in bed: The only girls that cant move in bed are usually inexperienced and dont know how to work it.
But as far as finding guys and them being willing to be seen with me, I have never had a problem. There are lots of guys out there that like sexy curvy girl. Be confident in yourself ladies, men find that attractive. Hell I find that attractive in a man. | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 3/26/2008 1:44:53 PM | I'm very confident. As far as the FWB kinda thing, I've had them. I'm so used to meeting people online, and having bf's. My last relationship was with a 5'10" 150 guy who loved me no matter what! Thing is he was younger than me, and we just grew apart. We were engaged, and now that we're broke up, we still talk everyday, so I know it's not because I gave it up to him every time i saw him!. I'm now dating a guy that I work with! He spilled to me, that he usually doesnt date women with curves. But after getting to know me, he got to know me for me, and looked past my appearance. I love men like that!
I just don't get these little preppy a**holes out here who think that a size 2 is the only size available for dating/long-term/whatever. I'll tell ya now, I am college educated, well-maintained, and a hell of a lot smarter than that little blonde bimbo on ur arm! And in the bed, I would rock ur world!!
And as far as BIG girls being easy: I resent that! I casually dated a guy for 2 months without giving it up to him. On valentines day, I took the relationship to the next level. I finally did do something with him. After 2 months of him saying "I'm looking for a gf", "I really would love for u to be my gf eventually", he tells me, laying in bed, afterwards, "I'm not really ready for a gf yet." I was pissed!  He used me for 2 months! I kicked his a** out right then and there, at 4 in the morning! No sympathy! I never heard from him again....
See? that was a prime example of a chubby chaser...f*cker!
peace and chicken grease! | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 7/11/2008 6:48:47 PM | good on ya get up him mayb he should get off his fat a## and get a real job so he can afford too feed them and he mite find more coushens for the pushing | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 7/15/2008 9:37:29 PM | [Myself, most of my girlfriends are heavier than what most men seem to prefer. By heavier, I'm saying that my girlfriends are generally a size 12-14, which is a thick girl.
I have a reputation around my peers as being a "chubby chaser", which I find to be inaccurate. I like PRETTY women, and the ones that I happen to find pretty also seem to have large breasts and a thick booty ! LOL But i do not "limit" myself to thick girls.
To answer your question: I've had a few hefty booty calls, and that is what they were from the very beginning. If a 'bigger lady' wants to be more than a booty call, don't put out so quickly. I myself have found that women who are uncomfortable with their appearance DO indeed move faster into sexual practice, which in turn will send many men scampering off AFTER the deed or else coming back for the deed ONLY. I do think that men will sleep with a far greater number of women than one they would actually take out in public or around their friends. I'm guilty of that as well, but I'm not one who "sleeps around".
My own theory is this: every man wants a beautiful woman who they can show off in public. But, men (and women, too !) have carnal needs and so they will seek out something to hold them over, ala the Friends with Benefits/F Buddy/Booty Call. Insecure women let themselves get drawn into that more easily than a confident girl, so I personally think that is why it APPEARS that men use bigger ladies only for sexual favors.
Did any of that rambling make sense ??? ] well that is not comsidered thick that is still thin in any standard | |
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