| | Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladiesPage 19 of 19 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19) | | well i have found some guys that are into bbws and they are good looking and dont care what other men think of them i myself think that if you are happy with yourself then others will see it and know that you are true to yourself i love who i am and i do things that i know that some other bbws wont even think of doing but i know i am some one that isnt afraid of who she is and what the world thinks of me i am happy with who i am and that will never change so if you dont like the way that i look then dont look at me and if you do then step up to the plate i will tell you bbws have more class than most of the average or skinny women will ever have | |
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Posted: 7/23/2008 12:55:09 AM | Please don't think me shallow, mean, or a pervert. This is just my thinking.
BBW are great in bed. They are more likely to go that little bet extra to please. The best sex I have ever had came form big girl.
Most men don't want the buddies to see the with some that he doesn't think his buddies would find attractive. | |
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Posted: 10/26/2008 8:02:18 AM | Who knows why anyone is attracted to anyone else? I consider myself to be hefty and I do make sure my display pic is not a fat pic, but I also have a million pics on my myspace page. After the first email of interest I send men to my page and I tell them I'm NOT skinny my pages all say "more to love" or "extra pounds" .
I have the id in my profile for my myspace page there is full body shots on it also.
But back to what I started to say I'm not attracted to skinny men even tho they seem attracted to me I like more of the built fella ...I personally like the larry the cable guy look !!!!  | |
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Posted: 2/26/2009 1:34:47 AM | My Last Real " GF " Was a BBW not Exactly the Prettiest Flower In The Bunch But
Decided To Chat, E-Mail & Meet ,,, we Were together two years B4
She Told Me " I Love You But i'm Not in love W You " Ouch
We Clicked very Well ,,, Hell I Fell In Love w Her ,,, All of her
nobodys Perfect ,,, why can't Ppl give each Other a Chance &
Get to Know someone B4 you Decide If You Like Them
you Just Might be Surprised & Find Your Soul Mate | |
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Posted: 2/26/2009 5:43:29 PM | | I find beauty come in many different shapes and sizes, this may seem like a line, but I look at a woman's smile first esp her eyes, I have been messaging a lovely woman, who many would call overweight, I don't agree, and I would be proud to go out on the town with her on my arm, and I really don't care what anyone else thinks of her. | |
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Posted: 2/27/2009 7:56:20 AM | | We can go on and on and on about bigger women and how men react to them. The bottom line is this: Everyone, even we bigger women have our preferences in partners. I would be remiss to say I haven’t turned down an opportunity to meet someone based on looks or size or age. Larger women aren’t for everyone and that’s okay. But guys, there is no need to be rude about it. I’m fine with a guy saying he’s not comfortable with my size or not attracted to larger women or even have a note in his profile saying he prefers height and weight proportionate women or small women. That is pure and simple honesty. But don’t say things like fat chicks need not apply. Really now…grow up! And some of these guys kill me with their little uncouth comments when they have two chins and a gut hanging over top of their belt and to add insult to injury they list their body type as athletic. Ha! Guys they are talking about build here, not how much weight you can bench press or if you play ball at the family reunion. And no, this is not a double standard; just an observation. I don’t mind the extra chin or the gut if you are the awesome guy your profile portrays you to be. | |
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Posted: 3/15/2009 11:27:17 PM | | thats true and i know what it is like to have my own turn down on men everyone have what they are looking for but if you have to be rude to some one that is uncalled for how would like for a woman tell you that you are too skinny or that you are just too plain or that you are too much like every other guy in the room same way with some motor cycle riders they only want the so called biker girl look on the back of their bike but alot of the biker girl image is trashy not classy i am a bbw and i am also a bike rider and my b/f i ride with says he dont even notice that i am on the back of the bike and we have been on alot of twisty curvey roads that are out the and he can tell you that he use to chase the model girls but once he met me and got to know me that he was looking in all the wrong women but like everyone else knows each to their own and opinions are like a$$ holes everyone hass one | |
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Posted: 8/3/2009 4:05:55 PM | There is definitely something to be said for honesty, but my appearance doesn't match the number, nor my athletic ability or my strength. I'm not about to be judged on my weight because let's face it... it's JUST A NUMBER. I figure if I'm honest about not being thin, or even as my profile clearly says "a few extra pounds" then that shouldn't define me.
I’m fine with a guy saying he’s not comfortable with my size or not attracted to larger women or even have a note in his profile saying he prefers height and weight proportionate women or small women. That is pure and simple honesty. But don’t say things like fat chicks need not apply. Really now…grow up!
Well said.
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Posted: 8/29/2009 7:03:01 PM | I'm honest on my profile. I don't think my pics are misleading either.
I used to be much bigger than I am and I'm proud of my current weight. I've worked hard to be the size I am now and I continue to work hard. I weight train so some of my current weight is actually added muscle.  | |
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Posted: 1/2/2010 3:04:31 AM | You know, I'll be damned before I would allow any guy to treat me that way. I would rather die alone than tolerate being treated poorly. This behavior won't happen if you do not allow it. What tends to annoy me about some other fat chicks is how they are too damn easy. Trying desperately to get a man, they practically get naked in public to get noticed. I don't care what size you are, women do not need to behave that way. These type of women make it more challenging for any woman of any size who actually has respect for herself.
That being said, whatever size you are, people, men will treat you however you allow them to. If you respect yourself, and reflect that in your behavior you will meet men who will in turn treat you with respect. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2010 3:20:00 AM | " i will tell you bbws have more class than most of the average or skinny women will ever have"
I do not like this either. Practically getting naked in public to show how easy you are is not class. I don't care what size you are. That being said, confidence is about not needing others to validate you. It also means you do not have to tear others down to build yourself up. If a specific person is being a jerk fight fire with fire. Othewise no woman of any size has a right to tear down other women. Class is not based on size, its based on respect for onesself. Believe me I have been to some ridiculously raunchy and wild bbw parties where there was absolutely no class anywhere to be seen.
I didn't fit into groups like that because I refuse to degrade myself. I can assure you there are average sized women who run into that exact same problem with other average sized women. There is much to be said for leaving most of your feminine goodies to the imagination. | |
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Posted: 2/15/2010 1:56:15 AM | Yea this has happened 2 more than once it seems we dont fit into their lives in that way, sorta like we r not be good enough 4 them. I can tell u one thing im a bbw who appericates who i am. My pant size doesn't really tell you who i am as a person. In society's eyes this means i eat 2 much but that is not always the case. Don't ppl stop and think anymore this could mean i have health issues for example i may have a tyroid problem. I guess ppl will always judge but never see us as ppl who need some lovin 2  | |
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Posted: 6/12/2011 2:32:51 AM | really not putting this out as being a jerk
But guys sleep with bigger girls because there easy and to wait for the good looking one to come along. Its not a nice thing to do but girls and guys do it. | |
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Posted: 6/29/2011 3:46:21 PM | im glad im not the only one who has had problems with guys just thinking they are content to be piece of ass! ive read thru many of the posts and actually learned a few things if that makes sense at all! 
guess ill just keep on fishing!  | |
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Posted: 7/4/2011 3:03:00 PM | i've dated bigger / smaller girls , i am a bigger guy. But I lose weight / put weight on every other year about. But in all honest its just a preference what most guys do. I can say there are alot of skinny girls that are turned off by bigger guys. Why would they date them?
If someone is not getting emotionally attached, they are willing to do sexual stuff with a person. Not caring about the persons weight. If you want to bring the person around your friends / family you have to be secure in your girl / man. Some people will raise there standards in the looks department. Some girls cant stand heavier guys its disgusting, just like vice versa happens. Because they will be judged by there family / piers.
Some people are just Shallow, You can be attracted to someone, but not be attracted to everything about them. They are not willing to admit it up front. But when it comes down to getting in a relationship, they will just end it without saying anything. Because they had a problem with you to begin with.
But in all honesty must guys will sleep with a bigger girl if they are desperate just trying to get attention.
There are sure fire ways of testing a guy if they like you for who you are. Or are just trying to bang you. If they bring you around there friends etc, go out in public with you etc. Seeing how they react. Give it a week + without putting out, you will see where it is going. | |
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Posted: 8/27/2011 8:52:48 AM | I have read thur alot of this, I have two things against me..one im 50 the second im fluffy...lol...but i will not settle for less ..I have been both small and large, and i have to say I have had more dates since i was larger then when i was the smaller version. But I have also hosted alot of meet n greets for alot of other sites and found that most all the women and im talking thousands r of the fluffy version. And they have some of the sexest men that I have ever met. These men are proud to have them on their arm, they dont care what others think, its what goes on with the person and whom they are with is what all that matters at the end of the day. And these women didnt put out or wasnt easy just cause they where larger..they where just prouder...GO FLUFFY..... | |
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Posted: 8/31/2011 6:37:44 PM | | As a single black man, Im more attracted to women with curves or who are" Bigger " because of their insight and their maturity level so I don't have a problem being in a relationship with a woman who's described as such..But the guys who do are secretly yearning and wanting a woman who is bigger but afraid of how they will be preceived by their peers and society as a whole. | |
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Posted: 2/22/2012 3:53:15 PM | | I think that most men are presented with women having to look a certain way because that's why society poses on us and how our peers and associates view us but for me I've always have had a desire to be in a relationship with a woman who's curvier and even older than Iam the only problem I have is finding a woman who's ready for a serious relationship minded man like me... | |
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Posted: 5/6/2012 1:12:29 PM | | How about the opposite? Thicker ladies not wanting anything to do with a size appropriate guy? They'll screw every slim shady they can get their hands on that will treat them like slut bags, but then a genuine decent guy comes along who is no slim shady, actually has his pants around his waste, and can hold down a job, but hell no they don't want nothing to do with that, especially if they're pretty in the face. It boils down to this: everybody is trying to get the best looking person to be with and in the meantime screw what approximates that until they're tired of the "game". My advice; forget dating, focus on being successful in your own life and make women jealous that they don't get to share your wealth. The genuine ladies will be more attracted to your potential security and the freaks will put out to get a piece of the action. | |
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Posted: 5/9/2012 7:07:35 PM | | i think everyone has their own preferences, to each their own. personally i find beauty in everyone, regardless of size. some just cant seem to get past it and some just seem to love it. i personally feel sorry for those who allow society to set the standards as to what is "acceptable" to be with. if they like the person then it shouldnt matter what others think, unfortunately, i believe that many people allow those around them to influence what they would or wouldnt do. idk... just thinking outloud here, perhaps i shouldnt haha.... | |
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Posted: 5/15/2012 6:27:19 AM | | i agree madamx to each his or her own. i myself have dated slimmer and bigger women. each person is different. and have different likes and dislikes. its all comes down to the 2 ppl involved and how devoted they are to each other. size i think is just a number. doesnt matter. only time i ever said anything about my ladys weight be it too much or little. is when it was effecting there health. big or small doesnt matter. there health and happiness is what is most important to me. hope i didnt offend anyone just stating my op. | |
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