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Posted: 6/29/2005 2:22:43 PM | Not sure ~ORG.. perhaps because I made it an "Introduce Yourself" type thread..
If you want.. you could give it a go.. 
I'd show for sure.
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 6/29/2005 4:11:06 PM | personaly i think a realy skinny girl is a turn off.. just not very healthy looking...for gods sake eat something!
and as said above somewhere...yeah, you gotta have something to hold on to... specialy if she a good one! | |
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Posted: 6/29/2005 4:23:15 PM | | if so many men are afraid of what their friends think, yet they are all secretely having relationships w/these women, what's the problem? they are all hiding whom they date from eachother? lame. | |
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Posted: 6/29/2005 4:34:55 PM | i posted this in another forum, but feel it bears repeating...
I've dated a couple of women who were much larger than what society seems to think is attractive, and I have to say that I do not regret my time with them at all. The sex was great, and that's the only part of a relationship that's different with a BBW, since it has physical components; the rest of the relationship is based on what's inside, and being thin, buff, veluptuous, or full-figured, doesn't make her who she is. I don't go out of my way for BBW, but damned if I will avoid them and cheat myself out of finding 'The One", because she might very well be packaged as a BBW, and I won't pass her by while looking for a date with a 'trophy' body! | |
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Posted: 6/29/2005 4:53:33 PM | | Otta, don't let guys treat you that way. You might lose some guys because you are a larger size, but there is somebody out there who will love you for yourself. You don't have to lower your standards for jerks who just plan to use you. | |
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Posted: 6/29/2005 4:56:33 PM | | I think men should be able to go after whatever type of girl he likes without being condemed about it. If he like sexy girls with nice bodies.. He's viwed as being shallow. If he chases big girls, he's viewd as looking for a quick easy lay. I know a couple BBW's from work and a few I talk to and they give it up so easy its pathetic. I always see them with the one night stands but never with a boyfriend. When I go out to the clubs I alwyas have several big girls come to me and just be flat out bold enough to say they want to take me home and fuuck. It happens alll the time. Or they walk by and grab my asss. I hate to sterotype but its always the big girls who do that. As far as the whole secret society thing about guys and BBW's, I think thats funny cus I have a friend thats like that. He tells me how he wants to settle down and find a real fine sexy girl to be with... But everytime I turn around he's have'n a one nighter wit a big girl, and he try to keep it on the low. Again though I just think a lot of that has to do with the Big girls just throw'n themselves out there like that. My personal opinon is that they do that just to get noticed. I live in Florida the land of fake boobies and model look'n girls, so I'm sure that has to play a HUGE role in it. Cus Big girls here pretty much go unoticed. The reason guys go for "trophy girls " is because we are judge by our peers on by how nice is your car and how good does your girl look. Any guy who tells u different is bullshyt'n ! | |
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Posted: 6/29/2005 4:57:27 PM | I'm no more inclined to have sex with a big girl than I am to form a relationship with her. My mind doesn't work that way. I *have* to be attracted to a girl to do anything with her, and since my tastes run to petite women it's a rare thing. Has happened though, and it's not something I avoid.
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Posted: 6/29/2005 5:09:26 PM | "I think men should be able to go after whatever type of girl he likes without being condemed about it."
everyone has preferences and that's what they are.
it's the people - male and female - who put guys down if they like "larger" women. or the ones who put down larger people in general - lazy and stupid are the usual adjectives attached to those posts. society attaches negative personality traits to those who are overweight and obese. and due to our obsession with thin, thinner and thinnest, no one is exactly sure what a *healthy, normal* weight actually is. even BMI tables aren't deemed to be very accurate of that any more.
over the past few weeks, on all the dating sites i belong to, i've noticed a major increase in fat bashing.
i hope these BBW threads don't turn that way.... | |
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Posted: 6/29/2005 5:36:12 PM | Okay. Blunt brawny is here for the truth session.
Here it is:
We want to stick our diks into ever female that doesn't make us gag.
We have a dik....and it wants stuck. And it does most of our thinking sexually.
We have a brain.....it wants to be with women that stimulate us mentally.
We have emotions....we want to be with women that love us.
We have eyes....we want to be with a woman that is asthetically pleasing to us.
When we can't get them all together......the dik has seniority. | |
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Posted: 6/29/2005 5:43:52 PM | | LOL Brawny sounds like your body is ran like a communist country !! ... Anyhthing that doesnt make u gag ? Thats kinda extreem ! But I belive ya cus I've hung around some guys that think like that.. And I have to admit those are the type of guys that are the most fun to go to the Clubs with, cus there is never a dull moment LOL | |
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Posted: 6/29/2005 5:56:32 PM | I don't personally have a problem with BBW women, not that I have dated many. My problem is women who lie thier ass off online, position their pictures just "so" to hide what they are obviously insecure about and then expect me to forgive that because their personality is so "sparkling". If you are gonna start it off with a lie I have no respect for them at all.
okay. now what do you expect us (humans...not solely women) to do? do you think we're going to take a picture dead on that absolutely shows every single insecurity? i don't know about everybody else....but i can nitpick a picture of myself to death. and it can get rather depressing. if i have the choice....i'm sticking out the one i think i look the best in....for my own self-preservation. and, really....if a picture can hide all the things she hates....how big can she be?
that being said....i'm 5'4" and a size 12 with some room left for bending over (sorry...just cause i can *fit in a size 8 does not *make me a size 8) i won't lie about that....but i'm sure as hell not gonna take a picture of myself with that stomach stuff stickin' out! lol
now...to be OT: i've dated guys i don't find attractive (weight, bad skin, horrible teeth...) yet i'm somehow attracted to. i had to recondition my thought process...but after that...everything was dandy. besides....people notice the smiles on the faces of both parties....and know something right is going on. | |
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Posted: 6/29/2005 6:00:36 PM | ^^^^ NOT nice  joezero69!!!!
You think that maybe the girls that you take home at the end of the nite feel the same about YOU???
I am choked because you are not answering the question that was asked...and didn't your mom teach you "if you don't have anything nice to say...for gawds sake, shut your bloody mouth!"  | |
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Posted: 6/29/2005 6:01:56 PM | ....or we'll bloody it for ya! oh..sorry...that's a ky girl thing.
OT: we all rock. you just won't take us out in public cause you don't want us spillin' that you couldn't keep it up...... | |
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Posted: 6/29/2005 6:03:08 PM | Ahhh my girl ky...showing me once again how much us smert edumacted redheads think!
 for you hun and soooo thrilled to see you again at the same time as me
c u l8ter....
OT:sure I would date a BBW  | |
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Posted: 6/29/2005 6:04:45 PM |
You think that maybe the girls that you take home at the end of the nite feel the same about YOU???
Now that's a question that entered our male brains for 6 seconds.
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Posted: 6/29/2005 6:10:29 PM | Ahhh my girl ky...showing me once again how much us smert edumacted redheads think!
for you hun and soooo thrilled to see you again at the same time as me
c u l8ter....
awwww....how i love my jenn-jenn! how you truly get me!
OT: wondering what the real definition of a bbw is. i'd like dimensions, folks....just to see how wrong some of these guys are. | |
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