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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies Posted: 6/29/2005 6:21:58 PM | hmmmm...brawny...are you picking on our standards now? but i guess it's only fair...we pick on yours.
<<~~~~~has always gone home alone....always figured it's cause i'm a tad over-bearing and judgemental.... | |
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Sari23
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies Posted: 6/29/2005 6:24:54 PM | oh, yeah....that'll work...drink away my common sense and go home with....you?
sorry...i'm merely foolin'
now...back OT: i guess guys can do whatever they wish. if it's 2 willing adults...go at it. we'll try not to get upset when you show what an ass you are....if you try to stop showing your ass on public forums. | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies Posted: 6/29/2005 6:29:52 PM | KY I would never dream of it. I love all women. I can find something beautiful in nearly all of you. Note the nearly. That would be the "gag" portion of the population that I mentioned earlier.
And none of you ladies go in to that little slice of the population. For dam sure.
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies Posted: 6/29/2005 6:34:15 PM | oh, brawn...you know i groove on ya! it'll be awright!
i'm just wondering if that 'hot chicks go home alone' thing was directed at the 'hot' ones being too picky....or the not so hot being too easy. c'mon, dudes....you're gonna have to start thinkin' differently. sex vs. relationship don't knock us for lettin' ya knock us. and don't knock us if you're gonna laugh about it tomorrow. | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies Posted: 6/29/2005 6:35:11 PM | | I do not have this problem because i choose wisely who i am going to sleep and when i am going to sleep with them. I do not put myself out there like that. | |
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Sari23
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies Posted: 6/29/2005 6:54:25 PM | I find that most men who date only women who look like models are men that are terminal bachelors. Not a good thing not a bad thing
everyone has the right to their own taste. I personally like sexy stomachs and green eyes with dark hair.....that doesnt mean thats ALL I date.
And as for the BBW's only being a booty call or a Feck Buddy.....you are what you want to be. Dont tell me that if it wasnt for a quick lay there's be no lay at all, because what you get with a one night stand isnt worth giving up B.O.B for anyway.
I have been a girlfriend a buddy and a Booty call......but what remains is that it doesnt matter to me what size shirt pants or bra I wear, what matters is the size of my heart and brain. I love me, and I dont give two tinkers damns who doesnt.
So believe in yourself ladies and gents, and if you truly find you cant be happy being La Belle Grande, or Le Beau Grand.....then change. Whats inside before whats outside | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies Posted: 6/29/2005 9:34:12 PM | Straight Up..
What I am attracted too.. you may not be and vice versa!
Does that make me shallow? Hell No, and it sure doesn't make you shallow in my eyes either.
Thing is.. if you come off rude in your response.. or lack thereof.. you're going to be portrayed as shallow or what have you.. how you take on that label is up to you.
If you're contacted by someone you're not interested in.. just tell them.. I mean it's not like you have to spend a dime to send the message saying you're not interested.
Happy Everyone!
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies Posted: 6/29/2005 9:39:33 PM |
Why do guys find it hard to date or more so be in a relationship with a bigger set lady, but they find it more than easy to have sex with us, or make us their "friends with benefits" or the their booty call etc etc... Might not have ANYTHING to do with size/weight and everything to do with a woman ALLOWING/SETTLING for being a booty call or having sex without commitment of relationship or expectation of doing other things as a couple. They do and can because the women that do it with them ALLOW it. They are just as much to blame,actually more.He can't use her if she controls her legs.
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies Posted: 6/29/2005 9:40:08 PM | in my opinion it seems like alot of younger guys want a "trophy" girl to show off to their friends. thats why i prefer to date men that are in their late 20's or 30's. they seem to care more about who you are and less about the few extra pounds you might have.  | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies Posted: 6/30/2005 6:24:40 AM | Okay want to clear something up.....I posted this forum out of pure curosity, not because I'm putting out to guys or anything and then getting frustrated that they don't want to have a relationship....I have class!!
What annoys me is just what ~Shells~ said....don't be rude in your responses or your reaction...do you know how many guys who will start talking to me, we laugh, we joke etc etc and when I tell them (even though it is CLEARLY stated in my profile) I am a bigger set lady (confident no doubt) all of a sudden they're gone and they've blocked you....I mean c'mon!!
I also hold strongly that yes, everyone has their "types" of people they ideally want to be with in the long run, and I also believe you shouldn't comprimse what/who you want to be with because of peer pressure, or society or anything for that matter...if you want to be with a BBW guys then who gives a flying F*$^ about what your friends say...they are probably the ones that aren't getting any and or are a large investment in personal lube!
So for you guys that are being honest in here!! YOU ROCK!!!!!! And for us BBW...be confident, be strong, and love yourself cause if you can't...what the hell is the point!!
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies Posted: 6/30/2005 9:03:19 AM | Well I can see this sort of comparision going bad really fast.
However there is two points of view in respects to this. And I think it depends on the individual, both him and her.
I beleive that to engage in sex, there has to be a few things first. I beleive in the physical attration, and the intelecual attraction between the two lovers. Without any one of those then what is the point in any sexual encounter, we've got our hands
It also depends on the mentality of the man, and lady for that matter. Each of which should be expressive on what they are looking for, men will naturally find an attration to sombody whom is not interested in relationship, whether large or petit, however interested in something more casual. Ladies have more of an emotional grasp on things like that.
Dont worry ladies us men grow up eventually
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies Posted: 6/30/2005 9:52:52 AM | well big women don't really move that well in bed
LMAO - that is NOT the voice of experience!
That is so true!! Some of us BBW can move in ways that skinny women can only wish for!!!
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies Posted: 6/30/2005 9:58:20 AM | Hi Irish! Good to see you posting. Get your groove on, baby!!
Some of us BBW can move in ways that skinny women can only wish for!!!
Can you please be more descriptive for the perv fringe. lol
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