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Posted: 4/16/2009 8:53:57 PM | KaylieCat~...I only get 5 posts per day...therefore I skip a lot of repetitive threads.
Today I'm using one of those five to say "Excellent Post" ^^^^^^^^. Excellently stated and written.
And the visuals...thank you very much for that glimpse.
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Posted: 4/16/2009 9:06:32 PM | Firstly, I believe that if a lady is willing to blow him, he should shut up and be grateful. I also believe (and some may find this contradictory), that swallowing is important. I realize there are some ladies that don't like this, and that is ok. Speaking only for myself, spitting is a sign of rejection. Like anything sexual, communication is the key, and your partner needs to know what is important to you. Giving a woman oral sex is important to me, but then again I am a PLF.....
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Posted: 4/16/2009 9:08:34 PM | Kaylie!!!! My God woman. How are you still single?
I've read your profile & your posts.
You let me know when you're ready to get back in the saddle, so to speak. | |
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Posted: 4/16/2009 9:13:07 PM | Well, it does not matter iffn' I bust my nut inside a woman or not, I will still go down on her and lick her dry.
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Posted: 4/16/2009 11:30:26 PM | You taste with your mouth, not your stomach, right? So if you cooked a delicious meal and put a lot of effort into it, would you mind if I spat it out after chewing? I got the taste, so what's the difference whether I swallow or not?
"Yum, honey, your cooking is great!" (spit)
"It's my favorite." (barf)
"I can't wait for the next time you cook it..." (hock a loogie) | |
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Posted: 4/17/2009 5:55:52 AM | It isn't really all that when you speak of the sensation of oral sex, it's the intimacy of the act itself!
In the same line of thought, I wonder what it feels like to the woman? | |
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Posted: 4/17/2009 6:25:22 AM |
It's a very loving act, when I do it to completion. the bj was a "gift"...it was something for him, a way to give of myself as a "treat".
I agree totally. When both can enjoy one another's pleasure it all is a joy! | |
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Posted: 4/17/2009 6:42:28 AM |
I need a lover, not a liker and she, ideally, would love me and love my loins. Or at least be compatible with a loin lover. Otherwise, why be together in the first place if you don't share the same kind of intimacy? Unless all you are is a fvcker.
I totally agree with this. A one night stand, basically the other person is a dildo. Using the person's body to get off.
In a relationship, I would hope you would love each other's bodies. And I don't mean love like romantically. I mean love like "I love ice cream" or "I love chocolate". You crave it. Touching the person's body makes you happy. Having sex hot, fast, loving, slow, any kind with someone you are seeing regularly should energize you, refresh your soul...I don't know quite how to put it.
It's like, as a woman, I see him and inside me, I say "YUMMMMMMMM!!!!!" and instantly feel happier.
Perhaps... perhaps when we stop saying yum is when the relationship declines? Hmmm? So how do we keep that feeling inside of us? Or why does it leave? Guess that's another topic for another thread...
All I know is, that's all tied up into why I enjoy giving a guy a BJ. His c0ck is part of the YUM. And I want him to know thatm because for a male, it is so closely intertwined with his self-identity. Love the man, love his c0ck. LOL Why do we feel this way about our man's sex organ (and why does he feel this way?)??? I don't know. Must be something very elemental, something instinctive... His c0ck gives life, creates life. (or at least has that potential, I sure don't want life created in me anymore!).
Rejecting the essence of his c0ck is rejecting the c0ck, which is rejecting the man...it's all tied together.
That is also why I don't get women who won't give bjs, or men who won't give oral. And that is *also* why I finally understood why guys like to lick a woman's pssy as well...it's part of loving her body, loving her most womanly area, worshipping her essence. | |
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Posted: 4/17/2009 6:59:53 AM | | Kaylie , I love reading your responses! You have such a great open mind and are not afraid to use it! this line here reminds me of the movie Magnolias "Rejecting the essence of his c0ck is rejecting the c0ck, which is rejecting the man...it's all tied together. " Don't know if you have ever seen it but Tom Cruise is the character who is talking about this type of subject. Too funny. Wish more woman had your outlook on things! | |
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Posted: 4/17/2009 7:13:27 AM | You got it right, as man we dont like it when a woman declares that she will never do something, it becomes a challenge. however the truth is i find it so luvly to finish the job with a good suck by a willing woman, and then cuddle up and lie there without one rushing to the loo to spit out the cum! I seem to get ready for the next round a lot quicker when am sucked dry, which is always nice becoz sometimes rising again can be a challenge especialy after a few glasses of brandy.
An ex i had used to enjoy giving me oral so much that for months all my cum just disappeared down her throat and she even sucked me dry on the motorway while i was driving and we just contnued our journey as if nothing happened down there.
Is it true that sucking a big****is better for the woman or is it about how hard it is?  | |
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Posted: 4/17/2009 7:19:35 AM | | you should be a sex therapist, thats all i say! u got man sussed! | |
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Posted: 4/17/2009 7:30:46 AM | | i dont really think of it as a big deal... its actually kindof a turn on. | |
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Posted: 4/17/2009 8:54:47 AM | i would only swallow if the man was a vegetarian.
The protien in meat makes it taste sour .. though if i cared enough for someone i would not complain at all and just go about pleasing him as i would want him to be happy
but when their vegetarians i have no problem with swallowing as it would then taste sweet and would not be a problem at all..
but me i have issue's with only blowing a guy IF i cared for him certin sexual acts i would only do with a significant other. | |
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Posted: 4/17/2009 9:27:15 AM | Wow I guess I am in not in the majority here. I like blow jobs and a blow job can be real good without deepthroating but deepthroating does feel really good and turns me on.
As far as cumming I actually prefer not to cum in the womens mouth so I will tell her before I am going to cum. To be honest I do not like the smell of cum and when you cum in her mouth she obviously is going to have that smell on her breath for awhile.
Now if they do love it then I am not going to take that away from them. | |
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Posted: 4/17/2009 9:37:33 AM | "quote" Swallowing allows us to enjoy it and relax, rather than having to worry about telling you when we are about to and have to worry where to cum. "quote"
Do you really think a womans not going to know you have just cum in her mouth without pre-warning her 
Some guys taste nice and others taste like hell on earth  , try tasting your own before you whinge about a woman not swallowing. | |
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Posted: 4/17/2009 11:38:21 AM | Kayliecat, if and when you ever get to St Louis look me up
I cannot believe the number of guys who said they did not like Blowjobs
But guys we also must realize, we must take care of our ladies needs!
FOREPLAY FOREPLAY FOREPLAY... 
If she is pleasured completely, she will more than likely be putty in your hands!
To answer the question, I love a great blowjob, I had very rough sex with my ex-wife and intercourse can be painful while blowjobs rarely have any pain associated with them. To have my semen swallowed or sucked off is major turn on but I would never require a lady to do that, I always am verbal about my orgasm. Deep throating is not needed as well but it is amazing to see a lady going all the way down on it and inhaling all of you! | |
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Posted: 4/17/2009 11:44:30 AM | That is also why I don't get women who won't give bjs, or men who won't give oral. And that is *also* why I finally understood why guys like to lick a woman's pssy as well...it's part of loving her body, loving her most womanly area, worshipping her essence.
Wow ! Nice to see a woman who understands !!!
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Posted: 4/19/2009 2:02:32 AM | | I totally agree with Kaylie ! I love to give my man a blow job. And swallow all of his load , That is the biggest turn on to me. I also crave it sometime during the lovemaking. I have been told I am good at it. But that comes from wanting to please my man. I love oral in return too. mmmmmmmmm nothing better than exploring each others bodies and doing what feels good. " bon appetite " lol ! | |
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Posted: 4/19/2009 5:32:39 AM | The out come is all that matters....and a guy that has a woman that enjoys the act should consider himself lucky!I am an oral freak of sorts and love it...specially giving...it is though a special treat when a woman knows how to reciprocate...as for swallowing.....never cared...its her choice....its just a pleasure to climax at the hands of a woman! | |
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Posted: 4/19/2009 5:38:10 AM | Well i think i kinda speak for the majotrity of oral lovin men when i say a good bj helps the day go great. But seriously its the seduction of it all to see her look up at you and give you those sexy bedroom eyes while lickin the dip stick....Same for you ladies yall enjoy oral just as much as we do  | |
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Posted: 4/19/2009 6:11:17 AM | In my opinion a man who enjoys oral also enjoys giving and to give is to receive. Thus a man probably thinks that is just a wonderful gift that a woman desires him enough not to want to spit him out but to indulge every last drop. We ladies are salty too.
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Posted: 4/19/2009 7:57:42 AM |
We ladies are salty too.
You just made my day!
Hmm, on second thought, I might be reading this more, uh, expansively than was intended. Lol. "Salty", to me, means more like experienced, savvy, like, aware. Lol. If you meant it literally, well, my experience is to the contrary. But, of course, who complains about dessert? | |
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Posted: 4/19/2009 8:09:34 AM | | I would always let my girl know when I was close to cumming then she could decide for herself if she wanted suck and swallow or suck and spit. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2009 8:28:24 AM | | if the guy has kidney stones and the liquid going into your mouth is red and has a rusty taste - it ruins the swallowing aspect - this happened twice within 5 minutes - last time only took 45 seconds to get him to come so my technique worked on him | |
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Posted: 4/19/2009 9:53:27 AM | I had no idea that this is such a big deal.
If it's there, I swallow...unless it's something particularly overwhelming.
And, I agree with ZenBeth's idea about a warm wash cloth.
You may find sperm all over my face "exciting"...I don't. And, that is particularly odd given the information I read on POF/"fact" that men don't want to kiss a woman who has had a penis in her mouth.
You want me to be warm and loving toward your penis, but you find it disgusting.
This is a strange world we're living in...I'm just saying. | |
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