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 DaveLM1964

Joined: 5/27/2009
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Posted: 5/30/2009 11:14:22 PM
I've never had a blowjob and never will but I wouldn't have cared how she finished.
I wouldn't want her to do something she doesn't want to do.
 septjan

Joined: 2/17/2009
Msg: 152
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Posted: 5/31/2009 12:03:00 PM
i had a woman do deep throat on me once it was like out of this world but dont expect it from every girl that way and if she decide to spit is her business never had one do that they love the taste of mine.
 TheToefactor

Joined: 2/11/2009
Msg: 153
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Posted: 5/31/2009 1:29:55 PM

I have been complimented many a time and I don't swallow or deep throat.


Just think about the possibilities ?

You could have been a "Legend" had you swallowed.
 jwa_40

Joined: 8/8/2009
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Posted: 8/16/2009 9:17:37 PM
First of all for most guys oral sex is the bomb, however in answer to your question, spit,by all means spit, in fact use a flavoured condom for Pity's sake it is much safer!
 Ependa

Joined: 7/16/2009
Msg: 156
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Posted: 8/16/2009 9:57:05 PM
I think ..as in all things; different men like different things..and to varying degrees...my experience..most men prefer quite a few other things to deep throat....I've never spit..it seems distasteful (lol, no pun intended) to me...but I can't imagine how it would matter & honestly I have done oral where I wouldn't swallow either..I don't do what I'm not comfortable with; not sure exactly what my issue was, I think I know ..but regardless, if I'm not into it, it's not going to happen-and side-rant on that.. ladies life is too f*ing short to fake orgasms..wtf does that even come from??
Anyway,...some even prefer neither...no details, two you've heard of and one well, idk...I'll just say I'd never heard of it ;-) before or since.

Point is...if you're having fun, chances are he is , too. And there is a lot more to a bj than deep throat or swallowing. imhe.
 GoodWitchBeth

Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 157
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Posted: 8/17/2009 12:10:27 AM
LOL, sorry but I have to say this.

My southern born and bred mother raised me right.

"Ladies don't spit"

LMFAO

Beth

Don't think she was talking about giving head, but I'll apply the rules where I see fit!
 rthomas1

Joined: 6/20/2007
Msg: 158
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Posted: 8/29/2009 1:07:46 AM
I agree,it really does not matter to me what she does with my load,as long as she gets me off,I am just as thankful for the pleasure that she has given to me!
 CrumblePie

Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 159
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Posted: 8/29/2009 1:52:46 AM
to me swallowing is a form of accepting, that might sound weird, but t shows me she accepts me if we're in a relationship, other than that i don;t care,and i've never asked anyone to swallow, nor do i plan on it.
 Chiwrtr72

Joined: 6/15/2006
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Posted: 8/29/2009 5:03:35 AM
It doesn't matter to me... as long as she likes going down on me and does it on a regular basis.
 PrimeWoman

Joined: 4/25/2006
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Posted: 8/29/2009 1:15:20 PM
If the giver is truly enthusiastic in their efforts, the receiver senses it. If it is done out of a sense of obligation or in a paint-by-numbers fashion, it will be obvious and can hamper intensity.

If you are an obligatory or paint-by-numbers giver, you will never be able to relax enough to deep throat or swallow. The enthusiasm is key, because it elicits a reaction that can be very heady-pardon the pun-which in turn can escalate into a powerful want to please mind-set (the mind opening, the musculature relaxing).

That's been my experience.
 Hang2HeartU

Joined: 8/16/2009
Msg: 162
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Posted: 8/29/2009 2:48:41 PM
I agree with 'Prime...'...
It's mostly a matter of enjoyment!!
Even bad technique that's enjoyed will be pleasurable...
Personally, I prefer the Even-Trade approach, and prefer to service HER 1st...
~S i i i i i i i i g g h h h~
That way, she'll be That much More enthusiastic about reciprocating...!!
Kind of like leaving a good waitress a $10 tip for serving a good piece of Pie..!!!
 flipchuck

Joined: 8/16/2009
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Posted: 8/29/2009 6:48:37 PM
Spite or swollow. Doesn't matter to me. I'm just happy getting some oral from a woman. Of course it would be a bit of a turn off if she spit. Usally it's just as good to finish the oral with it out of her mouth and just stroking it until I have an "O". A woman allowing me to squirt on her is just as good as her swollowing .
 lotstooffer42

Joined: 10/19/2009
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Posted: 10/30/2009 10:51:38 AM
I haven't had a lot of oral performed on me 'cuz my wife won't do it. The best sex I ever had was a bj done by a very mature lady. She mainly sucked the head of my penis and did some extra stimulation of the frenulum area with her tongue. When I orgasmed she sucked and swallowed until I went totally soft. I was amazed by the whole thing, and so spent I could barely drive my truck.
So for me...yes a blow job is "all that" and more. Sadly I haven't had one in 40 years.
 BumbleLove

Joined: 10/25/2009
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Posted: 10/30/2009 11:11:46 AM
I agree southern girls don't spit. LMAO. Eating pineapple does help.

I think its all in your mindset. If you want to satisfy your man as much as he does for you why not. I have done deepthroat and choking it was more into what he wanted too. As long as I am not dead at the end of the session I am good. I don't mean being down graded by a man. I don't want to be calling a whore and playing that role in a porno. Not what I am saying!

 RickyGR

Joined: 10/9/2009
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Posted: 10/30/2009 11:53:46 AM
I like it when they want to swallow it. But if they had a bad oral experience early on, it can be a hurdle they can't get over.
 scottdehart

Joined: 6/5/2009
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Posted: 10/30/2009 11:59:15 AM
The fact that I would be receiving oral pleasure from a woman is quite enough.
 Margo64

Joined: 7/28/2009
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Posted: 10/30/2009 12:07:58 PM
I want a man to swallow mine so fair is fair... then again I can squirt a load myself...
 keep1

Joined: 5/10/2009
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Posted: 10/30/2009 1:47:57 PM
try humming(seriosly)it intensifies the feelings.swallowing doesn't matter to me personally,it's the technique.and humming from your guy while he does you works good too.
 Brand New Sin

Joined: 2/5/2008
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Posted: 10/30/2009 8:21:35 PM

Does it really mean a big deal for a woman to swallow


Yes, it really means a big deal.

For me it does anyway.


Does a woman who does not swallow or deepthroat get tossed aside?


I could care less about the deepthroating, but yes, she would get tossed aside if she didn't swallow.

I want someone that I'm sexually compatible with, and for me, that's part of it.

A BIG part of it, actually.
 oceansunfish

Joined: 10/15/2009
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Posted: 10/30/2009 9:22:15 PM
To me, no, it is not a big deal at all to swallow. I don't understand that whole thing.... and I like sex a lot. Look at my profile. So, to answer, everyone is different. Some like swallowing for some reason, but not everyone does, even really horny people don't always care for it.
 oceansunfish

Joined: 10/15/2009
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Posted: 10/30/2009 9:25:09 PM

I've never had a blowjob and never will but I wouldn't have cared how she finished.
I wouldn't want her to do something she doesn't want to do.


WTF? I just happened to come across the strangest thing I have ever read! That comment really smacked me in the face. Such oddity out of nowhere.
 scottmcfish

Joined: 8/20/2009
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Posted: 10/30/2009 9:46:30 PM

Eating pineapple does help.
- BumbleLove.

How much do you think it helps? I've read that diet can make the difference between tasting throughly bad and tasting just like erotic awesomeness but I haven't experimented or heard any first hand accounts.

Really, if we could sort out a way to make men's spunk taste like chocolate cake (or something as good), we could be taking a step towards world peace here.
 djsamdotbiz

Joined: 8/19/2007
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Posted: 11/3/2009 9:58:12 AM
kayliecat....when are you publising your book ?....save me a copy.
 S to the B

Joined: 9/21/2009
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Posted: 11/3/2009 10:08:22 AM
i like to bust all over a chicks face and have her lap it up like a dog. :-)
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