| How can I talk to her
Posted: 4/9/2009 12:28:40 PM | So you only want to talk to her if you can be her boyfriend? Yeah, with that attitude she may not want to talk to you, maybe she's more likely to talk to men who are being friendly and not looking to score. She might also get tired of being liked for her looks, so how about asking about her, to get to know her as a person and before you want to be the lucky one to get with her, you might try finding out if you even like her. This is something that really turns off a lot of women, being chased or men not even bothering, just because she's attractive, most women like to be liked for who they are...they like men to actually want to know who they are. I know, it's a hard concept for many. 
Unless she's just a shallow vessel of beauty, empty on the inside, just out to use her looks to get what she wants at the moment, then yes, you are probably better off to stay away and lust from afar, unless you have a lot of money, really good looks, really old rich relatives leaving you a mass of money to charm her with. | |
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| How can I talk to her
Posted: 4/9/2009 12:36:32 PM |
...And say – I like eggs...
If she responds...from my head down to my legs...you have a winner!
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| How can I talk to her
Posted: 4/17/2009 2:59:13 PM | | Thanks for everyones advice, my computer broke so Ive only just read them. | |
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| How can I talk to her
Posted: 4/17/2009 3:53:16 PM | Girls are the same as your mates.
How do you know she's "really nice" if you've never spoken to her?
You can tell that just by seeing she's beautiful?
If you'd love to just start a conversation with her -then start one.
It's really that easy. | |
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| How can I talk to her
Posted: 4/17/2009 4:24:26 PM | Just start by saying "Hi" when you see her. Then after a few days say "Hi, how's it going?". It's probably one of the better methods if your paralyzed concerning talking with a girl. It opens up the door for her to talk back to you and perhaps make things easier for you since she can be the conversation starter instead of you. Also, it allows you to gauge if she even gives you the time of day, and also she may mention something about if she has a boyfriend or not so you'll know whether to move forward and ask her out, or not.
Sometimes the simplest approach is the best approach. | |
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| How can I talk to her
Posted: 4/17/2009 4:51:05 PM | ^^^^ tft! "ask about her period" - gheesh! Are you outta yer mind?  | |
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Posted: 4/17/2009 6:39:40 PM | | It is really easy. Just open your mouth! What is up with this wussdom? | |
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Posted: 4/17/2009 8:30:49 PM | | I think the problem may be that you are looking at her as something unreal and unatainable(I know this because I do it to sometimes...lol). You need to know that all women are just people, can you talk to women your not interested in? Take her off the pedistal and talk to her like one of your mates, just be you, she will ethier like you or not, but you have to try. | |
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| How can I talk to her
Posted: 4/17/2009 9:17:03 PM |
I think the problem may be that you are looking at her as something unreal and unatainable(I know this because I do it to sometimes...lol).
I think it's human nature to do this, for almost everything.
On another note, just talk to her like you would a friend. Try to get that "Ooooo... I want her!!" mentality out of your head. After you've gotten to know her a little, then see where it goes. | |
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Posted: 4/17/2009 9:25:43 PM | | OP, You have an obsession and no self confidence. Ask her out, I mean really ask her out, make sure she knows its a date with you and her, no friends, no party ect.. She is gonna say NO. Move on and keep asking women out, there is one out for you. | |
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Posted: 4/18/2009 1:01:57 AM | | Your putting the PU**Y up on a pedistol! Your not a 40 year old vergin are you? | |
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Posted: 4/18/2009 2:08:47 AM | i think u shud just say hi a few times then after a week stop and ask how she is and ask what she is studying. then u will talk mur often and u can then find out if she has a partner
with what ever u choose good luck!
xxx | |
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| How can I talk to her
Posted: 4/18/2009 6:15:59 AM | I'm a beautiful woman and many men feel the same way about me, ie that they wouldn't have a chance. If you create an icecap you'll crash and burn.
Sing her a song like Tom Cruise did to Kelley McGillis in TOP GUN
or write her a song or poem. Bring her something you made especially for her.
Invite her to a play you're in or a evening of great music. Find out what groups or music she likes and ask her if she'd join you to hear you're fav group.
Most of all whether it be with this chick or some other you've gotta' lose the
"poor me" attitude or resign yourself to settling for older women who will mother u | |
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Posted: 4/20/2009 10:57:56 PM | One guy I secretly liked but didn't have the nerve to talk to talk to ended up asking me out. So what he said to me was if I would be interested in joing a club that he was a part of and that he thought I'd be great add. I was thrilled. But the truth is, if he was even a bit more direct and just said he'd like to meet me for a coffee sometime, I would've been equally as thrilled! Point is, you never know, she might like you. Just talk to her! Don't need to make a big deal about it. You have NOTHING to loose, for all you know she may not be for you in the end, so don't sweat about it too much. She's not the last hot chick out there.
so if you haven't already, go say hi to her already and smile, then ask her out.
simple.
Evaleon | |
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| How can I talk to her
Posted: 4/20/2009 11:00:10 PM | Talk to her :)
Theres nothing a girl likes more than a guy with enough confidence to talk to her.. although don't be egotistical haha. That's a turnoff lol:P
Good luck :) | |
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Posted: 4/20/2009 11:05:58 PM | | it's all in interest. Just be yourself and talk to her. If she's asking a lot about you and getting to know you that's a good sign. If she's being reserved or spacing out and not being interested move on. | |
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| How can I talk to her
Posted: 4/20/2009 11:12:40 PM | As long as you think of yourself as a loser, you don't stand a chance. It's not just about what you say, it's also about how you say it. For me, I find a mix of truth and humor to work well. Just say something like,"This kind of shit generaly makes me nervous, but can we get a coffee or a drink sometime. You can say no now and put me out of my misery, or if you really want to see me sweat say yes."
If you share a class that she does well at, pretend you don't do so well and ask for her help. | |
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| How can I talk to her
Posted: 4/21/2009 1:25:55 AM | "You just walk up to her slowly.
Look her straight in the eye.
And say – I like eggs.
Then walk away.
Works every time."
Or she will want to know why you are thinking about breakfast already...kinda presumptious dont ya think?
OP...just say hello and smile. It has began many relationships. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2009 12:46:03 PM | YOU ARE SO RIGHT,IT ONLY TAKES A SMILE ,A TWINKLE OF THE EYE
AND HONESTY. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2009 12:53:20 PM | First of all you shouldn't talk to girls like one of your mates.
AT ALL TIMES BE YOURSELF. The worst that can happen is you reject her; to be honest the only reason you like her so far is her looks so dont expect much; she may be mean or arrogant or dumb.
To act like she's anything better than another person is ridiculous; say hi and be yourself and it will be fine. If you are afraid of rejection, join the real world. No one likes it but when it happens you dust yourself off and move on. | |
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| How can I talk to her
Posted: 4/22/2009 6:06:29 PM | Well, pretend you saw her on this site, now think of something clever or funny to say in an email. Now say it to her, knowing that there are 18,000 other pretty women within a mile of you and this one is JUST PRACTICE.
Take the pressure off yourself and think of her as an experiment! If it goes well, great! If not, you'll never remember this 6 months from now. | |
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Posted: 8/17/2009 9:10:54 PM | Strummity...Well, you can BEGIN by removing the 75 mile constraint from your email account!!! So she can talk back...LOL! | |
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Posted: 8/17/2009 9:16:11 PM | "If you have never spoken to her, then how do you know how beautiful she is?
oh oh...you're just talking about the way she 'appears'
which, is not a true measure of how 'beautiful' one is."
Well said, Akimmbo! | |
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