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Posted: 4/14/2009 3:23:42 PM |
how far in advance do YOU know that you're gonna cum
It definitely builds. I could not put a time on it though other than it can range from seconds to minutes depending on what he's doing and where my thoughts are.
what do you do with that information
Sometimes I tell him. Sometimes I let him go by my cues. Sometimes I just ride it out.
definatly. and i'm pretty quiet when it comes to that moment, which doesn't happen often.  | |
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Posted: 4/15/2009 8:38:48 AM | | yes i get warnings so when its near but after the first i keep coming over and over without warning sometimes emotion takes over your senses to just let it happen go with the flow i say and do | |
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Posted: 4/19/2009 10:33:30 AM |
go with the flow i say and do
Saw a great tshirt on a rafter last summer that said "Only the dead fish float downstream". Lol. Not at all faulting you, though. Ime, and from many of the posts I've read on these pages, especially by women, waaaaayyyy too many seem to fight or resist it, or get kinda get washed to the side. Feel the force!!! | |
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Posted: 4/19/2009 10:39:17 AM | | Don't give warnings - stay in the moment and just enjoy - usually 10 to 15 seconds notice | |
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Posted: 4/19/2009 11:04:38 AM | | As a person who recieves about 15-20 Orgasms every 20-30 min of sex sometimes more It is nearly impossible to warn my guy. His only way of knowing climax from normal shouts of pleasure is by the tightening of the muscles and by my shouts at him not to stop or to f harder... I think the only time he has known the difference was when I have double or triple whammys (that's what I call 2-3 orgasms back to back leaving no time to catch my breath in between) because I literaly stop breathing. The first time I did this he got so scared he stopped and I screamed at him. Lol. He knows now not to stop at any cost. LOL. I also know when he is cumming because he too is very vocal and begins to moan and have muscle spasms. We match on the multiple orgasm ability and the noises we make and the size of his equipment is the exact fit to reach all my spots. G-spot, A-spot, D-spot, S-spot and the list goes on! Mmmmm | |
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Posted: 4/19/2009 1:06:15 PM | And what do you do with that information?
Grab my snorkel and hold on for the count of 5 | |
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Posted: 4/19/2009 2:26:37 PM |
Grab my snorkel and hold on for the count of 5
LMAO!! That visual is giving me bends. Lol. Sooo, you stow your gear under your pillow?!! That would kinda weird me out. Although not as much as if you arrived bedside with the gear in place.  | |
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Posted: 4/19/2009 6:44:20 PM | I'm sorry, but when I'm getting close to orgasm....counting is the last thing on my mind.
Sometimes, I'll give verbal "cues" by moaning more loudly or telling him I'm cumming, but most of the time, if its feeling good, I'm too distracted to concentrate on much of anything. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2009 7:25:12 PM | | ^^^^^ Remember the movie "Something About Mary'? Sometimes a bottle-under-the-pillow-trick makes for interesting conversation too but hey my hair looks good. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2009 9:56:30 PM | i get no warning!.. its like BAM there i am shaking uncontrollably..
or kinda shut your eyes tight and keep it between you and the wave?
i think everybody in the entire world can hear me when the big O has arrived!.. i know the last guy i dated (in 1942) always said 'shhhh tam,their gunna hear you!'.. i would quiten down for about 3 seconds.. but damn it felt soooo good.. i would start yelling all over again.. poor guy.. i use to tell him 'then you should invest in ear plugs for your neighbors!'..
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Posted: 4/20/2009 7:13:53 AM | I like "Ninja orgasms"
they sneek up on ya all quiet , and then they kill ya! | |
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Posted: 4/20/2009 7:48:38 AM | I learned a long time ago to control my orgasms ....so I cum when I want to ....usually a few seconds after she has started hers ...clued by . the fingernails in your back ...the clenching of her pubic mussels ...or her screaming ...something to do with God ,Jesus , or weapons of mass destruction ... or that deep throaty squeal
or on the rare occasion when she somehow knows its not going to happen for her and she gives me permission to go ahead and get mine
and when that rare occasion happens for me and I know its not going to happen ...i usually do the gentlemanly thing ...fake it ...( take my word for it many women dont accept not making a guy cum... very well)...all the things they will say about you if you cum and they dont ...they will think about themselves if they cum and you dont ...and a woman feeling insecure about her sexual abilities =not a good thingy.... nope ...fake it ... better in the long run | |
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Posted: 4/20/2009 7:56:59 AM | Should this warning be in writing? Should it be also notarized? In triplicate?
This sounds to me way too contrived. "Hey baby I am about to come, here it goes, 10, 9, 8, 7, wait aaaaahhhh. Sorry!"
That doesn't work for me. If anything when I am about to come, there's prior a huge escalation of activity, but what if we are having one of those deep deep fvcks where she orgasms by having her cervix pressured. What if we are doing the super, super slow fvck that sends shivers because it's so slow? What if we are doing the head banging, all out, sweating like pigs, breathing like we are doing the 100 meter dash. Each one has it's own momentum. You read into her, she reads into you, then you let it rip. | |
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Posted: 4/20/2009 3:42:20 PM | I prefer to teach them to have their O's in a controlled manner. What is really great is when you can restrict them to doing so only with permission, on command or not permitting them to stop having it until given permission. The old fashioned freestyle method is a great starting point though. | |
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Posted: 4/20/2009 4:45:54 PM | How far in advance do I know...sometimes when the phone rings.
Do I give a warning...Oh yes, if you hear "stop, drop and roll" watch out! | |
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Posted: 4/20/2009 4:49:25 PM |
if you hear "stop, drop and roll" watch out!]/quote]
ROFLMAO!! Owwwwwww, Lol-forehead banged on desk. | |
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Posted: 4/20/2009 4:59:08 PM | Gee Whyte...does that mean you are on the verge? Or is that some newfangled coitus-interruptus gig to keep us going?
Inquiring minds want to know!!! | |
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Posted: 4/20/2009 9:15:34 PM | I get a few seconds warning.., I just recoup from one, then getting ready for my next "O"..I feel so bad for the chicks and dudes who only have one orgasm per session...I must be blessed lol
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Posted: 6/7/2009 6:53:56 AM | | only on few occassions have i not had an ~O~.... and when it comes, everyone on the block knows.... yes i am a screamer, but u have to let it out, when it feels so damn good, and when u have vibrating toys he holds to the clit, and makes the ~O~ last on and on and on, as you are bucking and attempting to get the intense pleasure to subside, u have to let the built up anticipation out some how! | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 7:10:55 AM | Whytwater, interesting topic.
If one thing marriage has taught me ... getting to the big O is a race ... and I always manage to win  So any guy is always gonna come 2nd...
Of course I dont give a warning, Im an Aussie girl. We are well aware that if we let the SO know we've had the big ONE they'll have jumped off and run down the pub to tell all their mates. Hence the need for stealth and quiet, that way we get to snaffle a few extra Os before he's finished.... JMO
Seriously, how can you not know???  | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 11:38:56 AM |
getting to the big O is a race ... and I always manage to win So any guy is always gonna come 2nd...
LOL!! I'd be delighted to cross the line with my nose in your tail , in as many races you can run.  And my chest would swell, more than a little, that I was somehow involved, or close enough to claim as much, for each blue ribbon -O- to visit you. I suspect that North American men, which includes those "mounties" to the North, are more competitive than your Aussie guys, and would be looking to claim more of your O's than anyone else in that bar.
only on few occassions have i not had an ~O~.... and when it comes, everyone on the block knows....
Yes, yes, that would indeed be a moment of glory for both, but my question had to do with warnings, in advance of O's, not announcements of their arrival! LOL!!
only on few occassions have i not had an ~O~....
I couldn't tell you now exactly what all was going through my mind what I started this thread, but this was certainly one of them- how far into it, at what point, did you know that you would not climax? Was it the guy, or just an off day? Was it something on your mind that blocked another huge honkin' release? Lol.
I'm a pretty much standard guy: you f-ck me, and at some not too distant point, I'm gonna cum for you. But from everything I've read in these forums, women are much different. Was kinda trying to get into the female psyche here, or at least some of them. Some guy mounts you, and you are sufficiently inspired to let that happen, or, even more inspired, you mount him, and though he does a yeoman's job, no -O- is in you. What's up with that?!! | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 11:54:37 AM | As a fan of Ron Jeremy, this is the one thing I don't subscribe to. The body is its own early warning system. No matter how high the level of her orgasm, a woman's body has so many waves that it's worth waiting to have her achieve one.
Besides, some of her best orgasms come before I'm ever inside of her. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 1:34:56 PM | | I usually know and without words, my bf knows too. I can also tell when he is going to finish without him having to tell me. | |
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